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bigmill:
Dear Nairalanders, this is really disturbing me and I don't want to be too impulsive so as not to ruin my side chick's self esteem.

Before I mention exactly what happened, I beg anyone who will respond to keep abuses and blame away as I've already learnt my lesson and now ALL ladies to me are like filthy rags no matter how fine the face is (except my beautiful wife only). So please don't waste your time criticizing me.

I met a beautiful lady in church and by virtue of my position in the church, I had to relate with her. One day she suddenly called me and requested for airtime credit which I honoured. About two days later, she called again and said she needed me to lend her some money. I was skeptical and I didn't want to answer her call again. She disturbed my life with calls until I decided to give her the money so she could leave me alone but that was the beginning.

After some weeks, she began to call me again begging that the had been unable to pay back. To cut the long story short, the started raining compliments on my and my wife's beauty. We continued talking and we later arranged to meet privately. At the private meeting, one thing led to the other and we had sex. Though I was prepared so I went with a condom pack. I observed that she was always visiting the toilet after every 5 minutes and that went on until the end of the first round. She smelled so nice that I regarded her as one of the cleanest girls I've ever met. The second round was so long that she had to tell me to remove the condom so I could cum faster. As if I heard an angel's voice, I removed it and continued enjoying the flesh. At the end we went our ways. I really felt guilty.

Two weeks later, I felt some strange itches around by public area and I immediately knew it must have been an infection from the lady but before that time, I already made love to my wife. Another one week later, my wife woke up in the morning to say she couldn't sleep at night owing to very severe itching around and inside her vaginas. I immediately knew I had infected her. The next night was so horrible that I had to take her to our hospital. I was ashamed when I saw the culture in her vaginas. I am still feeling extremely bad. Now she has commenced the extensive and equally expensive treatment. I am being treated too.

My hatred for this disease vector escalated and I didn't even want to see her or remember her again. Now she keeps calling me for another meeting and I've been avoiding her and she has observed it too. She even said she noticed that since that day I had been acting funny towards her.

Dear Nairalanders, do you think she deliberately infected me? In case she is not aware of what she is carrying, do I need to inform her so she could go for treatment? If I need to tell her, how do I do that? I really don't want to do anything with her again.

OP,

Many of the fools on here calling you names are not any better than you. You have accepted your mistake and all you need is get some advice on what course of action to take. Get yourself and your wife treated and then help the other lady get treated. For your other paroles, make do with your condom to avoid stories that touch

Are u selling just the inverter or with batteries

This goes out to all the Undergraduates. If you wanna succeed in school, stop having girlfriends and boyfriends. They are killer distractions.

Finish your schooling and soon afterwards, you can hook up. NYSC is also a time to start a relationship.

WORD!!!

what’s your whatsapp number?

firstEVA:
anyone can be a side chick, fact. your queen is sometimes someone elses side chick.

WORD!!!

These ppl look so familiar

43 years just to get a degree

eyeview:
At the age of 32 you should have no business with any girl still playing games with you.
Its very surprising that you haven't figured it out. She's with someone else and your call is an intrusion to their relationship,that's why she prefers that you drop your chat on whatsapp and she'll respond silently at her convenience.
Let it go. You are bigger than that.

agarawu23:
best reply so far.
in addition, don't let a girl that has her future with another guy waste your time. you are 32 already and time waits for no man

RickRichards:
I'm not sure what 'one chance' means. But this right here, it feels like it.

vizkiz:
tell me you didn't just typed this
The girl is busy furcking another dude and you talking about bad voice...bro the lord is watching

This is thr answer you need

I'm sure you're dating a lady within d age range of 17-23 yrs. Most times, girls within these ages are prone to being very abusive, stubborn and hard to control. She'd probably get over it as soon as she crosses that age bracket.

Forget love and let her be. Get someone else to keep ur mind busy or better yet, distract yourself with other things

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OP thanks for bringing this up.

