₦airaland Forum

kennygee:
My dear, no be wetin I fit afford?

As I no be runs geh.

you are just trying to play humble! It is every lady's dream to marry a handsome rich guy. You and repogirl inclusive. I have no problem with that...Afterall I have sisters and they did not marry struggling guys. Now the problem is guys don't judge you for thinking so. You can't see a guy saying don't date a broke girl! Infact there is nothing like a "broke girl". The annoying part is even a broke girl will see a struggling dude and call him "broke"...is just so funny yet na the same degree and school we go. What the guys are saying is simple...Don't judge us. Don't tell us to cut our clothes you are not a tailor!....you preach to the girls and the the guys handle their shit!!! Peace

Lunagirl:
I am speaking for myself. Even if I date a rich guy, there is a very tiny limit to what I can accept from him. Don't you want to help yourself

you can't even date a rich guy....i know that is your dream...sorry...

rusher14:
With those Aswani market curtains in your background?

Gerrarhia!!

see finishing!!!i hold hand for my chest...kennygee....this guy hav murderdq yhoo

pweetixandy:
chaaaai, being broke is a disease worse than HIV and AIDS

Joke apart...the guy you just quoted will feed you, cloth you and shelter you at least for a year without flinching....stop posting scrap...go find work and earn your self a degree of respect rather than waiting for handouts!

SweetBoyFriend:


Have you eaten your daily dosage of Amala and Ewedu today ??

Rivers state is not igboland

The former governor of Rivers state has an igbo name Amechi but he's not Igbo

Omo nile

why you no give am medicine?

fpeter:
People just rush to Social media to report stories without polishing their grammar first.

you wey get Polish and brush oya shine the grammar...

SweetBoyFriend:
Yes

oya take this...you go dey alright...I laff whenever I see that stuff...abeg give make I swallow biko

ennobel2:
I applied for marketing ph, pls has anyone gotten from ph DAT applied for marketing position?

I also applied for marketing (lagos)...when did you apply

SweetBoyFriend:


I'm from Edo state

These cars are still learners compared to what my wings do at night

No be you dey sell drugs?

bioduneberry:
Moving on...

dammn after one year?.....this is so so not good.....better things ahead brother, God will definitely make you smile

PaperLace:
Hi Sis Shina Peter

with all those seriousness no one will believe you have humour running through your veins...

mhisbliss:
i have no idea what the hell you're talking about

definitely you know what I mean. My gaze it fixed. I am a very patient person. My time will come. Happy new month

herbie27:
I will use dumb ones to replace that, but someone already said is usually because they're in love.

Don't call people dumb things of the heart are not judged rationally. I have seen strong willed ladies bend, break and cry. Even guys....Emotions are stronger than knowledge.

mhisbliss:
me for one, i haven't slept in any man's house other than my father

Well If you are dating a cute guy, who has a steady income, with a "Good" apartment and you are not a teenager and probably not the type that your dad would ask a million question if you stay out past 7pm...then...listen to this advice " If at any point the guy misbehaves just know you have someone in the friend's zone who is warming up already"...

herbie27:
Your neighbour abi na you?, lol.
We are talking about living fully with guys when they've not done what's required, not spending one or two nights.

looool ...na neighbour I talk ooo....no pour sand for my garri biko....na small small e dey start sha. From the bottom of my heart no Guy loves to live with a lady he is not married to. But the ladies are the ones forcing themselves. You tell go, she no gree...If a guy is working and he gets a good apartment, the ladies no dey like to go when they come around. Ask the guys around you. It can inconvenience you like crazy...sometimes my neighbour would call his friend to help him discharge the stubborn ones...Yes a guy can beg you to come visit, but no guy likes you to stay around till the next day...ministry fit cast na

herbie27:
Nobody said is a do or die affair.

Your opinion thou!.

Women can form for jesus all those who typed against living together have all spent weekends in their boyfriends house. So what is the big deal? You go there every weekend and you reside full time? How many babe never sleep for their boyfriend house? Those wey never sleep their boyfriend no get conducive apartment trust me. My neighbour get time table sef wey them dey use come. No let me pour my mind with wetin I don see for woman matter abeq....

Op @ cutemorriz...dude seriously if you want to hangout and you are looking for someone I have got two angels on my neck...trust me when I say angels. How about I PM you? Cinemas (ozone preferably) will be perfect. Forget all this things wey you dey see for NL called babes. They have their online life (where they form and live their dream) and offline life where they face reality. I dey PM you no fall my hand o...

herbie27:
And if she's not a virgin she must move in with you to test compatibility?.

