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African mentality, Here in Africa some cultures don't have any where in their doctrine that a man can be impotent

distributeinc:
You can't eradicate crimes in the society,but violent crimes like armed invasion etc, are not tolerated anywhere in the world. In America you can shoot and kill an armed intruder, it is allowed. There is 'stand your ground' law, there is 'self defense' laws. Other financial crimes are more tolerable for a society, but People that kill are killed in America, China, Indonesia etc. Some People are born evil, you.cant change them.

Aside self defense(when your live is on the line or someone else life) there are no other justifications that you kill someone,, every crime has it magnitude. Financial crime of stealing public funds is more deadly than a man who murdered someone in cold blood. The after effect of some crime is more toxic than arm robbery.
Killing a criminal is not the problem here infact I have no sympathy for criminals who deserve to die and killing is. But this doesn't mean we allow citizens to do the killing, the moment citizens start killing criminals themselves it means nothing but a country with a failed security system. Killing criminals yourself means you're saying thr country security is unworthy and would not handle the case in a just way. And that is the problem of Nigeria today. I can't actually blame the rift rafts who engage in the act simply because truly Nigeria security system is a hogwash

distributeinc:
It serves as deterrent to young aspiring robbers, look we have 200mil souls in this entity, way too much people, getting rid of these scums is good for economy and society...do you know how much it takes to feed a prisoner for a year, that is waste of tax payers fund.

That is not correct, Nigeria has been participating in Jungle justice for a very long time and yet criminal activity hasn't reduced, jungle justice only suppress criminal act for a short time in an area.

Do you know that jungle justice is one of the oldest act in the world?
Wildly practiced by under-developed community, yet major crime still dwell in same community? and Do you also know that this same practice has been banned in developed countries as they later realized it didn't solve their problem?
Do you also know that Singapore celebrated a year of crime free and no arrest? yet they didn't use jungle justice?

Prevention of crime has proven over time to be far better than punishment. Nigeria has one of the poorest crime prevention mechanism.
Nigeria has been partaking in Jungle justice for a very long time now and yet the amount of criminal activities hasn't reduced. Jungle justice are carried out majorly by hoodlums, rift raft and louts and many time this are poeple who are unskilled in handling criminals, they rather burn a theif caught than find other members of the crew.
Long run of this method of justice is that people will become reluctant over time to use the modern form of justifications. They would give all form of excuses and foul reason why to avoid it and why jungle justice is better

As for Nigeria now, the state is very corrupt, but even at that many people has made jungle justice a culture, so if this same set of people meet a better Nigeria tomorrow, they would still partake in Jungle justice

distributeinc:
Any man that goes to rob is a potential killer, hence should be ready for such fate...

But what is the side effect of this kind of justice in the long run?

oluxy:
He took what he cannot create.

Crushing to death is not the right thing to do.
That's murder.

Believe me, that's not the first time that man has killed.

For him to think the last thing to do right at that moment is to crushed them mercilessly, it not his first time.

He now has murder on his neck.

Quit it already, this has been the fate of those who have engaged in jungle justice, it is a culture here, don't cry wolf about it. Also it is a culture our police are always late on scene where things happen. As for me, I am finding a way out of this country, instead of wasting my energy on the culture of some people who would never change.

makavele:
@stanliwise
U really have time?
The moment he kept dodging ques about
bad road, power supply, bad hospitals, u shud have left him.
Maybe its Apple's fault we have bad road filled with potholes.
And he dodged south africa too. They were colonized for a longer period yet no bad rounds like the ones found in Nigeria.
So whats the issue?
Rain falls and NEPA takes the "light" as its normally called, is that the fault of slave trade?

Bro don't mind me jare, at a point I was enjoying the discussion until I noticed I was talking to a deluded fellow and a nairaland troll. I wish I knew sooner. Thanks BTW

jesmond3945:
let me see the picture of your zinox desktop. If you are angry with Nigeria, thats fine but just know every country have their own problems look at what is happening in hong kong. Oil wealth cannot make you outmuscle any body but ICT and technology. If you want ferrari to be a cab here, please ask yourself whether it is a cab in UK. Apple did it because you bought into their propaganda here but china never did. Like I said oil would only give you 100 billion, ICT would give you 1 trillion. You can start by learning how to code and become the next apple.

