₦airaland Forum

hippo? was she that fat and ugly? or was the man just blinded by racism?

okoroemeka:
well you are right but 99% of Nigerian men will take the risk and marry an African American woman because of the opportunity involved, tell her to come and live in Nigeria with you and watch her true reaction, for your information I am not a gold digger but a grandfather with a son that is planning to relocate aborad soon, so you can pass your opinions without insults.

you can also pass your opinion without the insulting generalization. I never insulted you, your generalization put you right in the same box with ALL AFRICAN MEN but I guess the lines have been adjusted now . finally, thanks for your maturity in responding calmly. I wish you a blissful Sunday and many good days ahead. Cheers

Jaqenhghar:
Being angry doesnt make you right. I ask again people bei g able to travel abroad, is that the general rule or an exception, you are perambulating and getting hot. This is a country where going to even Ghana is seen as a big boy thing. Abeg shift

so from where you are you can detect anger? you must have super powers.
you better use this your special power and go back too english class, it will help you.

abeg carry your illiteracy problems elsewhere. it is not my fault that you can not read.

Jaqenhghar:
But he is right. A young man doing as you described, is that the general rule or is it an exception? We are talking percentages here not your feelings.

show me where in his comment that gave way to percentages rather than generalizations.

and what has feelings got to do with anything? we are talking facts here you are talking feelings. now i can see you are reading with your laptop (or phone) upside-down.

your inability to read and comprehend is not my problem. please face your sunday.

Jaqenhghar:
Stop being defensive. He put up valid points. How many young men can afford to go buy a ticket and go to the US like you claim. Are they the majority or the minority?

try to read properly and carefully before commenting. or were you just in a rush to respond?
he was generalizing and that was what my comment was against. his generalization made his comment very invalid.
go back and read it slowly, don't rush into things next time.

Afford? my comment was never about affordability, that one is another topic. My comment was just to make it clear that there are still young men African men travelling regularly around the world. Please read well and understand properly before commenting to avoid unnecessary conflict.

okoroemeka:
any African men wanting to marry an African American woman are just doing so for the chance of going to America, marrying a Nigerian girl is a 60/40 chance this days and you are talking about an African American woman that knows how to operate firearm and own it,na die be that

so just because a place called AMERICA exists, then we no longer have young men who have good business or family wealth or great paying jobs and travel for business, holidays and visits in africa again that they have all turned to gold diggers? they have all turned to visa scavengers? So young African men can no longer go to the embassy and get a visa for themselves and pay for flight? Oga speak for yourself and quit the stinking generalization.
learn how to use the word called SOME.

Gottiii:
Isn’t it shameful to be using car of 2006 (es330) in 2022

Many people will not understand this talk. More shameful that people have been reduced to a life where you buy 2002 car and take it for Thanksgiving. The level of poverty in the land has made owning a car look like a the highest achiement a man can attain. God forbid.

Wallade:
How did you pass examinations with this approach to answering questions?
You need to work on your communication skills.

i do not owe you the obligation of stooping down to your level of simplicity in order to make you understand written words and since the communication gap between us is to wide for you to cross, then there is no further need for you to keep replying as you have shown your level of understanding has been impeded and needs educational elevation.

Tschüss, Auf Wiedersehen.

Wallade:
I asked you a simple question which you did not answer but wrote an epistle that still makes it difficult for me to make an informed opinion about your contribution on the topic.

Answer the question and stop fumbling around it!

you call it fumbling when you fail to see how i answered over and over again. did you fall asleep while reading? I expected it . I would have accorded you very high respect had you been able to read and understand what you prematurely called an epistle but I will revel in the thought that there are many other people of superior understanding who would grasp every word without neuralgia, unlike you who has come back to get explanation for what has been explained, and that is the beauty of Nairaland. Thank God for those few.

Once again, your question would have been set on the right path and received the desired answer if you had mentioned your stance on my comment rather than sending your question unaccompanied leaving your standpoint of hostility or comradery unclear. Do you think you are talking with a SIMPLE man? Fortunately for me, I am not. Anyway, your inability to comprehend bears no fingerprint of fault that can be traced back to me. Should I inquire as to how old you are or what level of education you have attained that makes disinclination so big for you to discern? No I will not, even though it is relevant to this situation because I would want to be sure I am not talking to someone far below the literacy line, but I choose to leave you in your web and have no further discourse till you show me the relevance of your question and unshroud its intention and also that you have understood without dizziness, my first and last reply.

So, till then or never. Have a good weekend.

Wallade:
Are you married?

you seek to validate points, or the lack of it, based on the social or marital status of the commentator. You want to know if I am qualified to write such undiluted truth based on if I have a wedding ring or not.
If i should quote from the bible you would ask me if i am a pastor.
If i should decide to polish my shoes you would ask me if i was a cobbler.
I will not satisfy your curiosity with an answer due to the utter irrelevance of the question because my comment was in broard spectrum of relationship choices in general and not limited to marriages. But what do you care? My marital status is more important to you than the truth.
It would have been appealing if you had commented in agreement or disagreement before the erupting with the question. Or perhaps you can hardly decide if you agree or not and you need my answer to that question as a prerequisite to your decision making on the comment. What else would you like to know? How long i have been married? How many wives I have? Or am I just another single fellow who is only writing because he has the prowess? Do you ever wonder what the frame that encase the monalisa is made of before you like or dislike the picture? I guess not.

