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Highbeepeeh:
CONTINUATION

I ignored her for like 3wks. Anytime she saw me in G ma's shop, she will stylishly push her hair to the other side to see if i would follow but no i won't Until two days ago.

ME: Let me tell U something, U don't know how to lie.

HER- U don't even know what happened, You're already calling me a liar

ME- Since how many days now

HER- My phone was faulty that's why i didn't call U, and you're already calling me a lier.

ME: We don't need to argue about this, just give me the number of that faulty(cos she brought her phone out for me to see it's really faulty)

i gave her my phone to type her number, she said no that i should type it myself( she wants to boss me) then i said common type it Yourself which she did and till today that number is always switched off.

THO I HAVE SOME OTHER GALS AM PLAYING ON, BUT WHAT SHOULD I DO WHEN NEXT I DECIDED TO TALK TO HER.

shey you nor dey work ni? Wey you always dey road side dey see her everyday. Omo na see finish be dat o.

Utibe96:
opp you good die ...thanks for helping a lots of guys out ...

I just met my ex of 8 years on social media ...we started chatting buh never met physically,we chat at length and late at night,I asked about her relationship life she's say her suppose boyfriend is abroad and I told her mine is also away because of the closure of campus, I got her number yesterday ...I honestly like her I want her back or even to bleep once more ..
experience men in the house please help on the next step

Better leave her alone for her Boyfriend and let the girl be.

Meanwhile You said you want help yet you are chatting with her at length every night. So what do you guys then chat??

Adasun:
no, u need them not me.



They are just commodity i enjoy frm time to time.

if you have a daughter or a sister then clean that comment.

Greatwell78:
I swear ! Girls are really something else, you can't just find any good one again

There are many good ones. You only have to be vigilant. A lot of good ones abound but it depends on what you mean by good?
The problem is that many people don’t have a good eye of who is good and who is not, so they instead build a tunnel and assume that all are bad just like you’re doing.

Osamagioghowewi:
I have this neighbor of my, I manage to suck her boobs but when I try to put her cloths off she stop me and work away, ever since she don’t want me to come close to her or talk to her, I really like this girl and I want to date her, she should I do


NOTE- I told her about my feelings before but she not given me a yes or a no

how did you manage to suck her boobs?
And meanwhile when you tried to go further and she walked away, she just saw you as one stupid pervert that like to devour any girl.
After sucking, did she behave like she wants to Bleep you? If no then you failed the seduction test.... everything don’t happen in one day. The process has to mature somewhat.
Things must happen like it naturally occurred else people could feel like they are cheap.
This don’t mean you have fallen out of track tho. It just means you kinda konjified and you want to objectify her to satisfy your pleasure. It doesn’t mean she don’t want sex. Resets your memory and start afresh.
Meanwhile you don’t need a yes or a no; Do you tell people your feeling so as to find validation?

excanny:
Does anyone has a bot they use in chatting with their partner? Cos I'm so busy at times, but my partner likes to always talk to me. I understand it's good. Just wish I could install a bot on her phone or laptop that knows my mind to always talk to her so I can concentrate.

Any one?

Are you a Nigerian

Curvinus:
You really have no grasp. Truth is boys love fine girls. Girls love fine boys. Average people would try and dellude themselves until the penny drops.

The only pretty girl who would sleep with a guy she doesnt find hot is doing so out of selfish benefits, including those that are desperate to settle.

If you doubt me, just try to have a look into the social media profile of any hot guy you know and see the 7th wonders that would depress you. Girls you would kill for sending nudes for free and begging to meet and fk. The same girls that wont reply your dms.

No girl don’t reply my DM. Because I know the kind(e.g sugar daddy and the ones looking for someone to take them to Dubai, those kind) of girls that won’t reply my DM. So I won’t even bother sending cause I am not the type of guy that tell big lies of my achievements. I don’t know how many girls you have been with sha.
Attraction works differently than you think, some girls have so many cute guys around but a looking for the ones to take them to party, drink and smoke. Some are looking for husband, ones they hear marriage, they start running errands for you. Some like fine boys and neat clean guys. Some like rich and big boys e.g Hushpuppi. Money is an addiction.
Some like sex and sex and sex.
If you carry only beauty for head and meet the wrong match na long thing you dey, premium tears.

