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RomanceRe: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by stanvesco(m): 9:58pm On Dec 04, 2019
[quote author=mrpoul post=84604585]I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

Check for ilegend and ubunja here on Nairaland. Follow dia teachings carefully except the ones your moralvalues won't allow you to.
PetsRe: I Just Got A Puppyyyyyyy by stanvesco(m): 12:12am On Dec 01, 2019
treasurevee9:
Got myself a puppy today and I'm super excited. Say hello to a first time dog owner. Don't know what to name her yet. This baby girl is going to make me go bankrupt cos she can eat for africa.
Call her Cleopatra cool
TravelRe: My Terrible Experience With #landstarexpress Motors Luxurious Bus Company. by stanvesco(op): 11:25pm On Nov 29, 2019
Oyindamoninuola:
Please do they carry passengers from Ibadan to Kaduna.
I have been trying to reach them, I couldn't get through. Please help, its urgent
The last time I checked...you can call the number In the post. You book a seat from Lagos and the pick you up at iwo-road.
Reconfirm dis please by calling them.
TravelRe: My Terrible Experience With #landstarexpress Motors Luxurious Bus Company. by stanvesco(op): 11:24pm On Nov 29, 2019
naijadrivablog:
Landstar are king of "night bus" journeys. That their Yutong buses are cool.

But OP, you sounded like a company staff of Lamdstar Express.
I am a medical Doctor
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Should I Have Answered This Interviewer's Question? by stanvesco(m): 4:30pm On Nov 29, 2019
[quote author=MisterJeph post=84463061]Hello Nairalanders.

Hmmmmmmm,
Well your hesitation was not necessary. You should have started off slowly and think as you go.
If I was in your shoes( dis is me hooting my trumpet tho);

Well, sir/ma'am I cannot necessarily say I am creative as that might seem I am blowing my trumpet or being unnecessarily hyperbolic,but I would say I am ok in the creative department.
For example,
While I was a student, I did XYZ with my student Union that gave them a very profitable year.

I advised my Department to jump into a Printing and photocopying business that enabled us stay afloat with little need for soliciting funds.
I have also raised a couple of thousands by just being a man in the middle in multiple businesses.
Well sir/ma'am,
I must say I was an untrained Creator back then and I was able to hold my fort, and I strongly believe if given the chance to work with such an amazing team as found in your bank.....I believe my creative genie would be unleashed.
And if it is anything to consider, I am currently writing a book on "the woes of the Ex-corper", or "The tales of a Hungry jobseeker" (elicits laughter from your panel of judges)

The end!
CelebritiesRe: Winniefred Nwoko: My Eyes, Boobs Get Me The Most Attention by stanvesco(m): 11:38am On Nov 29, 2019
Eaztzide:
Hanty that'll be looking like low budget Tiwa Savage
Kai My God!
Dammmn
CelebritiesRe: Caption This Photo Of Don Jazzy Eating (best Comment Wins) by stanvesco(m): 1:06am On Nov 27, 2019
Tiwa Savage; oga don jazzy shey you hear to that CNN declared Burna Boy as biggest artist in Africa! undecided undecided
Donjazzy; I CAN KILL MYSELF oooo, allow me to flex ooo
TravelRe: 15 Million Naira Cash Or Relocate To Canada, Which Will You Choose? by stanvesco(m): 8:06pm On Nov 25, 2019
PalmcreditNIG:
If given the opportunity to pick between 15 million naira or to relocate to Canada, which will you pick?
Me i will pick the money oooooo
I will collect the money and relocate to UK instead.
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Being CYBER-BULLIED Online; Share Your Experience by stanvesco(op): 2:32am On Nov 24, 2019
Lol...funny how you look back and SMH.

Cyber-bulling online is akin to bullying offline.
CareerRe: Is 80k A Bad Salary? The Story Of Seyi Of UBA by stanvesco(m): 12:01am On Nov 02, 2019
iammo:
a single bike 1500, or 11k per week ... i dont know if the bankers lives a better life my point is what they gross monthly, in fact if you can get your bike man to work for konga , or gig the bike earns 7k daily

best passive income ever is transport

My guy let me just say well well well, "transportation business" dey ur hand. That bin said,

If transportation business no give u high blood pressure ehhhhhhn......
Let me just believe you are favored in that line and fortunate to meet good riders.....


"Transportation business"
grin grin grin
Never again

And I won't advise anyone to leave an 80k job to do okada!
Abeggggg
CareerRe: Is 80k A Bad Salary? The Story Of Seyi Of UBA by stanvesco(m): 12:00am On Nov 02, 2019
iammo:
a single bike 1500, or 11k per week ... i dont know if the bankers lives a better life my point is what they gross monthly, in fact if you can get your bike man to work for konga , or gig the bike earns 7k daily

best passive income ever is transport

My guy let me just say well well well, "transportation business" dey ur hand. That bin said,

If transportation business no give u high blood pressure ehhhhhhn......
Let me just believe you are favored in that line and fortunate to meet good riders.....


