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DeepZone:For many, it's easier said than done. Heck, some people don't even realize it when they're jealous so that definitely won't work for them. |
LMAOO!! Guess what's featured on the Yahoo page? "Dating 101: Four Ways to Turn Jealousy Into an Asset" http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/relationships/24091/dating-101-four-ways-to-turn-jealousy-into-an-asset/ What are the chances? |
DeepZone:True and that is when one has no choice but read between the lines and/or assume. If she feels she did the right thing for the right and justifiable reason then kudos to her. ![]() |
DeepZone:And I guess the friendship runs so deep that the girl's friends won't tell her hey your man is all over me. Don't get me wrong, I'm not defending the man in fact, he's a douchebag but please don't make excuses for the women who slept with their friend's man (ex). KarmaMod:I don't get it either!! DeepZone:Well, she still calls them her friends even though they broke the first rule of friendship. |
DeepZone: Where does facebook come into all of this? |
plus_Queen:It's even worse that jealousy engulfs her and she goes out to hurt the girls he's with because they're are being to cocky yet her own friends have had sex with him. This world freaking amazes me. |
NaijaBarbi:So you only told her because of her "attitude and cockiness"? Maybe the cockiness you're reading is just her being proud in her man. By the way, was he dating her while he slept with them? If yes, you should change your friends because they knew he was cheating and plus he is your ex, if not, why would tell her? Like I said, I'm beginning to suspect you were envious of the fact that he was getting married to her and you went on to hurt her instead of dude. |
NaijaBarbi:I don't know how I feel about this. I mean, I guess you did the right thing by letting the woman know that the man wasn't true to her and all but what if you were wrong? Also, what about the woman who is now heartbroken and probably depressed? Such news can make someone suicidal you know? I think you hurt her the most and the way I see it, it was done outta envy. |
Sorry to disrupt the love thing you guys got going on but. . . @topic, Nada. Though I can imagine that it takes a lot of work because you constantly have to remind yourself that you now hate that person and I am just not that conniving. However, it's immature and anyone who would take out that much time to hurt someone for the seconds of pleasure it would give them really needs to be sent to rehab. |
That video was repulsive. . . to even think he was hitting her for a mere necklace is just crazy! She shouldn't have confronted him like that though but that doesn't give him the right to hit her. |
Driving down a familiar route, I fight the urges to take the “scenic route” that conveniently takes me towards you. But I stop myself, shaking my head at the notion, reminding myself that such actions would only strip away what‘s left of my fading sanity. Thoughts become overwhelming. I go back to our first date. Everything from the way you dressed to the way the moon hung low enough to glimmer off our skin so it seemed like we made each other glow, was perfect. I know now that I fell too quickly, but I never knew how deep and how thick till I found myself suffocating, drowning in the mere sound of your name. This may damn near be an addiction. Obsession. Far past the norms of infatuation. I’m lost. Driving down a familiar route, I fight the urges to take the “scenic route” that conveniently take me towards you. But I stop myself, shaking my head at the notion, reminding myself that this love is undeserving and unwanted. I remember our last kiss. As our lips touched tips I could see our shadows fully embrace, becoming one, letting passion take over. I wonder if that night, our shadows whisked off together into the stars, rebelling from us, refusing to live without the other, fleeing from reality into a paradise unknown to us. I have lost it. I reach the fork in the road and the moment comes for me to decide. Wisdom quietly reminds me that the choice I make tonight will hold no power over destiny. Que sera, sera What ever will be, will be. So I decide to take the road less traveled. Either way it takes me home. https://www.madmarki.co.uk/img/road.jpg |
firestar:I am aware of the consequences, yet, I come to you because you are my strength. bluespice:Thank you. I truly appreciate it. |
I come to you with a craving I know you can fulfill, A thirst quenchable by your poise, A hunger satisfied by your mind. I listen as you speak, Soaking the words that leak from your lips, They lift me high upon the clouds, There I reside mesmerized, Letting the sound of your voice soothe me like a lullaby, Inviting you into my dreams, In you I find peace. I watch you, Your essence’s a remnant of great sorceresses and wise queens, You are a force, And like a magnet you pull me on course towards you, With your stance, Your character worthy to be defined as that of a woman. I look to you in awe, Begging to kiss the lips of a woman who has drank from the elixir of the goddesses, And defiantly conquered all odds that called for her to fail. You sail on an ocean of victory with scars to show that it wasn’t easy, The journey of a woman, a history untold, I long to unfold. And so I, Come to you with a craving I know you can fulfill, Not of the physical, But of the priority of the soul. My mind needs your mind, My heart needs your heart, My love needs your love, My all needs your all. https://i180.photobucket.com/albums/x283/buddhalady_photo/africangoddess/AfricanGoddess.jpg |
This is why I keep coming back to Nairaland. . . j-girl:People like me. How else would I have learned "oga o"? |
tope2000:I love you too sweetie. |
Many might say it's a man world and I don't necessarily disagree with them but I think women are stepping up and collecting their fair share of power. They are going into politics and taking over male domineering fields and the like . . . Heck, the Republicans have a woman as VP and if Obama loses (knock on wood), we'll have a woman as president of the US (let's face it McCain won't last four years). So I think the world is becoming equally shared. |
jennykadri:Does it matter? It isn't put in order of preference anyway. |
I am still waiting on my own love thread so DaPhoenix, Jenny, LadyT, Ruby, Tope2000 and the rest of my concubines/admirers (y'all know yourselves lol) speed it up! ![]() |
And if he isn't, he's too weak and not "manly". davidylan*:Please let her go ahead. |
I love how so many mysteries are surfacing at the same time. Razorr's thread gave me a rush with its twists and turns and now this . . . |
sistawoman:Well, don't trip when people like mr.sistrwmn show up. jennykadri:I don't see how that IP bidness would help. Sistawoman still won't change. Soon sistwmnexhubby would "reveal" himself. |
To her, thank you for still sticking by me and waiting on me even at times when I was totally unresponsive to the love you were giving and to the relationship as a whole. |
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Where does facebook come into all of this?
