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[quote author=BlackMan6969 post=115822833][/quote]I have got experience bruv, u don't know me. I handle my sh!t. You cannt predict me, if you think I was gonna zig, that's when I zag. A man who cant handle a relationship will do worst at marriage. How you handle your relationship now determine how your marriage gon be, people don't change especially adults.

anonimi:
Please what will you do if she carries your phone and even breaks it

The phone thingy is just one way to it, there are other stuff u could do, u get?

U can leave the house for her, I can decide to leave the house and take my dog for a long night stroll, I might end up going to the junction to buy suya and shear with my dog, and cool off, there are plenty stuff to do bro

Chaos14:
If i fix all my mistakes that would mean everything that shaped me and made me who i am is gone so red door no matter what currency

Chai, you are wise comrade, I love this response, if I fix all my mistake, what would I now become, I might easily blow that 10milion within weeks because I won't be this wise to make the right investments , plus my experience will teach me not to repeat bad investment I did in the past that doesn't yield result as expected

TheSourcerer:
well he did die from Aids....

Yeah, so i had, it had already eating him deep on this picture

TheSourcerer:
yes sir , she has to look proper and comfortable before taking it home .

Chai, this is demm funny

Reinamaria:
He does not take life too seriously, that's why.

Exactly, I have seated and had a group chat with mr charly boy, he's one of the most funniest and liveliest person ever, mr charly does some acrobatic displays that will leave u wondering, he lives his life to the fullest trust me. And yes he never takes anything serious,

U can tell charly that some military men are at his gate to arrest, him, he will bring out very big speaker inside his compound and start dancing zanku leg work , him no just send

TheSourcerer:
A Nigerian market in the 1940s. Iddo Island

Look at how organized the market looks, market these days people sell stuff even on the main road, too bad

TheSourcerer:
Picture of a Nigerian lady shopping for clothes, Lagos 1910s. Published by Comptoir Henry Dupuy.

But she's just seated and posing for pictures, abi she has to wear all the cloths and buys only the one that fits her better

TheSourcerer:
Fela doing his thing ....Very Intelligent Man. Unpraised Genius.

Baba looks sick here, look at his legs

Klass99:
This shit really works .

A friend's friend (Zac) has done it to his wife. During a heated argument that was going no where Zac bounced for a night out with his guys. On getting back home his wife and mother in law wanted to give him lip. Zac just packed a bag of clothes and vamoosed for 3 whole days.

Wifey and mother in law were the ones calling, texting and pleading with him to come home. Since then everybody around Zac arranges themselves well. Nothing speaks louder than actions, abeg .

Every time I hear communication is key, sit her down and talk to her, or have a heart to heart talk with him, I usually smile and shake my head. Non-verbal communication can be just as effective as verbal communication, if not more powerful sef.

Your post and signature has me thinking you are a jackass but a likeable jackass.

Lols, I ain't Jackass dear, I just know how to handle my sh!t, that's all

Revolution2022:
You think say na hustle dey give them money?If na like so conductors and traffic hawkers for don blow.Dey deceive yaself.Hustle no dey pay.Na fraud and coc men dey involved in this time.

Work smart, not hard, working hard without working smart keeps you permanently broke.

Richy4:
OK... Just checking.. if going out in the middle of the night works for you man, that is cool..

There are whole lot of things that can happen to an individual at that hour especially if one is not mobile.... Besides, most hotel or motels might not even agree to open their Gates for fears of the unknown...

It's just a tricky situation for anyone that resides in Nigeria I believe.. I wish I have something more to say to OP.. he will become really skinny in no distant time..

Yeah I get you, it's really à whole lot, man and woman issue especially husband and wife need alot of critical thinking to handle, it's not for the weak really.

Troubledman:
Hmmm. I read all the comments. I deserve all the bashing and more. I do not excuse hitting her, I just called her father now to apologize and confess for hitting her but I told the whole story. Everyone is aware of her aggressive nature. Everytjme he talks to her, its always to tell her to take it easy. I'm also vindicated in the fact that I called her close friend about 3 days to report her. I'm not proud of it but this lady makes my life hell.