You are just a wretched mediocre see how intelligent you escape the "bad roads, poor infrastructures, lack of power supply and insecirity and quickly jump into the apple topic" hahahhahah . since you can only blame others for Africa mismanagement and claim that apple was rich because of propaganda. I don't argue with trolls and naive mindset. Saved the remaining of your victim mentality you're carry, strong hold of the past and tell this to your children when they come to see the Africa we have created for them. Tell them the whites evil was what left us in mismanagement and poor leadership after more than 70 years of freedom. Tell them the white propaganda stop us from creating a better life for ourselves.
Don't expect a reply from me if your next response is about mediocrity and pointing fingers.

Hot18:
Pls advise everyone.

When you are dating a guy and his mother hates you and asks him to end the relationship but he is still with you and insists on continuing with the relationship.

What do u do pls. I need ur contributions.

Thank u

Sadly, you can't do much, your so-called boyfriend is the 1 and 0 here. you have to read the writings on the wall and the writing is the so-called boyfriend. Just prepare yourself to run.... just incase. Family problems in Africa could be demonic attimes

AkeNathan:
Abi oo. Painting a woman black. She doesnt want to tell us what warrants such elderly woman to despise her.

Whenever a story is one-sided then the reporter is hiding something evil and shameful.

Shame on you original poster.

You assumed and you act on assumptions. I shake my head.

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jesmond3945:
it is called self hatred. You hate yourself for being a black man. You see nothing good about being a balck man.

same excuse as always for being a mediocre.

jesmond3945:
i am sorry for you. Every country has resources even europe they have resources. Why are you laughing about zinox? Does intel manufacture processors in US? Does apple manufacture phones in US? Does ARM manufacture processors in UK? Same thing with zinox. Infact zinox is more rugged than hp or even dell. It doesnt crash easily. Very good nigerian product. Let me tell if you dont know, all tech companies design and china or japan manufactures for them because of cheap labour and lax enviromental laws.

Quite the nonsense talk about zinox, Zinox is product that hasn't expanded it's market beyond petty supplies to government, if Nigeria was a serious country, zinox would be an Icon of Africa but sadly it isn't. Mind you I have a zinox desktop here in my house. So quit the stories.
And stop trying to educate me about how phones and cars are produced by different companies, fact is you're writing a saop opera story that wouldn't explain why we have bad roads, dilapidated infrastructure and why till today we couldn't celebrate 1-year of uninterrupted power supply.

If you're not an just a fanatic you would have notice Nigeria has oil that when properly managed the wealth would out muscle even the US and China combined together. You would be shocked that Ferrari would be a Cab here in Nigeria. Almost all Nigerian would be millionaires. You are really just annoying me with your self pity talk. Africa is the most blessed of all continent if you talk of natural resources but Apple inc Net worth comfortably out muscled the full GDP of the entire Africa.
We should be truely ashamed. I shake my head for you and your medocrity mindset.

talk is cheap, only gullibles will follow that link.

Accountantgener:
A nairalander who claims to sell data,he is a scammer I just sent the sum of 5,000naira to him today and he gave me a non existing code to use in checking my data balance which is *131*65*2*1*2# and that code does not actually exist,his real names are AGU KENECHUKWU,ACCESS BANK, A/C NOS IS 0761393797 and his phone number is 09065287121 and he no longer picks my call and has temporarily switched off his phone since after I became his victim and started telling the world on nairaland. I had to join nairaland today so as to pass the message to the whole world to know .Pls share this message across to everyone until the whole world gets it to help a neighbour avoid been scammed online.

Baba dem don barb you head o.

jesmond3945:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFwHdykbHbU
Listen to a true african. Remove self hatred from your psyche. Enough said

I am enjoying the blame game. so because I pointed out our laziness and crude ways of doing things, it is now called hatred abi? Keep the blame game rolling.

