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Family / Re: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by stephmiracle: 6:30am On Mar 23, 2018 |
[quote author=SwtDove post=66076112]Hi frnds Just found this page,am depressed ......yes I am.i have ask this questions on my diary but no one is willy to reply me or help me on it..here it goes Pls married folks,how do you deal with a stingy spouse.. Babe, sorry about the whole ish. I read your diary and I also read this now but I seem to be ignorant of the advice to give. I assume you started tolerating the stinginess initially which is why he's still doing it. My very close friend married a stingy man and couldn't take his stinginess so she started insisting on what she wants from the onset. For example, since the hubby will not agree that he has money if she asks him to give her money to buy cloth, she will wait for the day the hubby will buy pin for himself . Any day he buys any pin for himself, she will quarrel and nag not minding whether people are staring or not till he brings the money. Sometimes, he gives the money because people are staring and he's shy but my gf doesn't care oh Secondly, the only thing her hubby comfortably brings out money for is for food cos he's a foodie so my gf will jejely collect #2500 for stew for instance and use #1500 to make small stew and put the rest in her pocket cos she knows that once the food finishes, the guy must bring money cos he knows eating out will never satisfy him as per foodie wey him be Different strokes for different folks but I feel you should strategise and be more insistent on these things now because kids are coming and it might get worse. Personally, i dont like asking people for money including hubby but someone once told me that all men spend money and if you don't force the money out of his pocket as his wife, he will now have the extra to spend on other people outside. I no dey believe all those I DON'T HAVE GIST especially when you know he has so if it means prying into his pocket when he's asleep, go ahead After all, two has become one cos if you don't get it from him, his image might get tarnished when you beg outsiders and they start degrading him as someone that doesn't provide for his wife. Modified- Choi! I can't believe I just typed all these things this early morning |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 9:12pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
wholesomegrace: I don hide the blokos oh. No mind me |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 9:11pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
imurboss: No be small work oh. I had to use soap to wash his body again even after he has taken his bath earlier |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 9:09pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
ThatIgalaChic: I don cover am oh |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 3:09pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
A picture to brighten your day Came out from the bathroom some days ago and met my Chairman like this. DH had to rush and take a snap shot 22 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: "No Sex With My Husband For Almost 2years, Can I Have An Affair?" - Lady by stephmiracle: 11:16am On Mar 16, 2018 |
jerflakes: I've told you what am sure of but you can still decide to accept whatever you wish. These are Bible references that supports divorce in the case of adultery - Matthew 19:9 and Matthew 5:32 |
Family / Re: "No Sex With My Husband For Almost 2years, Can I Have An Affair?" - Lady by stephmiracle: 10:04am On Mar 16, 2018 |
jerflakes: Oga na lie. I have an in-law who is also a Catholic that got recently divorced from his wife because he found out she was a lesbian 1 Like |
Family / Re: "No Sex With My Husband For Almost 2years, Can I Have An Affair?" - Lady by stephmiracle: 10:01am On Mar 16, 2018 |
Chuks9000: Was that not the same vow the man took but went ahead to marry and impregnate another woman. If what is good for the goose is also good for the gosling, then no one should blame her if she decides to have sex with another man but if I were to be her, I would have walked a long time ago with my kids. They can locate their father when they grow 3 Likes |
Literature / Re: The Handsome Devil I Know by stephmiracle: 6:54pm On Mar 13, 2018 |
Keep it coming Nne Zizi. Its good am able to read how it all started but if i were to be in the shoes of the protagonist, i would have put feelings aside and bid toshiba farewell a long time ago no matter how lovely his family might have been cos life is too short to spend it on someone who doesn't worth it. All the same, Am following your story bumper to bumper 1 Like |
Literature / Re: United In Betrayal by stephmiracle: 9:39pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
PamelB: Am still following ooo. Welcome back sis 1 Like 1 Share |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 1:11pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
honey12: Using carbage in your bra does the magic of relieving you 2 Likes |
Literature / Re: Beauty And The Mechanic by stephmiracle: 6:31pm On Mar 07, 2018 |
Thanks for the update Shewrites. This period has shown you to be a woman of great character and humility. Kudos ma |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 10:21pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
enque: You can remove your email sis. I have gotten it and I will send u an email asap |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 7:07am On Mar 03, 2018 |
booqee: Mine reduced drastically after childbirth. During some months, there won't be cramps at all and during some months, I might feel just a little discomfort |
Literature / Re: The Handsome Devil I Know by stephmiracle: 11:36pm On Feb 28, 2018 |
Wowww. I've been stuck nnem. Keep it coming |
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 10:07pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
FloraEC: Help with what nnem?. I don't understand.... Okay, I just saw her chat now. @lessonslearned, you can get all your baby items from Johnsons street main market. Do not yield to all those road side sellers that will want to take you to some shop inside the market. Ensure you enter inside the market, move around, price well and make your choice. I might be able to accompany you if you are interested and if you are coming to shop on a Saturday cos I go to work during working days 3 Likes |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 6:50pm On Feb 25, 2018 |
Sorry this is coming late. Thank you Kelizosuy for devoting time to teach I and some other cute mamas how to make more than 20 small chops, how to make cakes and how to make other plenty things as well at no cost. You can contact her if you are interested at a token. God bless us all Below are some of my submitted assignments under her tutorship 2 Likes
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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 11:46pm On Feb 24, 2018 |
enque: Okay sis. That will be nice |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 11:15pm On Feb 24, 2018 |
enque: Onitsha |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 4:30pm On Feb 24, 2018 |
enque: I want oh but I guess distance will be a barrier |
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by stephmiracle: 5:45am On Feb 21, 2018 |
booqee: Congrats sis. God is truly awesome |
Literature / Re: Beauty And The Mechanic by stephmiracle: 7:16pm On Feb 15, 2018 |
Thanks for updating Shewrites. I dey follow you bumper to bumper |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by stephmiracle: 8:27pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
winningbt: Charming prince 1 Like |
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