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Proudlyngwa:
Do you know the meaning of sensationalism as regards headlines

No come and school me.

Deciceco01:
I personally support Obasaki not because he tried in his first term in office but because I don't like what Osho Baba and Co did to their own APC brother. And I hate godfatherism also, shikenan ya kare, ba wani damuwa.

See the reason someone wants to vote SMH.
Can’t we vote a neutral party in this country?

Franzinni:
but you sound like you were there taking scores as they took turns ... You are getting emotional over what you read with your phone ... I pity you, i work in media and I know what the media industry is about ... You can as well draw up a placard and stand in front of your street to show support .. Its your cup ... But I only decided to not jump on the band wagon, and start getting emotional unless I know what the real motives are ... 30 men just don't up and rape together ... Unless that was what they were directed to do specifically for reasons know to them... If you still don't understand what I am saying ... I will advice you give it time and try again later .

You are overreacting.
And then you skipped the part where I said “we are only interested whether the rape occurred and thirty men took part in it”
You can’t wait for investigation to happen before taking actions. All your years in the media so that is what you learnt.
There is what we call the build-up story into a real story. As much as the sex occurred forcefully and thirty men took part in then it is enough reason to push for investigation. Except the fundamental things are not true then wait for more truth to push forward. In this case it is 30men and forceful steps. If it has been confirmed it occurred then going out to protest is a good thing.

Your likes want iron-molded evidence before you take action.

TeemahBeddings0:
You seems not to get.


[s]Check the thread...people are not condemning the country or religion.[/s]


But if it is somehow related to Islam or Arab countries...your guess is a good as mine.

Goan reread the thread properly.

Patrioticman007:
These Jews are known for barbarism,
They choose to kill innocent Jesus & save Barnabas the criminal.
They rebeled against Prophet Moses after saving them from Eygpt for a morsel of bread & garlic as against manna from heaven & are currently killing Palestinians over a two States agreement.
Imagine 30 men raping 16 years old men in the HOLYLAND, no wonder Catholics housed Papa Roma in Italy instead of Israel.

You’re trying too hard to make it a religious argument. But it’s not clicking

Franzinni:
read what I said ... I guess your fingers were faster that your compression rate ..

Let me take it slow ...


I said ... If we peel back the sensational story the truth will come to light

30 people can't decide to rape one person its highly unlikely ... Unless there are forces who have designed the event to happen in that fashion for reasons know to them ... Is that clear enough or should I break it down further ?

Only God knows the truth you are looking for. If thirty grown men rape a lady and acclaims it to whatever theory and deep truth. Na dem sabi. He who plays the piper calls the tune.
We are not interested in sensational deep story. We are only interested if the rape occurs and all the 30 men took part.
Stop sympathetizing

TeemahBeddings0:
I am coming.

So basically this happened in A Christian state(as claimed by Nigerian Christians).

Do we now say all Christians are rapists or it was how Jesus taught them?


Cos I know my people, if it was the other way round, the would have started attributing all false allegations to Islam.


Our Religions are perfect but not the followers.



Please and please...don't mention me and start cussing me out.


You people can't take the shit you dish out to others.

And I wasn't even talking ill of people's religion

Please delete this statement. Only a rétard will type this

Franzinni:
Sometimes I wonder .... If we peel back the sensational story and the emotional connection that people have been towards rape lately ... A story like this is unbelievable ...

30 people not 3 o 30 decides to rape one girl like how is that done ?

Did they have a meeting all of them and plan that OK now we are going to rape emmmmmmm that girl over there ... Because its difficult enough for 2 people to even agree on one thing talkless of 30 I refuse to join there waggon .... There is something deeper at play ...

I sympathies with the little girl and no human deserves such ever !

But beyond the sensational story there lie the real truth .

what sensational story are you looking??
That the girl stole their money? Or the girl broke one the heart or killed one of their gang

SeunAdeniyi1:
I cant imagine how they were passing her around like a plate of rice.

Tufia *spits*
Can one even eat from same plate 29 more people will eat from?

