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True. Brandy's new single Right Here (Departed) is fire. Deep lyrics and awesome vocal arrangements as usual. I love that song.

@poster, he don't love you anymore. Move the hell on!

sas2chat4:
@steven p
to be honest & sincere with you, it's not what you thougt.

Because seriously though, that's the best you could come up with? Cousin's sister? You probably should have thought through the story before posting this.

Go to the sperm bank cause you ain't getting none of this d!ck right here.

sas2chat4:
There was this guy (a senior friend), whom i meet at my place of work. He told me that[b] he wants me to marry his cousine sister[/b]. I took it to be joke but i never new he really meant what he was saying. Today he gave me her phone number & email address & promised to bring me her pictures when next he travels. He went to the extent of giving me her residential addresses in two states, where she is based, while i am in another different state entirely.
Note that i have never seen nor meet this girl before.
I am confused & despirately in need of a true & genuine advice.

He wants you to marry his cousin's sister? Isn't she also his cousin?

You both can get married but adopt instead of having kids. I know, it's easier said than done but that way you don't have to keep paying for drugs everyday of your child's life knowing fully well that he/she may die at anytime.

I will open my eyes and heart and act in your play.

@poster, quit whining and deal with it.

@topic, So?

FactorChic:
That's the story line in the movie "Ale Ariwo"

Baba Wande was the father

Funso Adeolu was the son

Lola Alao was the lady

oya Grab your copy NOW!

Remember to watch out for Part II

Who's gon' play the father?

So were is Part II of this story?

@poster, I have no idea why I'm even getting mad at you, you're simply displaying your ignorance for us to see.

onyinye2:
As I said before. . . . sometimes a woman can be going through some things you know. Has been having a really bad week, aint nothing going right, folk pulling her in every which way. And if she got kids, has to put everything aside and care for them. Not to mention have to make sure everybody is content and happy. Then her husband comes in, ranting and raging about this and that.

Not taking into consideration that his wife aint really in the mood to hear all that. And maybe just fell into the influence of emotions and took it out on you. Which will happen from time to time, just not phyiscally. As her LOVING husband, instead jumping on the gun and hitting her back, try to understand why she was provoked to hit you in the first place.

I'm not saying women are emotionally unstable creatures but sometimes you might lose sight of things. I for one, understand. Sometimes your emotions get the best of you.

So she is justified for hitting him? Why can't she let her rage and frustrations out like her husband? A real woman know to use all that negative energy and turn it into something positive.

PS Don't mask it, it's a known fact that many women are emotionally unstable and there's nothing wrong with it.

onyinye2:
Hey I might have some muscles on me, but don't me NOTHING compared to those of the male species.

Knowing that, why would you then attempt to provoke him by hitting him?

onyinye2:
Yal fellas is a trip. Getting all worked up for a slap? I mean do you not know the difference between her slap with her delicate hands, than yours with your ginormous gorilla hands?

Onyinye, you still classify your hands as delicate after all your weightlifting classes? Hmm . . . .

rampagain:
bia stephen,obu gi no na proifi gi?chineke

what are all them single girls waiting for?rush this guy naaaa


_{its moi jenny}

LOL the moment you spoke in Igbo, m si na onye a bu Jenny. Kedu?

Hannibal:
Send her back to her dad's house?? Thats over-reaction!!!

Give her 2 hot slaps. . . . . .make up, kiss and live happily ever after.
This incident is too small to accomodate a 3rd party.
The only thing that would make me send her back to her dad is INFIDELITY.

I'll rather let her dad do the "honors".

onyinye2:
DAMN!!! I can see you fellas don't let nothing mess with ya buddy, EGO. Gotta make sure it is protected at all times. On the real, sometimes you gotta swallow up some of that pride and go on a deeper level. As in, asking why she would hit you in the first place? What was bothering her. It is so much easier than the alternatives. Jeez. . . they way some of yal sound, makes me think yal are her father rather than her husband.

It has nothing to do with ego, I'm only sending her back to her dad's house so that he can teach her not to hit men except maybe in self-defense.

onyinye2:
If you think throwing your WIFE out of the house is not complaining then, i must rephrase my definition.
If you really cared about her, you would figure out why she was provoked to hit you in the first place.

Maybe she should have discussed with me first before taking action. How about if I'm not to blame? And even if I was what on God's green earth gave her idea that she could hit me and go scot free.

tope2000:
hehehehe
give her chance na, maybe the next time she will stab instead of a slap

I know right! That's why I'll give her back to her father and ask for a refund of the kegs of palm wine I gave to him LOL

onyinye2:
Most of these guys will either:
A. Walk Away
B. [/b]Retaliate
[b]C. Throw her out the house
D. Figure out why she hit him in the first place.

Oka fellas, state what letter you would abide by. . . . .

Definitely C. Let her think about what she just did before she's sets a bad example for the kids.

onyinye2:
All Real Men will go straight for. . . .

OPTION: D!!!

If you choose otherwise

Forget that crap about all real men. All real women don't hit men in the first place, but you don't see me complaining.

onyinye2:
@sistawoman

I'm in my prime. I've got time before i even start to consider settling down with someone for the rest of my life.
Roles, guidelines, expectations, standards. . . . . so on and so forth are all things I'm not too cool with but hey give me a few years and who knows the outcome.

3 years isn't that long.

tope2000:
@POST
turn the other cheek and let her slap that one too.

The only thing that will be turning would be her as she's walking out my door

It's funny that so many men are saying they'll leave and when they'll come back they'll have sex. So that just going to set everything straight? What about the memory? Is it just gon' disappear during sex? She done lost her mind thinking she can just slap me and shit won't go down. In fact, in my marriage vow I'm gon' put in bold, if at any time you hit me intentionally or unintentionally, you are to immediately pack your belongings* and leave the house.

*things you bought for yourself with your own money. Note: This doesn't include the money I'll give to you during the course of this marriage to buy something for yourself.

She better have a good reason why she hit me and what I did better be part of that reason else I'll send her back to her father's house and forward the divorce papers to her because she doesn't love me well enough to know not to take out her anger on me.

sima:
lloll, so because jim n' brandy were seen together . . does that actully mean dey are datin or gettin married

In fact if they were indeed seen together it would be easier to believe.

A woman should be the one writing this . . . Oh, never mind, I just googled the first two lines and found that the poster Ctrl+Ced and Ctrl+Ped this poem.

She was found not guilty. By the way, her new song "Right Here (Departed)" is really good. Check it out here