Ironically. She doesn't have big boobs or breasts. I decided to marry her because I heard her story and like me she'd been through a lot. I thought that would make use both mature, understand how life works and know how to manage situations but that hasn't been the case.

I walked away, I left. I stayed elsewhere. I gave her space. She came to meet me where I was repeatedly. It was the middle of the night. I couldn't leave the house. I gave as much space as I can. She kept pushing. But that's no excuse. I Bleep up I know.

She left rhis morning. Continued insulting us.

Let her be bro, you have already called and apologized to the parents and if that's the place shes going to they will talk sense into her, plus a lady could develop this attitude suddenly if she start to fancy another man or one guy dey one corner dey wash her head with lies, woman are very easy to deceive you know. Plus stop reporting every little issue that comes up in your marriage to people out there, including her friends, it make u look like a simp, a woman will disrespect and dislike u even more when u keep reporting her to her friends

Her friends don't give a fvck about what happens in that marriage, no matter how caring u think they are, especially her unmarried friends.

Richy4:
This whole thing is not planned or scripted you know?.. what if she snatched the phone and smashes it just to dare you for ignoring her, what will be the solution to that?

The phone pressing is just one way, there are other stuff u can do, why don't u dress up and go for a walk, I personally love driving very late in town at night, it give me peace of mine, might not be going anywhere, just drive around the empty road with a cool breeze pouring on your face and radio stations playing cool jams to go with, I know this because that's what I use to do when my babe would just pick up unnecessary quarrel,

I would just dress up and drive out, even if Nah 2am I don't care, after one hour and I wasn't back she will start calling like 999 times, I won't pick, she will go to WhatsApp to drop long apology voice note begging me to come back and how sorry she is

It got to a point, when ever she wants to talk to me about something bordering her, she will use a very cool voice and a puppy eyes make I no just perceive unnecessary anger and aggression from her, I will just wear cloth and off I go.

You gotta place her where she belong, she got to acknowledge me and me alone, two majors can't captain a ship, it's either me or me. You gotta make that clear, define issues and create boundaries

There is a friction between you both, a negative energy at that, you both may not be compatible after all.


I can really understand the fact that you have endured alot from her, but the best way to tame a woman is,


Whenever she is angry about something and talking, talking, talking, she wants you to talk back, so that she uses your comment as a fuel to engage you in further and unnecessary talks, you will eventually break and make a mistake out of anger and say something u weren't suppose to, then she capitalizes on the mistake and that's more reasons for her to talk some more, that's a circle that never ends ,
The best way to deal with a woman is, whenver she's ranting don't say sh!t, just carry your phone and start pressing it, or start doing stuff but don't u ever respond to her, she will eventually tire her self out and walk away or sleep off ,


After sometimes, with a smile on your face call her, say this to her, oga food never ready abi we no go chop today?? huge her from the back and never bring up the topic that lead to you both nagging like co wives, do this and be consistent about it, women don't like men that talks as much as u do, you talk too much bro, imagine you nagging and settling issues always between you and two other women, your mum and wife, grow some hairy balls bro

Realtalk20:
This dude needs to learn to talk less!
..He talks too much like most Tinubu supporters . Bill gates, Bezos etc don't talk so much. This man is always talking and talking

And who are u to judge exactly
He's a fucking trillionaire in dollars his money is too long, he's permitted to talk as he pleases , he can buy anything he wants, he may decide to buy, all the top English league with one certain African country, also he's also buying Tinubu to finally retire the agbada and cassava ambassador, you are welcome

Spoke too soon, next time wait until after meeting

Kronikuz:
Comrade why hast thou acknowledged his low key vawulence

Am a certified comrade and it is written that violence comes in one way and it is escalates in seven ways

Itohanmiwa:
My guy dbull. I've been observing you low key and one advise I would give to you is, free social media and focus your hustle on the real world, network with people of your kind and do the work low key, when the talent go blow na social media go dey wan famz u then. All these things you do reeks of low self esteem.