jesmond3945:
Are the rulers not africans? is still the same thing. It is actually a black vs white thing because you don't know how this people see you. You live in a big bubble. I dont think you have lived with whites for more than a year. I am not saying religion is our problem, I said they gave us their own religion and way of life, their education but you cannot use another man's way of life to solve your problem.. The man stole the money went to the west to keep it and they gladly took it from him to develop their country, thats how you should put it. Then when it was demanded back from them, they started giving stories. Why has dieziani never been repatriated? The white encourage corruption in Africa because they benefit from it but smile at you that they are against it. Dangote is building a refinery. Algeria has refinery, even morroco and south africa. it is only Nigeria that ships it out because of bad leaders and a country united under a white man's experiment. Is phone manufacturing your problem? Countries that manufacture phones don't have crude oil. Does Uk or USA manufacture phone? they only do design and ship it to china to manufacture for them.
Is Paystack not enough for you? Isn't Nigerians manufacturing drones and cars? What of Zinox? The truth you are a black man who sees the whiteman as better than africans not knowing that our circumstance and culture is different.

Hahaha you're a serious joke, I am laughing really hard. Did I hear zinox or whatever you call it? Bro with our resources, The white men wouldn't stand a chance to compete with us at anything, the moment you realize we are underperforming here in Africa the better for you.

jesmond3945:
give me the link of the historians who are black men that wrote that against their people, who never for one day took notes from a whiteman. Those men who allegedly sold thier people are dead and would not be here to defend themselves or is is the red indians in america or the aborigines in australia? Liberia was not colonized because it was a country formed by ex-slaves.
https://uhurusolidarity.org/2014/09/08/next-time-someone-says-but-africans-sold-themselves-into-slavery-send-them-this-article/
This is the real account from an african point of view and not propaganda sold by the west. Thats why I love china, if African can emulate them we will go very far. You call me a kid and I call you a self hating black man who is not even proud of his heritage.

Stop mincing my words, I never said Africans sold themselves into slavery, I said It's rulers also participated in the slavery. How can one sell itself into a journey of torture and torment. Didn't I specify than whitemen bought black slaves from cheifs, kings and rulers. So stop twisting this into black vs white. Africa has rested on this slavery of a thing so much. It is high time we develop our selfs, ridding off what ever advancement in modern science and knowledge we have reached now is nothing but backwardness. Mind you the white didn't bring religion to us, our fathers and mothers worship gods and the likes, Christianity and islam is not the problem of Nigeria. A man that stole billions of Naira without been arrested and money retrieved is the source of our downfall. Majority of Africa country are poor because of mismanagement and corruption. Did the white teach us this corrupt practices that they themselves don't do in their country?
Africa has alot of natural resources, but all we do is to ship them out to the whites to refine for us. Is that the way to go? Are the white responsible for this? Are the white responsible for Africans not having a company that manufacture phones here In Africa? Did they force us to buy their Apple and sony?
Bro please stop this game already, you could go till night and complain bitterly of all the past evil Africans has experienced but it is not a justification that Africa has not proven themselves in recent times.
I am a proud blackman but I need to state the truth about my own continent Africa. and the truth is this..... Posterity would not be happy with us if they find us like this.

This is what china you mentioned did, they simple developed themselves and not sit all day and point fingers, although recently some of there action are becoming overblown but that is because they are now self sufficient.

ngwababe:
Remember it was the guy that cheated on her oo but then, who's going to marry her after the use and dump, na you? Abeg, make wetin the guy remain continue in their family, who wan chop food wey another person remain?

where does this mentality of woman being a food comes from. why is it that the men isn't also a chop and remain? chai.... Bro! Be educated.

anonymous1759:
From your reply we can't argue sorry. Bible is written in parables and everything in it has interpretation. You read the bible like story book. Good luck.

Haha I certainly wouldn't bother arguing with someone who said masturbation was unclean. I only would imagine how you would tell your patient to produce their sperm for sperm count if you were a doctor. silly religious men everywhere.

anonymous1759:
I got the actual verse.

You certainly don't understand the Bible to start with. where was masturbation found there? And was it referred as unclean?

Koleman:
The guilt we feel is God's way of telling us it is wrong. Don't allow Satan tell us otherwise.. Tell the oga trying to confuse you to read Matt 5:27-28. Let's be real here. there is no way anyone would want to mastubate without having a sexual mental image in mind. And Our Saviour Jesus already gave us the answer as to whether thoughts of sex is a sin or not.

Jesus never said the thought of sex is sinful Anywhere. Please avoid heresies and blasphemy.

