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MufasaLion:
The "yahoo boy" has got nothing to do with this. Y'all should learn not to blame people for your misfortune. Unfortunately, the clerics are always fuelling this mentality! Shameless lots!

Your guy should go and get his hustle right! Life's full of ups and downs.

Well I have nothing to say. But think twice before you call people shameless. It easy to rationalise when you are not the one involved.

shawnfamous:
U really do not need tell me. Weda true or not. I no fit suffer when I no get idea of o

I like your belief and confidence. Look at this scenario: a hunter sets a deadly trap for a vicious hyena. Unfortunately his dog (probably his hunting partner) walks into the trap and died. The trap wasn't meant for the dog but the hyena, yet the dog died. Your belief does not alter reality.

Dear Guys

I am writing to formally inform you to ensure you painstakingly and meticulously examine the type of guys your girlfriend has dated in the past. Please and please don't fall for the scam of " my past stays in the past". Dig the past, scrutinize all you have unearthed before you finally propose.

I saw a former colleague recently and he was almost a shadow of himself. He narrated how he is just recuperating from all his loses. He said his Church revealed to him that his wife is a pipe that keeps sucking his wealth and remitting his resources to the yahoo guy that performed the ritual on her. He explained how his logistics company crumbled and I almost cried. He said the court officially dissolved their marriage on a Friday, on Wednesday (the following week), a small reputable company gave him an offer to head their supply chain unit.

Please and please do not touch any lady that a Yahoo boy/man has touched. Fortunately they no longer hide their rituals. Please as an ambitious young man, dig into your potential wife's past. Know her dating history and the type of people she has dated.

Approximately 5 years ago there was this guy that invited us to a treat after his wedding while we were chilling someone asked him how did you meet your spouse he said "we met on a plane". To cut to the chase, the guy met a lady that a sugar Daddy was sponsoring to Dubai and "wifed" her. How can you meet a lady in business class who has no real job and the parents can not afford a 1999 Toyota and you say na she you wan marry? Although him body tell am and he advised himself.

As an ambitious young man the final trap ahead is your partner. Guide your steps towards marriage jealousy. The signs are always there. Your downfall begins when you marry an unfortunate person. I have seen someone who earns 650k monthly dismissed because of cheque issued on an unfunded account (No be juju be that?) He said the pressure from his wife was becoming unbearable. This was same wife that was catered for by a Sugar Daddy before the mumuni "wifed" her.

Finally, I will advise you to take this piece of advice: start digging. Never date a yahoo or sugar Daddy by-product. Your college girlfriend is using a premium iPhone and you know quite well that the parents are poor and she often calls you for bailout funds and you think one magical uncle gave her the phone?

sinkhole:
Just as some thinking people have been saying, no amount is actually enough, but I earned 200k a month, I am married and my wife is not working.
I recently saved up and bought a car of around 2.3m naira, I have a plot of land with moderate building on it. I think I am not doing bad at all

how long have you been working? Where do you reside? Do you have kids?

sinkhole:
Just as some thinking people have been saying, no amount is actually enough, but I earned 200k a month, I am married and my wife is not working.
I recently saved up and bought a car of around 2.3m naira, I have a plot of land with moderate building on it. I think I am not doing bad at all

please how long have you been working? Also do you have kids?

TarOrfeeek:
Summary -

1). You have a car.
2). Your line manager has a car.
3). Your friend did his PhD.
4). You can now afford to eat in the fancy restaurant, but you have a car still.

You are a mumu man.

funny lad.

During my undergraduate days, there was this fancy restaurant that the big guys and babes usually had lunch. For the brokers we have our corner.

A plate of food was around N900 with a bottle of soft drink. Back in 2008 this was the amount i spend on three different pot of soups after resolving my stipend into partial fraction.

Whenever I walk past the restaurant, I couldn't help but stare at the big boys trooping in and out of the restaurant. A friend once said they serve full turkey wings.

Recently, a former classmate was defending his PhD thesis and pleaded for me to be there. After the brilliant defense, I wanted to quickly drive back to the hotel and pack my stuffs so that I can hit the road that afternoon.