"Transportation business"
grin grin grin
Never again
EducationRe: Share Your Most Embarrassing Moment On Campus by stanvesco(m): 11:26pm On Oct 27, 2019
Billyanger:
Bross honestly every time i think and picture the whole story in my head, its like a heavy blow to my chest, my hands and feet turns cold, na girl wey say I done dey enjoy her company already and i am already getting find fond of her, she has good vibes and mad work ethics ( academics and bussiness wise). Anytime I try to get angry with her she begs me with tears and sincerity in her eyes, pity apart i think i like this girl and i really wan retain her but i wish she had just denied that news that I heard tho na sense i take ask her before she tell me the truth. I'm still trying hard to get over the horror stories and i am even trying harder to erase the affection i have had for her but it's just hard. I done spoil her with anything a student girl can want in a relationship, because I like my babe classy n Behind, i wish I have not done all that before I hear this gist....i have resolved in me that if i see a better girl, i will simply shift my attention, i don't want hi-bp.
Bro, even if she's had a party, Abortion etc,
All that trully matters is that you guys love yourselves. Such babe is like fluid...they practical blend into the container they r poured into......you have the chance to make the best and sweetest wife you can get.....dont blow this away because of a past ok..... abegggggg... please......


In no distant time, you guys wud be out of campus and away from the amerbors etc
RomanceRe: I Never Knew I Could Forgive A Girl That Sent This Message To Me by stanvesco(m): 10:59am On Oct 20, 2019
DonEd:
Everybody is laughing at her use of English. Does anybody wonder the frustration she went through in the hands of the OP? Y'all saw how she was just trying to pour out the suffering when they were together and all u see is her errors in writing? Na wa o.

Make una ask the OP wetin he do her.
Honestly I was taken aback by the unnecessary attack on her use of english. This lady is obviously crying out for help and even threatening suicide.
Please op like she rightly stated,leave her alone. Love isn't by force! Do not push her to her grave. Let her be!.
RomanceRe: Help by stanvesco(m): 10:39am On Oct 13, 2019
Selfkon ;Dtrol:
your story is quite funny too lol. There’s no amount of things we haven’t done o. Virtually everything!
It's eida u r overdoing it(it's too good and makes her panic and worried of loosing u) or u ain't doing good.
However it seems u r doing good.
So let me advise u a little, do not leave dis babe for any reason oh grin grin
Where u r lacking from ur writeup is in the "sweet mouth* department. Have u ever heard of reverse psychologyhuh Use it often on her,pet her,pamper her and always woo her. Dia is no need to be ashamed to be softhearted to the one u love ok. Nothing shameful in dat. Have u Eva seen a romance movie where d guy treated d woman sooooo lovinglyhuh??


Bro dias no shame in loving ur woman,wooing her over n over,and showing her lovey-dovey eyes
RomanceRe: Help by stanvesco(m): 10:19am On Oct 13, 2019
Selfkontrol:
Good morning everyone. I had to create a new account just to post this to stay anonymous. Forgive any grammatical error pls.


I have this gf of over 6 years.(note: there has been breakups between this period and even one that lasted for two years but we always come back) We started dating since my 200 level in school and there has been ups and downs between us. Quarrels, fights over all little things. She’s 24while I’m 28. Well towards final year we broke up because of a lot of things that happened. I want to be brief as possible.

I must say she’s a loving, supportive gf through out my university days but threw in the towel towards final year and started dating someone else because she couldn’t cope with my brokenness anymore. Well a lot contributed to that too. I was hurt and bitter for weeks but I didn’t blame her because she tried staying up to that moment. Even my friends where surprised becos she’s a beautiful girl. Al those period she never cheated. But to be frank, I have never seen an insecured, controlling, immature, obsessive, nagging gf all my life. I know I also had my shortcomings but this girl is worse. All our fights we had was not because I cheated but because she always assume I do. She always suspect. She’s too fast to conclude even when I’m so pure to the heart.

Fast forward to months later when things became well for me, for the fact she never cheated on me, and she really helped me during school days tho never stayed still the end. Well she was still young and immature. Being so kind and grateful, I rekindled the love we had becos we actually do love our selves. I don’t know if I was stupid doing that or just being grateful for all what we went through but one thing I know is I never regretted my decision.