Watch how Hushpuppi sympathizer will rush in And defend him.

SteelMcqueen:
It's cold hard evidence, that everyone on nairaland can see, it's why I opened this thread.

stop responding to that deluded fellow, if you want any positive effect then sanitize the cyberspace in your own way. He is a lost soul.

lefulefu:
u dont need to to take ubanja's advice word for word though .there some things he is spot on but there some tins he is equally wrong.Yes u can speak ur mind to ur wife and tell her u dont like such a treatment but that doesnt mean u should beat her or call her a LovePeddler.no she is the mother of ur children.there was one statament that ubanja made yesterday about the type of women a man should help.He said apart from the man"s sisters,mom,wives or siblings he doesnt owe any other female a dime.I think i agree with such.Imagine a girl from the blue cos she said hi to me on facebook and the next day she is asking me to give her 150k and i said no even if i had the money so does that mean i am an azz ? i can give if i feel like giving but then that doesnt mean i should be compelled in giving her money cos she is female.It does not work that way.
some of his preaching he said men should stand for themselves i agree to that but some i dont agree.

You’re spot on. We are on same page.

elantraceey:
These ideologies doesn't always work. I started pounding yam when I was 9 because I'm the first child and my mum developed waist pain and my dad was the 'man of the house' and would never enter the kitchen but his pounded yam must be served every evening no matter what. You don't use what works for you to compare others, things are no longer the same. You can as well wish things returned to how things were at the thing of your parents now in terms of technology and all. A man cooking while his wife is resting doesn't make him less a man. Cooking should be a husband's duty as much as the wife because it's the both of them and their children that eats the food not just one person and they both should contribute to the home. Now, this can work for one person and not another, so find what works for you and don't judge another man for doing what works for him.

The mysogynist don’t ever think that life has to be based on responsibility. They rather pray for an unfair world where they would be at the good end.

lefulefu:
u have said it all
could be what ubanja and co are trying to do

God forbid.
The misogynist just prays for a world where men would trample on our daughter and sister and mothers. I don’t like when men are played by women with entitlement mentality but I can’t go to such extreme.
Read “The truth” - A confession and renouncement of the great PUA artist Neil Strauss.
After being a great man that picks women he later confess how you grow dark in mindset later on

[quote author=ubunja post=93064135][/quote]Hahahahahaha you are now obsessed. Adding two unrelated post.

lefulefu:
ok whatever u want to call such men dont u think they need help?
lets say God forbid sha u happen to visit ur younger brother who is married and u find him bending down on the varendah steps washing his wife's pant while the wife is in the sittingroom streatching her legs and yawning..how will u react?
or in ur presence the wife is calling him a useless man or maybe the man forgot to heat up the egusi soup they had last night and the thing got spoilt then the wife got angry and slapped him him and called him a good for nothing man and that theres nothing he can do around the house...how u going to react .I know u will react the way i expect
we dont feel the pain until it happens to our blood .weda we call them weak or not such men need to stand up and if they cant then someone needs to call them out .

Except you were not paying attention.
I said men need to learn social intelligence, they don’t need to turn the table around.
Men don’t need to be a player to echo how is strong. Real strength comes from having the right respect for yourself and getting it from people because you earn it.
A man doing a women’s work out of low self esteem need help and need awareness.
Redpill don’t give that, redpill wants men to be on the other side of the table. Meaning to lazy about and get women to do things for them.
Real men bear their own responsibility, and just their own responsibility, not women responsibility.

[quote author=ubunja post=93062920][/quote]I wrote those things long ago until I no longer follow the redpill theories. So quote all you want. I have never advice anyone to be a SIMP but I will not advise anyone to be a redpill also.
“The truth“ Neil Strauss told me.

Also don’t quote me I have warned you

lefulefu:
i dont go by tags.but men should speak their mind instead of behaving like weak puppies.I mean its embarrasing seeing a full grown man pounding yam in the kitchen while the wife is in the sittingroom watching tv.No wonder most weak men their wives cheat on them cos they have the desire of being with a real man.