If she is not a virgin....then there is nothing special again na? We can live together and get married if it works out and if it doesn't fine. Is not a do or die affair

Muslims don't have a standard. You can marry and divorce at will unlike xtians

PaperLace:
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lol @ high earners. This my guy, I like you already.
The question should be how many Nigerian youths are high earners?
Then we would have to arrive at a consensus on what we consider high earning.

Even on NL here, how many of these low self esteemed female bashing misogynists on Romance section can boast of earning above 50k. Majority of them are still dependent on their parents, no job, no hustle...plenty anger...
Banking has been the highest employer of labour, try take a sample (you've proven to be a 'good' statistician) across banks in your neighbourhood_ come back and tell me the ratio of male to female.
Even Ministries...

Except for male dominated sectors, my brother...I am sure there are plenty women in the workforce.
Why are our young men marrying late, not building houses, driving fancy cars...if they're actually earning HIGH as you postulated?

The problem is, when push comes to shove_ the average Nigerian woman would pick family before career. That's why it looks like in the long run, there are more males. More reason I sometimes wonder what some of you guys want.

I no even understand this your particular thread. Abeg, explain give your babe.

As for many 25year olds living alone...lies.
How many Nigerians are full graduates (that's inclusive of NYSC @ 25?)
Even if na business man, when im start? Leave talk jare. Nigeria hard for everybody.

I appreciate your honesty and your clear depiction of reality. Seems I have found myself a new friend on NL....hello paperlace...

Noted. Since am not 30...not yet by business...

herbie27:
"compatibility" is not tested by moving in with a man, we are suppose to be married with the bed undefiled, moving in already gives room for that.

You can test how compatible you are from mere assessment, just know who you're planning to marry enough.

you see I don't have a problem with that as long as she is a virgin. But if she is not a virgin all what you have typed should find its way to the bin

Hadez:
No boo I am at the stage of discovery

ok

Hadez:
I kept thinking to myself where all these successful female leaders would have been if they were dependant on men to push them forward

I am at the essence of a woman setting her future as priorities first. No wonder why one man can just talk anyhow to his wife just because she is "nothing"

There is a difference between thoughts and reality; perception and discovery...I assume you are still at the nascent stage of grasping reality...

AuroraB:
The night vigil houses are not complaining, why should you Fibroid blocks the womb after 28? Haha . So, because Aisha was presumably jobless before marriage, you now shooting down on her getting a certificate or trade or handiwork
Conclusively, you mean; marriage is gonna be her achievement at the moment

Marriage is an achievement o, if not aunty tolu wey be company nurse no go dey force herself untop ibrahim wey no know the difference from left and right....perhaps you are married; ask those in their thirties who are unmarried they weep and pray like say tomorrow no dey. No wonder pastor dey use them make money....

Esseite:
Really at 8:13am on the 28th sep? ... hmmmm


This leaderNG screenshot seems fake

wow you really got great eyes...

Zaronxpanol:
@ OP. If you aren't up to 35yrs old, pls work hard and build up your income, and don't be in a hurry to get married. If you are more than 35yrs you can get married due to age factor. Truth be told with 70k you can get married but you will live a struggling life. Even if your wife earns more than you, her money is not yours and she expect you to provide the basic while she support you but not always....No woman feels happy when she is playing the role her husband is suppose to play, even if she is a pastor's wife, she may smile and help you, but deep within she won't be happy. your ego may also be affected indirectly, except if you are naturally humble and tolerant....It takes a humble and confident man to marry a woman who earns more and support the house.....

But my money is our money?....lol...

If you apply to IOC's or Multinationals or big fmcg or top consulting firms...what will they do with your...thank you letter?....abeq...leave that thing

Abeg....what is Thank you letter? Thank you for what? Who get time to read am? You guys just sit and formulate non-sense...after an interview HR already selects the successful candidates. Sometimes before you get home you already know your fate. Unless you applied to a one man business and you are begging for a job...bro..after the interview move on if you are good/successful you will called anything other than that is simply appeal to pity....

hippyseason:
Haha..nah by force? I am female. I guess you are male?

I just dey watch una two for 3D like say na una be DB Hr...agree ko dis agree ni...

Craven:
Do you honestly believe this? That sending your CV to that email address on a constant basis would land one an invite? Let's be truthful to ourselves.

You Don send cv to that mail tire abi? Get faith Diamond bank dey load for you...