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Health / Woman With A Huge Tumour On Her Face Reveals How Becoming A Makeup Artist Has He by stellapatu: 2:38pm On Feb 04, 2020
A woman who was told by doctors they couldn't remove a tumor growing on her face as a child has revealed how makeup has helped her to embrace her condition.

Rhonda Manring, 27, from Virginia, was diagnosed with neurofibromatosis, a genetic condition that causes benign tumors to grow along the nerves, when she was two and was told by doctors that surgery could do more harm than good due to her age. Her tumors grew larger as she grew older and she began experimenting with colorful makeup, before starting an Instagram page which quickly amassed thousands of followers.

The confident 27-year-old now believes her followers have helped her to embrace her condition, revealing: 'I'm glad I have the life I have. I wouldn't trade it for anything.'

Rhonda was first diagnosed with neurofibromatosis after her sister pointed it out when they were children.

She said: 'My older sister noticed my neurofibromatosis and pointed it out to our mother. She immediately took me to the doctors.

'When I was diagnosed there wasn't much they could do that would help; it would have done more harm than good doing surgery back then.

'I went through a lot when I was little; from breaking my legs a total of five times each and wearing a halo to try and make my right leg grow.'

Walking out among the public has often been a negative experience for her, with parents pulling their children away from her to avoid them 'catching' her condition.

She explained: 'I kept to myself throughout my years in school; I had a few good friends who are still by my side today and have loved and supported me.

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Art, Graphics & Video / Art Prodigy Discovered By Oprah At Just Eight Now Sells Her Paintings For Millio by stellapatu: 2:26pm On Feb 04, 2020
She's been dubbed a child prodigy, a genius and 'the binary wunderkind'.

But Akiane Kramarik says everyone is blessed with a gift - she simply found hers at the very tender age of three.

Art has become a way of life for the 20-year-old, who grew up in a small town of Illinois in what she described as a 'dirty shack' with no television, no radio, no friends or relatives.

Coming from a background of financial hardship, it was a surreal experience for the young artist when she was first discovered by Oprah Winfrey and featured on her show at just eight years of age.Since then, she's gone on to publish best-selling books and paintings which are valued at millions of dollars.

Having lived and explored more than 30 countries with her family, they've finally decided to settle down in Australia with hopes of opening up a gallery and and an international arts academy for aspiring artists.

For more than 10 years, Ms Kramarik has woken up at 3am every morning to gather her thoughts and to begin creating another one of her masterpieces.

It's this kind of discipline that's driven the US artist from virtually nothing to renowned success.

But none of her values and goals have changed as she's remains humble and grateful for the support she's had over the years, especially from her parents and four brothers.

'I grew up in a very nurturing family,' she told Daily Mail Australia.

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Fashion / 'MY Husband Love's Me' Says The Woman With The Lagest Hips In The World by stellapatu: 2:15pm On Feb 04, 2020
In a city where figures are slim and liposuction is routine, one Los Angeles woman is taking pride in her uniquely large backside.

Mikel Ruffinelli's hips and bottom measure a staggering 8ft around, earning her the record for having the largest hips and in the world.

Yet despite being 5' 4" and weighing 420lbs, Mikel, 39, who features in TLC’s documentary World’s Biggest Hips, insists that she is completely healthy, and says she sees no reason to slim down or shape up

In a city where figures are slim and liposuction is routine, one Los Angeles woman is taking pride in her uniquely large backside.

Mikel Ruffinelli's hips and bottom measure a staggering 8ft around, earning her the record for having the largest hips and in the world.Yet despite being 5' 4" and weighing 420lbs, Mikel, 39, who features in TLC’s documentary World’s Biggest Hips, insists that she is completely healthy, and says she sees no reason to slim down or shape up

'I love my shape and I see no reason to diet because I don’t have health problems,' she says in a clip from the show. 'I love my curves, I love my hips, I love my attributes.'

Though she won't adjust her eating habits, Mikel adds that she does, in fact, exercise, and maintains a 40" waist - which is proportionally smaller than her 99" hips.

One of her children, however, tells a different story of her mom's health. Her daughter Destynee says that Mikel's life isn't easy because of her oversized figure.

'I don't mind following her footsteps, but I don't really want to because I see how her struggle is,' says Destynee. 'If she stands up for a certain amount of time, she starts to hurt. And it kind of hurts me to see her struggle.'


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Crime / Driver Who Left 80-year-old Pedestrian To Die 'a Broken Man' Spared Jail After D by stellapatu: 1:17pm On Jan 24, 2020
A driver who mowed down an elderly pedestrian and condemned him to die a ''broken man'' has been spared a prison sentence after he argued that speeding was 'something that happens'.

Businessman Arif Ali, 42, had been travelling at 44mph in a 30mph zone when his VW Passat knocked over 80-year-old Akbar Niazi as the elderly grandfather was crossing the road.

The victim was left with a broken neck following the impact and was subsequently paralysed from the neck down. He was unable to eat by himself and less than two months later passed away after choking on food he was unable to swallow.

Inquiries into the tragedy in Westhoughton, near Bolton, on New Year's Eve 2018 found that had Ali been driving within the speed limit he would have been able to slow down in time and allow Mr Niaz to cross the road safely.He also had previous speeding convictions from 2016 which left him with six penalty points on his licence.

In a statement the victim's daughter Rozanna Niazi a former lawyer and psychotherapist said: “I received a call about my dad's accident on New Years Eve. I was at a neighbour's party and everybody was looking forward to bringing in the New Year.

“I had to go outside as I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I remember being in a terrible panic and just thinking “dad” and “broken neck” being in the same sentence.

'I was in a state of utter shock and trauma. If he didn’t have the surgery, he would have died. They could only offer palliative care.

"If he hadn’t had the surgery, his prognosis would be severe disablement. We had no choice but to have this surgery, otherwise there was no hope. I had to remain as a veneer of optimisation to support my parents who were in such a dire situation.

