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Reincarnated: Was/is @Spade your e-crush?

Nah, he's not. Just an e-admirer. I hope that settles it

carujmonella: Time to activate sideline mode. This ochon madness won't obviously stop

Sharap dia ochon.

ToyinDipo: Is that true SOM?

I don't even know what the 'G' means.

Reincarnated: I can't help u. You're annoying me. StateOfMind will be feeling like a G

And by 'G', you mean

Reincarnated: Hmmmm hmm. It makes sense die. Help me talk this brother out of his miserableness and let's start building #TOGIFT....

Lmao @ building togift. When you both can't even build your own, you are thinking of building for others. Shior!

N wtf is miserableness..??

Obrafour: stop beign delusional.

Lmao.. See 2 patients accusing each other of the same ailment.

Did you miss the part I mentioned earlier this morning that I wonder why it took me so long to figure obrafour was ghkwame. For some reasons I just thought the handle belongs another ghanian.

*bait*

Reincarnated: She said she was 8 months pregnant right? Email her

Oh, Did she? My bad then. I guess I read sth else on that pregnancy thread she posted weeks back. I hope she's safe all the same.

Jekyll & Hyde:

I swear you and ella fit well well..same style..I really gbadun jekella.. Please continue to treat her right so she doesn't slip away bro. .

Reincarnated: What if she went into labor

God forbid. Tm jnr never term yet.. She's fine.

ToyinDipo: That won't change anything. I'm brooding

Awwwwwwww....

Reincarnated: LMFAOOO. Ok I am sorry.

Its aite babe

On another note, I usually do not comment about dillish anymore, but what is wrong with that girl and this her coded naija trip.

ella.b:
Married to who o

Reincarnated: StateOfMind you can come out of your guest viewership and tell me if Ella B is really about to be married because I did not take that statement likely.

Sharap dia. I view other threads too so stop assuming I'm always one of the guests viewing this thread .

ToyinDipo: SOM said you should leave her name there that she is still available for me to pick. *breathes a heavy sigh of relief*

Pick ko pick ni, I be beans ni..

Lol..see smart move..

Reincarnated: I mentioned the Spade thing cuz I thought the crush had died its my fault. Believe me I understand. Remember the day I was left at the alter bus stop by my supposed future wife? I felt so hurt as well....I had to go talk to a therapist and I was admitted in rehab cuz I overdosed on aspirin. Truth be told, remember when I was MIA for the longest, I was in rehab getting treatment for my drug addiction and when the treatment was over, my therapist advised I let go of old things and start afresh....and that was how the birth of the reincarnated came about. I feel so good now....you too shall heal, my brother. This is just a stumbling block. It just shows greater things are coming. Can't u see with my reincarnated account, the ladies like me better...ask Lekpalicious , [s] Royal Pearl, Sliczyy, Agbgift, Ella, Toxx, Dominique, Noname, Love angel, Durielsmomma, Ayas, Ninny, Domfa sef, Bebe4u, Ambber, Motun, Ginger, Nikky, Cest etc etc and even StateOfMind...ask her [/s].
I made another lady write her first post on nl since she registered. Even IyawoTm. I am loved

Ok for real tho, part of that was a lie but I understand how u feel . Ok out of all the ladies I mentioned there, which one do u feel most comfortable with.

I hope you realise dominique is married, and ella is about to be. Strike those two names out.

soul_glo: Oh I see. So the issue is obviously not that he does the laundry. The issue is that the clothes belong to a mere wife. Would it be an issue if he lived with his sister and her blouse was included with her husbands clothes and he had to wash it? Would you boldly tell someone not to wash the blouse. You. A woman. Telling this young man not to wash the blouse because it is demeaning to him. Demeaning because it belongs to the woman of the house and not the man of the house. If men swept onto this thread and repeated what you were saying they would be branded chauvinist pigs.

I stay with my own own blood sister and the day she asks me to wash her husband's top for him when they are both not sick, I will refuse. Heck, I don't even wash her own clothes not to talk of her husband's. It is demeaning because an adult is supposed to do laundry by himself or herself and not ask another adult to do so just because you are housing the person.
I do all other chores, dishes, cook, clean, sweep, but definitely not laundry!

