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PoliticsRe: Senate Invites Dangote Refinery, NIPCO Gas, 13 Other Over N120B CBN Fund by stevups(m): 9:54pm On Nov 29, 2023
Kaa4:
The way this Senate is getting involved in business investigations is nuseating. Can't an investigator in the real of that CBN investigator be set up to do a thorough and professional work?
They are doing their job. Your brothers will be exposed.. you too go vomit
CareerRe: FGN-ALAT Digital Skillnovation Training Starts Today: Share Your Challenge Here by stevups(m): 9:19pm On Nov 28, 2023
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FamilyRe: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by stevups(m): 4:46pm On Nov 28, 2023
Wisegeek01:
Here's the opinion you wont see anywhere on the internet . .. and you are hearing it for the first time
Sit tight !!


The phrase what are you brining to the table .. has grossly been misunderstood, some men that even ask the question don't even know why they are asking the question, while on the other hand some women fly into a fit of rage or keep dodging the question, why they are angry they don't even know, its just a psychological impulse,

first of all it is not mandatory for the lady to actually bring finance into the mix but it helps so that should not be the centre of the question, so the men asking and referring to finance really shouldn't do that, focus on what she is supposed to bring

.. its not her job to bring finance, so if you are referring to that you are asking the wrong contextual question, a lady actually has what she should bring to the table, but sadly not a lot of ladies have taken their time to sit down and think about the question, because the are always offended or defensive, its just a simple question, that you need to understand, its not you mdfkn job to bring finance, that is what the man should bring to the table,

what the lady brings to the table .. ranges from
great values
Emotional Intelligence
Attention to Detail
Organizational Skills
Nurture and Care
Empathy and Compassion
Collaborative Spirit
Multitasking Abilities
Intuition
Social Skills
Diplomacy
Support

when you list these features and tell the man you posses these traits
now it's your turn to ask him
what does he bring to the table
...
he should have most of these below
finance
protection
security
Leadership
Decision-Making Skills
Stability
Emotional Support
Problem-Solving Abilities
Initiative
Adaptability
Sense of Humor
Integrity
Shared Responsibilities

marriage or relationship is team effort, not competition
the next time i hear that question in the wrong context I fit flog person cool grin
Well done! You have to, especially that boy you gave birth to.
PoliticsRe: What Akeredolu Said About Yar'adua While He Was Sick (Throwback) by stevups(m): 12:39pm On Nov 28, 2023
iwaeda:
https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2010/1/6/absent-nigeria-president-challenged
The expression was never from Akeredolu. Poor English
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Federal Government Skin Innovation Program by stevups(m): 6:50pm On Nov 20, 2023
ajiboyeshola:
Good day family.
Please I want to know whether anyone here got selected for FGN-ALAT Digital Skillinovatiion program. I applied for it and received the mail last week. Did anyone receive a similar mail pls?
I also received the mail.
CelebritiesRe: Leaked Audio Suggesting Mr Ibu's 'Daughter', Jasmine Slept With Him And His Son by stevups(m): 8:30pm On Nov 15, 2023
yinkus6750:
This is serious.
Adopted daughter from generation of Jezebel.
Slept with father and son.
But, who the hell is leaking this at such a period Mr Ibu is struggling for his life ?
Don't you notice that that is the work of enemies of Mr Ibu. Especially about the issue of money raised earlier. The Jazebel wife is working hard against the family
RomanceRe: In My Years Of Dating , I Have Never Experienced This. by stevups(m): 3:31pm On Nov 14, 2023
Wawelexy:
What's special about a girl using the same billing format your mom use on you? If you had said, she help you plan your life, help you manage your finances, help cook and do other things that are beneficial to you just like your mom, then I would have seen the special traits in her. All you typed up there is just a girl that's still upcoming in the billing business, when she's ripe to run you dry, na you go run
Coin of two sides
RomanceRe: Divorced / Separated? How’s Life After That? Share Your Experience by stevups(m): 3:01pm On Nov 14, 2023
Resetinc:
Hell Hell Hell !! reverse psychology effects, the moment you got tired of your wife/husband others outside will start looking more attractive to you ….. after you separate/divorce and get tired of whatever is out there , you u will start missing your ex companion..😂
this is the reality
Forget the social media claims , deep inside they all wished it could have been fixed…
The only people who didn’t feel the depression of divorce are
1. those who cashed out in settlements
2. Those already cheating before the divorce and the physically abused ones…
others are just full of regrets 😂 especially naija ones who were deceived by social media friends
What you are saying is one million correct... A close ally was involved, the husband left, but now she's full of regret, sometimes she calls the husband that the thing is sraching her but the husband has remarried.. she is seriously frustrated. They used to lack money before they divorced, but now the husband was promoted beyond expectations with official Prado
RomanceRe: Divorced / Separated? How’s Life After That? Share Your Experience by stevups(m): 2:53pm On Nov 14, 2023
OgaTheTop2:
Life is very beautiful without a nagging wife. I can't live in peace with a nagging wife.. angry
No be lie
ComputersRe: Entries Open For FGN/ALAT Digital Skillnovation Programme For Youth And Msmes by stevups(m): 3:59pm On Nov 13, 2023
donbrowser:
FG has been rolling out a lot of empowerment trainings in the last few weeks. Next will be funding. Some people will quietly register and still curse the government while others will gullibly follow them.
No be lie... God will expose them
PoliticsRe: We Are Working Towards Changing The Narrative Of Nigeria – Tinubu by stevups(m): 12:57pm On Nov 13, 2023
Tinubu can never fail
PoliticsRe: CBN Orders Staff To Declare Links With Politically Exposed Persons, Close Relati by stevups(m): 1:38pm On Nov 11, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:
They know but want the unwise blatant liars among them to deny in black and white cheesy
When Government wants to get to the bottom of an issue like in this case, they already have more information than you think. This is a window of opportunity for some of them to declare and then resign.
Very intelligent somebody
PoliticsRe: CBN Orders Staff To Declare Links With Politically Exposed Persons, Close Relati by stevups(m): 1:31pm On Nov 11, 2023
[quote author=Kingpele post=126907928]Dey play every person in that CBN have strong connections with powers that be especially political class [/quote


