₦airaland Forum

History does not judge anything or anybody.

Leave the children and rebuild your life. Except you have time and money for plenty wahala. If you have time, money and connections, then sue him.

KLand:
Family planning is not for the woman alone.

As your wife refused the idea, what did you do? Couldn't you have taken precautions yourself?

Bottom line, stop blaming your wife alone for getting pregnant. Both of you are fully responsible for the baby.

Begin to pray to God to expand your means so that you can provide for everyone in your house.

And once the baby arrives, both of you should settle this issue once and for all. So that another regretful pregnancy will not occur again.

Best response!

Business friend to your Dad is asking you out? Did you tell your Dad?
If you did not, it means you also want him, take the job and enjoy giving him personal services.

They took him from the streets and turned him into a killer robot. Unfortunately, only a FAMILY can groom you into a human being.

Friends, do all possible to ensure your children are raised in a home.

The world will attempt to make them into what the world thinks they should be.

I'm still cleaning my eyes. Then I will clean my reading glasses, then I will read this story again. I couldn't have read what I'm reading!

Cantonese:
Where was the quarrel? Where was the “dig”? Where was the insult?

Somebody made reference to "werey". That's insulting enough and absolutely unwarranted.

"War Crime" is the most stupid of human follies. War itself is a crime. The UN security Council is composed of bullies who can (sadly) do anything and get away with it. Otherwise, why do they need "veto powers"?

WiszyFraud:
Did you know??



Once people realize they can’t manipulate you, they start to dislike you. .

Actually, when people realize they can't manipulate you, they start "manipulating" how other people see you.

Am I the only one that noticed the colours in the third picture? Whoever did that interior should be flogged, then given kerosene to clean the paint!

I am watching this guy rising politically in Lagos. I think he will be in the Lagos house of Assembly very soon. Hate him or love him, he is moving up.

Poloyanabo2:
Ok, that is to say Lagos State operates an alternate constitution

Legally, Nigeria operates as a true Federation. States can have their own laws!
Some of us are clamouring for this (true federalism) to be applied in resource allocation. Such that states can use their own resources and give 10/11/15% to Abuja rather than controlling resources from the centre.

An Igbo proverb; oke soro ngwere maa mmiri....... (Meaning; the rat that decides to follow the lizard in the rain....). The lizard will dry but rat will not.

Because your friends are doing it and nothing is happening to them is NOT enough reason.

Poloyanabo2:
The judge is very stupid and mad,
Yes rape deserves a severe punishment but the constitution prescribed between 15 to 25yrs imprisonment not life imprisonment,

Which kind madness be this,
The other day another mad dog judge sentenced a man to death for rape,
Aee they high on cocaine or what

Check the laws of Lagos State. It's actually life imprisonment.

drlateef:
I hate to hear this self control thing all the time from women. You tempt people with seduction and expect them to have self control. That’s an emotional blackmail on its own. Mind you, I will never defend rape in my life, no matter the circumstances. But women must stop the emotional blackmail of self control. It’s absurd and stupid to utter such trash out. It’s pure blackmail.

Haven't you passed a restaurant when you're totally broke and hungry before? Why didn't you jump in and grab food? Because you know they will beat shegge out of you abi?

Poloyanabo2:
Life imprisonment is really unfair,
15 or 25years of imprisonment is justice,
This one here is madness

Life imprisonment is perfect for confirmed rapists. The victims live with the scars for life, so it's just fair that rapists be put away for life too. Worse still, rapist are always repeat offenders; once they get away with the first one, they must do it again.

Rugaria:
Life imprisonment for rape!?
Is that what the constitution says? Or is our lordship making up the laws as he goes?
As heinous as rape is, and I want a severe punishment for offenders, judgement should be based on constitutional dictates applicable to such crime.
I think the judge here is simply using his courtroom to vent his frustrations on a stupid offender and that to me is unconditional too..

Yes. Punishment for rape is life imprisonment in Lagos. It was signed into law like two? Years ago. Not sure exactly when.

