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Waste of feminity if it were true... unfortunately na lie

Baamisere:
I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference. However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

Lalasticlala, mynd44 please, I need honest contributions to this thread.

I broke up with a gal for this reaosn... till now she's not even married yet.
U better do the needful and escape future heartache and regret. You will find better woman everywhere

Chai, see hypertrophy of the lips, might be a sign of impending hyperplasia that's if the cells of the lips aren't already hyperplastic...., then boom, she's battling with cancer of the lips.
....Dem no dey hear word.
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....Only a medical person will understand thanks

Explorers:
Pregnant Goat

This goat looks like she literally couldn’t move.

the question is how she take climb da place

90skid:
D real question here is Why do you prefer making yourself uncomfortable knowing how you'll be after everything

Honestly. I saw her today in church...i wasn't myself,I was so awkward ...guilt all over me...will still see her on Sunday....chai
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I promise not to fvck her again..yet she's been calling to make it official..lol. woman geh mind o.. official banging galore

Supredible:
No big deal nao... I fvcked a calm & pretty choir member in my church few weeks ago and even made her cvm. The next two days when I saw her in church, I just behaved as if nothing happened but she couldn't look me in the eye for a week..guess she was nervous.
She has gotten over it and we relate well in church now.

U don Tay for the game be that

None of the above...I can get good food, and even sex if I so wish out there....there are plenty ladies who would risk anything to be with me if I open myself to them

....But these qualities will melt my heart towards any lady I fancy:
Respectful and treating me like a king
Not quick to anger
Being reasonable and understanding
Positive spirit.
And smile everyday
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Without these ingredients, sex and food is of no value cos I can get them somewhere else

Sign of poverty.
Drugs that most politicians take to party and have fun with oloshos..lol
...Africa is dark.

Nothing is special about her pvssy to be honest

sharpwriter:
What's the meaning of shidi balabala

It's a song where women are generally twerking crazily...it means twerk crazily..

That point where the chicken wanted to pick the meat...abeg when did Chicken turn omnivorous animal

The hen fit be hin babe....I don see where guyman dey straff chicken for Instagram

Abdullah36:
Hm

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Bokoharam Chief Herdsman sef dey form Democrats...Lol...

https://www.nairaland.com/6839233/girlfriend-doesnt-know-mental-issues

I'm writing in response to the above thread

Dear Dude397,

The idea of revealing everything about oneself as well as one's past to one's partner seems like the moral thing to do when in a serious relationship.
In this case, it is the revealing of a previous mental health problem that is under consideration( Guy now stable for the past two years). In general something can be morally good to do but may come with avoidable consequence if secrecy was maintained, (especially if its secrecy isn't a case of covering something immoral, at least in this case)
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Remember it is moral for Abram to tell the truth when A king asked if Sarah was his wife, but he lied and said Sarah was his cousin cos he feared he might be killed and her wife taken away from him cos she was extremely beautiful.This is taking the path of pragmatism over moral conscience. This guy's case is even of less moral stigma cos there's no one posing him a direct question of his sanity, unlike in Abrams case.

Secondly, with all due respect, it's common knowledge that women aren't especially pragmatic and emotionally strong to handle certain truth when it comes to relationship because, women are known to prioritise the financial potential, physical fitness and intellectual acumen of a man when considering him for a long-term stint. We see how women reject suitors for these reasons and are never remorseful about it.

Practically no beautiful woman with spousal options will want to genuinely associate with a man of mental or certain physical flaws except for pecuniary motive if the man is wealthy. In that case, her staying is borderline conditional to what she stands to gain, even few woman will consider u with pity. Women are extremely logical in choice of long-term man.
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In this guy's case, as long as he's confident in his health, I feel he shouldn't tell his fiancee since he's noticeably stable for two years.
And If he's so naive he should know this today that women are expert at gas-lighting, and throwing needless emotional tantrum. So, his former mental health issue is therefore a fertile ground and straw for such display of manipulation as to break him down and to emotionally blackmail him to submission on occasion she feels slighted by him. It's a weapon women use all the time( No women is excluded in this regard)
Trust me you wouldn't want to be in that shoe where your mental health is being capitalised to knock you down every damn time for little offence by the woman you love. It can worsen ur mental health and make you lose your mind
cos it will come repeatedly at every whim.
Women have no self-control or verbal continence or moral compunction to desist from using such tactics against u even if u are now perfectly okay.
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Let me give you a personal example.
An uncle of mine had mental issue in his mid-20s, It took over 5 years before he was stable. He stayed with us at a point. His family manipulated him so much for his health cos they out of concern want to influence all his life decisions because they felt he wasn't mentally trustworthy to make decisions, even when he was practically stable.He had to run away from them to buy his sanity and self esteem.