“The following weeks were a battle. My dad was a broken person. He believed he was never going to recover as he was paralysed from the neck down. He couldn’t swallow for himself, he couldn't eat or perform normal bodily functions.

“My mother travelled everyday taking four to six buses. She became like a ghost, she is also in her 80s.

"At this point my dad was being fed through a tube because of the damage to his neck and was something he found incredibly frustrating, not being able to swallow or taste. He died sadly from choking after the nursing staff attempted to try him with solid food.

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Health / Dad And Daughter Diagnosed With Cancer At The Same Time by stellapatu: 12:58pm On Jan 24, 2020
A father and daughter are both battling cancer at the same time, with the daughter having breast cancer and father battling kidney cancer.

Jessica Duffield, 22, has been forced to put her studies on hold after she was diagnosed with breast cancer for a second time in three years while her dad fights kidney cancer.The 22-year-old was just 19 when she was first diagnosed with the condition and underwent chemotherapy.

But last year, she received the terrifying news that the cancer had returned and she has now been having radiotherapy.

As a result, Jessica, who studies food manufacturing at Chester University, has had to defer her third year.

Her dad Keith Duffield was diagnosed with kidney cancer after medics found a tumour on his spine.

Jessica, from Newcastle, told Stoke on Trent Live : “I had a CT scan last February and nothing was picked up. My oncologist then looked at it in August, spotted abnormalities, and booked me in for another CT scan.

"I was looking at the symptoms online and feeling anxious. A few weeks later, they told me I had secondary breast cancer.

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Health / Baby Girl Who Was Given Just Hours To Live After She Was Taken Off Life Support by stellapatu: 11:27am On Jan 16, 2020
A baby girl born with a serious heart condition, who was deemed a 'miracle' for surviving after she was taken off life support, is about to celebrate her first birthday.

Phoenix Da'Vine, from Temple Hills, Maryland, was diagnosed at birth with a double outlet right ventricle, a heart defect that makes it difficult for blood to throw through the body properly.

After undergoing two surgeries, she went into cardiac arrest when she was just seven months old and had to be placed placed on life support.Fearing that Da'Vine would spend the rest of her life in hospice care, her mother, Monique Goldring, made the heartbreaking decision to take her daughter off of life support in April 2019.

Doctors gave Phoenix just six hours to live, but those hours turned into days, weeks and now months.

Phoenix is currently at home and - although she's on oxygen and taking a slew of medications - she will turn one year old in less than two weeks.

Goldring gave birth to Phoenix via C-section on August 25, 2018, after developing pre-eclampsia, a pregnancy complication characterized by high blood pressure.

'I had migraines for like a week straight and my mother was like: "You're going to the doctor",' she told DailyMail.com.

'They found out I had pre-eclampsia - and I had a clean bill of health my entire pregnancy - so they decided to do a C-section then.'

Phoenix was born full-term, weighing seven pounds and two ounces. While Goldring was in recovery, the nurses performed a routine check-up pm the newborn.

They found her oxygen saturation levels were extremely low and detected a heart murmur, so she was admitted into the neonatal intensive care unit.

Phoenix underwent an echocardiogram shortly after and was diagnosed with a congenital heart condition called double outlet right ventricle (DORV).

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Events / Teen Torture Case: Girl Given 'chilling Choice' Of How She Would Die by stellapatu: 11:12am On Jan 16, 2020
A teenage girl's body was found inside a rusty steel drum amongst weeds at an abandoned Auckland state home.

Seventeen-year-old Dimetrius Pairama had earlier been given the chilling choice of how she wanted die, the High Court at Auckland heard today.

"There is no doubt that there was a murder, there is no doubt as to the injuries to the deceased," Justice Timothy Brewer told the court.

The teen's body was found in a vacant Housing New Zealand property on Buckland Rd, Mangere Bridge on July 8 last year.

Before her death she had been kidnapped and tortured, the Crown Solicitor at Auckland, Natalie Walker told the court.

She was beaten, tied to a chair, gagged and her naked body burned with an aerosol can and cigarette lighter, Walker said.
Pairama was then "presented with a chilling choice".

She was asked how she wanted to die.

"Death by hanging or stabbing?" Walker said Pairama asked.

She was then strung up from a pole with a makeshift noose made out of old sheets, the court heard.

Her battered, naked and lifeless body was then cut down and wrapped in sheets and plastic.

"Her body was hidden inside a rusty steel drum, amongst some weeds, at an abandoned state home," Walker said.

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Crime / Thug, 23, Caught On CCTV Stabbing Man To Death After Pub Row Is Jailed by stellapatu: 11:03am On Jan 16, 2020
Horrific CCTV footage captured the chilling moment a killer brandishes a 'Rambo-style' in the street after a pub row - minutes before stabbing a man to death.

Carlton Donaldson, 23, was jailed for at least 23 years after he was found guilty of murdering Daniel Baird, 27, in Digbeth, Birmingham.

Donaldson's friend Sashon Brown, 25, was also jailed for two-and-a-half years after he was convicted of violent disorder.

Footage captured from The Forge Tavern showed Carlton Donaldson, aged 22 at the time, and his friend Brown getting into a heated argument with Dale Scott, a friend of Mr Baird.

Moment killer slashes at revelers before murdering young manThe footage showed Mr Scott stumble into a group, including Donaldson and Brown, after hitting a punch-bag machine in July 2017.

Brown, of Sutton Coldfield, pulled out a folding knife and flicked the blade in a threatening gesture to show Scott he was armed and ready to fight.

Carlton Donaldson then stepped in but the violence spilled onto the streets, where the men darted between a traffic-filled road in a dramatic chase.

The man who bumped into Brown, who was not named in court, was hit by a car and bounced off the bonnet and into the road.

He got onto his feet and started to run moments after the heavy collision.