Inteltower:
I remember saying that masturbation can be caused by a lot of things especially having high libido ..I acknowledged biological drives.
I only shared an experience.. not making anything up, am open minded to listen to what others say

if you knew any better, you would know that the spirit also controls the physical.
thanks for your comment

Stop shooting yourself in the foot. I tell you this you will remain with your problems if you keep treating your problems the wrong way. For the fact that the spiritual controls the physical doesn't mean all physical things become useless in itself, mind you many physical things you see are also made from the spirit. So is psychology, science and all.

Your problem of masturbating been spiritual is a blown off from reality, Little do you know you have same problem as a drunkard, drug addict, gluttony chain smoker. It's called addiction majorly being controlled by the dopamine hormones and other hormones. The sin in it is the behavior itself, you can get better by just moderating them, because those substance are not demonic, they only should be used correctly if need be, food, drugs, sex, drinks etc.

You just need medical and psychological help that's all.
When you mention spiritual angle, then it means there is now a spiritual force making you to do this, making it sounds like your kind of masturbation is now different from all other people. And if that's is true, then masturbation wasn't your problem, if you say so then you're cutting leaves, you need exorcism.

Simple truth is that you are deciding to play the naive character of a typical over-religious man even if though you deny it by saying you give credence to science which you don't believe yourself.

jesmond3945:
in every society there would always be a willing tool. Even judas betrayed Jesus. Do you know whether they were manipulated and threatened to do such after much firepower and carnage? Of course the history writers would not tell you that. Lol. Imagine raping someone for 75 years and then leaving him alone for 65 years, what strength is left for such an individual? The israelites wandered in the desert for 40 years, you can read exodus to know the consequences of that. Who told you that? Lol. Go and read history my friend. This people killed and raped our people even as colonial masters. Look at what is happening now were foreign bosses are enslaving and victimizing their nigerian employees. Why did they kill thomas sankara through proxy? You think this people are not ruling africa by proxy? Why did france intervene in Gabon?
I am telling you the whiteman sees himself as more superior than you. Even a 3 year old white girl sees you as a monkey and I am trying to tell you how to overcome which china did but you are still stuck in a history the whiteman handed down to you. Read chinua achebe it would help you.

All I see here is blame game. The historians were not white men! point of correction, they were blackmen from this continent who took years of research and study of archeology. one of them is Stanley Igwe.
You certainly have bought into the blame game. many Big villages raided and destroy other smaller villages and sold the captures as slave in exchange for mirror, alcoholic drinks, weapons.
Almost at no point did the whitemen entered using bruteforce. Kings sold their slaves and criminals in numbers, bro I can go on. Who ever needs apologies should ask it from Africans themselves, the story was so much horror that even many African refuse to believe it. The white man and blackman particpated in the slave trade.
I see you're a kid who hasn't spent time to learn about africa society. About two country that wasn't colonized which where Ethiopia and Liberia. Let me ask you, have you watched a documentary about them and noticed that they are very undeveloped?
South Africa that was colonized most till today is the most developed Africa state.
Bro, Let not lie to ourselves, we have alot of work to do, No white man weakened us because if you use slavery as a cover then it mean both the white and our forefathers weakened us. and maybe the descendants or the believers of the forefather are still around.

Abcruz:
Instead of complaining why not take the lead and be the change you wish to see in Africa.

stop sounding silly, so for me to make an observation is now complaining. or your dictionary don't have the word "complain"? or are you just ignorant of it?

spyglaxx:
Alchemedes studied in egypt. The original egyptians were blacks
The first surgery was performed in africa.

Bro get off that fact already, it has been written and there is no need reiterating it. Africans should stand up and develop it society to support innovation and research for modern science.

jesmond3945:
History made us understand they made us slaves and plundered our resources. That was the only their brain told them to . Would you say the same of the chinese? would you say the same for philip emeagwali? or the owners of paystack? Their efforts are helping mankind too, don't you think so. Are you telling me that the black man has never achieved anything?
https://thinkgrowth.org/14-black-inventors-you-probably-didnt-know-about-3c0702cc63d2
is the author of the above link stupid? Don't you see you are subscribing to what James Watson nobel prize winner said about our intelligence. By the year 2022, I would be the first African man to expand the knowledge about Post Quantum Cryptography. Would you downplay that achievement because I am a black man?
They colonised you for 75 years, gave you religion, gave you language, gave you their books, how do you expect to develop. Go to china, they have destroyed everything west. When trump wanted to crumble huawei, they brought HarmonyOS. Thats what Africa needs to do. We need to destroy everything west. Look at Innoson, would you want to buy an Innoson, no. You would prefer toyota.
What do you mean intelligence? Do you know in my village, local healers are healing more people from ailments more than doctors trained by western education. Is that not intelligence? They even live longer than people in the city. More wisdom, is that not intelligence?
Please cure yourself from self hatred. I have lived in europe long enough to tell you that.

