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Efe42:
Bro I've already have sex with her and she taste good but I see her as my soul mate everyone do have past and I told her to put the past behind us let's build a better future the past always remain the past!!!

So what advice do u want...if she says she's not ready..then don't put ur egg in one basket..gals plenty everywhere

Go and fvvck am first. Forget all those babbles u are talking abt..
After u fvvkc am, then tell us how u feel and how she related with u afterwards...
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She dated 3 guys who broke her heart .lol..will she ever tell u the truth? Fvck her last the other guys to know whatsup fess and stop simping urself Into needless emotions

debbydams:
u no well..I'm waiting for your advice too, I have a friend who is 32 and she is a virgin

Okay...my advice is for her to open the pvssy wide open and let people fvck am na..what's the value of a pvssy that is not fvvcked?

wumi2017:
Thank you sir, just like ur monicker sir

What do you want..dat you are using Sir like 50 times

wumi2017:
Thank you sir, just like ur monicker sir

What do you want...using Sir like 50 times

Mystery9:
This comment may sound awkward to you, but it's the truth. If you know God"s way, you will fathom it.

Shut the fvvck up..
Na people like you woman dey break bottle ontop hin head before he get sense

ultimate77:
Lol.. "too serious"? Are there serious people on this section?

Dem yapa o.. People wey dey find pvssy ans serious relationship to marriage

Emotionalbeing:
Lol.. Please, be serious

What do you want us to say... anybody can come here to claim virgin at 40 just like u now..
.. Did u grow up in a woman's island? Abeg shift

ultimate77:
Tell your boyfriend that you have a serious date now.

Don't act too serious...ever wonder why she's displaying her number to the whole world on her profile?

Picture and video of the virgin kpekus or we won't advice you

The guys is obviously poor and frustrated, as we can see he can only afford to wear slippers.
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Economy turn people to Yahoo, Olosho, runs gal, fake pastor, corrupt politicians, and this one to thief...there's only a little difference cos they are all social vices we commit to survive.

The difference is that ..one can kill you instantly while other vices have a social effect of killing gradually on a larger scale.
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If he was not with a gun, apprehending that poor thief would have been better justice...
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Im not sure if there's any sense in this Sha.. jst philosophizing

millionboi:
remove it.......is out of contest

Well, serious relationship for a guy commands respect anywhere. Take it or leave it...
..if u don't have serious relationship...then occasional time that few babes come to visit u also command respect. I'm not saying you u shd change babes everyday...

Johnsown1:
I am pretty sure that your neighbors will see as a difficult person. Cause if one apply all these things even the spirit will respect you

They are not hard. The only less comfortable is the greeting..cos people may grudge you...that's why I said not all the time u greet..meaning u greet today and sometimes u snub and act like u dint see them...other points are easy to live

anungangampu:
Respect and admiration has always been a mirror of how we see ourselves or what we silently want for ourselves.
The fact of secretly admiring a Girls man actually come with age. Seriously in my 20s I thought like that too but looking back, I found out there wasn't anything catchy or admirable in having girls troop your house anyhow.

It always boils down to our personal likes and dislikes like I said earlier. Respect is the mirror of what we ourselves want and value.

The gal part isn't the most important...that's why I place it at the bottom of the point....I hope u get.
But having a serious relationship can make u look responsible no doubt.. and occasionally when gals come to see u ....it's not hard to understand

HRSweetness:
I think you're confusing arrogant boys for men who command respect.

It's only boys that attach "respect" to something as frivolous as going out with girls. Men on the other hand, respect a goal driven, upwardly mobile man.

Also, not greeting doesn't breed respect, it actually portrays you as an insecure, Ill mannered individual.

Truly successful people who command respect are actually humble enough to greet everyone they come in contact with. Read up about successful billionaires and how they relate with even the security guard and janitor under their employ.

As regards the billionaires, These are social etiquette in public places...or at work where people try to project certain imagine.
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But greetings doesn't have to be all the time on the street, or among certain friends or people....That's my own take. I greet people, but I deliberately don't cos some people won't greet u until u greet them....
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Moving with gals command some respect either u like it or not....I'm not talking of married men here who maybe be seen as promiscous...I'm talking of guyman...
....Even gals get curious abt u when. They see u with gals occasionally

babyfaceafrica:
who respects a man that can't kip his pants on?..Loose men don't get respect

It's non verbal respect. I don't need to say much about this. Cos I can actut write a page on it

InspectorLawal:
respect boss I salute you but your number 11 spoil this your nice write-up

It's just an additional..not the most important

Oshokalo:
everything u mention here,except changing girls,that's me my attitude,but u know children of the world will still find fault in everything u do,but that's the truth

Sure it doesn't matter.....but deep down, they respect you. Me personally I like someone who keeps to himself, appear controlled and proud..these are the people I'm drawn to

Quality20:
and u didn't even marry anyone, even if a decent hawker girl?

Nonsense...na marry I go marry for Nysc abi

MoIbrahim:
God bless you!

Though, I don't agree with 8, 9 and 11.