As I was driving, I remembered the restaurant, I smiled. As I sat down and made my order, I reminisced about my undergraduate days. As I was having lunch upstairs I looked out the window where I parked and it occurred to me that I was driving same car I was drooling over in 2014. That was the car my line manager bought to celebrate his 38th birthday. I became teary and I thanked God.

Let us take it easy and enjoy every moment we have. Every moment is important.

saphiere:
True sha. Most white men are responsible unlike their black counterparts who feed on women to survive.
Most white men don't have babymamas. unlike black men who have made babymamaism the order of the day. Most of these black men don't even take care of their kids. Everything on the woman. I am not hating men and never will I. I'm just stating the obvious.

simbi

Hideki:
I have this piece of advice to share with young ladies. Never forget where you are coming from and do not over estimate your self worth. Just because someone from the office is giving you a lift home or someone from the office is footing your expensive lunch bill then you begin to think that is reality and your boyfriend should keep up with the standard.

A close friend travelled to east for an assignment and he met this beautiful lady ( I love pretty ladies too). Let me cut to the chase, they started dating. A couple of times, my friend invited her to my apartment and we will have dinner together (my wife inclusive).

My friend being a spendthrift, takes overtly good care of this lady. Flight to and fro from Lagos. Expensive gifts and all. The lady works in a MFB in the east and she is from a humble home (according to what I saw when my friend and I visited).

I once teased her that it is economical for her to board a bus back to east since she is on leave and will not resume work the next day. She said NO that bus is quite stressful, the number of hours on the road and she may develop a headache. (See pako oo?...I just concurred...)
The thing is, good life is good. Only that ensure you are making your own money so that you don't have a big fall. This lady resigned/got fired from her job board a flight to Lagos and got an apartment all expense paid by the boyfriend.

Unfortunately my friend's parent did not approve of the lady. There was a bit of drama but He succumbed; cos his family was his source of wealth. He has relocated abroad after the whole issue.

I saw this lady few days ago at a popular market close to the estate where I reside She has a store where she sell stuffs but she has changed.

Finally I will advise my daughter to take this advice: Attain a standard yourself before you set that standard for your partner.

...you mean say slay queens wey like oil company guys should get a high paying job too? We have very few brainy and intelligent ladies in this part of the world. The rest are blk heads with pretty faces and they love to dream.

Beblessedbaba:
These traders are not smart at all..

Very wrong move.. These guys did not learn anything from Ladipo market. Why not negotiate and have a win win by asking for value for the token paid regularly.

Next move: The authority will demolish some part of the market..due to several reasons..
Landuse, encroachment, abuse of property and over riding public interest. Ask several individuals that went through this route the end result.


Beside the separation of power between the arms of govt in Nigeria is a mirage. Lawyers go just dey cash out till the final verdit.

With all due respect you are an idiot. A big one if you attended high school and a bigger one if you saw the entrance of a community university. You should be ashamed of what you typed.

Springboot:
This is why I dislike commenting on this nairaland, can you tell me the relationship between my comment and a scam? You must be very stupid to even attribute my comment to it. I am not a low life like you, I can feed your entire generation without scamming anyone.

loool I bet you can.

Springboot:
You must be insane! What is the relationship between my response and scam? Please explain? Did you see a contact in my bio or anything that says I am a travel agent. If scamming is what you do for a living, that's not my business.

You don't need your contact to be up there before it looks like a scam. Your initial response was much like a bait. Hey, you don't need all the cursing. Stop behaving like a garage boy.

Springboot:
Are you mad? Do I look like a travel agent or did I ask anyone to contact me? Do you think everyone is a scammer like your family? We are sharing our experience with visa's and you say I'm looking for client? Did you see me advertise a travel agency in any of my post? You musy be crazy

Baba calm down your ranting is unnecessary. Your response had scam written all over it. You probably would have shared the correction and experience. Relax!

starbuck:
At this point in my life , i am no longer interested in traveling out but will fight everything within me for my kids to escape this he'll hole of a country

I presume you have started already. Get a high paying job, get married to a spouse with a good job as well, have 1-3 kids and you will never be denied visa to any country. So let the fight for a better life begin!

sapphiere:
These men and fake lifestyle ehn. What was he trying to achieve? Lying that a lady brought you gift to make it look like ladies are desperate for men? You men are always looking for a way to belittle women. Now that you are exposed, enjoy the fame shame.

