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RomanceRe: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by StephenP(m): 4:01am On Oct 15, 2008
DeepZone:
I think jealousy comes from inferiority complex and as long as you believe that you are the hottest man or woman on the planet in your heart, you can beat these odds.
For many, it's easier said than done. Heck, some people don't even realize it when they're jealous so that definitely won't work for them.
RomanceRe: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by StephenP(m): 3:50am On Oct 15, 2008
LMAOO!! Guess what's featured on the Yahoo page? "Dating 101: Four Ways to Turn Jealousy Into an Asset" http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/relationships/24091/dating-101-four-ways-to-turn-jealousy-into-an-asset/

What are the chances?
RomanceRe: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by StephenP(m): 3:38am On Oct 15, 2008
DeepZone:
Those guilty of that act are usually the dumped ones but the girl in question here at lest was honest about her escapades. For some reason best know to her, she decided not to address the issue of her 2 friends that slept with her EX. That's nairaland for you. people should reserve their rights to answer or reply to comments they wish and ignore the ones they don't want to and i do that many times everyday. She shouldn't be found guilty of contempt just because she did not address that issue.
True and that is when one has no choice but read between the lines and/or assume. If she feels she did the right thing for the right and justifiable reason then kudos to her. smiley
RomanceRe: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by StephenP(m): 2:56am On Oct 15, 2008
DeepZone:
I was making a reference to where and how things like that easily happen. I didn't read her initial statement but I know that most guys trap their girls friends through facebook.
And I guess the friendship runs so deep that the girl's friends won't tell her hey your man is all over me. Don't get me wrong, I'm not defending the man in fact, he's a douchebag but please don't make excuses for the women who slept with their friend's man (ex).

KarmaMod:
osisi what I don't understand is why is it Barbi was bothered by the girl being "cocky" about her finace yet wasnt bothered that she has dishonest trifling friends
I don't get it either!!

DeepZone:
She never said that and that issue may have been dealt by her. The point is that she specified two problems and  elaborated more on one but that doesn't mean that she left the issue of her friends unattended unless she said so.
Well, she still calls them her friends even though they broke the first rule of friendship.
RomanceRe: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by StephenP(m): 1:47am On Oct 15, 2008
DeepZone:
They were not good friends. It's that stupid face book that is the major cause of all the sex networking among friends. Guys use that tool for a weird  purpose different from what women use it for.
huh Where does facebook come into all of this?
RomanceRe: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by StephenP(m): 1:40am On Oct 15, 2008
plus_Queen:
You need a therapist!
If you had a life the last thing on your list would be stalking an ex and following up on his fiancee and list of bedmates.
Tufiakwa!
It's even worse that jealousy engulfs her and she goes out to hurt the girls he's with because they're are being to cocky yet her own friends have had sex with him. This world freaking amazes me.
RomanceRe: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by StephenP(m): 1:28am On Oct 15, 2008
NaijaBarbi:
shocked No, in all seriousness u guys. i only told her based on fact. both women that he was sleeping with were in my group of friends. They only slept with him casual like (booty call), but they didnt know that i knew. (They didnt want to tell me because i was once his girl) And i was going to keep my mouth shut when i was told by my best friend, even when i saw the post that he was engaged. Its only her attitude and cockiness later towards all my long time friends, and his continuous lying that made me decide to do that. it was to set him straight, what he thought she would never find out, since she didnt live in our area.
So you only told her because of her "attitude and cockiness"? Maybe the cockiness you're reading is just her being proud in her man. By the way, was he dating her while he slept with them? If yes, you should change your friends because they knew he was cheating and plus he is your ex, if not, why would tell her? Like I said, I'm beginning to suspect you were envious of the fact that he was getting married to her and you went on to hurt her instead of dude.
RomanceRe: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by StephenP(m): 1:06am On Oct 15, 2008
NaijaBarbi:
i told my exes current fiance about the two other women he is currently sleeping with. She didnt know because she lives 6 hours away, and was visiting for a party. She was so smug and kept bragging about him, i just had to bust her bubble and taint her innocent outlook of that lying rat.  grin
I don't know how I feel about this. I mean, I guess you did the right thing by letting the woman know that the man wasn't true to her and all but what if you were wrong? Also, what about the woman who is now heartbroken and probably depressed? Such news can make someone suicidal you know? I think you hurt her the most and the way I see it, it was done outta envy.
RomanceRe: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by StephenP(m): 12:35am On Oct 15, 2008
Sorry to disrupt the love thing you guys got going on but. . .

@topic, Nada. Though I can imagine that it takes a lot of work because you constantly have to remind yourself that you now hate that person and I am just not that conniving. However, it's immature and anyone who would take out that much time to hurt someone for the seconds of pleasure it would give them really needs to be sent to rehab.
RomanceRe: Must We Beat Our Women by StephenP(m): 7:50pm On Oct 14, 2008
That video was repulsive. . . to even think he was hitting her for a mere necklace is just crazy! She shouldn't have confronted him like that though but that doesn't give him the right to hit her.
LiteratureA Familiar Route by StephenP(op): 7:14pm On Oct 14, 2008
Driving down a familiar route, I fight the urges to take the “scenic route” that conveniently takes me towards you. But I stop myself, shaking my head at the notion, reminding myself that such actions would only strip away what‘s left of my fading sanity.

Thoughts become overwhelming.

I go back to our first date. Everything from the way you dressed to the way the moon hung low enough to glimmer off our skin so it seemed like we made each other glow, was perfect. I know now that I fell too quickly, but I never knew how deep and how thick till I found myself suffocating, drowning in the mere sound of your name.

This may damn near be an addiction.

Obsession.

Far past the norms of infatuation.

I’m lost.

