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Excuse me, but did I come looking  for gorilla's attention?

No one throws stones at me and gets flowers in return,

LOL, This dwarf will continue to cause many sleepless nights, so get used to it goats,

Cadet:

When you're ready to really get back to topic, plz reply the topic. New man, David?

4 Him:

madam don't bother replying if you're so not bothered. its not rocket science. Allow people with brains to contribute please.

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Excuse me, but did I come looking  for gorilla's attention?

No one throws stones at me and gets flowers in return,

LOL, This dwarf will continue to cause many sleepless nights, so get used to it goats,

StephenP:

[size=13pt]Exactly my point. At the end of the day, you'll wonder what you've gained from the forum.[/size]

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Mr.Agricultural science graduate,

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you are too "dark" for my liking,

LadyT:

Whoa hang on who the hell are you calling a goat?

[b]You have started again abi?[/b]Look don't bring it.  Cuz you aint ready. hissssss

Stephen I'm sorry forget what I said  

StephenP:

[size=13pt]Don't worry. It didn't really phase me. I just wonder why people unnecessarily "flare" up here. It's so unhealthy and totally not worth it. [/size]

stillwater:

@ topic

No I can't marry a man that hits me. I am not a trouble maker in person, so what would warrant a slap from him unless he has issues?

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Let me get one thing straight here, What exactly is bugging you? Just need to get that clear,

4 Him:

old things are passed away . . . behold . . .

Ok i pose a question to you, would you leave a marriage (10yrs, 3 kids) because the man hits you? Remember its his first time ever.

just suppose it ever happened that he slapped you in error?

4 Him:

just suppose it ever happened that he slapped you in error?

StephenP:

[size=13pt]Why do some posters here feel the need to flare up at any comment? Why can't they just say "Oh, that guy/girl called me this and I am just going to overlook it"? It's really not that hard.[/size]

4 Him:

just suppose it ever happened that he slapped you in error?

chiegemba:

@ 4him . . . . based on your question y would d husband ever have d thought of raisin his hand on his wife after 3kids and that extended length of marriage? Do u think she really needs 2 wait 2 find out if he's a chronic abuser?

bawomolo:

cadet came crawling back to me even after i hurled her into the garbage truck.

chiegemba:

"In Error"? makes me wonder what that really means

4 Him:

Scenarios occur that we can't really explain. I see men who have probably lost a job, are frustrated, can't cope with the pressue outside and at home. They snap, before they can collect themselves they've landed a slap on the woman's face.

Would you divorce him?

LadyT:

4Him the only way he would be justified is if she was nagging him and pushing and shoving him!
I'm sorry too bad you lost your job and you are stressed.  As a unit (husband and wife) I will be just as stressed as you.  I don't go round slapping faces!

4 Him:

Would you divorce him?

chiegemba:

4 one it sure would lead 2 a separation. . . y in d world would u want 2 snap? i sure didnt get married 2 a maniac who can't control his anger using his wife as what? . . . a bait? . . . . "beats my imagination though"

bawomolo:

what if the woman hits him first, then he is justified to defend himself. and yeah things happen that can push a man to madness.