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Darkblood:
Moral of the story?

Learn comprehension skill.

These are tips I apply to myself.

1. Be self reliant.: Never give impression that you can't exist alone or catch fun without your friends, and learn to take care of yourself without depending on people. If u are fond of borrowing..reduce it, and work hard to earn a living.
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2. Work on your interest: Get busy, and work on personal goal towards achievement. When u achieve something unexpected, people respect u.
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3. Talk less of your secret and plans: Don't reveal everything about yourself or what u are working on. See finish dey cause disrespect. And when u tell people abt ur goals, and if u later dint achieve it, people will see u as irresponsible and lazy...people don't respect such people. Keep ur plans to yasef
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4. Don't discuss certain embarrassing moments u had in the past. Some people will judge u by it.
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5. Appear neat all the time, and exude confidence, and also carry yourself with some sense of pride....little pride won't kill you.
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6. Don't always please people. Yes we like to act nice and be on good books of people...but over time people take u for granted. Sometimes don't give people what they ask for. Don't act nice when they are shit...
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7. Don't condone disrespect. Always call out the bullshit of anyone anywhere..don't make it like a joke... treat the Bleep up of people instantly.
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8. Reduce ur frequency of laughter with people. Don't laugh to every joke and with everybody
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9 Reduce your greetings. Yes some people want u to greet them all the time just to feel themselves. Sometimes, learn to bone/ snub people, and face ur front like someone serious without looking sideways. if they greet u fine...and if they don't, it's not all the time u have to greet.
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10. Reduce ur argument and charter when u don't have something reasonable to say especially with people of low mind...
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11...Then get a girlfriend if u don't have. Guys also respect u when ladies come around to fvvck u or come around as ur babe

12. Get a job and your personal apartment if you don't have. It will help to project you as a serious responsible perosn

She was working before I graduated...
I dated her for about 1 year before I grad.
After my grad, she was worried I won't come back to her.
She was always causing trouble on phone..lol..telling me to come back..
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Then I started calling less, then acting broke, broke..cos I had my doubt abt her ....
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Then she will send me money every month to me so I can come see her..she would have come to see me but her job dint give such space..
I kept up for two months..
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Then when I went for Nysc, She wanted to come see me, but I gave thousands of excuses, then few months later..I broke up with her on phone...Yes I knew she liked abi loved me...but I wasn't ready and I have some redflag abt her abusive mouth when she's angry...she was 28 while I was 27 then..
...she cried...told all my friends to talk to me, threatened suicide..lol...then she turned bitter and started swearing
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As a guyman, since my heart was clean...I dint bother abt the swear

It depends. Those signs you highlighted to me are actually tell tale signs I don't take lightly, but u may not want to take drastic decision on sole account of those signs. But just keep watch. Bigger signs will show up if you are very vigilant
.Some people and not gals alone may actually hide their last seen not only for guys/gals they date...some try to hide from their boss, certain friends, or family member...... u can't discard those signs though, just a more reasom to be watchful
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Many of them are not SIMPs.... especially the once that are in the trade for long...
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But most of the newbies are SIMPs cos of the thrill of having free money, they easily try hard to get a babe by throwing around their money and expensive shit.
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.The older more experienced Yahoo boys love runs gal...they hardly put up with the stress, patience and time for chyking babe so they buy pvssy pay fuvck and bounce....but at same time, when they meet a gal who is gameable, they do it perfectly well

Bigredmachine:
Hmmmmm It's not easy being a woman... May God strengthen every lady out there who don't prostitute

You are a fouoolish white knight. Why not disprove his theory with points and reasoned argument than this sentimental inconsequential piece of shit u typed

TarOrfeeek:
Hypergamy and innate Solipsism.

Very ruthless living in the head.

If that be the case, then everything seems hopeless in their case

Candidlady:
I have a STUPIDQUESTION to ask


Inability to comprend things is it a disorder ?



If yes

Then see a doctor

You are a big fuuol otherwise, u will know that most lamentations of women's bad nature by guys in relationship we read here are cries by simps in need of solutions to cure their stupidity in dating...reason for my entreaties to simps
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Now if indeed u are not daft, u will see the stupidity of ur stupid questions

Candidlady:
I have noticed something that 99% of men on nairaland are always complaining of heartbreaks or their girls taking them for plays.


Is that all this men are fragile or hopeless romantic ....

In a day you could read a thread of over 80% men been heartbroken....

If you know truly you can't stand women please start dating yourselves

Simps... This is on you...u had rather change and embrace redpill so that such ridiculing accusations won't be brought to smear you....