Donaldson then pulled out a 'Rambo-knife', narrowly misses the target, before he fatally stabbed Mr Baird in the chest.


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Fashion / A Fully Tattooed Doctor Proves That Looks Can’t Stop Anyone From Becoming A Good by stellapatu: 7:06pm On Jan 10, 2020
Sarah Gray is a doctor and a future orthopedic surgeon. She graduated from the University of Adelaide, Australia, and is considered one of the most tattooed women who practice medicine. She has become popular all over the world not only for the number of tattoos on her skin but because she has broken some prejudices perpetuated by society. So, while achieving her dream of becoming a doctor, she also teaches society that having tattoos doesn’t damage one’s potential or professionalism at all.

Bright Side arranged an exclusive interview with Sarah to tell you more about what she thinks regarding taboos, tattoos, and job inclusion.Sarah told us that her colleagues welcomed her with open arms and that everything has been pleasing thus far. She was accepted for who she was, which is “colorful,” as she creatively calls herself. In fact, she recently had an interview with her superiors and managed to get her first preferential surgical job. She added, “They obviously didn’t let my appearance compromise my potential.”

Thanks to her artistic body, Sarah has more positive than negative experiences to share. But even so, she has faced awkward situations here and there. For example, once she was at an event that took place in an Australian restaurant, and both she and her husband were asked to leave. This is additional proof that there are still taboos against looks that fall too far from the standards set by society.

But not everything is bad or uncomfortable for the doctor. Thanks to her great talent, Sarah succeeded at opening her own art studio where she tattoos other people. She also won the “Miss Ink Australia” contest in 2017 and, of course, has received unconditional support from all the people she lives with on a daily basis.

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Celebrities / Cardi B Looks Almost Unrecognizable In A Head-wrap And No Make-up As She Dons Bl by stellapatu: 6:52pm On Jan 10, 2020
Between her flashy ensembles and bold personality, it's hard for Cardi B to blend into a crowd, anywhere.

But that's exactly what happened, at least for a short time, when the hip-hop superstar got in some holiday shopping at Aventura Mall in Miami on Sunday.

Things were low-key when she first arrived, make-up free, and with her hair covered up in a simple head-wrap.

Despite not wanting to draw any undo attention to herself, The Bodak Yellow rapper showed off her curves, and part of the huge tattoo along the right side of her derriere and leg, in a form-fitting blue mini-dress.She also donned a pair of black strapped sandals for her afternoon excursion.

Keeping her anonymity in such a public place was hard, in part, because she had three big security guards by her side as a precaution.

Cardi made several stops at stores such as Louis Vuitton, Ferrari, Foot Locker, Gucci, a baby clothing store and a bakery.

Eventually word spread of her appearance at the mall and crowds began to gather for chance to get a look at one of the most famous female artists right now.

While shopping, the rapper could also be seen talking on her cell phone as fans started hovering nearby.

The shopping spree came just hours after Cardi shared some behind-the-scenes footage of her very first Vogue cover with one-year-old daughter Kulture.


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Events / Man, 20, Who Was 'dead For 20 MINUTES' After Being Electrocuted When The Metal L by stellapatu: 9:28pm On Jan 06, 2020
A 20-year-old Michigan man, dubbed 'miracle man' by hospital staff who saved him, was brought back to life after being clinically dead for 20 minutes.

Michael Pruitt had been working with his stepdad on a construction project in Livonia on April 30 when a metal ladder he was carrying touched a live electrical wire.

He was instantly electrocuted and his heart stopped. 'I remember being electrocuted while holding that ladder and shaking, and then nothing,' Pruitt said.

'Like in the movies, when they're getting electrocuted, it felt just like that, being shook like crazy,' he told 7 Action News.

A bystander called 911 and started CPR, a move the hospital credited with making the later resuscitation possible.

It took around four minutes for paramedics to arrive. They attempted to revive him with the defibrillator while en route to the hospital, but he never regained a heartbeat in the ambulance.

'They brought in this perfect young man who had no vital signs,' said Dr. Angel Chudler, an emergency room physician at Beaumount Hospital Farmington Hills.

'I said to my team, "We’re bringing him back." And then I said to him, "You better come back!"'

Doctors shocked the dead man's heart again using a defibrillator, but nothing happened.

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Health / A Mother-of-four Who Suffers Facial Paralysis And Partial Deafness Due To A Brai by stellapatu: 9:17pm On Jan 06, 2020
A woman who suffered facial paralysis and partial deafness due to a brain tumour the 'size of a racquetball' was initially told her symptoms were due to pregnancy.

Jessica Holroyd, from Michigan in the US, first experienced dizziness, headaches and unsteadiness after the birth of her first child Josiah, now 19, when she was 22.

The barista, 40, said she initially assumed her symptoms were due to childbirth, lack of sleep and being a first time mother, so she ignored them.But her ailments worsened when she was expecting her second son Ethan, now 17, in 2002, and she found herself in so much pain she 'couldn't get out of bed' for most of her pregnancy.

Jessica was rushed to hospital only to be told doctors couldn't find anything wrong and her symptoms were attributed to her pregnancy.

She then gave birth to her son six weeks early and, instead of her health improving, her condition became worse.

'I first started to notice symptoms after the birth of my first child when I was only twenty-two; I was having dizzy spells, headaches and once in a while the room would spin when I made a quick or sudden movement,' she explained.

'I just attributed my symptoms to childbirth, lack of sleep and crazy first-time mum life. I didn't think much of it at the time.


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Fashion / Loose Women Treat Star To Luxury Spa Break Complete With Hot Tub, Unicorn Cake A by stellapatu: 3:40pm On Dec 20, 2019
Stacey Solomon celebrated her 30th birthday in style with her Loose Women co- stars and baby son Rex, six months, on Saturday.

