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oluplus:
Good evening Fam,

Straight to the point, On Tuesday this week, I got a call from a stranger, who called from a market in Ibadan that she mistakenly sent money to my Opay account. She missed a digit when typing the phone number and the money came to me. She pleaded with me to return the money (N6, 000) . I checked, confirmed the money and I returned it. She even called to thank me the following day.

Then, yesterday being Friday, I received another call from a woman, who claimed to be calling from Mile 1 market in Port Harcourt. The story was the same with the first woman,. She made a mistake while paying a seller and the money came to my Opay account- the same amount (N6, 000).

I was shocked and had to tell that I didn't have her time. I was actually busy then. So I checked and the money is in my acct.

Just wandering if I should be worried. Is this a new pattern? Are these guys up to something? I will return the money to her but just wanted to make my findings first.

Please what can you deduce from all of these?

Vikkiboi:
hello everyone,

is there a thread for food you can start from 6months here?

someone should paste the link or help out with what we can start giving a 6month baby

iamfertile:
Good morning ma, my baby (she'll be in months old on 3th) has not poop since 4days ago. I dip Rob in her anus 3days ago so she later poop at night. Since then till now she hasn't poop again. She's feeding exclusively & actively sucking.
Pls is it normal? Have anyone experienced it? Thanks

DoveofPeace:
Good morning Dear Dads & Mums, pls my little Son will be 5months by God's grace on May 26.

So, do will still have to continue his Nan one by then or will should switch to Nan 2, he's been taking Nan one together with breastfeeding as at two months old or thereabout?

Hauwi:
What’s PEP please?
I’m looking to get nice clothes for my baby girl

AbbasFavourite:
Can you tell be what was the package look like for the free one. Does it look like a drug in a packet with devices for administration?

iamfertile:
Please I have some questions......

..... My baby poops lik 2 - 3 times at night before daybreak but may poo like once or twice during the day. I am exclusively breastfeeding. She'll be a month old by Saturday - Pls is this normal?


....hmmm 2ndly...... Abeg nobody should laugh oooo
How long should one wait before trying to conceive again after a c section?
I'm asking because I've waited 8 yrs b4 having this precious baby so I REALLY dont want anything that'll cause delay (TTC) again.
And what are the chances of having a VBirth after a c section?
Pls Sabi Mama's help your girl out. L4t me be planning for the future.
Thanks always

kokaiye:
not true

mbjane:
Hello house ,what type of food can be used for my baby as we didn’t find the usual sma gold we have been using for the past few months

Options will be appreciated from you all

iamfertile:
OK. Amen. Is it OK to combine breastfeeding +formula till she's 6 months?
Thank you

iamfertile:
The plaster hasn't been removed yet. Still going for dressing

iamfertile:
Jesuuuu, it's these old women o. My MIL said I shud sit up for old blood to come out. I did only once 3days ago na so bleeding that had stopped will just trip down my thigh. Also she massage my tummy wt hot water which I'm not comfortable with. Today I went for dressing the site is very wet. Should I stopped the massage of just be careful? I'm asking because I'm thinking if I don't massage how will the old blood come out.
Abeg no mind my long episode. I be jjc

iamfertile:
Hmmm, 4th tremester no easy o. Immediately we got home my baby didn't sleep. I didn't sleep a wink that night & to make it worse my breasts weren't producing milk but thank God it's coming out little by little.
Shout out to all our waddling mamas. Hope you dey push am. The Lord is your strength. Easy birth injn.
..... BUT I HAVE A QUESTION..
How long does bleeding stopped after CS? Today is my child naming (6day post surgery) but I'm still bleeding. Yesterday nothing came but this afternoon I just saw bleeding flowing my knees. Does stress stress caused it or what should I do to heal up so fast? Also can CS patient do sit up.

iamfertile:
Pls what causes migraine after CS? Ive been feeling it & it's getting serious

Zelenskyy:
Thïefnubu should be held responsible for to his chaos

He sold Buhari to Nigerians in 2015, with false and fake promises

In 2019, when it was very obvious that Buhari was a colossal failure and many people distanced themselves from Buhari,

Drugnubu still went round the nation to campaign and make more bogus promises to Nigerians again

Now that the Naira redesign policy of this failed government is about to truncate his presidential ambition, he is now speaking and behaving like someone from the opposition...

Nigerians are not Stupid like Thïefnubu Ūrchins and would disgrace him at the polls in 7 days time.

Enough is Enough: Tinubu's APC must Go

callola:
hmm, thanks. I was told not to apply penicillin but blue seal Vaseline so that it won't glue to his diaper

callola:
please Mama's come to my aid. when should I start using soap on my baby after circumcision? he was circumcised on Saturday, whenever I want to change his diaper and see the site, my heart bleeds. I just cleaned his body and apply Vaseline on it

Omobithousand:
Thanks for the information mama.... please do i cover it with her diaper or not

Omobithousand:
Mamas please is there any other gel or something that i can apply on my baby's cord cos it has fall of and she's 11 days old
A worried momma

voucher:
Please mamas that had their babies before 38 weeks, did the babies have any breathing difficulties at first?