There is no such thing as weak men. They are only men with little or no respect for themselves and from people around them. Strength were evolution way of survival but this modern century, dominance and strength don’t play so much in how things work.

Women like men with a some touch of aggressiveness, ability to be decisive, understanding, energetic, ability to Compromise and the list goes on.

When it comes to a person appearing more romantic and attractive, women like a selection of both attitudes from the so-called alpha male and the simple men. No women really like someone just being so dominant all the time, also no women like someone being so docile and with little esteem. Redpill misses this part.

It same way men like women who are strong for themselves yet has a soft spot of being vulnerable and acting sweet to our becks and calls when necessary. It is a mix of many things.

lefulefu:
regardless of whjat u said the bitter truth is that there still men who are simpletons.Telling a man to man up is not telling him to hate on women.If a woman requests money from a man and the guy checks and see his account is not on budget yet and he finds out that what she wants to use the money for is not that important he can tell her there"s no money for now and she can wait.If she starts fretting and threatning to break up cos of the money he didnt give her that particular moment he should start his ground and still make known his mind.Thats how a real man behaves .He shouldnt go around borrowing mind cos he is scared she would dump him..dats how a simpleton acts.If a man is called out for acting weak i dont see anything wrong in that.Note that critisizing simpletons isnt telling the simpletons to hate women but more to act like men.Be a man..stand ur ground and if u dont feel someone is taking advantage of u speak up.

One thing about Redpill society is they talk from both sides of their mouth. Many redpill members do a lot of shaming talk e.g “All women are slut”, “Don’t ever do this and that for women”, “you are better than them”, “homies over hoes”; Infact many of their articles preach a lot of reason why you as a man deserve more better things than a woman.
At other times they claim they are only trying to redeem the simpleton males and they preach no hatred.
It’s all of many things just like how our typical cult group behave in the secret and in the open in our everyday experience.
My problem with the so-called movement is it salient gestures and appraisals, chuckles it gives to male folks who succeed in being on the other side of the table. E.g if a guy succeed in playing a girl, for example have sex with her and dump her, the redpill community are in awe and amazement.

This only happens in the gaming world, you can’t be in the middle. You support one wholeheartedly and feel very happy if your side wins.

Real men don’t play games, games are for playboys. Real men don’t condone men and women who play games either, they don’t give he/her the chance. Redpill has some social intelligence guidance but also negative aura alongside which in reality is very dangerous.

I advise men to develop social awareness and act appropriately to people whether men or women, identify games and avoid them. This is the only way a healthy society would be created.

lefulefu:
well the thread is advising men to be a strong .dat if a lady behaves like crap be more masculine around her and then she will stop behaving like crap

There are just people who play games. Men and women play games. This sexism movement of redpill and extreme feminism is just nothing more than trying to look at one side of the mirror.
Many ladies with entitlement mentality and men with sense of dominance. Even when not necessary. I advise everyone to improve social intellect, that is the true way to go.

SteelMcqueen:
@lefulefu there are such men and you can call them whatever you want,as his your right, but the Alpha male will never derogate is fellow man. He brings awareness to your behaviour and guides you to the path of true masculinity with love and respect. That's the only way you can change anybody.

Please I am confuse here, what is this thread about. Are you advising redpill or against it?

lefulefu:
op i agree with your post but then you cant deny some men are really foolish and weak minded
when a man starts washing the underwear of a woman and snaps and uploads such a pix on facebook
or a man knows his wife is cheating on him and dares not confront her cos he is scared she would insult him
Or a man is in the kitchen cooking while the wife is in the sittingroom with her friends drinking,laughing and watching african magic
or a man sponsors a girl from primary six to jss1 to ss3 and sponsors her waec and jamb and keeps on paying for her university fees but when she graduates she dumps him giving reasons that the man is too bush for her and too old for her
or a guy pays a girl montly allowance under the guise of girlfriend and yet she still calls the guy a mumu
WHAT then can u tag such a guy with?