Cheers.

a whole 1.3 milla loss in this beautiful country.

she better stop that mumu begging and crying.

she would have been on instagram flexing and telling other Nigerians to GO AND HUSTLE, making others look lazy if this scam had worked.

Bnaira77:
I'm genuinely single and searching, I'm God fearing

As in... You run under your table when you hear God.

pozehnani:
the heart of every Young guy/man has been seered with a hot iron and so hardened and desperate to make money at all cost that they wont think twice when presented with an opportunity to do money rituals.

So how about we say ALL WOMEN use menses to cook or use love charms to tie their men and all men should now get scared of getting married? How about that? Imagine staying alive to eat menses soup for the rest of your life in the name of marriage.
You were making sense till this overbloated and senseless part came up. Such Wholesale judgement can only come from a shallow minded judgemental earthling.
But guess what? Not everyone is as shallow as you are. 1000 marriages will still hold this weekend while you remain with your dark sunshades of myopia.
Please avoid ALL MEN. I heard dogs are in vogue now and they don't do rituals.

emiriam:
STOP BEATTING YOUR WIFE.
IT IS A CURSE.
GENESIS 2:17-14.

any man who has to wait till he sees a bible passage before he knows that beating his wife or babe is an activity that shows how low he has fallen mentally, really needs a mental check.

i don't need a bible verse. i don't have time for such. I rather not tie myself with a temper provoking woman. if all your steps has brought you to the level where you ended up with such a woman then that is your problem. most men see all these signs and still choose to RIDE OR DIE with such a woman.

if as a man you grew up in a home where the sadomasochistic nature and activities of your father made you grow into such a nature where you feel it is very okay to live a life where you have to keep beating up women to get your desires met, then you have been cheated of your sanity. you need to get a room in yaba left.

women get bad mouth, women get bad mouth.... but you saw her and refused to run very far from her because you think the solution is to show her you are a man by resetting her brain with slaps. you really have time oh. Now you are stuck with her and you now have the lifetime job of resetting. it is all your fault Mr Man.

OluwoR:
brother, see, I understand You, but you think it's easy to just cut off 8 years relationship just like that ?

Oya carry your cross naw. U dey book apointment with Doctor and she dey run. U want to wed someone who is running away from solutions.
God will use your prayers as callertone When the wahala start because u saw shirt full of soja ant and chose to wear it like that.

ADITUNI:
Thank God it caught fire on time

People will not understand this talk. 20 mims later and it would have been mass burial, sanctions and compensation.

Gunners89:
OBO 2 d World..

dumbo pro max

problems. i wish him well.

back then you could marry 7 wives and no one will even remember.
back then you could bomb a whole country and no one will even know till they hear about it 6 months later.
but you see this social media is about to change lots of things

Who cares?

We have bigger problems fvcking the country doggy style over here.

Soldiers die everyday here too.

Truvelisback:
No, na black light. U be small pikin?

Na cigar light

HolyMakanaki:
I don't know if it's a Greenlight or anything else..
I have this female friend...
We good together not that close but we okay .. But I noticed she sometimes just send me her pics out of the blue whenever she took cute pictures of herself
She post em on her status and then still send them to my Dm whenever she sees that I didn't view them on her status..
I'm thinking this is green light but I don't wanna loose guard. Never
Does she want me or na me dey Overthink?

That is a red light. She is possessed.
She is sending you pics so that the more you look the less you see and from there you are finished kpata-kpata.

Next time she tries that, call her and use your native language to warn her seriously don't warn her in english oh

Kollins11:
Guy, it has been sealed already.

If care isn't taken Chelsea will come down for Arsenal.

Seems this long holiday is already causing malaria for you.

It is a very bad area. Please don't ever go there oh. Do not take the job if it is not in V.I or Lekki or Banana island.

Dreaming is free

What kind of hungry man sanction is this? They should have made it 15 million dollars so the Nigerian football body will sweat and suffer with the appeal cases and others will learn how serious the matter is.

Just few days after APC convention when the heads of abuja youths was still hot and less than 72 hours after the airport attack, tension and insecurity everywhere, you open the stadium gates to everybody in abuja with zero screening or security or identity checks. WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU EXPECTING?

Everybody was at high risk in that stadium thanks to our lack of thinking. God forbid. It was a perfect recipe for disaster and we are lucky it was not worse than that.

HardMirror:
I am well travelled. I mean very well travelled

And these are the 5 sweetest things for you after all this? You must be really different and at peace with yourself. Cheers.

You really need to do some traveling to see more of life.