I saw this in the Romance section.
Why not move it to the Careers section.
I am a lawyer too, but not practising. Ciao

what happened to the gateman?

Nice poem. I actually like it. Thanks for sharing.

hmmmn this is a tough one.
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tkb417:

ojigbijigbi

lollll
She's pretty though.

na2day?:

really? if your bf or husband does something similar to u, wont u be here crying foul? some naija girl sef!

Just tryn to have a sense of humor about the whole thing. Of course u don't think i subscribe to that kind of misbehaviour.
It's not funny, but what is , is d poster asking what his friend shud do in d circumstance?

Will dis cheating argument ever end?
Enuf already.

@gbengaijot.
I agree with u[i] in toto[/i]. I don't see d big deal.
Maybe its even his wedding gift to his daughter.
Who wouldn't want to give their daughters d best, in their own measure.

I say, Bella shud savour every tune Bey belts out on dat day.
Eat your hearts out pple. ITS HIS $$$$$$$$$$

At least the girl was courteous enuf to bring left over cake and wine.
That shud count for sth.

Poster. I agree with u , but u seem to be on a high horse.
I had dis conversation with a girl, and she was all for testing.
Yet she's an ardent church goer.

Jsut leave pple to their conscience. Do u think they don't know wat they re doing?

I agree poster.
D same thing for men who say good girls are scarce.
They re everywhere.

Poster. I find it hard to sympathise with you, even though i stand for mutual respect in rels.
Her name calling is disrespectful, but wat might be aggravating her?
There's def another side to this story.
And drinking and smoking? u ve got a lot of bad habits.

U both need time to cool off. And do a lot of talking afterwards. Get a neutral 3rd party to mediate.

Maybe u shud post this as a topic.

Testing indeed. Lie of the devil!
Sexual problems have solutions. I wonder how an intelligent human being can think otherwise.
I pity those who fall for that crap.

Theres nothing wrong with helping another person when u can.
Does this mean i shud never accept help from the opp gender?
D guy might be into her, true, but it doesn't mean more.

Just trust that she'd be wise and not do anything stupid.

I agree with proproman.
Those who are saying his sack won't change anything, what do you propose then?
The williams guy sounds like a no nonsense person. He might be the best man for the job.
Thumbs up to Jonathan. More grease to your elbow.

Poster. Many girls are into it, but many girls are also not.

good question. How many pple actually think about this but can u really prepare?

At least one of the christian clerics was courageous enuf to reveal d truth.
Shame on others like Oyedepo who said he owes nobody a report of what he saw.

Besides why din't the man of faith stretch out his hands and heal yar adua? Man of God.

saturday _evenings

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@ssumpta:
Well, sorry to say, that isn't wat attracts me to ladies.
In short, the way I see it is this: Ugly monsters covering up by wearing beautiful masks to hook a correct guy.
Thus, whenever I see chics wearing all sort of make-up, I try to imagine them without the weave-on, the artificial nails, the paintings all over the body, d fake accent, d fake carriage, d fake gait e.t.c. and in most cases, the result I get is UGLY.

On the other hand, even tho' u may not know it, I personally appreciate and respect ladies like u, who dare to be natural (ugly or not). Yes, a lot of men may not be attracted to you, but u are also much less likely to attract the wrong man. I hope this makes sense to u. 
 

except, of course, u're dirty by nature. Then, dont complain to me

Dats wondeerful to know. But u are just one among few.
The thing about the wrong man, sounds profound. very true.

Poster i commiserate with u on all u've had to go thru. Your hubby is truly possessed.
I belong to the 'camp head for the hills', just like sb said.
However, with God, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.

But i also think in ur case, separation is necessary, until a certain time.
You must not die in that marriage.
God bless u.

or like sb asking for a link . duh. google it. Its right there on d first search page.
Anyways, i submitted my application today in Abj. omo see people.

I don't know but, are they really gonna read thru thousands of applications?
Sb told me not to bother but i did anyway.

wake up lady.
Please don't be desperate.
Its just ur side of the story, but i really don't believe u don't know wat to do,

If u are all u claim to be, then d chic is really messing up. She's lucky to have found a good guy and she's taking it for granted.
I wud ve said, show her the red card, but smtimes, we all get this little itch, to be with sb else. it may not mean she doesn't love u anymore.
It happened to me once, but i came back to my senses and went back to him. and we were much closer afterwards.
I think u still need to get up and say shape up or ship out. But be patient.
Time will tell.

Poster i feel u.
Just like sb said, plan a romantic night for just u two, but for the long term, try to talk to him about it. Communication is everything, better than harbouring resentment.

Im sorry for your loss. I've lost my sweet mother also.
But they are only sleeping. God will take care of everything.

Din't u see some signs while dating? Too bad.
Only God can change such a man.