Literature › Re: The Handsome Devil I Know by stephmiracle: 12:34pm On Apr 07, 2018 |
SapphirePRINCEX: After that night, we started getting along well again but myself, I started bleeding again. At first, I thought it was just my lochia that hasn't stopped yet so I kept managing it till it became full blown. I was changing about 3pads in one hour.
I carried the situation like that back to school, I couldn't afford to miss my final exams for anything in the world. Toshiba tried to be supportive but as always he would flop and I would think maybe it was because he is sex starved.
I would do the entire house chores myself, go to the market with my 5weeks old baby, study for my exams ,cook and still bother about my haemorhage. All he did was go out with friends in the morning, come back to eat and then go off again.
I was a bad arse in arranging of house, I hardly sweep except it has gotten to about 2days and I would just comb the dirt. Toshiba had complained enough so he knew better that if he wants the room to be super arranged he would do it himself, so that was the field he specialized alone.
My bleeding was becoming too much and I was growing pale. Most times, I pass out while breastfeeding Zina and Toshiba wouldn't really care, instead he would say I should handle my baby well and stop being lazy. Every medication I took weren't working and I became very scared for my life.
I wrote my final exams with the bleeding and Zina would be in my arms while I write. It wasn't easy, I expected he would come with me to school at least and help me hold him while I write but he bluntly refused.
After about 8weeks of bleeding, I got an idea to call the doctor who delivered me of my baby. He gave me about 2prescriptions and assured I would be fine. I started looking for the drug all over Benin and I couldn't find it. I combed even the smallest pharmacies but I still couldn't find it, so I sent words to my in-laws to help me search for it in Lagos.
Luckily for me, they got it and they immediately forwarded it to me through bus transit going to Benin. I kept calling the driver till a point his number stopped going. I was desperate to have anything that would save me from my condition.
The driver finally called around past 7pm and told me he was at there park and he would be leaving early the next morning. It was already dark and I was cooking when he called and Zina was awake too. Getting a bike to the park would be very difficult for me at that time and my odds were to trek it or get a cab.
I called Toshiba who was watching a home video and told him to help me go get the drugs. I needed to finish cooking, then get Zina to sleep. He didn't say a word and pretended he didnt hear me. I told him it was late and going out by that time alone for me was dangerous cause of where we lived, then he said I should leave it and go collect it the next day.
I told him I needed to see improvement before morning and he was aware I was loosing Soo much blood, he started yelling at me, that if I can't go and take it, I can as well bleed to death. At that word, I dressed myself up and begged him to atleast look after Zina, it would be terrible going out with him.
I turned off the gas cause he might certainly leave the food burning or worst still leave the room with my baby in it while the food gets burnt.
Fortunately for me, as I stepped out of our gate, the heavens sent me an Angel in form of a bike man. He said he was scared of going but when I explained to him, he quickly said I should mount on his bike and he took me to the park, waited for me and brought me back to the home without collecting a penny.
Tbc I just had to comment. Imagine the level of man's inhumanity to man  . God help us in this world 1 Like |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 2:11pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
PatKing: Wonderful Mommas, Great friends. Thank you so much for the wonderful prayers, wishes, and comments. B.S. coming through once she is in my arms and latching. The love here is overwhelming!!! I no fit mention you all, but each of you is crested in my heart. Congrats ma. May she make God and your family proud. Congrats Mama moyo dunasy. May you carry to term and deliver safely in Jesus name. Amen |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 1:37pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
VannywealthDesi: Good evening mommies. How was our day? I trust we all are doing great. 
November moms can we please signify so I can update our register.  Rushingwind05 is 19th November |
Literature › Re: The Handsome Devil I Know by stephmiracle: 9:14pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
Ogini na-afio?.... Biko Nne Zizi, wave the criticisms and try to complete your story. No leave person hanging joor 1 Like |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 4:54pm On Apr 02, 2018 |
rvpbae: Breastfeeding is hard!!!! How do you guys do it My nipples are sore cos my bab latches well sometimes and doesn't at other times, as per learner.
Please is there anything i can apply on my nipples to make it feel better??
The sleepless nights........may God help me. I've read of LASINOH on this thread. You can get more info by using the search button |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 12:31pm On Apr 02, 2018 |
[quote author=SapphirePRINCEX post=66361088]I just want to Rant small... See why I don't like going to my parents house, my mom will definitely look for something to say to me and it hurts real bad. Nne, this is what I call tough love  . A lot of mums are like that cos they will try to prove to you that they are better mothers since they gave birth to you. So just chill and don't let those words to hurt you. Inugo You know she didn't get to do Omugwo for him so this is the opportunity they have to bond |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 12:21pm On Apr 02, 2018 |
FexCathy: Pls mamas my DS is 3 weeks and has this boil like thing on his left nipple. Should I just leave it be or do I need to take him to the hospital? Thanks in advance Heiya!. Sorry son. He must be in a lot of pain |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 9:49am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Happy birthday 4realwoman. May you experience more supernatural blessings in Jesus name. Amen |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 11:21pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
FloraEC: He's healed dear. E-hugs
Meanwhile my hubby carried himself by himself to the gym yesterday, now he's down and feverish with body pains. I'm now a massager/babysitter/nurse. Is well Awwwwww. Kwontinue your babysitter work  . He will surely be alright |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 11:17pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
ahnie: I'm serious rezzy,its no pranks jinas24 RoseeyO proudmom38 thanks. No evil shall befall him or any of your loved ones so he will be alright. Congrats sis |
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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 1:02pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
Congrats Mummy zaynie. It's the Lord's doing and its marvellous in our sight |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 1:00pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
Fiducia: Birth alert!!!