What you wrote here is very true.
But let us not tell a lie either, we have heard cases where women have been played by men and even to an extent some women spend all their hard earn wealth infact their fathers money on a man and yet such men broke their heart into pieces.
The lie the so called redpill don’t say is that innocent women are being played too on a daily basis.
The typical redpill wants all guys to man up and play all girls.
I call this misanthropic view on women evil.
If Redpill want to be healthy to society, it should advise men on how to take control of their life’s and avoid everyday social games. But telling them to become the gamer is not all healthy if you ask me.
It is fine to play games on players, I agree but when you now like to make it a one-sided sexist(male) movement. You cheer guys who play girls and call men who are been played “simp”. Then something isn’t right.
No wonder the Protestant has arisen now, the people we men Created from bare dust ... “The feminist”.
Redpill will only lead to more feminist movement, especially those played by men and the stone keep rolling

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SteelMcqueen:
I wouldn't call homos, I just think we have a different perspective on these issues.

Please forget all those failed men. They have some quite bad experiences with women. The bad ones they attract, now they have turned into women worshipers. Their sole aim in life is to sleep with women and use women. It is their only joy they have in this life. The bitterness of what some women did to them is so much

squash47:
Both of them are my plan

Focus on one. If you plan to make a slider functionalities and you couldn’t do it after many thought. It means you are not aware of some technics or knowledge. Read articles Or study codes of successful slider and read how they achieved it. It will help

Tribers:
I understand wordpress core

Then sail on

Ugaboy:
From scratch, it will help you to build future tools that wordpress may not provide you

Any is ok. Do you understand Wordpress core? Or you want to use plugin?

Thazard:
Ha you have quoted it already.
There's no need of deleting it again.But Bros is it 5G you are using?

ahahahhaa. Anyway to pull this effect you must appear casual and real. Don’t appear like a student on debate speech o.

Thazard:
Stanliwise sorry I used my diary account to quote to, please delete your quote!

If it the one you post above. Then for the fact you too have been passing each other too often means you have failed the 3-sec rule. Meaning you two have had so much contact without any real communication. This mean either you or her are just shy and you both know that.

For the now you need to find a way to dev a rapport with her. A simple greeting, a lite compliment(not everytime).
Then after little rapport then next step is “The enquirer”, knowing alittle about her and this is just like.
“I don’t know your name”. If she respond well then follow with some history of how you have been seeing her and how you thought she was this and that e.g “quite and shy”, let her defend and respond then do counter. Then compliment her on the new revelation you just know, like she is fun person more than you thought.
The break it, move on.
This should later follow up by little chit chat when next you meet about some fluffy stuff like “Being a student”, “The pandemic effect”.
One way One trick to get her number is to her number is to tell her how you didn’t see her anywhere around for some day and you thought she travelled (This should be true o) wait for her defense response and then say this “Let me have your number”. Then after it, quit chat and move ahead.

Zoomx:
NevetsIbot
Stanliwise

Please give me some more examples that I could use on her.

If it the one you post about. Then for the fact you too have been passing each other too often means you have failed the 3-sec rule. Meaning you two have had so much contact without any real communication. This mean either you or her is shy and you both know that.

For the now you need to find a way to dev a rapport with her. A simple greeting, a lite compliment(not everytime).
Then after little rapport then next step is enquirer, knowing alittle about her and this is just like.
“I don’t know your name”. If she respond well then follow with some history of how you have been seeing her and how you thought she was this and that e.g “quite and shy”. Then compliment her on the new revelation you just know, like she is fun person more than you thought.
The break it, move on.
This should later follow up by little chit chat when next you meet about some fluffy stuff like “Being a student”, “The pandemic effect”.
One way One trick to get her number is to her number is to tell her how you didn’t see her anywhere around for some day and you thought she travelled (This should be true o) wait for her defense response and then say this “Let me have your number”. Then after it, quit chat and move ahead.

letitrainnow:
Miracle working God

please read patiently next time

Sirfemisky:
I am a student in Delta.
Konji don finish me patapata.
The sex worker on coderunz is charging me 20k for a night stand and is much.
Please recommend me any place to get affordable one in Delta

There are no clean slut. There are only the ones that has package.