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[quote author=SwtDove post=66076112]Hi frnds

Just found this page,am depressed ......yes I am.i have ask this questions on my diary but no one is willy to reply me or help me on it..here it goes

Pls married folks,how do you deal with a stingy spouse..

Babe, sorry about the whole ish. I read your diary and I also read this now but I seem to be ignorant of the advice to give. I assume you started tolerating the stinginess initially which is why he's still doing it.
My very close friend married a stingy man and couldn't take his stinginess so she started insisting on what she wants from the onset. For example, since the hubby will not agree that he has money if she asks him to give her money to buy cloth, she will wait for the day the hubby will buy pin for himself . Any day he buys any pin for himself, she will quarrel and nag not minding whether people are staring or not till he brings the money. Sometimes, he gives the money because people are staring and he's shy but my gf doesn't care oh

Secondly, the only thing her hubby comfortably brings out money for is for food cos he's a foodie so my gf will jejely collect #2500 for stew for instance and use #1500 to make small stew and put the rest in her pocket cos she knows that once the food finishes, the guy must bring money cos he knows eating out will never satisfy him as per foodie wey him be Different strokes for different folks but I feel you should strategise and be more insistent on these things now because kids are coming and it might get worse. Personally, i dont like asking people for money including hubby but someone once told me that all men spend money and if you don't force the money out of his pocket as his wife, he will now have the extra to spend on other people outside. I no dey believe all those I DON'T HAVE GIST especially when you know he has so if it means prying into his pocket when he's asleep, go ahead After all, two has become one cos if you don't get it from him, his image might get tarnished when you beg outsiders and they start degrading him as someone that doesn't provide for his wife.

Modified- Choi! I can't believe I just typed all these things this early morning

wholesomegrace:
Yes o, mama, please cover his brokos with that emoji. Children are indeed wonderful entertainers

I don hide the blokos oh. No mind me

imurboss:
Hahaaahaa see his innocent face ;Dgive mummy more work to do

No be small work oh. I had to use soap to wash his body again even after he has taken his bath earlier

ThatIgalaChic:
Pls put an emoji on his power house abeg..

I don cover am oh

A picture to brighten your day
Came out from the bathroom some days ago and met my Chairman like this. DH had to rush and take a snap shot

jerflakes:
Na lie

You cannot divorce in the Catholic Church

He probably changed churches to either protestant or Anglican

I've told you what am sure of but you can still decide to accept whatever you wish.

These are Bible references that supports divorce in the case of adultery - Matthew 19:9 and Matthew 5:32

jerflakes:
I'm catholic, we don't do divorce

Oga na lie. I have an in-law who is also a Catholic that got recently divorced from his wife because he found out she was a lesbian

Chuks9000:
Oga, she is married. Meaning she took vows.
Meaning sex is not what she was born for.
If she really cannot overcome the sex temptations, at the detriment of her safety and her kids wellbeing, then she should take a walk and be free.

Was that not the same vow the man took but went ahead to marry and impregnate another woman. If what is good for the goose is also good for the gosling, then no one should blame her if she decides to have sex with another man but if I were to be her, I would have walked a long time ago with my kids. They can locate their father when they grow

honey12:
Help is needed here ooo.. I'm weaned my baby girl of One year +. Since on Saturday, my breast is still strong and leaking milk. What do I do, I'm in pains.. #concernedMAMAS

Using carbage in your bra does the magic of relieving you

enque:
Stephmiracle

Pls send me an email

Mention me when u get ds so I remove my email

You can remove your email sis. I have gotten it and I will send u an email asap

booqee:
Good morning,

I've asked this question before but no one answered me

For those who normally have menstrual cramps before you became a mother; now that you have gone through childbirth, is it true that you don't ever experience menstrual pain again in your life?

Mine reduced drastically after childbirth. During some months, there won't be cramps at all and during some months, I might feel just a little discomfort

FloraEC:
Stephmiracle will also help you out.

Help with what nnem?. I don't understand....

Okay, I just saw her chat now. @lessonslearned, you can get all your baby items from Johnsons street main market. Do not yield to all those road side sellers that will want to take you to some shop inside the market. Ensure you enter inside the market, move around, price well and make your choice.

I might be able to accompany you if you are interested and if you are coming to shop on a Saturday cos I go to work during working days

Sorry this is coming late. Thank you Kelizosuy for devoting time to teach I and some other cute mamas how to make more than 20 small chops, how to make cakes and how to make other plenty things as well at no cost. You can contact her if you are interested at a token. God bless us all

Below are some of my submitted assignments under her tutorship

enque:
Maybe if I'm travelling for Easter, we'll hook up and u ll get it.

Okay sis. That will be nice

enque:
Where u de live?

Onitsha

enque:
Mamas if u r interested in this baby masher for ur baby food, pls Holla me.
My neighbour has some for sale

I want oh but I guess distance will be a barrier

booqee:
B.A

Welcomed my little angel about an hour ago via VD with cut. God is so merciful to me. We're all doing fine.

Cc lio.ha

Congrats sis. God is truly awesome

winningbt:
hello mamas I want to say a big thank you to everyone here,everyone left at 2 weeks after i gave birth to say I was scared was an understatement but with you mamas here I've learnt alot,thank you for always being there we are 4 months today,looking back now it's being a wonderful experience with you all,you just can't understand e-hugs to you all,baby Diamond is saying hi

Charming prince