The presenter was treated to a luxury spa break at Pennyhill Park in Surrey by Denise Welch, Nadia Sawalha, Saira Khan, Kaye Adams, Linda Robson, Jane Moore, Kelle Bryan and Andrea McLean.

The girls pulled out all the stops to ensure Stacey had plenty of rest and relaxation -and Linda and Jane even babysat so the television personality could enjoy a massage. Stacey shared a slew of snaps on Instagram and said: 'We've finally made it! Special spa day with my favourite girls for my 30th birthday surprise.'

Leaving Rex in the care of his Loose Women aunties, Stacey headed in for a relaxing massage.

Sharing a photo of herself lying on the massage bed: 'The girls have treated me to a massage so I've left the pickle with nanny Linda and the gang! May sleep the whole way through this'.

After a spruce-up, Stacey enjoyed a lavish dinner with the girls complete with chocolate dessert, unicorn balloon and handmade cake.

Uploading a montage of photos, including one of the group in a hot tub, Stacey wrote: 'I’ve had the most special night with the most beautiful friends who have no idea how much they mean to me!'

Stacey turned 30 back in October and was treated to a surprise birthday dinner party ahead of the actual day by partner Joe Swash.

The Loose Women panellist admitted to feeling emotional and said 'everything is making me cry' as she documented the pink-themed night in a room filled with balloons, streamers and candles on her Instagram Stories.

More details; https://www.paxexlive.com/thread/loose-women-treat-star-to-luxury-spa-break-complete-with-hot-tub-unicorn-cake-and-lavish-dinner

Health / Dangerously Obese Man, 41, Who Was So Large At 320kg That He Had To Pay For TWO by stellapatu: 3:27pm On Dec 20, 2019
A morbidly obese man who weighed a staggering 320 kilos after living off fast food has dramatically shed more than 60 per cent of his body mass in just 12 months.

Andrew Zed, from Sydney, fell into a spiral of 'depression eating' after his fruit and vegetable business collapsed eight years ago before his marriage broke down.

At his heaviest, the 41-year-old said he was required to book two first class seats on a flight for $21,000, he couldn't fit into any regular car, and no restaurants could accommodate him because they didn't have any chairs to hold up his large frame.

His daily diet consisted of croissants, bacon and egg roll, pizzas, whole chickens, garlic bread, fries, ribs, pasta, ice creams and litres of soft drink.

The former business owner said his turning point came after his doctor made a shocking admission his 'oncoming death' would see him covered with bedsores.

Determined to lose his weight once and for all, Mr Zed dropped 201 kilos after he ditched mammoth meal portions and soft drinks - and he found love again along the way.'My doctor said I'd be bedridden within a year, I was practically that already and once that happens it's more or less over and I'll die with bedsores all over me,' Mr Zed told Daily Mail Australia.

'Nothing I've ever heard had frightened me as much as dying covered in bedsores.'

Before his dramatic weight loss, Mr Zed said he found himself spending his day just eating unhealthy meals, sleeping and playing online games.

'To call it sedentary is an overstatement. I basically became a hermit. I worked from home on the phone in sales, and when that became too much of a chore I just ate and slept... All I did was order fast food non-stop day and night and play video games,' he said.

'At my largest, you could throw the Lowes 'Big Man' catalogue away. Everything I wore had to be custom made but I wasn't exactly going out much. Most of the time I wrapped myself up in a King-sized bed sheet.'

As his weight continued to pile on, Mr Zed said he went from 140 kilos to a whopping 260 kilos after he lost his business eight years ago, before he went bankrupt.

After his marriage ended, Mr Zed ballooned to 320 kilos.

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Health / Pageant Queen, 22, Who Was Born With Tumors All Over The Left Side Of Her Body by stellapatu: 3:03pm On Dec 20, 2019
A young woman who has battled severe sickness throughout her life has revealed how her unwaveringly resilient spirit has carried her through some unbelievably difficult times.

Brianna Worden, from upstate New York, was diagnosed with Neurofibromatosis (NF) Type One when she was just two months old; the condition means her entire left side from the neck down is covered in tumors – both inside and out.

The 22-year-old, who loves to sing, has undergone 10 surgical procedures in her life already, having to learn to walk again at eight years old and even learning to speak once more after a particularly difficult surgery recently.

Brianna told Barcroft TV: 'It's just an everyday battle that I face. A lot of my childhood was spent in hospitals, kind of like in movies when you're looking at the child looking out the window looking at everyone else having fun.'

Speaking about her tumors, she said: 'When you look at it, it is scary. But I don't care. I flash it; I'm like, "Hey would you like to know more about it?"'

Brianna explained that she also had a titanium rod going down her spine. Yet despite some truly harrowing experiences growing up, Brianna has remained consistently positive throughout, overcoming every setback, and even getting her Bachelor's degree in Psychology.

Her mom, Janna Walter, said: 'Brianna's personality is like sunshine. She's always positive. She has challenges for sure. However, she doesn't let those challenges get in her way.

'I've been told by a variety of different doctors at different times in her life, "She'll be lucky if she makes it to age seven" or "She'll be lucky if she makes it to age 15, she'll be lucky if she makes it age 20."

The family have been going to the same hospital in Boston for over 20 years.

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Events / Retired Jockey, 60, Died When She Fell Onto An Eco-friendly Metal Drinking Straw by stellapatu: 5:26pm On Dec 12, 2019
A retired jockey died when she fell onto an eco-friendly metal drinking straw that went through her eye and impaled her brain, an inquest heard today.

Elena Struthers-Gardner, 60, suffered horrific brain injuries after the freak accident at her home in Broadstone in Poole, Dorset on November 22.

She was carrying a mason jar glass with a screw-top lid when she collapsed, with the 10in stainless steel straw entering her left eye socket and piercing her brain.

Today a coroner said metal drinking straws should never be used with a lid that fixes them in place, and warned that 'great care should be taken' while using them.

