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crackhaus: I said to her during our chat after I saw a recent photo, "Babe, you are getting wide oo!"
She said, "what does dat mean?"
I said, "oh its not what you think, I mean bigger"
She said, "so I'm fat"
I said, "not what I mean, just that you are chubby now"
She asked, "what's the difference?"
I became blank cause I realized I just made her get up to check herself in front of the mirror. I don Bleep up big time.. I'm still apologizing to this day.
ADVICE: please never tell ur girl/wife she's fat, don't even use nicer words like chubby, big or full. They all mean the same thing to women

What's wrong in telling my woman she's fat if she actually is? We are close friends and she shouldn't take offence in it cos she knows it already. I just won't act differently to her because of that. So there's nothing wrong with telling ur partner such except she doesn't love u in the first place

ogb5: Because young girls are mostly un-married. You want the men to go after old women that are already married?

Best answer. Young girls are unmarried. Another reason I notice is that what young girls demand is really not too much for a successful man so he doesn't mind. As someone. Said earlier, new broom sweeps better

Fashola has not said or done anything wrong. His statements only means that in as much as you reside in the state you have to obey the laws of the land. Be you and indigene or not.

ballabriggs: Is it the same PDP that Governor Orji of Abia sent non-indigenes of Abia especially Imo people packing from his state?

Is it the same PDP that Oyinlola and Akala spent the better part of their time in office bickering over LAUTECH teaching hospital?

Is it the same Lagos PDP that never wanted Aganga to represent them as the said Aganga is an Edo indigene and not a 'Lagosian'?

I like the way you present your comments, always with facts and logic.

There is a contract going on in PH and anyone that is ok with having 10% returns of invested funds monthly should contact me. You can have it on 5% for every 2 weeks or 10% monthly. Its your call. You can also call for your principal invested funds after giving notice.

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Iran should thank its stars that its not romney that won. By now the US would have been drumming for war

Its the govt that I blame, if he's still being remanded in jail by now he won't be talking about suing.

Good initiative. The one that really interests me is being able to withdraw from the ATM without a bank account. I'm yet to fully understand the concept behind it. First bank truly the first.

There are LCC and RCC contracts going on in PH and anyone that is ok with having 10% returns of invested funds monthly should contact me. You can have it on 5% for every 2 weeks or 10% monthly. Its your call. You can also call for your principal invested funds after giving a 2 weeks notice. For those that are already in you can increase your investment. All agreement remains same.

saintpatrics@gmail.com or call me on 08060089362 or 07085694495

Guys what's happening to the seminar that's supposed to hold in Lagos, let's stop procastinating it and do what has to be done.

There is a contract going on in PH and anyone that is ok with having 10% returns of invested funds monthly should contact me. You can have it on 5% for every 2 weeks or 10% monthly. Its your call. You can also call for your principal invested funds after giving a 2 weeks notice. For those that are already in you can increase your investment. All agreement remains same.

saintpatrics@gmail.com or call me on 08060089362 or 07085694495

To add, saying 1 litre of urine will produce 6 hrs of electricity is also not technically and scientifically correct as the exact quantity of electricity that will be produced for 6rs was not mentioned. Is it 1 watts, 10 watts, 1 kilowatts etc. If this is stated then I'll be able to comment better.

Let them produce it commercially then I will really. Appreciate it. Though they have really impressed me beyond my expectation. Considering their age, I"ll give them 90%.
The bottom line of this principle here is using hydrogen as fuel. So which ever way you can produce your hydrogen to be used as fuel is welcome. Be it from H2O which is water or any other source. But it all it will be an excellent achievement if it can be commercially available at an economically efficient rate.

I need a Mack dump truck to buy. If its nigerian used, I will pay for it outrightly but if its tokunbo, I will pay 70% down payment and spread the balance. Pls if you have any for sale contact me and send details and pics to saintpatrics@gmail.com or call me on 08060089362 or 07085694495. Thanks

Good decision.

@Prof, you have time o. I don't think I can expend so much time and energy just to enlighten some educated illiterates whose ignorance is in billions. There is something though, Fashola cannot order in the soldiers but he can solicit for their assistance and which I think is what he did.

omotola1: Then you don‘t need an advice any more!
Go ahead bro.

