₦airaland Forum

prinsam30:
Pls somebody should wake me up I'm seriously dreaming

Guy i wish this can be just a dream!

Well, great men great things they must endure- William Shakespeare

Go ahead

mrrandomguy:
You didn't say anything

Really?

Sometimes a man's problem is acquired.
Sometimes a man's problem began from...hi.
A word is enough for...

Imo state governor 2023 by the mercy of God

Heavenly father in humility i pray Thee to keep him stronger and longer. Not for my will but thy will be done on him.

Get well soon my elder brother Xavi Hernandez Star

Any wrong road will lead to wrong destination. Eventually you will start all over...in the hard way
What she did is wrong, hope she's ready to do more for his promotion?

Just coincidence.

EbukaHades10:
Small thing, everybody don "react'. The main reason people are angry is probably bcus it's on social media.

When we were young, most of us played with only pant especially when rain fell and we played in the rain.

If her parents allow her use the pool (if they have one), this is probably what she'll still wear.

Not justifying anything but it's not everything u put on social media. Some celebrities do same for their kids.

But that make up is too much for a child.


B4 u quote me, calm down and digest what I wrote. Life is not that hard

For your mind you have made a point?
Of what moral or social value is that picture or the alcohol?
Well, as a man is...so are his things

When other wise women are projecting and propelling theirs to excellence she's busy developing her to olosho.
This is the best time to develop her brain towards future not to develop her eye lashes, pant and bra or painting of the face.

Train up a child when he/ she is young, when they get old they won't depart from it.

This is beautiful.

Stallione:
Pu..ss...y don cause many many tinz.Oya continue to dey knack nah.

See how this woman just send a young man to sabbatical leave. From sabbatical leave to compulsory self isolation down to early retirement.
But why not fight what you can win? No matter the quantity of drugs he takes, nature will separate it.

Funny enough she's blaming the man for putting her in trouble!

Orces:
Obviously I was attracted to her, an underage.

Underaged? It will end in tears...run

Empty sheet

Can you imagine! Of what use is this thread? Please never take this mess to front page because of the innocent minds.

SoNature:
Had

The election is yet to be conducted Prof.

Wishing him the best. If i have the right to vote...he has my vote.

Thanks

dukeprince50:
Disadvantages:
1. she dies before you

On the contrary only God knows who die first.

dingbang:
Will she buy me a house in my name?

Is house the pivotal to marriage?

Advantage? Yes. A lot.
1. Maturity in decision
2. Tend to be calm
3. Love sincerely
4. Financiallly ok at least/not total dependent
5. Tend to nag a little or no nagging
6. Husband's stomach needs before makeup
7. Love their kids dearly
8. High tendency to be a Royal and
9. Very understanding
Yet, those items above notwithstanding, the younger...the better because of family duties ahead.

Imagine

KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

[/b]We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.[b]

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers!

May God keep you stronger. That's the beauty of having wise old men. They shall live long, yes longer with good health.
What an ELDER sees from far, even youths within cannot.

@65yr + she will pay to have people around than staying alone.
Family above fame.

Ubiman:
What of his own fucking family that issued out of his loins and was crafted with the love of the woman he calls his wife? Dead brain commentator! �

I couldn't read meaning to this.
Could you please kindly explain.

cedricksly:
it is better to keep mute and be assumed a fool than open ur mouth just like u did now to clear all doubt of you being a fool... So the woman has no right to lament right?? If u like ignore and neglect your immediate family and spend all you have on your life extended family... When u die, automatically you place your kids and wife in suffering... Shey na u love ur family pass ode... OP pls I dint support buying properties without the knowledge of you husband, it has broken so many homes... Make him see reasons why he should invest in his immediate family..

Why name calling? Because we view her on different lens makes another a fool? Why pontificating on issues beyond your comprehension?
You just demonstrated that though you maybe educated in mind but sadly not in morals. Well.

zedegit:
How is it the reason?l

How do you explain that the mofo hasn't built a house but his younger siblings who

So the 2k stipend he's dashing them will hinder his progress? Will prevent him from building his own house?

zedegit:
How is it the reason?l

How do you explain that the mofo hasn't built a house but his younger siblings who

So the 2k stipend he's dashing them will hinder his progress? Will prevent him from building his own house?

flokii:
So after frowning.. what Next?

There are many ways a girl can lose her virginity e.g cycling, exercise, sports etc. The wife may be right or might be telling lies.

See reasoning!

"I have saved enough to buy a land and I am not planning to include his name in the property."

This is obviously the reason for your lamentations.
Modified:
For those quoting me wrongly always bear in mind that family is blood however bad yours may be.
Helping family will never stop his progress unless he has no plan.

In spite of how you twist a wrong...it never make a right for Candle bears no cost lighting Another.