They have increasingly replaced plastic straws after BBC's Blue Planet drew attention to ocean pollution, with the UK alone throwing away 8.5 billion every year.In a statement read by the coroner, her wife Mandy told of the moment she found her partner, also known as Lena, with a straw sticking through her eye.

She said: 'I went to the kitchen door and could see Lena lying on her front at the doorway between the den (a room where she watched TV) and the kitchen.

'She was making unusual gurgling sounds. Her glass cup was lying on the floor still intact and the straw was still in the jar.

'I noticed the straw was sticking into her head. I called 999 and requested an ambulance.

'While I was on the phone, Lena appeared to have stopped breathing. The lady on the phone asked me to turn her over.

'I slid the glass off the straw and turned her over. I could see the straw had gone through her left eye.'


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Crime / Mother Of Children Found Hanged In Their Basement Charged With Their Murder by stellapatu: 5:06pm On Dec 12, 2019
A mother whose two children were found hanged in the basement of their home has been charged with their murder, police said.

Lisa Rachelle Snyder, 36, was was arrested Monday and charged with first-degree murder, third-degree murder, endangering the welfare of children and sexual intercourse with a dog in Berks County, Pennsylvania.

Snyder’s children, eight-year-old Conner and four-year-old Brinley, were found hanged and unresponsive in the basement of their home on September 23.

The children were revived by paramedics as they were rushed to the hospital. They were placed on life support, but died three days later.Police took several things from the home after the children’s deaths, including cellphones, computers, and Conner’s X-box gaming system – and said they were looking for a dog that had reportedly been given away before the incident.

Investigators said Snyder told them she owned the dog, which was a black pit bull mixed dog weighing 50 pounds, but she said she had given the dog away. The dog’s weight and its wire leash were of specific interest to authorities as they investigated the hanging, Pennlive reported.

In a 911 call after allegedly finding the children, Snyder told a dispatcher that Conner was bullied and ‘made threats of doing this, but didn’t want to go alone,’ according to a recording of the call.

Snyder later created a private Facebook Page called ‘Remembering Conner & Brinley’ where she reportedly wrote: ‘Everyday it gets harder. I miss you both so much. I just wanna hold you n kiss you. All I do is cry. I love you both with all my heart. I just want you back.’


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Health / Law Graduate Whose Contraceptive Injection Caused Her To Balloon To 280lbs Loses by stellapatu: 4:56pm On Dec 12, 2019
A law graduate has undergone gastric sleeve surgery in a bid to lose weight after claiming her contraceptive injection caused to balloon to 280lbs (20 stone).

Brittany Nicholson, 25, from Indiana - who suffers from polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) - decided to start having a contraceptive injection every three months, because it was proven to help stop her painful periods and ovarian cysts.

Brittany, who weighed 154lbs (11 stone) at the age of 16, began to gain weight soon after starting the injections, despite dieting and frequently visiting the gym - and by the age of 23, she had put on a total of 126lbs (11 stone).As a last resort, Brittany, opted to have a gastric sleeve - where part of the stomach is removed - in September 2018, and has since lost 100lbs (seven stone) and feels happier than ever with her 182lb (13 stone) frame.

Brittany, who is now working as a law intern, said: 'At the age of 16 I had started to experience symptoms of polycystic ovaries.

'I went to the doctors due to the stomach pain and an ultrasound found cysts on my ovaries and from there I was diagnosed.

'The cysts had taken over and I was put on birth control to stop the cysts growing any further.

'But the weight piled on, I was 154lbs (11 stone) when I was 16 and then 280lbs (20 stone) by the time I was 23.

'Everyone is different, and some people may not have gained weight on this medication whilst others might have but were able to control it by dieting and exercising.


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Events / 'evil' Mother Who Beat-up New Year's Eve Party Guest With Friend Then Sent Her A by stellapatu: 6:26pm On Dec 09, 2019
An 'evil' mother-of-one who viciously battered another woman at a New Year party then sent a bragging text to a friend has been jailed for a year.

Gillian Walsh, 41, launched the assault on Julie Hampson after travelling ten miles to a flat in Ashton-under-Lyne, Greater Manchester, to see in 2019.

Miss Hampson - who lives in a women's shelter- was punched to the ground by Walsh and party host Molly Apsley and beaten in the bathroom.

Walsh then sent a text to Apsley, saying: 'Was you proud of me coming all that way to batter that bird?'

Miss Hampson was left with bruising to her head, face and body plus scratched eyeballs, a cut lip and swelling to her face and a suspected fractured ribThe distraught victim claims she took an overdose of painkillers following the attack.

In a statement, Miss Hampson accused the two women of having a 'capacity for evil' and said: 'I have suffered from anxiety for four years and this incident had left my anxiety much worse and I have had to have my medication increased.

'At the time I was having fear that someone would come back and do it again. I am not sleeping very well. I fear going out on my own. I am not eating properly due to the stress and anxiety.

'Physically, I have a lump on my ribs following the assault. I am still in pain and taking painkillers.

'I have felt scared to stay at the woman refuge. I took an overdose four weeks ago and I have moved to live outside of Ashton-under-Lyme where I feel safe.

'I can't work due to the high level of stress. If I ever saw them again I would be absolutely terrified. I am scared of the capacity for evil they can have. Molly was supposed to be my friend'.

At Minshull Street Crown Court, Manchester, Walsh from Adswood, Stockport was jailed for 12 months after she pleaded guilty to assault occasioning actual bodily harm.

Apsley of Ashton-under-Lyne faced up to six months jail after admitting common assault but was freed with a 12 month community order after the court heard she was heavily pregnant with her first child.


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Health / Wow ,when She Got Cancer, She Gave Her Boyfriend An 'out.' Then He Proposed. by stellapatu: 6:18pm On Dec 09, 2019
Two years ago, Jillian Hanson, then a 25-year-old from New Jersey, was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer.