U don't have to have a serious relationship...just make babes come ya house once in a while, though serious babe is better

StreetPreacher:
Nice but I disagree with 9 and 11 as conditions to gain respect. I greet people a lot and I don't talk much. That doesn't make them feel I am forming for them because I always greet them with a smile. Even my lecturers give me a level of respect.

Secondly, girl friend isn't a yardstick to earn respect from people. It is never a condition

Well depends on your personality.....
Among guys, men, it's a fact men respect guys who go out with gals than the ones who don't get at all.
About greeting...greeting too much I know as fact is bad. Greeting too much makes u look like u give a fvck

Dotinacircle:
Doing all this just for people to respect you. Floccinaucinihilipilification comment

It's a lifestyle for some people actually...Not something they have to read from book to do...I gave that piece by just looking at my self in the past and myself right now as a very conscious adult in real life

zuby4real10:
All the 5 ladies I told you I have tried I took all of them to either cinema or restaurants where we gist nd relax b4 telling them my feelings on them. There was one I took to domino pizza where we drank ice cream and pizza of 20k. Only for her to reach house and tell me that she is broke she don't even have food to eat I should send her some token in her account. I tried to let her understand that today is our first date I think it is too early for that. That was the last time she talked to me again. My problem is not giving but y is it that they can't even tell me yes that they have accepted b4 start billing me.

20k..for what? Even 10k iwill make u look like u are trying too hard to impress....You are not even happy they disappeared..some will even give u green light but won't allow u to fvvck dem...but they will give u hope and milk u dry..lol
..3k or 5k date is okay..don't use expensive venue or expensive drinks or food
..infact go for cheap neat place...why waste ur money on gals who haven't shown any commitment for u..it's a wrong way to chike Naija gals

For me...I fuvcked so much with reckless abandon when I served in the north...I quickly learnt some basic of their language just to trip those gals and change to English after few words in Hausa..lol, just to let them know I appreciate and like their language....they liked me for it cos I mingle well and ready to make friends
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The ladies were down to earth, less drama, less pretence and also appreciative...That's my experience. The. The very bad ones among them are bad to the core, but still respectful and reasonable.

GeneralKoko:
I have defaulted in almost all your tweets.
I love them . I hope to improve.

We learn everyday....
And I forgot a point...reduce the way you ask questions...some questions may be troubling or unreasonable..yes, asking too many questions from people might make u seem like u don't know shit....so reduce questions to minimum
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And reduce how u complain to people who don't matter a bit to ur problem

Next time,don't act too serious. Take it slow as if u don't care if she end up your babe or not..
Don't start with I want a gal friend...start with going on a date, gisting, talking abt different topics and life issues.. enjoy ursef laugh and catch fun.
Make sure it's a imple date ...don't spend more
than 3k or 5k max in the date...so it won't appear u are throwing money around to impress.
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Don't chat love love stuff on WhatsApp....normals greetings, checking on you..and random shit .u can. Start convo based on her status. And don't check her status all the time.
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Don't rush
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When u call,don't do it often...and check her level of response and interest when she talks on phone
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. When it's time to invite her to your place...like after two or three date maximum when she's a bit comfortable with u...tell her u will like her to know ur place, then observe her reaction or excuse....it will give u a sign if she's interested at all..
....If she gave too many excuse or fail to show up in 2 or max 3 attempted times u told her...then forget abt her...and don't call or chat her until maybe she contact u.

bigpicture001:
I was mad with my girlfriend cuz I suspected she she cheated...then I was very very broke to the last 100 naira..I left her in anger and didn't want to com back again...

Meanwhile, I can't even feed that night..this happened in my varsity days ..she knew she was wrong..she went looking for my roommate and gave him 10k to give me but not to tell me it came from her..cuz she knew I would reject it..my roommate oblige and when I told him am broke ,he offered to borrow me money of exactly 10k to pay back when I can...I was schoked cuz the roomie is damn too stingy..but I accepted..

We later made up, cuz she begged and begged..and one day after over two months ,she ask me if I got the money she gave me through my roommate.i was he'll schoked.didnt expect it came from her. According to her ,we know ourselves so much that she know my financial situation den...

I was happy she cared even in bad times...I then told myself I will never be cause if end of relationship with her...sadly we broke up permanently 5months later cuz she cheated again.this time got pregnant...

Women sha!

This ya story funny..
It's possible the money she gave you was from the proceed of her cheating...those hoes ain't loyal..though shes not stingy

NgoziLovelyn:
Do you want me to tell you something?

No. Keep it

Beze992:
So what happened next it it's there a part two of this story

No part 2...she's an ex...we both moved on

Darkblood:
Did you marry her or not?
I think that's what the original poster was trying to talk about

I dint ....is it a must to marry a gal before admitting a babe liked us?

bossylingua:
ou are a wicked soul

I'm not wicked...I liked her but the truth is I'm not sure I could marry her....I had my fear, my mind wasn't settled abt marrying her despite her effort and good side..I couldn't overlook her bad mouth and quarelsome attitude.
That's why I dint want to prolong the dating for too long.

What if he's unable to talk again..let's kindly give him pen and paper to write the gist. Bloggers are waiting