Driving down a familiar route, I fight the urges to take the “scenic route” that conveniently take me towards you. But I stop myself, shaking my head at the notion, reminding myself that this love is undeserving and unwanted.

I remember our last kiss. As our lips touched tips I could see our shadows fully embrace, becoming one, letting passion take over. I wonder if that night, our shadows whisked off together into the stars, rebelling from us, refusing to live without the other, fleeing from reality into a paradise unknown to us.

I have lost it.

I reach the fork in the road and the moment comes for me to decide. Wisdom quietly reminds me that the choice I make tonight will hold no power over destiny.

Que sera, sera
What ever will be, will be.

So I decide to take the road less traveled.
Either way it takes me home.

https://www.madmarki.co.uk/img/road.jpg
Poems For ReviewRe: Poem: I Come To You. . . by StephenP(op): 7:03pm On Oct 14, 2008
firestar:
You dare to string pearls using searing heat!


Careful, lest your craving twists you entirely- making you weak.
I am aware of the consequences, yet, I come to you because you are my strength.

bluespice:
stephenP!
i always said i loved ur works
but ill repeat it once more
i love this piece
i love the way u make the object more than an object,
like a force,
energy
pure energy
yet very human
with "scars" to prove that
i might be biased because I'm a woman,
but i love the way the work almost exalts her to the position of a goddess above other goddesses
i guess those that told us not to give up on the male race were right afterall
there still exists some good ones
Thank you. I truly appreciate it.
Poems For ReviewPoem: I Come To You. . . by StephenP(op): 3:21pm On Oct 13, 2008
I come to you with a craving I know you can fulfill,
A thirst quenchable by your poise,
A hunger satisfied by your mind.

I listen as you speak,
Soaking the words that leak from your lips,
They lift me high upon the clouds,
There I reside mesmerized,
Letting the sound of your voice soothe me like a lullaby,
Inviting you into my dreams,
In you I find peace.

I watch you,
Your essence’s a remnant of great sorceresses and wise queens,
You are a force,
And like a magnet you pull me on course towards you,
With your stance,
Your character worthy to be defined as that of a woman.
I look to you in awe,
Begging to kiss the lips of a woman who has drank from the elixir of the goddesses,
And defiantly conquered all odds that called for her to fail.
You sail on an ocean of victory with scars to show that it wasn’t easy,
The journey of a woman, a history untold,
I long to unfold.

And so I,
Come to you with a craving I know you can fulfill,
Not of the physical,
But of the priority of the soul.
My mind needs your mind,
My heart needs your heart,
My love needs your love,
My all needs your all.

https://i180.photobucket.com/albums/x283/buddhalady_photo/africangoddess/AfricanGoddess.jpg
EducationRe: Enough With The Pigeon English! by StephenP(m): 4:12am On Oct 13, 2008
grin This is why I keep coming back to Nairaland. . .

j-girl:
People learn pidgin from here.
There's nothing wrong with that
This guy needs to wake up.
People like me. How else would I have learned "oga o"?
RomanceRe: African Men Too Dominating! All Women Dumb? by StephenP(m): 10:40pm On Oct 07, 2008
tope2000:
U see this why I'm in love with stephen grin grin kiss
I love you too sweetie.
RomanceRe: African Men Too Dominating! All Women Dumb? by StephenP(m): 10:31pm On Oct 07, 2008
Many might say it's a man world and I don't necessarily disagree with them but I think women are stepping up and collecting their fair share of power. They are going into politics and taking over male domineering fields and the like . . . Heck, the Republicans have a woman as VP and if Obama loses (knock on wood), we'll have a woman as president of the US (let's face it McCain won't last four years). So I think the world is becoming equally shared.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Am In Love With Jay Bee by StephenP(m): 7:44pm On Oct 07, 2008
jennykadri:
i will open up a thread for u,if only u'll put my name first before phoenix's  angry tongue
Does it matter? It isn't put in order of preference anyway.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Am In Love With Jay Bee by StephenP(m): 7:36pm On Oct 07, 2008
I am still waiting on my own love thread so DaPhoenix, Jenny, LadyT, Ruby, Tope2000 and the rest of my concubines/admirers (y'all know yourselves lol) speed it up! grin
RomanceRe: African Men Too Dominating! All Women Dumb? by StephenP(m): 7:29pm On Oct 07, 2008
And if he isn't, he's too weak and not "manly".

davidylan*:
oya fly away with ur generalizations.
Please let her go ahead.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Please delete your posts so i can delete the thread by StephenP(m): 7:12pm On Oct 07, 2008
I love how so many mysteries are surfacing at the same time. Razorr's thread gave me a rush with its twists and turns and now this . . .
Nairaland GeneralRe: Please delete your posts so i can delete the thread by StephenP(m): 9:22pm On Oct 06, 2008
sistawoman:
how bout this when you see my name, you know over there on the left side the page, skip my post.

then you don't have to read or see or know about, then it is not a rub in your face.

Thats what i do to certain people.  If i don't like the person or feel they have nothing to contribute i don't open their threads and skip their posts or only scan for my name and I keep it moving.

Like it or lump it i will continue to be me.

Everything aint for Everybody.
Well, don't trip when people like mr.sistrwmn show up.

jennykadri:
sistawoman u have d right to ask d admin the ip of d guy whos been claiming to be ur husband on this forum

ask him,hes supposed to give it to u
I don't see how that IP bidness would help. Sistawoman still won't change. Soon sistwmnexhubby would "reveal" himself.
RomanceRe: Tell Him/her Something Good. by StephenP(m): 6:55pm On Oct 06, 2008
To her, thank you for still sticking by me and waiting on me even at times when I was totally unresponsive to the love you were giving and to the relationship as a whole.

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