Her thoughts quickly shifted to her boyfriend, Max Allegretti. Knowing how rough the road ahead would be, Hanson offered Allegretti, whom she had started dating in college three years prior, an “out” before things got too intense.

Allegretti wasn’t much interested in that.

“Jillian told me that it was going to be hard and that she did not know what to expect with everything and if I couldn’t handle it, she wanted to know now,” he told HuffPost. “I completely disregarded everything she said.”

Allegretti stayed by Hanson’s side during two years of intensive treatment. On her last day of chemo, Feb. 28, 2018, Allegretti knew exactly what he wanted to do to celebrate: Ask Hanson for her hand in marriage.“I talked with Jill’s friends and family, and we decided how we could make her last day of chemo even better,” he said. “And then we planned everything out for the proposal with Memorial Sloan Kettering, the hospital where she was receiving treatment.”

The video of the proposal is nothing short of heartwarming.

“Jillian Hanson, will you marry me?” Allegretti asks, surrounded by his girlfriend’s family, friends and nurses.

“What? Wait no, really?!” a shaken-up Hanson replies, before eventually giving her answer: “Yes!”


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Family / A Miracle Life Of Mum-of-four Who Had To Film 'goodbye Videos' For Her Children by stellapatu: 5:57pm On Dec 09, 2019
Mum-of-four Laura Stubbs is known to friends and family as 'Superwoman' after battling back against the odds.

Laura, who spent most of her 20s in and out of a wheelchair and had to learn to walk again because of a neurological disorder, was devastated to be told she may never have children after trying for a family for five years with her husband Rob.

But this summer they welcomed their fourth child, a son Hartley who was born seven weeks premature following fears that she and the baby wouldn't survive.

The PR director from Swinton is now looking forward to Christmas with the four children they had always longed for - Cole, seven, Lyla-Rose, six, Archer aged 17 months and Hartley who was born in August.

"I feel completely blessed," she told us."We always wanted four or five children and we're really looking forward to a great family Christmas where our family is complete.

"It wouldn't be the same if little Hartley wasn't here."

All four children were conceived naturally. Laura and Rob were a month away from starting IVF treatment when she fell pregnant with their first child Cole.

Laura, 37, had her first three children by cesarean because she had Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction (SPD), which occurs during pregnancy causing the pelvic joints to become stiff.


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Family / Father Stabbed His Baby Daughter And Her Half-siblings To Death With A Screwdriv by stellapatu: 4:21pm On Dec 07, 2019
A father accused of murdering three children, including his own baby daughter, stabbed them with a screwdriver and left blood spattered all over their apartment, according to new court documents.

Junaid Hashim Mehmood, 27, stabbed his six-week-old daughter Ashanti and her half-siblings, two-year-old Prince Larry Brown and five-year-old Angela Pilot at their home in Texas City on January 3.

Mehmood then attacked the children's mother, 24-year-old Kimaria Nelson, by shooting her in the head with a pellet gun.

She is still in the hospital clinging to life. Police arrested Mehmood after being called to the apartment by his brother who had stopped by to check on him after he wrote a cryptic Facebook status within minutes of carrying out the killings in which he apologized to his family.

The 27-year-old was furious about having been fired from his job at a Good Will Store when he committed the attack.

He confessed to police once in custody and is now being held in county jail on three capital murder charges.

He first attacked Angela, he said, by beating her on the head with a hammer before stabbing her with the screwdriver.

According to an arrest affidavit obtained by DailyMail.com, the five-year-old's skull had been fractured multiple times and her elbow was also broken.

Prince, two, had been stabbed repeatedly in the chest. His heart and lungs were punctured and he also had cuts on his head.

No information is given about Ashanti's injuries or where she was found in the apartment.

Mehmood told police he could not remember how he killed her.

When police arrived, they followed the trail of blood to the bathroom. The door was locked but once they forced their way in, they found the children's mother lying on the floor, 'covered in blood'.

She was 'grunting and moaning' and had several small pellets embedded in her face.

Mehmood fled the building after the attack and called police from a different location saying he knew they were looking for him.


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Family / Ex-detective Who Blasted Madeleine Mccann's Parents In Controversial Netflix Doc by stellapatu: 4:13pm On Dec 07, 2019
A former Portuguese detective who starred in the recent Madeleine McCann Netflix documentary has been jailed for seven and a half years.

Paulo Pereira Cristovao, a long-time critic of Maddie's parents who angered them with a controversial book about the mystery disappearance, was convicted of participating in the planning of two violent break-ins at properties in Lisbon and the nearby resort of Cascais.

State prosecutors had accused him of being a key player in an organised gang by giving accomplices information about victims and the target homes.The ex-cop, who left the Policia Judiciaria after a torture trial former Madeleine McCann chief investigator Goncalo Amaral was also implicated in, will remain a free man pending an appeal.

It emerged Pereira Cristovao was facing trial in March when he played a prominent role in Netflix documentary The Disappearance of Madeleine McCann.

He admitted involvement before the trial at a court in Cascais which ended last month with judges retiring to consider their verdicts.

But he denied prosecution claims he was a gang ringleader and insisted after the guilty verdict yesterday he had been convicted of crimes including kidnapping which he had not committed.

His defence lawyer told the hearing he had returned £8,500 commission he had received for one of the raids, to a victim.

All but one of the 17 defendants were convicted over the 2014 raids, led by police officers with false search warrants who used the illegal operations to steal cash and other valuables.

In one, a couple and their daughter were kidnapped and the culprits took more than £100,000.

Two police officers, both sacked before trial, were jailed for 17 and 16 years each.

The alleged leader of a hooligan group nicknamed Mustafa, already behind bars and awaiting trial over a violent attack on Sporting Lisbon players during training, received a six year, four-month prison sentence.

Prosecutors alleged Nuno Mendes, better known as Mustafa, received instructions from Pereira Cristovao and passed them on to a relative who then got the convicted police officers to carry out the raids.