Time has come and gone and we are still dating and also dealing with her nagging attitude and sometimes very rude when she’s angry. ( after school she went back to Lagos where she is based while I’m based in Warri) so I fell distance contributes too. But honestly I do ask my self if this is the girl I really want to wife because I actually love her and wants to wife her because she’s a good girl. But she nags a lot, too rude, verbally abusive, wants to be controlling. Because of this girl I never had any female friends in school because we where living together after some point. Well mostly because I couldn’t afford my own rent in full so we had to team up and rent a house. I was also isolated from my male friends.

I’m really in a big dilemma to be frank. Sometimes I’m scared if I can’t get a good girl that can be faithful and loyal as her because girls of nowadays are something else. Or I’m just stucked with her. I have actually not tried having a real gf durin our breakups because I wasn’t just ready for something new so I really don’t know. I’m confused as hell. . This girl don’t give me peace of mind sometimes. This moment she’s cool then next minute she’s something else. One incident that happened. I was on a video cal with her and an urgent call came in. I told her baby give me a few Sec to pick the call. After picking that call this girl flamed up and started giving me attitude. That I was supposed to finish that video cal with her before picking any call without even asking me who was calling. Well I’m just stating that to give you guys the kind of silly attitudes she exhibits.

The one that happened just of recent. Just last night. We didn’t speak the whole of Friday because we where avoiding each other so Saturday I called her but she gave me attitude. I left her. Later in the evening I said let me hangout with my friend. A female friend tho Out of the blues her calls came in and I picked. She asked me where I was I told her I went out. She said with who. I said must I go with someone if I want to go out like I can’t I go out alone. She started nagging and requested for a video call. I picked the call and showed her around to tell her I was alone but she never believed anything. She kept on nagging. Kept calling me repeatedly oo. See me case. Someone that didn’t have my time earlier. Well it got to a point I never picked her calls nor video calls anymore partly because the place was very noisy and because it’s embarrassing shouting on the phone and explaining to a gf in present of people. Well I have said enough.

Guys I need advice. I feel like breaking up with this girl. I don’t know if I’m just being selfish or making the right decision. I might look stupid to some people right now but all critics is allowed. I will share screenshots of the messages she sent me when I wasn’t picking her calls
Let me tell u a story...

I had a male turkey so huge that he could barely mate the female turkeys. It made Dem hate him and always attack him. They extended d hate to me,but I had to pet Dem...
My question is; Have u made her a woman? If u haven't den shes just acting out her homes on u. U mustn't have sex before marriage,but u must make ur woman orgasm frequently even though u don't penetrate her. Do u give her frequent orgasms?
NYSCRe: Dilemma Of An NYSC Corp Member (a Must Read) Please advise by stanvesco(m): 1:18am On Oct 13, 2019
[quote author=simplelex post=83081383][/quote]A fruit in ur hand is worth all the trees in d forest.
You already shot urself in d foot by informing "ur enemy d director of ur progress".


Honestly , don't let go of dat job for whatever reason!!!!!.
Why not try d relocation option?
Or try d "sorting d devil option".
It seems u r not "street smart" tho,because with 170k u were given by dat company,u wud have doused dis issue with barely 20%
Science/TechnologyRe: Why Are New Energy Solutions Being Suppressed by stanvesco(m): 7:06am On Oct 10, 2019
Ladylite:
The issue here is market monopoly, there are cabals that do not want new energy sources because it will ruin their sales of generators....

I use a 35000 naira unit that powers my entire 3 bedroom flat, I bought it from jiji over a year ago... I wish everyone had it, generator noise won't exist anymore and night would become more saner and quiet
Please send us pictures oh....I am interested
RomanceRe: See Pre-wedding And Wedding Shots Of Two Nairalanders... by stanvesco(op): 1:33pm On Oct 02, 2019
Defenderalert:
What hate? I prayed for your daughter to meet and get laid by Ubunja replicas. Hows that hate?

A better man indeed. Ubunja is clearly a Frustrated bachelor looking for who to join him
So I replied a post you made......and u replied with ur initial post..... Anyway I pray u excrete d bile and hate. It wud take u nowere my bro...... Cos u can actually read and pass without dropping hate words!!!!¡
It's tins like dis dat make d world a difficult place to live in.
Do I have to believe in what u believe? Do I?
Do I have to agree with what u see as right? Lol.,

