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stephen you font is very feminine. Just so you know

[size=13pt]Oh. That really hurt my feelings because my handwriting is pretty much like this font. I guess I should go for a sex change then, LOL.[/size]

Cadet:
LOL!!! It's awesome, but no tears o. Its weird, nothing hardly makes me cry, when was the last time I cried? That's bad

[size=13pt]LOL!! You can also try Brandy "Tomorrow." Damn, I'm like a hardcore Brandy fan but I just started listening to her months ago.

@tRoOE, I like "Heard It All Before" it reminds me of Keyshia Cole's "I Changed My Mind".

@post, Brick and Lace - Love Is Wicked
            Craig David - Don't Love You No More and Separated
            Destiny's Child - Bad Habit and Through With Love[/size]

[size=13pt]Ok. Have some napkins handy.[/size]

[size=13pt]I don't like Britney. I likelove Brandy though. Check out "Love Wouldn't Count Me Out"
[Verse 1]
Oh, I believed in us
Tell me what are you thinking?
Why can't we make it?
Why would you say those things to me?
If you're trying to break this
Just go ahead and say it
If you are in love then why let it go?
Tell me please, what's happened, baby?

[Chorus]
It used to be that
You couldn't live without me
But now you think you're better without me
So now it's over
I guess it wasn't true
When you said I love you
Because love just wouldn’t count me out

[Verse 2]
I believed in everything you said
If your vow couldn't make it
You shouldn't have made it
How could you let me believe
You couldn't leave me
If you never loved me
If you are in love than why let it go?
Tell me please, what's happened baby?

[Chorus]

[Bridge]
I wonder why you hurt me
I question all the pain
What would make you want to leave this way
What made you say it's over
What is taking over
I cannot believe I loved ya
But it wasn't meant to be
Because love wouldn't do this to me
It used to be,

[Chorus out]
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[size=13pt]Oh yeah, my bad.[/size]

[size=13pt]Cadet, you seem to be a big fan of "Phanthom Of The Opera".[/size]

stillwater:
How can people be proud of hitting a woman?

[size=13pt]We'll never know.[/size]

[size=13pt]@j-girl, so "No Air" by Jordin and Chris is your weak point?[/size]

Cadet:
hehehehe, I can't be your mom jare, you can't marry your mom na JK.


and am serious about the questions. . .answer, don't you have lecture tomorrow? or are you a graduate?

[size=13pt]I'm a senior at NYU and I have lectures tomorrow in the afternoon and it's just 9:12 pm here.[/size]

Cadet:
Don't mind him. Jealousy dey do am . And by the way, aren't you suppose to be sleeping? Don't you have classes tomorrow? just asking o

[size=13pt]But mum. . .it's just 9 pm. I want to stay up and post some more. LOL!![/size]

Cadet:
Stephen, do you hear this?

[size=13pt]Yup! I'll hire at least 6 ft. 7 tall bouncers and bodyguards. Why wouldn't they just let us be? LOL!![/size]

Cadet:
I want a one million dollar wedding

[size=13pt]As soon as I become Bill Gates son-in-law, I will come back and marry you and give you that million-dollar wedding. LMAO![/size]

debosky:
you love my name don't you? I can make you scream it if you want

but nah, you're too 'modern' for me. . . I want the chick who will call me 'Daddy' properly groomed from the village

what is there to know? she cooks and cleans, and is a virgin. . .thats all I need to know

[size=13pt]As wrong as this sounds, it is pretty funny. But damn, why is virginity that important?[/size]

Cadet:
Don't worry baby, am buying a plane ticket so we can get to know each other. remember, our wedding is in 3 months don't let me have to kidnap you, I dnt have the energy this time around

[size=13pt]LOL! As long as you don't tell me, you're not in the mood during the honeymoon session, I am cool.[/size]

Radiant:
LOL. . .I agree with you but Mr will you marry someone you don't know like Debo intends to? A woman doesn't become a monster overnight neither does a man become an ass overnight.

The problem is always a case of denial. We never want to see the signs on the wall all in the name of "love". kiss ma bum!

[size=13pt]That's what dating is for. Until I know every little thing about her, I am not slipping any ring on her fourth finger, left hand.[/size]

[size=13pt]LadyT, I agree with you to some extent. But some women deliberately make it so hard for their men to live in peace. Did you see "Tyler Perry's Why Did I Get Married?" Remember that woman that would constantly argue with her husband for no reason? Some women are actually like that. I think everyone needs to work themselves; the guys should know everything does not have to end physically and women should know when to calm down and hold their tongue for peace's sake.[/size]

Cadet:
Now that's what I like to hear. Wish bawomolo could do the same

[size=13pt]LOL! Is he the one stalking following you around?[/size]

Jackal.:
@ StephenP,

Dont include the acts of psychopaths and sociopaths here.
You are citing extreme cases. . . . .Be objective for once, will ya?

[size=13pt] So what if they are extreme? It doesn't change the fact that it happened and still happens. Go to any Nigerian newspaper website and read their reports. Everyday, there is always a story about domestic violence, and most of them are men beating up their wives, or bathing them in acid or even killing them. What I cited wasn't extreme at all.[/size]

Cadet:
Sadly this happens most often in Nigeria, and who is the wife suppose to run to?