The ex-cop, a former president of Sporting Lisbon who has served as head of Portugal's missing children agency, admitted after learning his fate he was 'shocked and surprised' and confirmed he would appeal.

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Properties / Brave Mother, 19, Who Lost Her Newborn Son While Battling Cancer Tragically Dies by stellapatu: 4:03pm On Dec 07, 2019
A young woman who chose to postpone cancer treatment to give her unborn son a fighting chance has died.

Brianna Rawlings died on December 29 last year after losing her battle with NK cell leukaemia – a rare and aggressive form of blood disease.

The teenager, from Colyton in western Sydney, died just days after her 19th birthday.

The young woman was just 17 weeks pregnant when she was diagnosed with the disease.She was faced with the decision to either terminate the pregnancy, which would increase her own chances of survival, or carry the baby to term.

The brave young woman made the selfless choice to put her baby's life ahead of her own by delaying treatment – effectively halving her own chances of survival.

She suffered through excruciating body aches and fevers to hold her baby in her arms.

Sadly, Ms Rawlings contracted an infection that had the potential to be passed on to the baby, forcing an emergency caesarean three months early.

Baby Kayden managed to cling to life for 12 days before he died.

The young mother was devastated but kept fighting.

'It's been very hard, long, exhausting and painful. Even though Kyden is no longer with us he gave me the strength to go on and beat this,' she previously told FEMAIL.

'I was very happy and excited to be a mother - all I've ever wanted to have is a family. I was also scared of what the world had in stall for me.'

Despite the emergency caesarean due to a blood infection, Ms Rawlings said her son came out breathing on his own and was even crying.


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Family / Mother-of-two, 30, Was Branded A 'monster' After She Was Ravaged By A Mystery Il by stellapatu: 11:23am On Dec 02, 2019
A mother met and married the love of her life after a rare disease ravaged her face - leaving her with no nose and facing taunts she was 'monster'.

Mother-of-two Ana Roman, 30, was diagnosed with cancer in November 2017 after she collapsed and medics found a mass in the base of her skull.

The cancer weakened her immune system and she then developed microscopic polyangiitis, a rare condition which causes blood vessel inflammation and left her nose sunken.The car auction manager underwent a complex six-hour operation to remove the back and lower parts of her skull, leaving her with no palate and causing her nose to become deformed, receding into her face.

Despite this, Ana met partner Florin Petrescu, 30, in the midst of all her health issues in January this year through a friend before the pair tied the knot last month after Florin proposed just 10 months later.

She has now discovered she is pregnant with the couple's first child together after she feared she could never have more children due to the gruelling chemotherapy she faced.

Ana said: 'After the first operation which left me with no palate I felt that a lot of people were looking at my face, some people even wrote on Facebook that I look like a monster.

'It was so hard to take my kids to school. But now after what it did to my face I can't believe I found love, I feel like the happiest woman in the world.


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Health / Mother Whose Son, 4, Was Born With His Intestine Outside His Body And Is Battlin by stellapatu: 11:12am On Dec 02, 2019
A mother whose four-year-old was denied funding by the NHS to help him battle a rare stomach disorder has been forced to turn to expensive private treatment to save her son's life.

Patrick Askham, from Leeds, was born prematurely with Gastroschisis, which means that part of his intestine was outside of his body.

The complications from the disorder mean that the youngster has been in and out of hospital since the day he was born and is fed through a tube. He now needs a bowel, liver and possibly a stomach transplant too.

His mother Michelle Askham, 33, has opened up to FEMAIL about the struggles the family has faced.

'Knowing one day you will bury your child before you is every single parent's worst nightmare. For us we live this reality,' she said.

She described Patrick's illness as a 'rollercoaster' journey and added that 'even though he's been used as a pin cushion, he still manages the most beautiful cheesy smile'.

'Our most frightening moments are knowing every day can be our last with him,' Michelle explained, adding: 'But we know we will have done every single thing we can to possibly make his life the best!'

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Properties / A Couple Who Sold Their House And Business To Live On The Open Road In A Convert by stellapatu: 11:01am On Dec 02, 2019
A couple who sold everything to live on a converted school bus before narrowly escaping bankruptcy say they would rather die than go back to their old lives.

Tawny McVay, 34, and her husband Michael, 31, from Billings, Montana, previously had a family gym business, a three-story house and a nice car - but they weren't happy.

After watching a bus life renovation video in spring 2018, they started to research homes on wheels. Just two months later they put their home on the market and sold almost everything they owned including their family business.They found buyers for their business and home but both fell through after they'd bought their bus.

Struggling to make ends meet, they had to live with family for six months and Tawny and Michael came within a week of bankruptcy.

But finally their house and business sold and they could look forward to living life on the road.

They call their bus Oliver - a 2004 RE International school bus that cost £3,900 ($5,000). Renovations set them back £11,700 ($15,000).

Tawny said: 'We owned a business, a three-story home and all the usual means of measuring success. We were classed as successful and should have been wildly happy, but we weren't.

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Crime / A Man Admits To Stabbing His 16-year-old Girlfriend To Death After Break-up by stellapatu: 4:41pm On Nov 29, 2019
This is the chilling moment a sixth form pupil caught a bus to go and stab his 17-year-old ex-girlfriend Ellie Gould to death - as he was today locked up for life for her murder.

Thomas Griffiths, now 18, left the knife in Ellie's hand to make it look like she had killed herself, and then abandoned her in a pool of blood on the kitchen floor while he went back to school.

The teenager sought support from a matron at Hardenhuish School in Chippenham and sent messages to Ellie's friends to say he could not get hold of her. She was found dead by her father when he returned home four hours after the attack.

The pair had been going out for several months when Ellie decided to call off the relationship on May 2. A day later Griffiths was driven to school by his mother, but secretly returned home by bus.Then, the learner driver illegally drove his Ford Fiesta to Ellie's home and carried out the savage assault.