Whatever d case tho.,.shed d hate bro..,.....d world wud be a more peaceful place if everyone is allowed to thread his or her own pathway......
RomanceRe: See Pre-wedding And Wedding Shots Of Two Nairalanders... by stanvesco(op): 11:48am On Oct 02, 2019
[quote author=Defenderalert post=82764182]Man!
That's so much hate in one message shocked angry
You neither know ubunja nor myself and u av already garnered so much hate.
Lol.....
Anyway I totally sympathise with you. learn to differentiate btw the message and messenger, social media and reality.
Let me reiterate once again; the teaching of Ubunja wud epp any man to become successful with women, it would make relationships spicy and exciting for women and lastly that's what women want.
You see it as a teaching to build misogynist, but in all sincerity it only help creates a saner society.
Lol,....
I wish u well and also wish ur offsprings a better future.
RomanceRe: See Pre-wedding And Wedding Shots Of Two Nairalanders... by stanvesco(op): 12:59am On Sep 25, 2019
Queenserah26:
Congratulations
Thank u
RomanceRe: See Pre-wedding And Wedding Shots Of Two Nairalanders... by stanvesco(op): 12:58am On Sep 25, 2019
Okoroawusa:
Oh boy! You too much
Lol.... nothing dia na..... I just have some very keen memory of tins....
RomanceRe: See Pre-wedding And Wedding Shots Of Two Nairalanders... by stanvesco(op): 4:27pm On Sep 24, 2019
Okoroawusa:
U even remember the day?


U for kukuma give us the exact time
12.05am sitting in front of Amina hostel.,.....the toasting lasted for 4hrs......8pm to 12am..,...she used 5mins for interrogation ,stylish shakara but laslass she said yes
RomanceRe: See Pre-wedding And Wedding Shots Of Two Nairalanders... by stanvesco(op): 4:35am On Sep 24, 2019
Defenderalert:
Cingratulations dear Nairalanders. HML.

Thank God Nairalanders are evidently not swayed by Ubunja gay antics. UBUNJA another heart attack. Keep wasting your time in your MiseduGAY. MOFO. grin
Lolllllllllling....trust me bro....u need to copy and save all the teaching of ubunja. Teachings like that wud save u from alot of sleepless nights.
If u carefully go Tru Dem, u wud get d message.
The funny thing is that such practices wud make ur woman love u d more....trust me
TravelRe: My Terrible Experience With #landstarexpress Motors Luxurious Bus Company. by stanvesco(op): 4:30am On Sep 24, 2019
Lizzyparis:
Thank you for the review. I'll be traveling from Kano to Lagos Next Week and will sure try landstar wink
Hi ,I am just seeing dis.
Did u eventually travel with Dem?
They have a park in Kano so I believe it was easy for you.
Safe trip back
TV/MoviesRe: Oluwasegun Kosemani Lami, Jackye's Boyfriend: I Spent N1.5m On BBNaija Voting by stanvesco(m): 2:34pm On Aug 29, 2019
SolarKing1:
So, this guy couldn't take advamtage of the unbelievable August Ending Promo to give 23 poor houses 10 years+ free Electricity with that money?! 68k Per 1 of our Fueless Solar Gen now. Very good for Barber Shop, SelfContain Room, Sales Shops, etc.
Lets chat 08063152970
InvestmentRe: Legit Way To Make $300+ In 24hrs by stanvesco(m): 8:21pm On Jul 31, 2019
ibroonly:
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BusinessRe: If You Win ₦460 Million Tomorrow, What Are You Doing?? by stanvesco(m): 11:29am On Jul 30, 2019
Kai.,....
My life go just set.....
Well first tin first.....I wud just credit dis my landlord whey don dey turn eyes look me like fowl whey Dem carry him pikin....


Den I wud fix my motor(lolllllllllling) ,
Den I think I wud breath down a little first (hey I wud also quit my second job joor and rest)
Wud fix d remaining money in the bank and chill for 90days,.... I sure do know what to do with alot of money..... But I won't rush oh....
AgricultureRe: BROILER FARMING/BUSINESS MANUAL FOR SMALL SCALE FARMERS by stanvesco(m): 8:01pm On Jul 29, 2019
henrijin:
List your e-book for sale on Booksale.com.ng

Sharing would be deactivated so you earn for every download.
Please how can one deactivate sharing of ebooks?
Thank you
EducationRe: The Letter From Senior Staff Of ABU, Zaria That Is Trending Online by stanvesco(m): 1:22pm On Jul 29, 2019
Menzy86:
don't bother man. As an ABU graduate, I wont join issues with these mushroom University graduates here. The fakeness of that letter stinks. As I said, don't bother!
Silence is golden in most cases , but sometimes u speak out in order to change the narrative. I always tell people that it isn't about the school oh,it's the STUDENT that matters.....
Anyway I get your point bro
EducationRe: The Letter From Senior Staff Of ABU, Zaria That Is Trending Online by stanvesco(m): 7:10pm On Jul 28, 2019
Cmanforall:
Maybe the typist or whosoever that's in charge of letterhead papers can be responsible for the errors you noted.
This isn't related to my school abegggggg
EducationRe: The Letter From Senior Staff Of ABU, Zaria That Is Trending Online by stanvesco(m): 6:53pm On Jul 28, 2019
bionixs:
Oga, you are a very smart liar
I wish you can say that to my face; OFFLINE!.

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