You are good at twisting history and cherry picking events to just drive home your point. First, you didn't tell us that our African kings and chiefs took part in the slave trade, if you deny it, then you didn't read history. Westerners has left us alone for more than 65 years now and yet Africa can't seem to get it agenda in the right path. The western system of Government was far better than our kingship ways of ruling, then it was a throne used to oppress and carry out unspeakable evil and suppression. If you say I am lying, read how Africans participated in the slave trade and I bet you will hate most of our kings today.
You can keep up the blame game, at least that is what Africa has been doing for long.
Note I am not talking about black man or white who is superior here, infact no race is superior.
I am only talking Africa vs Western society. So please don't drag racism into this discussion.

KvngEric:
You are quite correct. But i don't look to the bible to tell me if its a sin or not. I look within myself, if i feel guilty after doing it, its a sin, if i cannot proudly do it infront of everyone i know, its a sin. If i keep thinking about it while feeling bad, its a sin. I believe the conscience is the best indicator of sin. I have been lying so much that I'm beginning to think its not a sin but the thing is that each time i lie, i ask myself, was it worth it? The answer is always no.

Your judgement of a situation isn't a yardstick of what is a sin to God. Feeling guilty out of ignorance or been naive is your own cross to carry. I understand the part where we were told not to do things if our mind is against it, but it was talking about personal choice and not a decision we preach to others, if you can't eat meat don't preach to other to stop meat, it is a personal choice the like. Also lying being a sin is a complicated matter, Not telling someone the truth is not just the sin but what effect has the action caused?. If I lie to a hired killer about the location of his victim, would I say "NO, it wasn't necessary"? Did our parent not lie to us that when you pick food on the floor that devil has eaten it? We were also told if we eat orange seeds it will grow in our belly. But the reason was just for us to not pick things on the floor or eat seed of orange. So the choice is yours.
My advise is you should try to understand the scriptures better.

jesmond3945:
Why do you want to downplay the achievements of blacks? Why have you bought the unfair propaganda of the western world that they are more superior than us? Thank God for china. China has shown to us that if we believe in ourself we can outclass the white people. Even here in europe, the chinese dont care or asslick the white because you know why they are are proud and believe in themselves. The code you are talking about was designed by white why dont you go to the foundation of this code and create somehing new? Look at the nobel prize and turing prize, created by the western world for themselves but look at blacks dying to get nobel prize. If not for good conscience, I am ready to kick the arse of any whiteman.

Easy said than done. A white man is very much like a blackman but history has helped us understand that they think very differently. The whiteman seem to be more iincline to innovations and development of his society and ways of behavior, but a typical blackman is out there for the good of his family and himself, If you doubt me one this take a look at the typical African Society, virtually 80% of the the African Society are filled with poverty stricken citizens, lack of basic facility and gross illiteracy. But this seem to be reverse of the white men. In my opinion, Africa has a lot of work to do. The chanting of believe in yourself has not be proven by Africans. We can do it but we need decade of readjustment.

Another misinformation, masturbation is not a ain anywhere in the Bible. Simple understanding of the human system would make OP understand why he masturbate and simple psychology would help him understand why he was addicted to it. But instead OP decided to spiritualize it and cast and bind.
Typical behaviour of an over-religious Africa man.

SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help

why do I have the feeling you have an antisocial character that ladies don't like.

nurex01:
you don start again. Where you don't confirm something and started publishing just to trend. The guy is at the Police Station and would be charged for an attempted RAPE AND ROBBERY. Although, the lady had bruises on her mouth and d guy clothes stained too due to the struggle. From what we heard at the Scene, he wasn't able to Penetrate.

No so, all rape cases are almost.... in the ears of the public....we know the antics,...They are trying to protect her from rape stigmatization.