Sentencing, Mr Justice Garnham said: 'You put your hands around Ellie's neck and tried to throttle her. She tried desperately to fight back, scratching at your neck in the process. You did not have the sense, or the decency, to stop. Instead, you picked up a kitchen knife.

'You then carried out the most appalling attack on this defenceless girl, repeatedly stabbing her to the face and neck. The pain and terror she must have suffered in her last moments, as your frenzied knife attack continued, is beyond imagining.'

Griffiths stood in front of a court packed with Ellie's family and friends as he was told to serve a minimum term of 12 years and six months.

Ellie and Griffiths, who swam at county and international level, had been in a relationship since January 2019.

In a message to friends at 6pm on May 2, Ellie announced that she had ended the relationship and he had not taken it well.

On the morning of May 3, Griffiths was driven to school by his mother Rachel Griffiths but he returned home by bus a short time later.

The learner driver hid in a wardrobe at his family home and waited for his mother to leave before illegally using his Ford Fiesta to go to Ellie's home, arriving at 10.58am.

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Crime / Missing N.J. Woman's Ex Who Sent Angry Texts The Night She Vanished Dies By Suic by stellapatu: 4:15pm On Nov 29, 2019
The stockbroker, ex-boyfriend of a New Jersey woman who disappeared three weeks ago has been found dead in his home, authorities say.

The body of John Ozbilgen, 29, was found at his home in Freehold Township on Friday, said the Monmouth County Prosecutor's Office. Officials called Ozbilgen a 'person of interest' in his former girlfriend's disappearance.

His attorney, Robert Honecker, confirmed that his client died by suicide.

The prosecutor notes in a statement shared with the Asbury Park Press that the investigation into the disappearance of Stephanie Parze, 25, 'remains active', and that more is to follow.Investigators are said to have found at least nine images of children as young as three being sexually abused during a search of his home in connection with Parze's disappearance on October 30, NJ.com reports.

The pornography charge was unrelated to the disappearance of Parze, who received several angry, profanity-laden text messages from Ozbilgen the night before she vanished, authorities said.

Ozbilgen sent at least 10 texts and Facebook messages to Parze, prosecutors told the Asbury Park Press.

He told her that 'she always has to make their relationship suck' and called her a 'f***ing c***,' Monmouth County Assistant Prosecutor Caitlin Sidley said.

Things had become so bad between the pair that Parze, 25, had filed a simple assault domestic violence complaint against Ozbilgen in September, the Asbury Park Press reports.

While investigating Parze's disappearance, detectives noticed marks around Ozbilgen's neck, and he was named a 'person of interest' in the woman's disappearance.

It's not clear if Ozbilgen took his life because of the the child porn possession charges he faced, which includes up to five years in prison on a conviction.

Ozbilgen's violence against women is borne out in his history, as well as pornography he seeks out of very young children. There are no conditions that can keep this community safe,' Monmouth County Assistant Prosecutor Caitlin Sidley said.

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Family / Mother Reveals She Gets Death Threats And Is Accused Of Child Abuse Because She by stellapatu: 4:01pm On Nov 29, 2019
A mother-of-two has received death threats and been accused of abusing her children after choosing to breastfeed her daughters on demand for five years.

Lactation consultant, Melissa Ostroth, 34, from Toledo, Ohio, always knew she would practice natural-term breastfeeding with her children after watching her own mother breastfeed her brothers when she was a child.

However after receiving abuse from online trolls, Melissa, who has been practicing natural-term weaning - which allows her children decide when they wish to stop breastfeeding - has said no mother feel ashamed of the act.

Melissa, who shares daughters, Emilia, four, and Wrenly, two, with her husband Steve, 34, has been breastfeeding for five years with just a three-month break between her two daughters.Her eldest self-weaned when Melissa was 20-weeks pregnant with Wrenly because she did not like the taste of colostrum.

Melissa continues to breastfeed on demand, which can be anywhere between six to 10 times per day, and shares her journey on Instagram under the handle @milkitivity.

She now hopes to be an inspiration to other mothers to show them that they should not feel ashamed of breastfeeding their children past the age of one.

The mother-of-two has lots of like-minded followers on social media who support her message but she has also been subjected to abuse from cruel trolls online who have sent her death threats, accused her of child abuse and told her she's only breastfeeding for her own benefit and that she needs to cut the cord.

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Family / She Lost Her Husband, Then Her Son, Daughter And Mother. What's Left For Chris H by stellapatu: 6:03pm On Nov 25, 2019
YORK, Pa. – Christine Hanes doesn't languish in what once was.

She doesn't compare her life now to the one she had with a full house with her husband and three kids because that would magnify the ache in her heart.

Instead, she lives for today, for her family, her church, her job and the new home she found after her husband and son died in the same year.

She has been on what she calls a "journey" for the last four years. While it's been anchored by tremendous grief, including the loss of one of her daughters and her mother, her journey has also seen days of great joy and personal satisfaction, all of it resting on a foundation of faith.

She doesn't tell her story often because she doesn't want people to feel sorry for her.

"I don't want to be known as the woman who lost her husband and her son and her daughter," Chris said. "I want to be an inspiration."

Ryland Harpster's blond hair falls around his tiny face as he watches a movie in his grandmother's living room. He plays with his toys and occasionally walks to his "Mimi," just a few feet away to ask for something to eat or to fix a toy.

"He melts my heart," said Chris of her youngest grandchild, the only child of her daughter Alysia, who died in April.

Chris' home is a comfortable three-bedroom house . Photographs of her family cover the walls along with quotes about family and faith.

She had spent years living as a caregiver in a house retrofitted to accommodate her paralyzed son and her husband, who had Lou Gehrig's disease. When they died, she wanted to get out of that house – too big, too much for her.

This house reflects the new life she has built in the wake of her losses.

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