Na wa 4 your English o.
Classic case of wanting sth u can't have. Move on. Find another single girl.
Tommorrow u'd come here crying that your gf left u for anoda guy.
Karma is still alive.

You have no friggin right to remind anyone of their uncertain future. You are not her God nor her doctor.You said your tellin her what she knows already? then why the heck do u bother.  NACA president!
So what if she has HIV? why are u adding salt to injury? 
Poster. Please do take cr of urself, n try to protect your man, by not givin in to d temptation of unprotected intimacy.
Remember, Jesus is a healer, and he never rejected anyone who came to him, no matter how they got their disease. U shall be well.

latepa:

I believe that guy is a Yoruba Boy right

lol. Why?
I happen to have dated a witness. They can be hypocritical, but who isn't?
And this guy happens to be one of the most wonderful pple i've ever known.In all other aspects, and so are his sisters.

Poster, how innocent are you. how sure are we u din't do more than just invite him to your hse? U know dat the opposite intimacy picks on  the most subtle messages.

There's always singles events to go to. Don't have to be smwhere with sb cuddling up.

Adulterated Democracy.

lolll.  Girl you're mean.
Don't tell me about witnesses. They study the bible like the pharisees. Only seeing what they want to. So hypocritical.

But pls, if he said u seduced him, do not invite him to your hse again, and pls pray for forgiveness, even if u feel u did nothing wrong. To him u did.
Remember wat Jesus said about causing others to commit even the slightest of sins.
its no joke.

Poster. Don't become cynical about marriage.
Just today, a married man hit on me, think of thousands of other men who are doin the same. It got me thinking, will this ever change? if not, then marriage is a sham.

But i remembered what i read in my bible yday, marriage is honourable. Its a pity many folks do not see it dat way.
If u've been guilty of sleeping with even more than one girl at a time, then ur not in a position to complain.
There are still good girls. I know, coz i am one of them, even though i've made mistakes. Its the truth. Be a good man, and God won't dissapoint you when you're looking for a wife. I bet you.

frankkie:

Aondokaa, now you will have time to visit our Former President for Saudi. Infact you can also work from there, since everyone can work from anywhere. We dont want to see you in this country!!

Lol.
That's some good news. Shameless lawyer!

Why are u pple taking this poster seriously?

Abu Zola . Why don't u concentrate on ur own religion, and worship ur own god, since u can never be convinced nor can u convince anyone. Instead of criticizing pple n
nitpicking.
poster. Let me tell u sth. U hv a point, and its been said in d bible dat of wat use is speaking in tongues if none can interprete rite, but d bible seems contradictory on so many points coz there always be sb who disagrees, and with succinct quotes frm d bible as well.
so to each his own, on d last day, everybody go confess. what is true is true. whether u knew or believed or understood it or not.

I feel so sorry for our mothers. What have women done to deserve such in marriage?
Imagine collecting salary, and vanishing to spend on a mistress. He's also financially irresponsible, as well as morally.

Anyway, nothing ever justifies cheating, but there are other sides to a story.
This mistress could easily become the victim tomorrow, and we'd be here pitying her.

If it were me, i would talk to my pops, in a mature yet sombre way, and let him see the pain he's causing his family. As it is, momsie may be aware already.
If he doesn't stop, leave it to the big daddy upstairs.

Your dad will certainly not go unpunished for his sins.

lolll
The girl certainly won't mind a hummer jeep.
Poster, i think there's a thread to answer ur ? if u scroll up a bit.

3 years. Its time now. Act now or lose her 4ever, How do u know she doesn't hv a bf already? u mite even be too late.
Tell her clearly, that ur interested in a serious rel. She may not say yes outright, but at least she knows ur now serious. She may respond by words or action.
In a little time, u'd know.

Depends on ur pocket.But this is the time to impress her.
Don't withdraw all ur money, but buy sth of quality. Maybe some nice Jewellry.
A bottle of wine, a lovely card , chocolate(preferably from a high-end supermkt not dose cheap ones) since ur planning a val trip. Goodluck.

Nwaka77:

@Poster

Serious reply about what? have you posted a serious question to warrant a serious reply? If you don't know what to look out for in a potential mate then stay single or go back to the drawing board. We are not in kindergarten. Geddit?

Chill out.
We all know its in d Bible, but there s no harm in resounding it on a discussion forum.
She's a homemaker, supportive, submissive, humble etc, the qualities are endless really.
Even though u won't find nearly half as much in one woman.

Poster sounds like she married just coz she was 'in love'. How won't the butterflies fly away? "At the end of d day, u realise he's just human, " Was he supra-human during d courtship?

So its now wrong for an Association  president to be concerned for the safety of its members.
Move that meeting Akeredolu let's see what these idiots can do. See me see wahala!

noblezone:

It is a proof of what some of us already know long ago, that

Nigeria is not one country
Nigeria is was never one country
Nigeria will never be one country.

I concur.

Think she prefers pple judge her by her music not her image.
But its inevitable. All i'm thinking is what has dis chic done to herself
Dis one don pass tomboy levels.

Mercy we know u've got b.o.o.b.s, do u have to rub it in our faces all d time? (figuratively speaking).
She's not an ugly duckling, but she certainly needs a stylist.

Neutrogena Salicylic  Acid Body Wash. Used it for my body acne. Din't work.
My friend also said their body oil darkened her.
Although i've read that cosmetic products take 3-6 months to notice results, dont have that kinda patience.

back to thread.
@ Poster. Don't tell him. Honesty is not the best policy in this case.
anways, why are u fantasizing over sb u haven't seen in a decade? smtin must be lacking in ur marriage. Why do i get d feeling u'd go n start an illicit affair? Goodluck