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Curvinus:
I keep telling these slowpokes that looks is what matters the most to most women in 2020 and they still don't get it. In today's dating scene, women are as visual if not more than men. So, if a woman don't find you hot, it is over. In fact it never began, except of course she is whooring herself to you for resources.

Hot doesn’t mean face? Girls and boys are out there for fantasy. Guy like fine girls to show to friends, well cultured girl to show to mom and a hoe to for a party. Same goes to the female gender. Although there are people who are exceptions and choose one kind preferred quality any time and any day which is where you could have a point.
Don’t get it twisted

rickyboss333:
He has a great career, intelligent and all but not my spec, and I'm not attracted to him.


This really gat me thinking... I guess when girls talk about thier spec, it just simply has everything to do with physical appearance FIRST b4 other qualities.
Finally someone has atleast admitted that sexual attraction is actually more important to babes than bank account attraction

Well to contribute 2 d matter on ground... U n I know ur not attracted to him, and deep down inside u, u know u never will. Ur already doing a good job by pulling out gradually, there is no better way to pull out from him without hurting him. If he's mature enough, he will understand.

That is never true, a person begin to appear attractive when comfort begins to set in. If you have a lively vibe and and and you look classy. Your chances of not being attractive is high.
Fresh, clean looks also add to the stack.
The most of all that get girls going is how smooth you flow and how lively you appear to be. This means many things sha. Some girls like bad boys l and if you look like so then fine.
Some like funny and fashionable guys, if you are that then fine.
Some like very mature man who have 1000 years old mind and if your that then fine.
Some just love money and material, if you have it fine.
You can’t replace one for another. Attractive is one natural blessing but it wouldn’t attract a material girl or a girl who likes boyfriend that can take her to party and rock

He is a simp for fucking those two girls

Redpill won’t see this one o.

Abdulcoding:
I created a blog on for teaching html.I've posted two topics.Then i searched for it on google, it wasn't found.

1. it hasn’t being indexed.
2. You didn’t set up your meta tag properly.

Meanwhile what platform did you use for hosting?

iamoyindamola:
What is this

Never checked that though. Thanks for the info

xynerise:
Some are bigger. But don't mistake Komodo Dragon for this else na die dey hungry you

Na suicide be dat one o.
Body got tell you

iamoyindamola:
It's venomous, I don't know if it's to human

They are not
We only have two venomous lizard in the world.
Gila monster and beaded lizard

adioolayi:
You better eat the humble pie, take corrective measures where necessary and even employ the guy, if his claims are true.

Not beating empty chest and harassing the young man.

you are not serious at all

manychallenges:
Gosh, how did you know that? That's what am really going through. I think a lot, sometimes I find it difficult to concentrate due to too much thinking.

Only God knows how many mansions and Range Rovers have bought in my head. I've achieved everything in my head, like one living in fantasy.

Wish someone can really understand me. Maybe I need psychologist. I ain't insane cos once someone mentioned psychologist, people gonna think maybe the fellow is mad

I am a counselor by self study and by profession. Not certified per se. I do a lot of child counseling.
Your problem is that you have a perfect picture of how things should happen or be.
You wish things could be like you have always seen it work for other people.
The truth is this, your story isn’t the first, there are thousands and one that has had your same experience.
Although some of your actions/decisions could have helped make things better but had you known.
You need to start accepting what is real and what is possible.
The good news is this.... in your case, a lot of good things are still very possible.
But to reach there, you need the best of yourself, and you need to do what has to be done.

So stand up and while you are not comfortable in your skin yet and your legs still wobbles and is till shaky. You need to still have to do what has to be done. The feeling never gets better until things start to fall into places and for this to happen those things needs some of your commitment and actions.

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Dpsychologist:
Sex is never free : You are always paying for it


Women know men will go insane without sex, so they collectively deny it to men. They force most men to invest hundreds if not thousands of hours into resource security, job security, free drinks, free transportation,promotion, free housing, clothing, Properties etc just for the possibility that they will get sex.

Ever wonder why d1ck is priceless? A man dick is worthless, not that d1ck has no important but that women control themselves not to be desperate for sex. This is the principle of least interest at work.

Moreover, they are the gate keepers of sex. Women see their p*ssy as a big investment. Thats why you see alot of women hate sluts cos they are giving pvssy too cheap. Women have made pvssy too look expensive and thus valuable but dick is worthless, thats why you hardly see women paying for sex services.