You don't know Tinubu]
EducationRe: BIMS To Unlock Educational Frontiers In Nigeria's Academic Landscape by stevups(m): 10:55am On Nov 11, 2023
Dhanidhamy:
I received a mail from BIMS yesterday, it included my ID and logins. It's not fully functional and I don't even grasp it's use yet
I got it but it's like I deleted it
FamilyRe: Leaving My Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by stevups(m): 6:29pm On Nov 10, 2023
Anything that will make you leave your family behind will make you miserable over there. You are a made man. Don't disturb your life..
RomanceRe: Zainab Abidoye & Mother Lived Off Man's Wealth But Refused To Marry Him (Photos) by stevups(m): 1:47pm On Nov 10, 2023
You enjoyed fresh puna for many years, it's okay. Go and be with your wife Ole
FoodRe: Peak Launches New Peak “Mini” Evap Packs by stevups(m): 12:13pm On Nov 10, 2023
It has reached your side too, awon werey. The person wey never belleful, say Na him go think about peak of 700. You never see anything
CelebritiesRe: I’m Being Pressured To Get Married – Yemi Alade Cries Out by stevups(m): 3:16pm On Nov 09, 2023
Fuckyoumod:
Yes, Yemi is beautiful and famous with good banging body.
She get money yes, but like it or not, she be evening news paper. Yemi done expire!

Nothing remain for that body again.
At this level, only gold diggers would settle for her. The beauty and sweetness of a lady is in her youth, 18 - 25 years. Yet, that gender won't listen.

Young girls my advice is simple, if you plan on getting married, marry early. Don't waste away your sweetness and youthfulness. forget and stop the plenty shakara, settle down and thank me later.

But if you don't intend to get married, please don't let anybody pressure you into marriage. You don't need it.

Just they enjoy your life dey go. Nothing do you.
But I hope you don't join the men are scum gang, motivational speaker for young girls and feminist movementhuh??

Marriage is not for everybody.
I will tell you why you were correct 10 times
BusinessRe: "Blame No One But Yourself" - BUA Replies Dangote In Explosive Letter by stevups(m): 8:53pm On Nov 03, 2023
NOC1:
My boss said this is the only administration that is ready to fight Dangoto monopoly.
He said the economic mess we see ourself in was amplified by Dangote
No be lie my guy.
RomanceRe: 80% Of Girls Make Out With Their Besties - Lady (Video) by stevups(m): 8:49pm On Nov 03, 2023
OloYeOfEgbE:
What's the population of girls in Nigeria.?

Do you know what 80% means...?.. who did the headcount?
She's correct. At least I...
PoliticsRe: Rasheed Bawa Received In Style In Kebbi (Video) by stevups(m): 8:33pm On Oct 29, 2023
Elewon
PoliticsRe: PDP Governor Diri Celebrates With Tinubu After Supreme Court Victory by stevups(m): 9:31pm On Oct 26, 2023
SoNature:
Atiku's decision to compete in the election practically buried the PDP. Instead of Reno Omokri to tell him the truth, he is busy taking out his frustration on Peter Obi and OBIdients.