In this situation, she is an inlaw. Her brother inlaw should not do her laundry for her. The fact that she cooks for the household and he eats out of it does not mean he should wash her clothes. He already makes up for it in other aspects like fetching, cleaning n doing his own brother's laundry and washing cars.

Even if this dude was living with his sister, it is totally wrong for the sister to give her own brother her husband's clothes abeg.

alosiby92: My IB home gehl...kindly explain what "#teamspadeofmind" is all about...

Lol..don't mind my naughty friends in the bba thread. They want to e-hook me up with a friend in there. He's spade, hence the name spadeofmind.

I hope you still have my personal email cos this nl email is not gonna work, or better still,send a message via facebook (but inform me here, I hardly visit fb these days.)

ItsModella: I like this cos it's nice.
Whoever does not like it will still like it cos it's nice.
In short, SOM, whether you like it or not, it's nice and because it's nice, you'll like it.

Proudly Team SpadeOfMind. I bless your union in the mighty name of Jesus. Na me go personally kill any bastard wey wan put this marriage ordained by God asunder.

It is well.

Okay, I give up... Not itsmodella..not you

ninnyanny: @SirUTI: And today I shall host my first show in the USA! Whoop! Live in HOUSTON TEXAS it's the GIAMA SCREEN ICON SEARCH!!

Poor selly. Its like she'll be the only housemate present at sofa lounge.

C'est moi:
Lolz.....yelz,even me.I like it cos it's very niceeeeeee.I need the attention to shift away from moi.Don't be shocked.#teamspadeofmind.

#betrayed

Jekyll, hold your lane

Agbgift, your time will surely come...very soon

Sapphiredamsel:
You can like to ask questions sha. Have you thought of law or the media. Infact,lecturer fit u die. CHAI! Odiegwu oooo

As in eh, I don't think anyone can beat her here. She's just dumping the questions. Lol

How are you babe? Se o n jaye.

alosiby92: oh yes...authentic G...mscheeeeeeew..if I didn't know better, i'd say he was trying to get into my pants....
chai! LWKMD!! if only he knew I wear heavy wrappers to bed and don't do drunkards.....

Lmao *dead*

So even after your forming, you still took that icky solid. No worry..my plans are my secret.

Sha bring you flababbsa sef here first. I hope you can confirm the trip soon.

Teeo, carry you corrupt self away from this thread n also stop oppressing us with your bum.

But what's with the mischievous likes peeps? 14? Haba?

Cest moi, even you?

Ochon, I see you..na your way na.

And your duo, dannygift, you should check each other out.

I hope iyawotm is ok though.

*spreads mat*...

Na Siddon look corner I go dey.

And you danny, well done. That your furk addict theory get as e be.

And I still don't understand why it took me so long to figure the new obsth is ghkwame.

ileobatojo: Thank you!

All these children masquerading as men that believe being the head of the home means doing what ever the hell you want all the while your wife's lips should be perpetually glued to your feet. Thank God for this wife jare, some would have come to NL to open an annoying thread about what they should do!

Abi o! Fresh air , and we need many more of Op's wife to handle boys like OP .

Reincarnated: awww. StateOfMind is soo shy

@spade, I know she is really shy, I kid u not

So because modella, toyin and ochon are not here to torment your e-love life, you are feeling like a boss yeah?

I see someone has decided to shave off my hair in my absence. , maria, se iwo o mope won o kin fa ori leyin olori ni? ,

And yes, you are right, I feel like strangling you right now.

Yes, Spade, I like your well articulated posts and I admire the intelligence, maturity and confidence of the handle. I have said this before, but maybe not exactly like this. Don't know why maria feels like blowing it outta proportion this morning, probably missing itsmodella.

Maria, I hope you can now breathe.. ..

Agbgift, even you too... , don't indulge that nutty boy called maria, he needs to sleep.