This is though luv a bro show to a fellow bro (Bro Code) op this is probably the best advice anyone could give to someone they care about, heed this advice, if not go and ask Airforce one, u no even do reach am, uptilll now, him never blow, Nah for only here we sabi am with him meaningless low self esteem post, a word is a enough, you know the rest

satelliteDISH:

See wicked laugh abeg, comrade I smell vawulence from you

Looks like a sivet or a bush cat, if it is the eastern world now, the kitchen owner may even adopt the cat and care for it, but here in Nigeria, we kill it, snap it and thereafter burn it after pouring anointing oil on it after praying back to sender prayers 97 Times

Honestfrend:
Hw dis oyibo dey take dey dance 2 our local Nigerian song even the ones in pigin, still dey surprise me.

Same way we danced our hearts out to makosa music, even though it's French and we don't understand sh!t they are saying

The husband say I surrender all,
funny man, aiya she will birth this baby successfully and even more

Smith414:
lolll.. make them put gun for your head make you say you nor sabi dance

If him see real gun pointed at him, him go dance awilo, danfo driver, alingo, galala, zanku, leg work, soapy, buga, you go surprise say him hidden talent Nah dance, e never chi chom chin

LadyRosa:
Now, that's the ish.
Infact there was a pregnant invitee according to my sister.

Pregnant woman OMG, that's a a messed up situation.

LadyRosa:
Lol.
Sometimes I just waht to give them some dose.Some of the attendees are even married, the celebrant is 31.You can imagine if all of them were contacted and told they may have eaten drug spiced cookies.

That's bad, what was their intention inducing the cake though, most people have got allergies, most people would actually die when the ingest some stuff in their system, that's so irresponsible of the celebrant

LadyRosa:
Unfortunately for you,my lineage is not tormented by poverty like where you came from.
Her monthly salary alone in doillette Nigeria as a chartered accountant at age 25 ,I'm sure, a tiny percentage is enough for your kinswomen spread their stinky p$ussy like japanese hand fan for men.

You should not reply some quotes here, most people here are kids, others are just straight-up lunatics. I don't blame your sister, anyone can fall a victim of what happened to her and thank God it was quickly tackled and she's fine now, thank God for her life.

Imagine a statement from a serving state governor, very hateful and recks of incitement. On saner clime, this man shouldn't be made chairman market men association, he lacks every quality that should qualify a reasonable human being.

Khaleesi4lyf:
My dear I know you're jobless and it's frustrating. I'm really sorry Hun!

Sorry I would have loved to engage you very seriously this morning but I just remembered I'm not as jobless as u.

Take care and stop being bitter!

Stupid fool, next time before quoting anyone here, check well, check signature, I ain't one of those simp that send you pm. I would whoop your disrespectful stupid ghonoreah ass.

Khaleesi4lyf:
it's Monday morning too. Don't let the devil use u. Now get lost! Into oblivion

not everyone is as wretched as your boyfriend that ran away after impregnating you, now I know how damaged goods you are, very toxic
Shame the devil, drop your account number lemme send you few thousand, endeavor to screen shot alert and post here.

Khaleesi4lyf:
sorry oh u don beg Ur niggas dem no give you. Chai! Sorry. Don't go and work.


Now run along bitter soul

I would feed you and your stupid family plus your boyfriend that abandoned you with pregnancy from now till death, you stupid bitch, don't say sh!t to people u see online, not everyone is as broke and wretched as you lineage and your trench boyfriend that abandoned you. Now drop your account number lemme give you little money to feed well. No let shame prevent you from having a few thousand this early Monday morning

[quote author=EponOjuku post=115714012][/quote]Oh now I see why Khaleesi4lyf is this bitter and stupid, eiyyaaa, thank you comrade, FBI should engage your investigating techniques