Buhari cannot rule for 8 years and you expect power to remain in the North. Abomination! If that had happened, northerners would be taking educated, enterprising and innovative South as their lackeys (boy-boy) cheesy
You gat it. Most people from the north are sending their children abroad with federal government money.. while southern work harder to prepare their children for such
PoliticsRe: Grace Taiga Is Dead by stevups(m): 9:26pm On Oct 26, 2023
THE REAL CRIMINALS ARE PLAYING SMART ON FEDERAL GOVERNMENT TO DIVERT THE ATTENTION..
PoliticsRe: The Appellants Claimed To Have Won But Failed To Provide The Figures - Court by stevups(m): 11:49am On Oct 26, 2023
Do you think ATIKU CAN WIN TINUBU? IN MILLION TIME, ATIKU IS A BABY TO HAMED
PoliticsRe: EFCC Chairman Orders Operatives To Declare Assets by stevups(m): 11:14am On Oct 25, 2023
PROPHETmichael:
We don watch this movie before, it's called sugar rush. Someone should remind the boss that Indulging in political sugary treats is a whimsical experience. It gives a newly appointee that fleeting burst of energy, transforms him/her into temporary superheroes. With a single bite, they're catapulted into a sugary universe, buzzing like an overcharged jet engine. You become the life of the party, as your taste buds break into spontaneous dance routines, waltzing through a symphony of sweetness. But, just as quickly as it begins, the sugar rush ends, leading to the dreaded sugar crash. Your inner superhero transforms into a sluggish sloth, desperately seeking a nap-cave. Remember, sugar's magic is enchanting, but its spell doesn't last forever.
Are an antigraft too?
FamilyRe: Married Men, I Need Help! Your Marital Experience Is Needed. by stevups(m): 6:09pm On Oct 24, 2023
Carcholce:
Please if you are not married, I don’t need your comment. If you are a single father, don’t comment either, if you are a divorcee, please save your strength. Only a happily married man should comment.

I have a question to ask, and I need a very good answer,

What qualities made you pick the woman you are married to?


Why I asked this question is, I used to think you must look out for your preferred qualities in a woman to qualify her for marriage.

Is it just the qualities or the impact those qualities are having on you?


I have been seeing a woman for some months now. I must confess that since I met her, the urge to fornicate has completely disappeared. I used to be a serial womanizer and fornicator. Everything is changing at a very fast rate and for the first time since I have been praying and fasting for changes in this regard, I am very much satisfied with my new found will power.

Is this one of the signs of the qualities a woman possesses or am I getting matured or etc etc?

But The idea of me getting matured is flawed because even married men young and old get married and still cheat with numerous women.

Sorry for the many questions! I just need answers to help me understand why I have started ignoring other women advances and sex invite. This is unlike me but don’t get it wrong, it’s my number one prayer being answered.
First and foremost, thank God for your life. That woman seems to be your bus/stop. Before I got married, each time I saw a woman the first thing on my mind was to get down under her pant, but when I met my wife there was no that urge at all. Although we stayed away from each other to avoid fornication. When I eventually got married to her, it was a lovely experience. To be honest many challenges came but God made us to triumph over them. A quick one, I don't use ring, my wife has lost her ring too, but I discovered that I do not have urge for any lady again. Sometimes work takes me away from home more than three months at a go, but I always find joy in the bossom of my wife alone. What I notice is that my wife and my baby take a larger percentage of me.. There's something I cherish most in my life which is loyalty. My wife is a paragon of loyalty. If she does any other bad attitude I used to overlook it because of her loyalty. When suffering comes I make sure that I enjoy 85% of it. Just to protect them. Hence marriage is for the rugged. If you are not dogged don't enter marriage because you will soon run out it. If you are ready, please grap your copy and sentence yourself.
PoliticsRe: Dele Momodu: Why I Will Never Support Tinubu's Presidency by stevups(m): 5:11pm On Oct 24, 2023
My boy how are you
FamilyRe: Men In Marriage: How To Play The In-law Politics! by stevups(m): 4:47pm On Oct 19, 2023
Nicenixon:
Hmmm! You're lucky to have her and I guess she respects you a lot for that because some ladies will still take it for granted. The best thing is to marry right and get it right.
Not that I was lucky oo, but the way things fall apart when I make her secondary
FamilyRe: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by stevups(m): 3:00pm On Oct 19, 2023
ayomilore:
Op I don't know your religion but you need deliverance asap, those power that held you captive to prostitute might be the one preventing you from getting married. Like someone earlier said you are the only one that can stop it if you are ready, deliverance, fasting and prayer is the solution.

God will deliver you
You are correct
FamilyRe: Men In Marriage: How To Play The In-law Politics! by stevups(m): 2:18pm On Oct 19, 2023
The only thing that makes me stay on top is that I always put my wife first for anything I do... All others secondary
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Moves To Block FBI, CIA, U.S. Agencies From Releasing Files - Gazette by stevups(m): 10:59pm On Oct 18, 2023
Samogloby:
Did you actually published book with this fish brain? Maybe you think USA is like Africa, especially Nigeria where clearing Whites is called black
When you used DID, MUST YOU USE PUBLISHED again.. next time use PUBLISH
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Moves To Block FBI, CIA, U.S. Agencies From Releasing Files - Gazette by stevups(m): 10:55pm On Oct 18, 2023
Samogloby:
Did you actually published book with this fish brain? Maybe you think USA is like Africa, especially Nigeria where clearing Whites is called black
Are you aware that Atiku has lule at Supreme court? Did you know that Obi participated in last election as a mere entertainner?

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