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Romance › Re: How To Convince A Lady Already In A Relationship by StephenP(m): 3:13am On Sep 16, 2008

Show her that you can love her better than he can.

Poems For Review › Re: Poem: I See by StephenP(op): 11:51pm On Sep 15, 2008

onyinye2:
Oh Stephen (deep sigh), You and these poems did bring some light to my day.
The Hurricane and its destruction had me really depressed but when i read. . . .
"And so I study the language your body speaks,
Speaking it fluently,
As if it were my native tongue,"
It put a smile on my face.

Aww . . . thanks.

*Morenike:
Just say "I love You", jeez.

LMAO!! Eventually, she'll come around and say it.

Literature › My Random Thoughts by StephenP(op): 11:37pm On Sep 15, 2008

Today being my birthday and all, I decided to reflect on my life and one thing that hit me was the common and arguably overused phrase,"I love you."

I can’t think of any moment more painful, exciting, nerve-racking, exhilarating and at the same time terrifying than saying I love you for the first time. There is so much at stake- your heart, pride, and the relationship!!! You begin to wonder will the person say it back? If not, then what happens next? If they do say it back, is it out of pressure or do they mean it? The most important question when you say "I love you" should be, do YOU mean it?

It is only human nature to master the art of knowing how we want to be loved. While finding ourselves clueless when it comes to loving others and what it even MEANS to love them. In a long conversation with a good friend about saying “I love you” we concluded that either we don’t know what love is and we use the name in vain or love is more complicated than we thought. The one thing we agreed on was that love isn’t always blind. One can love someone with open eyes to their faults. The question is when you love someone who isn’t ready for you, do you wait close by, or do you wander off till they’re ready?

(We couldn’t come to an agreement)

Love is easier defined than acted upon. If I say I love a woman because I feel myself glowing whenever she’s around, she brings out the best in me…etc. If all that were true, would that love still be legitimate if I am seeing someone else?

(Still couldn’t come to an agreement)

In my opinion the problem is we love purely by our feelings, but feelings so easily change. So where does that leave love? Because all it takes is a little anger, jealousy or fear to do something out of the characteristics of love. For some love is complicated. Like my good friend, who has found himself in the gray areas, were it is uncertain the direction or position of his ongoing relationship. Should he love by waiting close by, or can his love still exist from afar? Either way love is still a beautiful thing, best handled by strong hearts. But right now, I prefer just being a spectator.

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Romance › Re: What Is The Effect Of Nairaland On Your Love Life? by StephenP(m): 11:09pm On Sep 15, 2008

ikamefa:
i thinks its nigerian village square

Hmm . . . thanks.

Romance › Re: What Is The Effect Of Nairaland On Your Love Life? by StephenP(m): 8:27pm On Sep 15, 2008

What does NVS stand for?

Poems For Review › Re: Poem: Rediscovering Herself by StephenP(op): 8:26pm On Sep 15, 2008

onyinye2:
Nwannem, good luck with your list
Hope i don't see you on the 11o'clock news about some drunk Nigerian man who dared to try and walk in the middle Time Square with nothing but a rain coat and shades on. LMAO.

LOL

onyinye2:
Yeah you got that right KOFFEE!!! But we have to go on a test drive first you know. You know us show stoppas gotta bring the heat and serve it cold.

Bring my ride back in one piece because I know you can't drive. lipsrsealed

Poems For Review › Re: Poem: Rediscovering Herself by StephenP(op): 8:14pm On Sep 15, 2008

onyinye2:
Nnoo
I tried to found out how to say "Happy Birthday" in Igbo but. . . . i kept getting different veriations so i was like "Oh what the heck, I'll say it in Espanol"
I hope you have a very blessed birthday with your friends and family. Hope you enjoy yourself and have a safe time. Let me capitalize on the word SAFE. Something about folks birthday make them want to try daring things.

I know!! Anyway, I've got my list for things to do. Hint: one is how many times can I run in front of a moving train without it hitting me lol

ibkaye:
Don't worry yourself jare, I got it all under control, trust me na, bros, make i just commot the pic for nairaland so e don land for ya car park

Am a G na

LMAO!! I better see it.

Poems For Review › Re: Poem: Rediscovering Herself by StephenP(op): 8:02pm On Sep 15, 2008

Thanks for the wishes and the Cadillac Ibkaye . . . now all that is left is for me to see it on my driveway lol

Romance › Re: What Is The Effect Of Nairaland On Your Love Life? by StephenP(m): 7:57pm On Sep 15, 2008

tope2000:
happy birthday stephen
long life and prosperity

Thanks a lot Tope. kiss

Poems For Review › Re: Poem: Rediscovering Herself by StephenP(op): 7:56pm On Sep 15, 2008

onyinye2:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEPHEN!!!!
FELIZ CUMPLEANOS!!!!!
KA CHUKWU GOZIE GI!!!!
KA CHUKWU NYE UNU AHU IKE!!!!!!

Thank you so much Onyinye! I appreciate it. kiss

Romance › Re: What Is The Effect Of Nairaland On Your Love Life? by StephenP(m): 7:34pm On Sep 15, 2008

@poster, I totally see where you're coming from. I think it has a negative effect on many people though they might not realize it. The time they should spend with their lover, they spend making a gazillion posts per day and if their lover is lucky enough to pull them away from the computer, they go mobile. But then again, for a few, it has helped them work on their relationship.

Romance › Re: Would You Want To Be Kissed On Your First Date? by StephenP(m): 2:20am On Sep 15, 2008

It depends on how the date is going and the chemistry we have/had before we went on the first date. I have never kissed a girl on the lips on the first date but I definitely won't rule it out or refuse if the girl wants to kiss me because sometimes, it can be impulsive. But I'll make it short yet sensual just so I can keep her wanting for more.

