₦airaland Forum

Masanto:
Something is fishy, Hushpuppi paid directly to the seller but the Clothes were delivered to your office? Why cant the seller waybill directly to him if there is no tie between you and Hush

froshdhayveed:
Like joke dis girl is now worthing millions.
God Abeg no 4get me ooo

Kokaine:
Apart from relationship with this girl, do you have a dream? Do you have something you are passionate about and desperately wish to achieve before death meets you? Are you satisfied with just living? Eating, going to toilet, and maybe having sex in the future? Are there things you also want to be or do in this life? Like employ people, create jobs, have an NGO that supports albinos, or sponsor a research that can change a life? Is there an invention you are working on? Are you a gym cat? Building your muscles and intellect? Do you want to learn programming and teach it for free to kids who are less privileged and have challenging backgrounds in life. What about your love for God and paradise. Do you want to live a life that is approved by God and be saved from hellfire?

You see all these questions I asked you? If you are living your life taking steps to achievement of any of these things, your mind will be filled up, your self esteem will be high at its peak, you will see everyone that cones your way as a possible tool to achieving this dream. So meeting with this woman of yours, will take its natural course. It wouldn't need any one on nairaland to tell you what to do next, your dreams, your starved ambition, your inner energies, will lead you. And you will not see yourself any less in esteem than her. She is not doing you a favour by accepting your proposal, its only an opportunity to see how and where she meets you on your way to the top.

If you meet her and she has no dreams, or will be a harbinger to your own ambition or standards, you may have to help her to the way up, or break up with her to find your own kind. So don't be too excited. You are also a big catch.

With this mindset or personality, you can date Obamas daughter and still live by your standards. You can tell otedolas daughter that you don't take alcohol or you won't attend a particular party, the relationship should favour your dreams. If not, it should not exist. So you can turn down a proposal from the most beautiful girl in the block. You matter too. In fact, you matter most! You are the catch!

CaroLyner:
If you don't know what to do next then you're not ready for a relationship

aribisala0:
Low cut off does not mean low standard

That is not what that means.
The price of Crude oil moves not because of any intrinsic change in the crude
It is down to demand and supply
Common entrance cut offs do not work in the same way as JAMB cut-offs
In order to interpret statistics they must be understood and not misrepresented
I am not saying that there are no low standards but that cannot be discerned from cut off. We cannot say the state with the highest cut off was the best performing or vice versa

The figures simply indicate demand and supply.
Some states have a very high demand for unity schools compared to others that is the one thing that can de determined from those scores with certainty.

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

TarOrfeeek:
You want to know if it's heart break?


No

It's COVID-19

pocohantas:
Even if it gets to separation/divorce, may we all be blessed with partners who would understand it is the kids first. Not their egos, maliciousness or whatever.

It is hard, but Churchill did the best thing by moving on. In few years time the boy would be at least 10 and in secondary school. He would begin to ask questions. Then Churchill can step in and they’ll have a talk.

Till then, Tonto can continue playing MamaDePapa.

iamyemiakins:
Strange Evidence

Mothman ko, Willy-Willy ni

Doraty1:
https://punchng.com/breaking-im-also-dealing-with-bandits-in-the-language-they-understand-says-buhari/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter&amp&utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter&__twitter_impression=true

Joysticks:
Can a Nigerian hard-worker get rich from a 9 to 5 monthly salary without involving in runs?
I don't mean politics where the politicians allawees are higher than their salary.
I mean genuine salary earners who don't engage in illegal activities to make extra income at their workplaces?

No; you can never be wealthy working for money. You are only wealthy when money works for you.

Afriqan:
Who told him to say the truth?

Keep lying jare! There is no insecurity, it's PDP that's spreading false rumours with their Excel spreadsheet...

RALPHOW:
If you taste life abroad you will not stay in this country even with 50Million

Proffwhyhurry12:
Why will a reasonable person leave where he make that amount of money?

Because where that money is coming from, more is still there.

AdolfHitlerxXx:


No tribalism here.
Nairaland's Chief Peacemaker as designated by Ogbeni Seun Osewa.

Let's focus on the crime and not the tribe.

Jail them both.

AlfaAce:
Good morning guys, Let me just go straight to the point - I finished with university in February and since then, I have been jobless. Applied for a few jobs but no response.

I finally got a job at a pure water factory but the salary was 11k, 6am - 6pm.

They usually give workers #100 to eat everyday, then they'll deduct it from the salary - Meaning at the end of the month, I'm taking home 8k.

This did not go down well with me so I rejected the job. Wanted to learn photography but there was no money. I really need advice at this point because my almost deadbeat dad is further making life miserable for me at home. It's messing me up mentally.

What skill can someone learn at an affordable amount within the shortest possible time?

Casper21:
The question “Can the board of directors fire the owner?” is becoming increasingly contentious. CEOs and founders of companies often find themselves out of a job after being fired by means of a vote undertaken by the board of the company. If the person in question is not the owner of a controlling share in the company, there is not much they can do to avoid being fired.

Sharing the ownership of a company leads to loss of total control over it. As external investors are brought in, owners' shares get diluted, and the founder of a company can often find that he or she owns less than half of the shares in that company. This leaves him or her at risk of being fired.

If a CEO has a contract in place, he or she may get fired at the end of that contract period, if the company has new owners or is moving in a new direction.

The CEO, despite being the person who incorporated the company, often gets fired in times when the company is experiencing a slump in financial performance. This is because internal company politics and differing leadership styles render people vulnerable.

If a founder gets fired, then the company's investors have obviously lost confidence in that founder's ability to establish profitability. Or, in the case of a company that is already turning a profit, they do not consider the founder capable of helping the company grow and evolving to meet the needs of a changing market.


...Strategies for Avoiding Dismissal....

Tech Crunch advises executives to always remain defensive, working with key players and building personal relationships with board members and shareholders. These, according to Tech Crunch, are the most important strategies in defending oneself from being attacked by the board of one's own company.

Founders and CEOs need to focus on more than the fact that they are indispensable – they also need to recognize the areas in which they are vulnerable. They can do this in a number of ways:

Knowing whether or not a board vote is enough to fire them.

Being aware of whether or not alleged wrongdoings need to have taken place in order for them to be dismissed.

Keeping one's ears open to listen for complaints and expressions of discontent, and
Being careful of the contracts that they sign.
An important step that CEOs can take to protect their position is to get all promises in writing. A CEO should never trust anybody who claims to always have his or her back.