I had the same issues with the two banks you mentioned.
First it was GTB with their FX rate at N217 to a dollar last week

Now FCMB rate of over N226 shows that Nigerian banks are becoming daylight robbers

So sorry about your unfortunate incident but I have to be very blunt here:

Why don’t you seek the option of adopting children rather than going through this IVF money-spending thrift.

You might as well get your wife laid by another dude and make it a one-time affair.

I’m just wary about the stress you’re going thru

Truth is whether u wind up or not, they could even possibly break your glass. I’ve seen a couple of incidents.

I had a similar experience sometime last year. I had just got my iPad Air at the time and was listening to it in traffic. Before I could say jack, heavy hands just pushed into the vehicle i was in and grabbed the iPad. The thief didn’t even run after wards, he just raised his clothes and showed me whatever it was, (I was too shocked to see clearly at that time), and he just cat-walked into the night.

Avoid late nights on that bridge whenever possible…thats all

Pls check your number

Slimzjoe:
You still did not Make any Point. A Child's Life is not a School Home work that Can just be Written for a Child to Copy.
Beating a Child Without does not Correct the Child in anyway. Talking to Him Does

I’ve said my piece, take it or leave it

I totally DISAGREE with you on this one.

Slimzjoe:
Beating a Child will only make him Fear you and Not Respect you.
He can always go back to whatever you Beat Him For when you're Not around.

The idea is not for the child to respect or fear you, the idea is to make the child take correction. It sends a strong signal that he/she should avoid whatever he/she was beating for. Children are not goats that will not take corrections. That is why there must be correction.
If you fail an assignment in school, you are marked down and correction is given so everyone in class can learn. It is a part of righting all wrongs.

Mizzzbeee:
pls wen u post any rate kindly add the bank too tnx

I actually quoted the Op who posted a bank rate with my name. The bank is FCMB and the rate as at today Aug 4, 2015 is N227 to one dollar

elijahdre:
270 or 207? pls oga clear the air abeg and which bank pls?

Sorry bro, anoyance make me type N270. It’s N227

alakara:
Due to popular demand, the thread is created to
monitor the forex rates of the following
currencies:
USD =US Dollars $;
CNY =Chinese Yuan ¥;
AED =UAE Dirham D;
GBP= Pound £
Euro €.
The format below should be used:
Bank : Currency : Rate : Date : Nairalander

STANDARD CHART: USD: #199: 31 JUL: blank

STANBICIBTC: USD: #207 AUG 3 : TYCONCEPT
FCMB: USD: #220 AUG 4 : stPete
GTB: USD : #225: AUG 3: EGHOSA 1
ACCESS: USD:#225: AUG3: ifyalways
FIDELITY: USD: #227.9: JUL 31: MODATH.
Zenith: USD: #229: AUG3: BOBO65


STANBICIBTC: ¥ :#34.6: AUG 3: KODILICH

Thanks as you update this thread.

I stand to correct this information, I was charged roughly N227 to $1 today, Aug 4

Price? No number?

It is quite worrisome and alarming that even though the official CBN rate for naira to dollar conversion is N197 to $1, most banks are charging far exorbitant rates than the prescribed rate even higher than the black markets.

I made a transaction on my GTBank account online and as at last week, they charged roughly N218 to $1. Today, I decided to try FCMB after getting dollar at the parallel market for N220. I was shocked to find out that I was charged almost N227 to $1. Haba, this is daylight robbery. Isn’t their any forms of checking the excesses of these banks. I mean, they have refused to accept dollars into domicilliary accounts, now they are charging far higher than the prescribed rate. I call on the CBN and EFCC to check the excesses of these banks.

cc: Lalasticlala, FOD, naijacutee

Make una free Timaya o, the court has not found him guilty of the rape allegation o

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You’re probably having “blue balls”. It’s natural with some guys, just stop looking at beautiful women or having e*rotic imaginations

Seems you're no longer on whatsapp.