Modified:

I went to his IG handle. He has deleted the video. What a fame shame.

below is another rubbish fake lies he uploaded on his page 5 days ago.
See him claiming husband material. A liar and faker. I'd rather die single than marry his type.

Lool! you see this up there (the quote above me) do not believe it. Twice it has happened under my nose. At my former place of work, there was this very annoying and selfish guy. All other RMs disliked him. There was this lady that said over her dead body she can never date a guy like this. Today they have 2 kids. When I joined another industry, same scenario played out. The Head of sales (very crafty fellow) was a jerk and a lady once said the guy will be the last person on earth she would have as an acquaintance. In fact the story ended in premium tears when the guy eventually dated and dumped her. Truth is I respect females, I presently have a female boss and we are cool. But looking at the % it is safe to say that the other gender should not be taken seriously on certain issues. Just like the one above me.

Shokoloko:
Thank you. Very fabricated . If he is migrating as he said he is, there is no way the wife did not know that a DNA test was being conducted.
In fact she went with him to the hospital

loooool, most of their stories here are lamba

Fabricated story! fabricated result...sometimes out of boredom, people develop stories just to keep themselves busy or stay relevant.

Kingdemu:
I have just woken up to the tragic news of the killing of my secondary school classmate Jamilu Tanko Ibrahim. He was a trailer driver who, until his untimely death, had been transporting goods from North to South especially to Lagos. He was lynched and left to roast in his trailer that was set ablaze by rampaging youths who attacked Shasha Market. His charred body was retrieved yesternight. The problem with this kind of crisis is as long as you are from northern Nigeria, you are Hausa or Fulani. You are a target even if you are a Christian. A Christian from Michika local government area of Adamawa state was hacked to death in Osun when Sunday Ighoro's crusade gathered pace few weeks ago.

Targeting innocent people who left their comfort zones to cater for their families is an invitation to anarchy. I am sure a vast majority of Igbo and Yoruba are peace loving people for their millions of their fellow relatives in northern Nigeria who are doing well in business and civil service. But the way Nnamdi Kanu and Ighoro are playing to people's sentiments and going extra miles as to incite their unruly youths into attacking innocent people, killing and maiming on the pretext of warding off the Fulani invasion of their land, mark my words, Arewa is a dangerous place for retaliation, and I only hope peace will reign.

Bros waiting for retaliation is long overdue. Let it begin!

[quote author= post=99049035]You just jumped into our mention tuaaaa!
Dis is what the coward bastard and porn.star idiot called Cownu told you in your whatsapp group about the Hausas abi??
So this was his plan all along.
Kontinue......okay?
We won't say more than that.......for now!



As seen somewhere on cyberspace....[/quote]Truth is everyone is patiently waiting for the north's retaliation so that they can end it once and for all

willyo:
Problem nor dey finish... Amotekun vs Miyetti Allah go be like Eibar vs Barcelona. Verdict; Away win

for me na X2

Donspicey:
And what will happen to their investments?

Look, money is being printed everyday. Tomorrow being Monday, Nigeria printing and minting will print about 500m naira. What that means is, investment no dey finish. 1usd was exchanging for 1million dutchsemark after the second world war. Today the euro is greater than the dollar. Investment no dey finish. People will always rise...

SuperBold:
Sell them land in your tiny alaigbo, SW is closed

Now they are taking the land by force and neutralizing any confrontation. Is it not better to sell it to the herders and leave there,? Lagos will welcome them.

pellummy:
Was David destiny not really aborted..... Wasn't he and his family should rule Israel for ever.. Was his kingdom not divide under Solomon.....