He started dating in his early 30s, and many ladies liked him, he was fine, never told them his mental past.I witness his marrying a Lagos single mom, who always insulted the hell out of him for little issue. I felt really bad for him. This woman will rain abuse on him nonstop for his lack of higher schooling, and for his lack of enough money, almost everyweek. Imagine if she knew of his mental past? He later divorced her (All women insult their husband, there's only grade to it, bear this in mind).
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Remember no woman will ever reveal their paternity fraud to their husband because it's best kept secret, they never have moral conscience to reveal such immoral secret, and we have thousands of them in Nigeria today. Yet nothing is immoral about mental health that u already surmounted.
So why can't u live with ur mental past when u are even quite okay today. Why put yourself under emotional chain of your woman by telling her cos she will always use it against you to whip your self esteem.
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And if she later got to know, it's easy to explain it away, since it's not some murder or something affecting you. At that point she wont have much issue especially if you have been normal over the years with kids.
Sometimes being pragmatic is not a bad thing, it can prevent certain avoidable headache

TheWolfen:
Op your church nah cele?

No

samnificent:
Looted my pastors daughter, at first seeing her on Sundays was weird but then I got used to it, fornication in church was strange to me till I found out it's pretty normal, especially if you're a good looking instrumentalist, girls will be rushing you, the only thing is to avoid married women who are still with their husbands.

Funny enough fornication brought me closer to God, not the Christian slavery indoctrination tho.

Fornication with ya pastors daughter brought u close to Christ ? May God have mercy

DoggoneDogg:
Leave epistle & list them.

Lol ...
U one give ur senior brother jamb question abi

DoggoneDogg:
Last 6 years?

List them.

Lol...u no dey Nigeria?
Some close down while some merged, while some were bankrupt and was taken over by new management with rebranding

DoggoneDogg:
The way bankers take dey Bleep each other, dem suppose don shut down if na so.

Nonsense poverty-stricken black man wey fail for business con dey find excuse.

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Based on your point, hope you know how many banks that have closedown in Naija In the last 6 years
Maybe na kpansh cause am

I remember one regime in this country once floated a programme called "Operation feed the nation OFN"
Nigeria is now so bad that the leaders have failed in Agriculture, and now resorting to feeding urselves.
Imagine the head of the family saying people under his care should feed themselves

Skepticus:
Herbswork, already answered you. Some other active members on this thread may give you answers.

By the way, after the sex, how much don enta ur bank account? how many connections d pussy don get u? What is d worth of the lady u fûcked, in ur life? Please, save me the response of you having orgasm.

I'd appreciate your response. Thanks.

I don't think certain strange sex behavior of some girls is above redpill analysis....Unless, u geh me for mind.

Pay them u fool

Skepticus:
There are threads on the romance section that caters for your kind of stupidquestions. It will do you good to ask them there.

Most of the red-pilled men on this thread have their mentality way elevated above your childish obsession with valueless sex.

Guyman easy...how do u mean childish obsession? Isn't that some uncanny question worthy of answer..I'm afraid u judged the question based on my moniker

What if the workplace belongs to an husband and wife and they decide to do quickie in their Shop before going home at night.

,b

I have a question guys
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Why will a lady refused to be fingered during smooching but preferred to be fvvked, I have had that experience just once, and it was sort of strange...she was already wet anyway...but u know how it feels good to finger a woman before knacking her sometimes...but this one no gree...but we knack

A male wants to be woman leader..
He probably wants to go fvcking those women and have free access to their pvssy..cos anything leader, women love to fvck leaders

The English terms alone can give you high BP

Because she's using a waist trainer to slim down her Tommy just to get that 8 figure, she suddenly starts talking about 'value'...
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I keep saying it...women attach their value to their facial look, ass, boobs and physical shape of their body...
because of their look, they believe the world owns them shit. Entitled Bitch they are..

heartofcity12:
I saw the video . The lady seems to have a huge crush on Leonardo DiCaprio. She was all over him in the video even in the presence of Jeff Bezos. Hypergamy isn’t only money related lol.

Yes hypergamy is also fame related...
Plus good preeq related..
Plus bad boy related..
Plus preselection related...
And Yes Leonardo d caprio...possess those bad boy credentials.
Leonardo d caprio must also be a goddamn Redpiller...the guy oozes Alpha..

A single mom like u don't need husband..your fvcking around should be enough for you...
Iya adoko