Bloomingbud:
sugarcoatted, please talk it through with your hubby I personally hate crowded house and I'm cringing at both my mum and mum in law coming tomorrow. Since you are housing his sis, let big bros go stay with their sis or parents.

Ebowo:
My sis don't think it much o, everything will be sorted out if u stand ur ground, infact maybe ur hubby is firstborn like mine n they are seeing ur house as a family house, u won't b comfortable with a man of 40 under ur roof na, haha! Ppl can b selfish o.infact make urself comfortable in dt house like arrange ur stuff n d kid's stuff in both rooms, start carrying face now o don't wait until u go to d labour room o. Cos dt ur plan of staying in d hospital is not d safest for u n baby. A new mum needs privacy to bond with her baby without any form of distraction. Instead of not returning I would rather threatn hubby dt I would excuse them ,then arrange with a friend to stay with (leaving a note for him) for a day or two. By d time ppl come around to say congrats shame no go allow them to say mum n pikin left cos of one overgrown baby of 40

Blessedmum:
I will suggest that you go for Nan for now except you don't want to do EBF.

Ebowo:
They are just waiting to paint u black but it doesn't matter at this point, hmm! This life ehn! I am in same situation o, my hubby has called a meeting to inform them dt his wife can put to birth any moment from now n dt they should move his (in my own case his Dad) to somewhere else cos his youger brother has been with us...na me still use my mouth say make we dey manage but it's no longer funny, even d kids are asking when he will leave cos he's always glued to d TV n d kids are missing their cartoons...n to think dt he didn't marry my mum inlaw but another woman who brings him to our house n leave at every slightest pain d man feels is annoying.

MercyMercy:
Stay till December
So if your hubby did not approach him,he will just be there till December? No na,that's not fair!
Since your sis in law is around, which other sibling can he go to stay with? Don't he have friends? Or better still he should go to his parents house while your hubby support them financially with what he can.

sugarcoatted:
I just want to rant small, not pregnancy related.

Someone please tell me if i am just being paranoid because i am really really upset. My brother inlaw, hubby's elder bro is fond of visiting unannounced. By visiting unannounced, i mean he will just show up at the door without informing anyone. I will give some instances. There was a time DH wasnt around, same as me but i was closer. Dh just called me to say his bro was waiting outside i should go open door for him. I was like, did he inform you he was coming he said no he just called to say he was outside. I just said i have tp finish what i was doing first before going anywhere, you cant show up on a work day knowing fully well we are supposed to be at work and expect me to rush home to go host you. When its not like something brought you, just regular visit. Hubby had to tell him to atleast inform us ahead next time. He now changed the pattern

Sometime in august, he came with his wife and their 5kids on one fateful sunday like that. We were informed when they were already almost at the house, no jokes. These people arrived with a ghana-must-go bag, to stay till tuesday. Meaning they already had it planned out. What stopped you from pre-informing your hosts biko? How do you expect us to feed extra 7 mouths without planning for it? They had to manage what we had as there was nowhere to start looking for what to buy to cook for them.

3rd scenerio is now. On Thursday evening this past week before my husband came home, he called to inform me that his bro just called that he was on his way to our house. I said ok no problem. He sha arrived. Later on, hubby said i shouldnt worry about it that he said he only came to 'stretch his legs' so he expects him to leave the next day. I said no problem. Only for me to realize oga came with a travel bag meaning it wasnt a day's visit. Later that thursday, their mum called to say the guy came to look for work. Like i dont even get it, first of all, you didnt preinform us of your visit, secondly we dont even have enough space for we that live in the house, not to talk of an extra person. Dh is obviously not happy but would be busy pretending everything is fine. On friday, dh came home 11pm which hardly ever happens. Yesterday he didn't leave the room all day, even to eat he ate in the room. When i asked if he wont go and atleast talk with the bro, he said its unfortunate he cant help him. So its me you will now leave your problems for to deal with?

Baby is coming this month, and i cant accomodate any extra person that has absolutely no contribution to make for me or my baby. We live in a 2bedroom flat, the 2nd room my daughter sleeps there with my 32yr old sis inlaw that lives with us. My mother inlaw will come once i put to bed, plus the new baby. So please where is this man supposed to stay? Btw, he is over 40.

A little about him, he came back from SA during that xenophobia period with nothing and has been trying to find his feet. He has 5children, the first is 22. Unfortunately, after they got back him and the wife made some wrong financial decisions that they lost even the funds raised for them after they got back. He is a tailor, this was what he has been doing since i have known him. Anyway, the wife got tired and left with all the kids in september. So he was all alone, he cant cook or anything. So he cannot really cope on his own.

My hubby likes his privacy so much and i know if this same scenario is from my end, it would have been a big issue. So why do i have to tolerate what he would never take? And the fact that everyone else sees it as normal because he is 'family' annoys me. Before someone would turn me to something else. Because if i decide to act mean now, someone will term me wicked and unreasonable. Yet you will see what is right and not do it. I'm really so upset

StarryV:
Jesuuu! 4 months? Whaaaat!!! Baby is just a month plus, so he's gonna suffer this till he's 4 months old This is a sad news.