Go and learn my brother

It was Solomon's deviation. It has ntn to do with David

Denique:
Congrats to them.

The one above advising guys to marry up, I hope the energy remains the same when ladies insist on such too?! It's a jungle out there, so don't blame anyone for their life choices. It is their consequence(s) to deal with.

It is a known fact that women always "marry up". He is just encouraging the guys to do the same.

Denique:
Quit hatinnnng! It's not healthy!

We need to understand that the female has less responsibilities than their male counterparts –in most cases. As a result, have more extras to splurge. That is not to say both genders don't give in to vices for THE LIFE in some cases.

My resolve is this: nothing beats legit money making means.

Modified:
I have an issue with people who do not read between the lines. Moreover, this is a simple writeup. Haaa!

I was answering to Ruggedman's post why female actresses live a more lavish lifestyle than their male counterparts.

It is because they HAVE LESS responsibilities. They do NOT cater to so many people as the case of their male counterparts who are in most cases the bread winner of their respective families.

Let's take AY for example, he is obviously the bread winner. Whatever Mabel makes is 99% hers in addition to the upkeep money she gets from her husband. Tell me why such a person wouldn't live fly?

Now, imagine she was an actress, she would have enough to flaunt as acting isn't her only source of income. Her husband/boyfriend is there to give her money plus other side businesses.

Whether the actresses eventually sleep with married men or not as the purported side business is what I am not in the position to tell.

You don't have a clear idea about how the industry works...

IamWonderful:
You are still chasing shadows and dwelling on speculation to soothe and promote your lies further. Even if either alcoholic or otherwise, wine is forbidden by God Himself

stop talking trash

LeoThaGreat:
If i were Mr. A, I will tell her blame her stagnation on low performing sales officers after she's gone through their score cards, then select those who she will recommend their sack. However, I will let her know that this is me repaying her back, from that moment onwards, i won't save her anymore.
Finito.
Life is about scratch my back, then I scratch yours. She's done Mr. A a big favour, now is his turn to pay his debt (with wisdom & strategy)

Good points bro, you see Ms cannot recommend for an SO to be fired. Management makes that decision. Also, SO's don't cost much compared to other higher grades. Hence an SO needs to work hard to get fired.

ultramayor:
Oboy! Still dey scratch my head now, I go let you know if I don reason am

lol

SilverNorGold:
Nice... E dun red for IPOB and Boko Haram terrorists!

Only if you guys know who Major General Ibrahim Attahiru is... According to a source in the US secret service, Major General Ibrahim Attahiru played a vital role in the demise of Osama Bin Laden... He was subsequently wooed by the US, but he turned down the offer, insisting he's committed to the Federal Republic of Nigeria..

A Mighty Man of Valor - this man, Major General Ibrahim Attahiru...

God bless you boss!
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Son you lack sense! Same dude that was epileptic against book haram?

LeoThaGreat:
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Ms. B needs to recommend the sack of her sales officers as their underperformance is stalling her growth.
As Mr. A, the above is what I will advise her to pursue as she's meant to have advanced in rank

Great idea, also note that sales officers below 70% YoY on their score card are usually rotated across regions after an end of year appraisal . Therefore she might have worked with an entire new team

Damseldammie:
It’s your duty to pay your bills, but your wife can only support you if she wants

Marry a working class wife. Both of you contributes to pay your bills simple. There is nothing like helping. Both of you are incurring those bills .....so ass up and pay up

pocohantas:
The only place I see this happen is on Nairaland. Those women selling under hot sun are definitely not going through all that to do “my money is my money”. Even in my office, majority of the married women have taken loans, either to buy land or cars. We don’t ever see them with these cars because the head of the home drives it.

I dare say very few Nigerian men can shoulder the bills alone. How? With how much?

you are correct but I have seen some exceptions. There is this guy that his wife refuses to work. The guy wanted to open a supermarket she declined. The guy Opened a driving school, put her in charge and after a while she stopped. The guy pays for everything! seriously and he grumbles a lot. If he had his way perhaps he would file for divorce