Thank you soooo much to all mamas  Baby Jay came at exactly 12pm today weighing 3.2kg
Cheeeeeeeeeiiiiiii labour no be here ooo, chai, we cried together, we groaned together, we pushed together and it ended in praise!!!
We still at the hospital
@mummy Zay nie @mummy mit chyy @mummy liftedh ands @ all mamas God bless you all richly Wowwwww. I've been following up on this through your diary. God bless the new baby. Thank God it ended in praise. We are waiting for her BS oooo |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 5:51pm On Mar 30, 2018 |
olubankemi, just tell her to face what she came to your house for and leave your kids out of it |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 5:40pm On Mar 30, 2018 |
SapphirePRINCEX: You get patience o. I raise all mAh organs for you.
Ontop my free tutorial you carry wahala gum body when you never they craze?
Tell her that since she has all the sense in the world, she should go and handle her joblessness   |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 5:31pm On Mar 30, 2018 |
curvilicious: Mamas, I try? @11weeks  Very well dear. Good job |
Literature › Re: The Handsome Devil I Know by stephmiracle: 1:01pm On Mar 30, 2018 |
Thanks for the double update dearie. U try wella 1 Like |
Literature › Re: The Handsome Devil I Know by stephmiracle: 12:49pm On Mar 30, 2018 |
SapphirePRINCEX: Am busy running around my clearance in school, plus my hyperactive baby . I get home in the evenings being Soo exhausted.
Even when I want to really update in the day time, ba3 would be an issue but I promise more longer updates from Saturday. . Amen  Okay. Its well with you sis |
Literature › Re: The Handsome Devil I Know by stephmiracle: 7:25pm On Mar 29, 2018 |
SapphirePRINCEX: Isn't this getting too long? Am thinking of making a summary? Suggestions please @everyone who follows this my already boring piece This story ain't boring and its not also too long for me but I would have loved longer updates shaa 1 Like |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 9:34pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
gabby18: Dear mamas...my 11weeks old ds has these rashes on his neck and discoloration on his cheek...anyone that has experienced this shld pls let me know what worked for them...thanks..
Pls help a ftm..
***the pictures below cld d be a lil bit disturbing, pls bear with me...I ll take them off soon*** I think these are OBO/OBE rashes and it happened to my son severally before he was 1 year. I was given some antibiotics to administer to him and it will leave and after sometime, it will resurface. Even when people talked about the Yoruba women drugs that cures it, I tried it and it still returned after some while but after some time, i noticed it never returned again after series of antibiotics. So, I just think you should go to his Pead or go to a pharmacy and they will give you some antibiotics that will help clear it. Also air his body oh |
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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 10:57pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
portable4real: we r presenting for bumpsy Tuesday. pic is hot n fresh. we are 34 weeks 5 days today.... Pele ma. Your bump is cute |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 3:40pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
LadyPrecy: Cha.nbaby and Lift.edhands abeg I dey find who to dash my 2yrs old Her disturbance tire my power Choi!. See fain babe. She's too cute with her full hair. No need of calling them. Am coming to carry her joor |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 3:38pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
rvpbae: Hi mums.
Pls i need some info. My 4day old son will be having his first immunisation tomorrow. Pls i need to know if it comes with fever and the likes. I just need to know what to expect and how to handle it.
I'm alone with no help for now. Pls answer o. Thanks I don't think BCG comes with fever ooo but just have PCM drop handy in case. There's nothing to worry about |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 3:34pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
Chanbaby: Mamas how are u'll doing? Pls does anyone feel the way I feel When i see a baby girl. I just one to have one but I just go thinking how will I cope with another baby, will my son still get my full attention, will I be able to just go out or travel easily like I do now, can I give her the best of everything. I feel this my thinking is weird or its fear of the unknown. What do u think? This is also part of my worries. I desire a new baby now and i always carry any cute new baby I see but I've always been thinking how am going to cope with another baby. All the same, I agreed with dh that we will start trying for a baby as soon as our son is 1+6 months and DS L will be 1yr+6 months by 27th of April so dh is already on my case as to when he can start pouring everything inside without any calculation  . Na God go help us ooo |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 2:29pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 12:36pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
rushingwind05: - Hi everyone, stephmiracle introduced me to this thread. Am 6 Weeks preggy. Hope am welcomed. But I'm afraid as I noticed bleeding yesterday. From morning till night. Bright red. You are welcome sweetie and you will definitely enjoy being part of what is happening here. Our sabi mamas will soon come and join in welcoming you |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 1:02pm On Mar 26, 2018*. Modified: 2:57pm On Mar 26, 2018 |
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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 12:57am On Mar 25, 2018 |
enque: Eheen
I get 2 aunties for fegge, I fit show if i come see them   Okayyyyyy. We are waiting oooo |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 5:41pm On Mar 24, 2018 |
enque: Happy weekend Mamas
Who is in the east? Awka n its environs to be precise...
Travelling down for easter next week, I'm looking for where to go n hide just incase my inlaws begin to bore me.  Am at Onitsha ooo |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 6:19pm On Mar 23, 2018 |
perfectcrown: Mamas please pray for my ds! We've been in the hospital since morning...
Oh God give me strength to go thru this and let your healing hand be upon him,in Jesus Name! He's healed in Jesus name. Amen |
Family › Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by stephmiracle: 4:37pm On Mar 23, 2018 |
SwtDove: This is Jst my story I swear, he only drop money for food when he is hungry or wen we wanna cook soup.. Our everyday quarrel is base on money.. And to think I never notice all this during courtship though we didn't date for long before we got married. I hope u read it in my diary Thanks sis for ur contributions  It's well sis. Just start squeezing out money from the food money jare. Man must be keeping body and soul together joor. If the soup lasts for two days, he will have no alternative but to bring another money for food. Shikena |