Here is an excerpts From kara king's book titled, The power of p*ssy

NEVER GIVE AWAY YOUR MOST PRECIOUS ASSET FOR FREE!!!
You must realize that what you have in between your legs is a valuable tool to get men to do whatever you want them to do. Your vagina is the ultimate power! She will help you manipulate men and get them to bend over backwards at your will. Respect her. She’s your new best friend.
THE CORRECT WAY TO USE THE POWER OF YOUR PUSSY IS TO NOT GIVE IT UP FREELY.
A MAN MUST EARN THE RIGHT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU.
HE MUST PUT FORTH EFFORT TO PROVE HE IS WORTHY OF YOU

There is the presence of a female alliance called The sisterhood. They are responsible in controlling and artifically inflating the value of sex via price-fixing, more like a p*ssy cartel. It is relatively easy for women to artificially inflate the value of sex when they desire initiating sex less than men.

Women refer to men desiring initiating sex more than women as male thirst and use the term negatively( all men want is sex and not me).

It is because of this female alliance that has led to rules laid down for women viz:

1. Be a high value woman: A high value woman is a woman who doesn't revolve her life around men. She has her own career, hobbies, and a great social life that fulfills her emotional needs, so if she does welcome a man in her life, he better be amazing. A high value woman also doesn't romanticize men's true nature, therefore she's cautious around them and wants them to prove themselves to her before she gets emotionally attached.

2. If a man isn’t chasing you, he’s not that into you: A man’s role is to be the pursuer, the one to convince you that he’s the right man for you. As a woman, you don’t have to prove yourself to him. He either sees your value or he doesn’t. The only thing that’s within your control is working on becoming your best self.

3. Most straight men aren’t relationship material for you: The majority of the advances you receive from men are not of any value, because the majority of them are from men who only want to use you for sex. Many men are sex-driven, low effort, and entitled. However, there are also men out there who can be amazing boyfriends and husbands who know how to be a man and how to take care of you in all ways.

4. As women, we have the responsibility to be ruthless in our evaluation of men: We do ourselves and humanity no favors allowing men to exhibit subpar behavior and be rewarded with our attention. Thus, be ruthless in cutting off men who add no value to your life (happiness, emotional security, financial).

5. Don't have sex before commitment has been established (if you're looking for a relationship) or before he has demonstrated value and investment (if you're looking for FWBs). If a man is really into you and sees you as girlfriend material, he will commit to you in two months (or three months max). If you're looking to have a dependable FWB, you must still require investment from him so he provides you the respect and fun times that you want.

6. Generous men are a non-negotiable. While we believe in having your own career and making your own money, a man still has to add financial value to your life and make you feel like he can take care of you. This means not splitting the bill and not dating financially challenged men.


With all my preposition and expatiation i can now conclude without any form of equivocation that sex is not free.

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We can as well say men knows women wants money and must trade their pussy for it.
There are more than 1000 ways to skin a cat.

manychallenges:
I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.

At 27:
.. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate
.. Can't boost of a skill
.. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine
.. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here
.. Papa already retired and Mama still in service
.. Still ask Mama for money for haircut
.. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet
.. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different?
.. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town
.. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years!
.. You see am so bleeped
.. Giving up? Nah, I ain't

Stop living inside your head

Someone with two profile messaging himself

Sunepal13:
This question goes to both gender.

It is not and it is advisable not to.
Now before you come for my head.
It is based on self fulfillment. Anyone who enters a relationship and can’t mentioned how things have changed for him/her or how his/her life has improved since being with his/her partner then such person should quit.
Truth be told, almost all men and women never really have enough good memory for sex to show or tender it as an achievement.
Real achievements in relationships are things that brings more comfort, opportunities, connections, habit and quality character in you. It journey of how doesn’t have to be smooth though. Sadly, sex seems to be overhyped and really has failed in providing any of the above as a long term benefit.

At the end of the day, if sex is your happiness and your watch work. Ask for it and be bold. Relationship should be a contract and win win for all. Else someone is cheating

padi94:
With the rich ones, they could still be hoeing, but you will know from the number of guys they hang with... and what made their ex leave.

it is more complex than that. Judge people individually, generalization has failed time and time again. Just be on guard is the best way to spot people

TkhGuy:
Time and space is all it takes to understand which is which,

Listen carefully,
when a guy knows too much his odd to becomes rich and self determining to be independent is 0.01

When a girl knows too much, her odd to become a whoore, disrespectful and dependent is 0.01


1. The age in which a girl start using smartphone will tell you a lot about when she started her journey into doing what she likes contrary to what her parent trained her, mostly negative,

In guys, it's mostly positive.