[size=13pt]She has no one. She can't run to her husband's family because they would force her back to her husband's house. She can't go home to her family because as far as they are concerned, they have married her off and have had their bride price so she is no longer their "problem". Yet, she has 4-5 kids she needs to feed and protect. It's so depressing.[/size]

Jackal.:
@ Pahtahkee,

To be honest, some women are fucking idiots and trust me, those ones deserve to be slapped repeatedly to tuck senses in their craniums.
Some women behave emselves with just an eye contact/body language. . . .some would stop their madness with just one warning.
However, some are just too stubborn and daring and wont budge until u slap hell out of their faces.
A man gast to do what he has to do to control every situation. . . . .If i happen to marry a goat of a woman, she would be slapped everytime if that is the only thing that can put her in CHECK!!!!!!!

[size=13pt]I don't agree with you. Some men seize every opportunity to beat their wives. For example:
Wife: Darling, I got promoted at work. I might be working late.
Husband: What?! *Beats her*

Wife: I had a baby girl
Husband: What?! *Beats her*

Wife: I want to go to college and get a better job
Husband: No
She begs
He beats her.

It's really got to stop.[/size]

4 Him:
just suppose it ever happened that he slapped you in error?

[size=13pt]There's no way he could have slapped her in error. Not even if he was drunk as shit.[/size]

~Antidote~:
Let me get one thing straight here, What exactly is bugging you? Just need to get that clear,

[size=13pt]Why do some posters here feel the need to flare up at any comment? Why can't they just say "Oh, that guy/girl called me this and I am just going to overlook it"? It's really not that hard.[/size]

~Antidote~:
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Excuse me, but did I come looking  for gorilla's attention?

No one throws stones at me and gets flowers in return,

LOL, This dwarf will continue to cause many sleepless nights, so get used to it goats,

[size=13pt]Exactly my point. At the end of the day, you'll wonder what you've gained from the forum.[/size]

LadyT:
Stephen don't please. Leave it  

[size=13pt]Don't worry. It didn't really phase me. I just wonder why people unnecessarily "flare" up here. It's so unhealthy and totally not worth it. [/size]

~Antidote~:
Can you show me where I stated such??PLEASE,
Look here, don't EVER lie on me, If you have a problem with my OPINION( NOT Scriptual) then attack that, but don't go around posting shit about me without getting your facts straight,

[size=13pt]Whoa, my bad. You said MEN are pretenders. Same difference. By the way, you need to calm down, we are exchanging ideas not insults.[/size]

~Antidote~:
I am NOT even going to waste my time going down that road with you, Saying women pretend the most, is like saying ALL Nigerians do fraud. In other words, Men pretend and Women pretend as well. There are NO winners where this is concerned.

And what is so wrong about a 5ft 4in woman standing up to a 6ft 3in man? Yea, he may beat the crap out of her, but the fact that she showed him she's no coward would stir something inside of him.

AS I earlier said, I do NOT condone physical, verbal or psychological abuse in anyway, However, I won't just dump my husband on the first sign of trouble, I would try to work things out and if it persists, then I take other steps,

[size=13pt]Huh? You just said all men are pretenders, and now that he said women pretend, you say he's being stereotypical.[/size]

4 Him:
Ditto for women. I'm tired of all this "men this men that . . ."
Women pretend the most. They are all nice and cuddly while dating, soon as they become installed as wives the headaches, tiredness, nagging, snapped replies, bitchy claws come into the equation.

[size=13pt]True.[/size]

Cadet:
Beat a man that's twice your size?
Ever heard of this yoruba phrase, "Abara kekere fun abara nl"? meaning, big slap for small slap. A man's hand is usually twice the size of his woman and firmer. When that man hits that woman back gan, she go think thunder hit her

A knife gets the job done.

[size=13pt]That's why I said if you can, do it and if you can't, don't. Some women are bigger than their husbands yet they (the women) let their men beat them.[/size]

Follynio:
@stephen, i didnt compose this poem i heard it somewhere in a film and i fell in love wt it and wanted to share it with d houz.!!!!!!!!! Happy now?

@ clemcycul

@folly69 sweetim why u dey burn our cable for public like this now? haba

[size=13pt]Hey. . .calm down. I had no idea you didn't write this, I wasn't trying to play you or anything. I just wanted us to write poems together because I thought you wrote this. If I had known, I wouldn't have been all up in your business.[/size]

[size=13pt]Ladies, the moment your man hits you, lock the door and beat the shit out of him, call the police and pack your stuff and leave, if you can. If you can't, please don't hit him because that will only aggravate him more, instead simply skip the first step and just call the cops and leave.[/size]

eldee:
This is begining to lookk more like a nollywood movie

[size=13pt]LOL!! I see what you're saying.[/size]

kay9:
Hmmm. If i was the robber, i would should back: NINA BARETTA, 9mm!

[size=13pt]I'd be lying if I say I understand what you just said.[/size]

clemcykul:
u don't trust me den?


don't wait for her cuzz ryte now her airtime has expired, as for the inspiration i'll tell u how i came about da poem when am tru wid my err err err

[size=13pt]LMAO! Yo, folly69 this is when you can prove your love for her. Buy her some airtime, LOL!

Ok, Clem tell me whenever you're ready. For the meantime I'd be waiting for follynio to come back online.[/size]