Most times here on Romanceland, men talk with fervor and anger about how horrible society treats them in relation to their female gender. The female gender themselves engender this poor treatments, that most guys now seek various means, tactics or philosophy to mitigate damage and heartbreak.
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My main point is, if truly, female in general, or the ones that frequent this sections seeks smooth and cordial relationship with men, then it's easy for them to see where the shoe really hurts the men from how much they talk about women's cold-heartedness and failings, so such women with Nairaland exposure is or I expect to behave differently with grace and understanding in relating with their men.

But I doubt this...... I feel it should make them wiser in dealing with guys for successful relationship, but I still doubt it..cos I feel women don't really seek peaceful cohabitation but a selfish motive that prioritise their own happiness, only, over the good of both partners and the relationship itself.
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This I find amazing, and too bad about women's way of reasoning, which is quite contradictory to their quest for happy relationship. Ironic.
I stand to be corrected though.

chatinent:
Oga,


Inasmuch as I understand some women are very annoying, I must remind you the only ground that's christian for divorce: adultery.


If she's not committed one, you need to work things out.

I have once being in a situation when a girl hit me first repeatedly and still ran telling people I attack and beat her.

BTW, didn't you notice this while courting?

A Very idiotic comment

Don't be afraid to disobey your parents in search of your dreams and future

Doja2000:
okay ooo.... Kontinue deceiving yourself.

Will you get lost from this thread or be unfortunate.

Ur yansh will soon be bursted

You will understand when you ditch your skewed preconceived notion about sex, attraction, and being a nice person, cos with respect to women, you are in for a rude shock.
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. ... hold on to what society or movies condition into your head about those subjects, and you will never understand the real pscyche of a woman.......look for the true knowledge abt these area, observe and learn ur lesson

Next time ask him if those people can pay the Salary of all government workers in Nigeria in a year, plus pension of all retirees, plus politicians monthly take home, and plus capital project money of all 36 states for a year.

shaboti:
Why is this a problem?

Wouldn't you want your daughters to rise to the pinnacle of their careers??

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Men of low thinking are not tolerated here. Is that the main theme of the argument?

SenecaTheYonger:
I shall not be reading the epistle of a sex deprived fvck. I don’t even know why I bother with someone that thinks banning porn will lead to rape. Why would rape be the first thing on your mind? Porn or no porn, a rapist will always be a rapist.

Have you ever thought to yourself “Hah, thank heavens for porn, today I shall not go out to rape. Thanks to porn.”

Dumb argument.

"Porn or no porn a rapist will be rapist"....Then why still wanna ban it...You be intellectual idiot....it's easy to connect the dots that banning porn can lead to more rape by people who will normally not even rape..
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Ur idiocy and linear way of thinking, that mimicks that of Buhari Who believes solution to every problem is ban, won't afford u the faculty to grasp the implications of the write up....Ode oshi...
Just Like Buhari, ban ban ban without looking at critical issues first..lol...fool!

TheGidRedpiller:
Guys pls DO NOT QUOTE HER!! I repeat, DO NOT QUOTE HER!!! She's just here for some attention. Do Not Engage!

Thanks for the timely advice

SenecaTheYonger:
You’re just a low IQ porn addicted smoothbrained retarded self-servicer. Just at the thought of your daily fix getting banned, you’ve almost gone mental. Don’t worry, you’ll always have your imagination. Unless you’re a lesser lifeform like a monkey or something, you know, they need to rape cause they don’t have an imagination.

Advancing such argument and feeling it's even possible is a show of ur unhinged feminist delusion...don't care if u are not a feminist.

I could have walked past ur utopic fantasies., but this is just tto show how stupid ur argument are..if I may ask...how do u intend to ban porn?...
Before there was internet people watched porn through cassettes, vcd And DVDs...are u going to ban that too...?...Or was there no rape in those period...rape so widespread then that it was rarely reported cos of social shame and silence abt rape culture.
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If u want to reduce rape...U talk of creating national awareness about it from primary or secondary shxl to higher institution level designed in the education system and media propaganda.
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You will have to drive into the consciousness of people how bad and how the whole society is against it...and there has to be laws and harsh enforcement....that's on one side...
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Then media has a big role to play in disseminating the taboo and dangers of rape, it must be etched in the societal consciousness .
But again while u try to solve a problem another problem rears its head from that solution, being that, women can latch unto that opportunity to claim false rape if the law are harsh and ready to always save their ass from slightest allegation.. You must also find a way to guide against that........
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Apart from that...u must find a means where mens sexual needs are also met:
In our present world, mens sexual need are not taken care of, a woman of 18 years can get 5 dicks to fvbkc her in a day if she so wish free of charge...she only needs to go on the internet and say ..'i need dicks tonight or today' then Simps will flock into her DM with even money to bless her to actualize her fantasies.
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It's multi-pronged isssue....if u talk about Ashawo house...it's demonized...many people won't go there, so sex as a social issue has to be liberalised and free from it's religious stigma. So Ashawo house don't have to be demonized, and prostitutions must be regulated that men get value for their money... and bad behaviors from whoressz and patronisers must be punished.....
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At thesame time the economy of poverty have to be reduced ..in an economy where men cant earn easily for food and comfort...problems of satisfying sexual needs will also arise that can lead to rape.....
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Banning porn is one of the worst way of solving it cos it won't reduce the urge. Only idiots like u will leave the who ramifications of sex and think banning porn is the panacea..