This is no longer the fight for self determination. These indiscriminate killings are the work of criminals who are benefitting from the lawlessness. Unfortunately, so many Igbos do not understand this. I am Igbo and I do not support the killings. Neither do I support the Sit at home that is making the Igbos poor.
Only an idiot will believe that reducing his financial power will make him/her free.
Igbos are people of commerce, anyone that tells an Igbo man not to trade for one day is either a fool or evil.

Please try and keep her away for now until your babies are strong.
Do not make it obvious that you don't want her around; keep coming up with stories.

Maybe time will change her attitude (it usually does).

I made this post before I saw your mum's reason for hating your wife. And I want to conclusively say; time will alter her feelings towards you wife. Just try and keep them apart for now. She will definitely relate better with her over time; I never see Granma wey hate twins!!!
Let your wife send her gifts once in a while.

It's either
1. He is truly not cheating.
2. He is a cheat like you alleged.
If it's 1, it means he is trying to get back at you for something you did. (That's why he is making it easy for you to see the chats. Think and remember.
If it's 2, there's noting you can do.

Either way, go beyond those incidents and set higher goals for your self. If you have strong reason to confirm he is cheating, stop having secs with him (so he doesn't infect you with STD). Also, stop monitoring him and start improving ANY area of your life that he had complained of before.

Register in a gym and make sure he knows
Take an online course on something you're interested in.

Just let him know that making yourself a better person has become your new goal. He will come dancing back to you

Pierocash:
The 14 properties are they mobile phones, how can 14 properties be 15million naira?

Exact reason I opened the thread! You're right; mobile phones and tablets�����

Simple answer; yes.

The details of the shipper are known
Shipping company is known
Consignee is known
Idiots come here to claim smuggling?
Gerraaat!

I guess you didn't think about this; if the CCTV was properly installed and functional, you are automatically the "getaway" driver!

sureteeboy:
What business yielded the 1.5 million in the first instance? Maybe you should just persist with it. Or is the money a gift or loan?

Best response so far! Your best bet is to invest in whatever brought in the 1.5M!

If it is a gift, invest in mutual funds. Do not go into any business until you have done the "igba boi" for that business. Otherwise, that ₦1.5m will vanish before your eyes.

EFCC is supposed to operate with a high level of confidentiality. That officer displayed gross indiscipline. It means he/she was not Properly trained. The identities of their official could have been exposed by the idiot. Dismissal is the only appropriate sanction.
Please my post is not for or against Obiano. I'm only against the stupidity of an EFCC official.

dawnomike:
This is a nice gesture... I am not his fan but, I commend him on this

Well said. A long time ago, (in the 80s precisely) Pentecostal's mocked the Catholic church for doing charity work. They said "charity is not salvation". I thank God that in my days, Pentecostals are now taking charity Vey seriously! If we Christians love unconditionally by feeding the poor, clothing the naked, quartering the homeless, there will be no need to preach! Love (unconditional love) will eventually win.

Most difficult but permanent solution; call your husband and tell him
1. No child of yours will raised outside this home.
2. Therefore, bring all the children you have outside to this home so they will be raised to the same standard
3. Tell him you want all of his children to go to the same school.
4. Watch him make you his bedrock, finance minister, estate administrator and respect you for the rest of his life.
(This option puts you in control. It's very difficult but the outcome pays you more)

Alternatively, quarrel, call meetings, insult him, go to court and accept whatever outcome.

DSC7:
See as Igbo man and Yoruba guy dey hustle under hot sun to gather money while lazy youths dey NL dey waste their time with Tribalism.....


May God Bless every legitimate hustler out there....

Inside Relief market for Onitsha!!!! Very beautiful observation. I wish young Nigerians will LEARN from this and change their lives for good!!!!!

The rich will collaborate with anyone (irrespective of tribe and tongue) to move forward. Idiots will always put tribe first.

Na lie joor; he doesn't want to lose his yacth (due to sanctions) so he arranged to "loose" it to his friend in a poker game. After the sanctions are lifted his friend will "loose" it back to him. Smart chess players.