Anuoluwap: sometimes one needs to understand others' thoughts. So you are now blaming me for being concernned? I only made a suggestion sha. Spoilers are now permitted.

Nope, I'm not blaming you but you shouldn't just be concerned about spoilers, you should also be concerned about those who think its okay to 'insult' the 'spoilers' directly or indirectly. Its very immature.


Its almost 10.30 anyway, I have tried with the diversion talk. I'm out.

Omolola1: This isn't so difficult. If you don't want spoilers, don't bother opening the thread till you are done with the show. Simple as that!
You can't stop people from posting on this thread when the show is going on, except ofcourse you want them off your thread.
You don't want spoilers? Don't log-in. Sefini.

The thing just tire me. Even if they don't want spoilers as they put it, there are better and more mature ways of putting it across instead of acting like the oppressed, being aggressive, and throwing childish remarks. You log in here exactly 10pm and you scream you don't want spoilers, why exactly are you on the thread at this time if not because you are interested in the spoilers' comments.

What's the fun watching and chilling till the hour is gone before you can type your updates. You want to have your own fun by updating as you watch but stop others from doing so?

I can decide to keep being a spoiler and nothing will happen mr thread owner, but for the sake of the fair comment by uju and some other level headed AIT viewers, imma hold my peace.

addictiv: op you are the man of the house....you dont need to shout, bully or harass the woman to establish this fact . you keep making reference to the fact that she earns more than you...and its obvious that you are not comfortable with it, but let me ask you , who is she making the money for ...its you and your family......now women are res-ponders they ll definitely respond to anything good or evil you do to them if you treat em well you get good treatment and vise versa. its said that a happy wife equals a happy home. respect is earned not demanded.if you want her to respect you you have to respect her. you re a man, a primary provider and i think thats what you should be not always involving her in simple expenses like buying a tv set. be the MAN of the house not the roommate. you can both sit down and discuss family expenses.....like in my house mum earns more but she handled only feeding and domestic upkeep while dad handled the school fees, cars maintenance, bills, house maintainance and vacations. now major projects like building projects are financed from a joint account where each of them contribute a certain percentage then if one of em is broke they borrow from the other to meet up these obligations and always pay back in due course...i never saw my dad come home to be told that there is no money for food and he doesnt give her money for upkeep but he sure does spoil her silly. if you can develope an organised pattern where everyone has a role exclusively i think it will help.map out roles and always take the heavier task.never say she earns more so she should shoulder the heavier responsibilities or put eyes into how she spends her money cos she is the woman. she ll de definately be saving the excess for family emergencies. see the family as a football team where everyone has a specific role to play and you as the team captain have to display leadership and maturity. best done by example....you can never see a warrior king riding behind his army in battle...he is always in front leading the campagin and you see that his men would always repect him and even die for him ......always note that women see the husbands funds as OUR money and see thiers as MY money, so once in a while treat her good and spoil her a little.....,,, goodluck

The highlighted explains Op's problem. Dude is just insecure and trying to frustrate his wife, and he ends up being the frustrated one.

Until men like OP learn to free their minds and stop feeling unnecesarily insecure the moment their wives start earning more than they do, this whining will not stop.

Btw, hug your wife for me Op, tell her I said her head dey there. I like women who know how to handle irresponsible cheats like you, who wouldn't allow you walk over them..

Go and work on yourself.

alosiby92: @SOM: that brown, icky stuff made from yam peels....no thanks.. I'll pass..
I hope you know how to cook peppered chicken as well as you grind the bones...hehehe..I have still not forgotten your gestogerra with that igbo cowife of mine...speaking of which, where is that hazel kolanut??
I dont think they sell hip pads...just tie five wrappers well well and you will have hips...I'm told nyash pads do wonders though...

Lmao @ yam peel! Alos oo, see how you described our most cherished solid food...keep dissing our food here in ib sogbo.

As for the peppered chicken, I sure wouldn't grind alone if I eat it in your presence, I'll swallow too it.

And That your authentic G is one helluva silly dude.. .

*reading spotlight by the sidelines, hoping lucky girl doesn't run away with these new questions*