Yea, I think its the lighter option for me now. I'll just play along and if she changes fine, if not then I can let her go then. I really want her to be the mother of my kids.

emiwanlee: That is what i call shakara. If i were in ya shoes, when i go vex, she go calm down to so say , i was just pulling ya legs

The problem is that I am very slow to anger. It will take a whole lot to get me angry and I think that's what's she's capitalising on. I will surely get my pound of flesh someday and it will be a period she least expects it. I will go ahead with the wedding and after about 4 years, I will so make her life miserable that she would wish she remained single

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La Parisienne: Why did it take you 8 years to realize that you can't cope with this behavior

What she's doing is a form of emotional abuse aka silent treatment. She does this to manipulate you, and to feel powerful. She knows you'll always beg her even if she offeneds you, so she doesn't bother to apologise first.

Dude you need to wake up and smell the coffee, you are in real sh1t. Emotional abuse is a very serious thing, it can drive you into depression.

Talk to her, find out if she sees anything wrong with her actions and if she's ready to change.

If she's not willing to change, I'd break off the engagement. It's better than a divorce.

Just my two cents.

She never used to be like this but I just can't pinpoint when this attitude crept in. She knows she has this problem but what Ikm suspecting now is that she seems not to know how to deal with it. So should I be the one to live with it for the rest of my life if she doesn't change. It will be very painful to let her go cos she has very supportive right from my university days till now and even in my biz and my job. Financially, morally and emotionally. I just wish God can help me change this one thing about her. God pleaseeeeeeeee

Its so sad. The funny thing is that she is nice to a fault and loving like no one else. But I see this attitude of crawling into her shell for so long as a sign of disrespect and not caring how you feel at those moments. I think I'll go on with the wedding and after about 2 kids, if she doesn't change I'll divorce. Cos I don't think I'll want to start another courtship now. I just hope she doesn't get to read this before I delete it.

Its so sad

My fiancee snubs for hours and sometimes for days after a disagreement. It take a lot of talking and coercing from me to bring her out of that mood. Even if the problem is from her, it will take while before she realises it and apologise.

Is this normal? Or am I too blind to see something? Will it be unreasonable to call off a wedding which is in 4 months time? I love her and have known her for 8 years now but its a habit I've always detested.

I really don't know the action to take now. Please your adulterated candid opinion is wanted. Pour it out and tell me what you'd do if you were in my shoes. Lash me I won't get mad at you. Lol

I need to take a decision is the 4 hours before this chick drives me crazy. I'll rather painfully let her go now that regret it in years to come.

Grand alliance. I'm sure this is aimed at out playing the samsung and apple series

Though I wonder why you're considering the Nigerian option. My dear I know you're trying to be patriotic but guy leave that thing. Its not worth. There are still some goods jobs in Nigeria though but I tell you, a job that will be worth your staying in Nigeria will not be easy to come by. Talking about banks, lol how do they pay bankers? Before you'll grow to a level you'll earn 300k ($2000) in the banking sector will take some time.

My dear I can list a million reasons why you should go back jare.
Wish you all the best in your decision.

Can it be used for generators?

There is a intimacy gadgets shop in Ikeja, lagos. Maybe you should talk to them. You can google it to get their address.

Sin of d flesh

anthoniaz: Anger,I easily feel hurt cos I am a very emotional person so once am angry,a voice keeps speaking to me,that urge to vent is always there and am not usually satisfied until I have executed what is on my mind and at the end,I regret. I am still praying to God to remove that spirit of anger.

Pray hard because its very bad especially for a lady. God will help u

I learnt how to increase my faith

dguvnur: In generating sound business ideas, the ideas need not be exceptionally brilliant, what you need watch out for are as follow -

(a) What do people want that has not been given to them?

(b) What has been given but poorly served. The way to start making money is to offer people better product or services than they have now.

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Yes you have said it all. In any biz terrain those 2 points cover it all. That's why it still amazes me when some people call and want u to explain how a particular biz works to the letter without making feasibility studies if it will thrive under the circumstance they are in. Even if you want to sell snow to the Eskimos, u should be able to convince them as to y they should buy yours.

On the meeting so it was postponed. Hmmm ok