Celebrities › Re: Jim Iyke Set To Marry Singer Brandy. by StephenP(m): 8:50pm On Sep 13, 2008

Quit spreading rumors.

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 3:03am On Sep 13, 2008

doyin13:
Whats with the Euphemism on the thread poll sef

Abegi. . . .it is FAT not PHAT.

LOL!!! Nowadays, you have to use Phat, BBW, Plus size, A few extra pounds . . . cause fat is sorta insulting.

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 2:51am On Sep 13, 2008

onyinye2:
Hmmm. . . . not really when the best is always saved for last.

Nice way to look at it but no it doesn't work this time . . . LOL I'm just playing, you know we're jogging partners.

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 2:44am On Sep 13, 2008

davidylan:
go ahead and steal the others.

LOL Naw David, I called dibs on all three of them.

@stillwater, please do me a favor and put your picture up for a minute so that I can know what school of thought I belong to, that is, slender or hourglass.

@onyinye, I know, it sucks being the last person to be picked.

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 2:37am On Sep 13, 2008

Ok, I'm just gon' steal LadyT, Tope2000 and stillwater . . .

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 2:31am On Sep 13, 2008

stillwater:
Whatever situation you find yourself, give thanks!!!

ROFLMAO!!!!

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 2:25am On Sep 13, 2008

stillwater:
Is that good or bad if you sound like him?

I don't know, you tell me grin

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 2:18am On Sep 13, 2008

KarmaMod:
Hispanic men MIGHT be worse though.

Actually no, the winner is Carrib dudes. Freaking pigs.

LMAO!! Apparently, Caribbean women are pros in the bedroom business.

stillwater:
Lol, were you sleep writing as Hannibal does most of the time?

Am I beginning to sound like him?

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 2:09am On Sep 13, 2008

KarmaMod:
Shameless bunch, seriously.

If I see a lot of them in a group, I just go another route.

don't know why most black males have to act like such dogs. when oyibo see something that attracts him, he sneaks a glance and go on his way. Cnstruction workers and frat boys don't count but black men? Ugh. Like psychotic lunatics.

Then ghetto black dudes don't count also.

KarmaMod:
stephen, whose drawing is on your arm

That's my mother.

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 2:06am On Sep 13, 2008

chiogo:
Dayum! I thought I was skinny till I saw those pics. Roflmfao!! I've seen the nicole ritchie one on E! But that Angelina Jolie one got me dying. Pheww.

I guess I'm "slender" like Onyinye put it.

I don't think I'll call you skinny either.

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 2:03am On Sep 13, 2008

davidylan:
i don't necessarily consider that a problem. Its part of being a woman abi

No David, not it's not. No offense to people's who's thighs rub against each other but that shit is just NOT cute.

Queenisha:
I'll describe myself as curvy with nice assets including a flat tummy,thank God!
a healthy looking size 12 or 14 depending on the dress.
I'll like to go back to my regular 10/12 before the last baby
what I hate the most about being curvy is the unwanted attention.
Black men esp akata men just stare at you like crazy.
and you can feel the rays directed at your chest area and butt.
It can be embarassing

Please excuse my hands . . .

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 1:50am On Sep 13, 2008

stephenp, that chic you posted as just for me . . . infact you get my style and size!!! Grin
Except she's too made up.

You know I gotchu that why I posted her picture *throws up gang signs* _lol

thanks stephen for posting the nigerian girls and after a couple of kids,they'll look like the one s I posted

LOL You're welcome

StephenP, who are these aprokas??

Some of them are quite pretty but between me and you, there were some scary ones I had to skip. Funny enough, many of them were skinny tongue

is she hourglass? can't tell, i wouldnt call her curvy though

She has the tendency to be and hourglass if she works on it but she's mos def not skinny

onyinye2:
I no be like an osisi . . . . i have some "meat" on me. Just some of it is in the form of muscles. . . .

Not gon' fly.

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 12:18am On Sep 13, 2008

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 11:53pm On Sep 12, 2008

omoovie:
Me phat but currently headed towards curvy where I totally love to be! I watched Toccara's season of Next Top Model like a girl possessed! LOL.

Where's David? I've got one for you.

onyinye2:
You got me all wrong. I have met some great guys who were raised in Nigeria. In fact one is one of my very best friends. My mind is not necessarily closed but curved when it comes to Nigerian. Because i have met some Nigerian men, born and raised in Nigeria who were . So yeah i tend to go more

Well people would always have their likes and dislikes. I would never go for a White or Asian woman.

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 11:45pm On Sep 12, 2008

onyinye2:
Quite different. Anyways. . . . yeah i tend to like Nigerian men raised abroad, then in Nigeria. At least there is hope for em'. LMAO!!! That is exactly what a friend of mine said. She says she must ask who is domestic partner is.

We all are essentially the same but some people especially think because you as a dude were raised in the US that means you have better manners towards women which really isn't true. Those people just close their minds up and refuse to see the good in Nigerian men raised in Nigeria.

Romance › Re: Skinny, Hourglass, Curvy Or Phat Ladies! Which Do Nigerians Prefer? (with Pics) by StephenP(m): 11:32pm On Sep 12, 2008

onyinye2:
Aren't all men like this?

Have you forgotten what you said on my poem?

j-girl:
She doesn't even have to wear pumps to be banged these days.
All they see on a woman is her physique.
Once she does not want to just connect with them on a physical level, they start thinking all sorts of things.
Like i told my friend yesterday, most of the guys i know are a bunch of Hot dogs who think relationships are all about the physical.
How won't they prefer Beyonce over Jennifer Hudson?

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