2. The age which a girl started living alone like squatting with a friend far from her parental home tells a lot, same goes with guys.

3. You can't trust a girls loyalty if she is in high institution when you not, meeting with different people everyday, not good for marriage if you are not in the same institution with her,

4. A girl with two cephone lines between 16 to 24, 80% chance she is a business girl meaning she is likely willing to sell her self to any customer,

6. You can't go into a serious relationship that ends in marriage with a girl that serves public for her core profit with the pedal in her hands as a marketer, her pussy opens up to make sales depends on the offer, apparently everything is for sale, her odd of body counting many guys is 0.0001

7. Most girls that graduated from high institution have tasted a lot inches don't ask me, if you add the secondary school days, that would be plus,

8. A girl you constantly see online on the internet is playing international championship trying to win a trophy, while the one you see at the club is playing friendly match, but both belongs to the street. 80% chance of 8 body count in 4 years

9. A girl who loves money but have no job, have 0.001 odd chance becoming a hoes. Anything goes

10. A girl with lot of male friends in her life & on her what's app contact is like a street dog, you can't spot which male dog takes turns, cos in reality they are there for back up for black out days, and relays For switch over.

11. A girl with more money is competing with female ponstars in body count,, these ones are constantly on adventure to test new stuffs, they always have more body count.

12. How many smartphone she has used can be traced to different body counts, as these smart device don't come cheap, girls rarely buy one with their own money, one way or another her pussy opened to different body, she gat another smartphone.

13. Lastly, a working class lady and a girl who post their pictures on internet is like bill board, she is out to get loads of dcks & will trade a lot more, devil will be more honest than this ones

If you think otherwise as girl, hahahaha you must be guilty. But as guy, you are having one already so see for your selves in the comments below.

you should have said all the girls instead

Ribspot:
Greatest uniben students, uniben never really made me feel great, right from the day I wrote my post utme which I prepared so hard for, down to my final year, because all my result were never reflection of the efforts which I put in.

Did anyone else feel this way, i would love to here from you.

I enjoyed Uniben but it denied me my greatest desire. I got everything but my first class.

SegFault:
That's a moral nihilist, Who believes there is no such thing as morals. I have done a little thinking on morals and realised where it's roots may have come from and I have accepted that there are morals, as for a meaning in life, I unfortunately can't see one, the only thing I've decided to do is to seek for happiness. As for living recklessly, well I don't give a shit as far as I get happiness from it.

I would have loved to go deeper into this but this is a programming thread not a philosophy thread.

yea true a programming thread. I learn everyday though Nice meeting you tho

SegFault:
Became one recently. I view life as totally meaningless (there are different classes of nihilism) we are left with the choice of finding our own way in life and choosing our own choices in a world void of answers.

I actually don’t know what to tell you. But nihilist see no meaning in anything. And at some point could live recklessly. I hope you find a meaning soon enough o.

yusman14:
Web development (front-end) HTML5, CSS3,and JavaScript... python programming language...will it be able to install python assembler/compiler?

very well

SegFault:
Just so you know. I don't believe success is money, I am an existentialist and a nihilist so, my ideals and the way I view life will shock you beyond proportion.

nihilist ? First time I am seeing someone claim such

yusman14:
Hello bro.. I want to go into programming and web development..is this laptop ok?
hp430 specs;4gig RAM, Intel corei3,4th Gen,500gb HDD....
hope the corei3 doesn't mean much for a programmer?

what exactly are you gonna be doing? If it is web works then it is fine

Officialgarri:
The only part I still don't understand is how someone will travel without his game pad

That one shock me. I swear. It’s funny sha

Sirfemisky:
I am in HND l.

My life has been in a mess since when I was a child. My parents did care much for me when I was a child. I was a victim of child bully.

I wasted many years after my secondary school.

I now steal from them as a revenge for not teaching me self love

Take back your life now you’re an adult.
Revenge only punish the perpetrator, it doesn’t always silence the problem of the victims
Are you interested in your problem as a victim or would stealing be enough compensation for how broken you are now? If not then stop stealing except you may be telling a lie to yourself.

RemoveKebab:
In this life and dimension.

I MUST MAKE MONEY.

No go do money ritual o