debbydams:
smiles,the truth is simple, porn doesn't reduces sex urge it increase it..take or leave it that's just the truth..I'm a lady I know what im saying.

So the goal now is to reduce sex urge..lol...why are u people so daft in argument.....then when sex urge can't be reduced u will talk of castration abi . And then maybe cutting away of penis...u people should be reasonable and be realistic for once...use ur brain. U can not ban porn

SenecaTheYonger:
Porn does not help with relieve, it only increases the urge. How can you see two people fvck and then feel relieved?

No one is cutting of masturbation. You can rub one out anytime you please, you don’t need porn.

Watching porn doesn’t cause relieve, if you’re Hot you can Bleep a prostitute, your babe, or masturbate, that’s what causes relieve, not porn.

Get lost from your juvenile stupid argument...I'm done...Like u are blind to know that most people after watching porn or during binging on porn end up wanking to burst a nut...Like u are too stupid to know not every guy with libido from 14 upward has the money to run Ashawo and runs gal in regular interval...abi in ur dictionary all guys have babes?
It's like u are too foolish to know that some men cos of moral bias will rather not go to prostitutes but prefer to watch porn just to self-service and calm down.....only senseless people can't see how porn leads to relieving men momentarily, sometimes even for days...
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Even married men cos of sexual denial from wife watch porn to have enough drive to relive themselves with their hands...stop arguing stupidly. U can't stop people from watching porn...unless u want to turn to a moral police God who finds means to block all porn sites and VPN from accessing porn just to cleanse his sex infested world

Emotionss:
To those who still doubt the rise of Feminism in Nigeria, GTB just made a woman their MD.

We currently have MORE FEMALE M.Ds. in the fainancal sectors of Nigeria than men....

I wonder why our Culture, traditions and Religion should allow such thing to happen in a patriarch society like nigeria.

Yea..It's possible cos the pvssy-whiped men allow it...men is to blame

youngpresidooo:
I remember when they included her in Dasuki gate

Where is Dasuki today? Any reasonable conclusion to his case? Nonsense

SenecaTheYonger:
The only reason you mastrbate is because you watch porn. You cut porn off and you won’t need to masturbate.

Why are u repeating same point I made above?....was talking abt, that, there are degenerate who without enough avenue to occasionally relieve themselves, they will look for cheaper alternative than porn, in the absence of porn...the cheaper alternative will be pedophilia or rape of weak vulnerable ladies.
Cutting porn, and cutting masturbation won't make the urge disappear...... degenerates won't have the recoil to relieve themselves from avenue detailed above....
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Stoping porn cause of rape is like saying cos of car accident we should stop using cars...
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It's not possible to stop using cars...and in this world, it's not possible to cut porn...

Viridis:
Nigga bring it on

Look at this gal...I suppose u are once a willing recipient of such escapade.. ...e really sweet you da time

youngpresidooo:
didn't efcc try to get her? But they didn't find anything on her

U were the one who handled the case now...ozuor

SenecaTheYonger:
There is no masturbation addict that is not addicted to porn. You cut off their unhealthy supply of porn, and their brain will format. You can still masturbate with your imagination, if you don't have sub zero (less than zero) IQ.

Most people don't masturbate with their imagination. I don't. Not even picture. Porn is the one most driving cause of masturbation. Cut porn, and may rapist in disguise will turn to pedophilia and rape to quench their libido

Another selfish one sided argument to demonize men and make women look saint...lol... forgetting that those Sidechicks are also beneficiary of that man's benevolence...
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When will you write how wives create problems for their men in their homes?

Don't you know wives are presently more the cause of men's problem than sidechicks today? Sidechicks are most time a save arm to run to from the shapeless frigid tiger at home.....

Make una reasoning dey balance.

It's easy to form saint in retrospect even when no investigation has been conducted over your tenure

Ban porn site and increase rape....cos people won't watch porn and masturbate to calm themselves again. Porn is the reason why many masturbate