Juliusmalema:



Please I don't have issues with Abia state neither am I concerned on her issues.

The only thing we are saying is that Nnamdi should limit his IPOB activities in Abia state. He should Operate only in Abia state and stop exporting Ipob nuisance to other peaceful states.

Let Ipob operate and stay in Abia. Charity they say begins at home..

you are asking the impossible. Kanu didn't force himself on other igbo sister states, they willingly accepted him.....e dey pain you ni?

IPOB is now a nuisance because it isn't championed by an anambarian right? chikwa iri

Juliusmalema:



Nnamdi Kanu is just a senile lunatic.

both you and your quotee have senile issues.....of course you won't remember that kanu has been attacking southeast politicians including ikpeazu and orji kalu.....or maybe you intentionally want to senile and stupid

Abia1stS0N:
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I am from Abia state, it is a shithole state. The most backward state in Nigeria. Cry more

sorry dude, abia didn't steal your dick, find it elsewhere....lol

Impostor

QuotaSystem:


Very good.

Post those ones instead of ranting without substance.

see this one trying to reverse the blow......tell your fellow nitwits to ask questions rather than demonizing something bigger than them

Abia1stS0N:
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Hahahaha

See this one crying like a goat. Abia state is the worst and most backward state in Nigeria. Deal with it or continue crying

you have been the one wailing since with your numerous pathetic anti-abia threads...impostor

is abia responsible for your genital impotence? please and please....see a doctor, rather than ranting online.

SocialJustice:
He should relax. He belongs to the generation that ruined Nigeria and wants everyone to endure their mistakes. The youths took over and we did it our way. We do not need anyone telling us what we did right or wrong, let us evaluate ourselves and improve from there. At no point did I insult him, if you're timid enough to think rejecting bad advice is insult, that's your problem.

The comparison with Nnamdi Kanu was rather unnecessary and stupid. I'm still not insulting, only telling you as is it is.

on point sir.

AwkaFinest:

Na your anambala blodas dey attack una.
Chinonso dike aka chino, aka Abia1stS0N, aka PortHarcourt1st, aka RIVERS1stson
That's his name.

if it's true, then they are all bast*rds

Jagznation:
Op stftu

Gtfo

ofeco:


God will keep you the way Abia leaders have being keeping the State

Call God till tomorrow....abia is ALREADY blessed, all we need to do is change our crop of leaders, not cursing or demonizing the state....

hisgrace090:


Abians are crying daily due to bad govt and you are here defending their distroyers because of money.

Demonizing is not constructive criticism.....

Abia is a dead pigsty, worst state in nigeria, bla...bla.... is that constructive criticism?

I criticize abia too....but fake monikers branding themselves as Abia wailers are busy demonizing the state and you are yapping trash....which state in nigeria is actually developed? What is abia poverty indices as recorded by NBS compared to other states? Dude be rational when criticizing...

just because I don't agree with or support ikpeazu and co does not warrant me demonizing abia state. Abia with all its deficits is still a towering state

nairavsdollars:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos

Pastor Tunde Bakare, Serving Overseer of the Citadel Global Community Church, formerly known as Latter Rain Assembly, has said #EndSARS protesters made legitimate demands but also made some mistakes which he expects them to have learnt from in the days ahead.

Speaking in an exclusive interview with INDEPENDENT, Bakare, a former Vice Presidential candidate during the 2011 general elections, said the protesters did well within the first five days but stayed too long which resulted in the protests being hijacked.

He also said another mistake made by the protesters was the lack of an organisational leader or an identifiable spokesperson.

According to him, saying that they have no leader is a testimony that the protesters lack trust among themselves.

“I think from what happened after the Lekki situation, they have learnt now that they need to reorganise and restrategise again. They did well within the first five days. Unfortunately, they dragged it perhaps too long and if you linger, you will litter”.

“Like the Yorubas will say ‘T’a ba pe lori imi, esin keesin lo ma bani nibe’ (When you tarry for too long defecating, all kinds of houseflies eventually perch on you). They would have learnt from some of the mistakes they made and they will do better things in the days to come. I encourage and support that we must do things from the ambit of the law and order.

“When they said they have no leader, it is because they don’t trust themselves. Leadership requires trust. Or when they say ‘we have no leaders, we are equal leaders’. Wherever happens, you are playing what I called ‘class suicide’.

“In the book of Judges, chapter 19 verses 20, 21 the Bible recalls that there was a time in Israel when there was no King and every man did what pleased him".


“By chapter 21, a whole generation was wiped off and they had to look for the remnants that are left; they had to marry for them so that the tribe will not be wasted.

“It will require trust to give and take for them to select leaders amongst themselves. Every nation deserves the leadership it gets so the leader deserves the types of followers that follow them.”

Also speaking on the threat by the youths that older politicians will not be allowed to participate in the 2023 general elections, Bakare said those clamouring for that are misguided as the country needs both the youths and older ones to achieve stability in the polity.

“Many of them are misguided and they have not been students of history. The youths have significant roles to play but not at the expense of the older ones. America produced the oldest president-elect in our history at the age of 78. We need both the old and young".

“Like two hands, you can’t use one hand to clap. Also, a bird cannot fly with one wing. So we need both the old and the young. The Bible says that your old men shall dream dreams and your young men shall see visions.

“Without the collaboration of both, it’s a waste of time. The youths cannot do it all by themselves,” he said.

https://www.independent.ng/endsars-protesters-dragged-on-for-too-long-tunde-bakare/

Armchair critics at it again....protesters never made any mistake.....is bakare not buharis side chick? pls and pls.....

hisgrace090:


The abia state i know is in ruin hoplessly.

the usual hyperbole from people who haven't been to most states in the federation.

I bet you ain't even from Abia.....and your state isn't better than abia

your the person using different monikers

QuotaSystem:
I was sincerely expecting to see a mega project or something that would silence the "Abia haters" for at least a week but this is disappointing.

What mega project were you expecting? The Aba-made project eluded you right? The Shell-ABSG Project eluded you right? The in-roads project eluded you as well? Which mega project is your state embarking on?

uniqueboi1:
Why do Igbos feel too important in Nigerian affairs? Una 5 states combined no dae reach 4million votes o.
Better reaccess una stupidity.

Mor*nic f*ck......you think your ethnic group is more important?

First all all,

1. Go and die.....no true abian throws away the baby with the bath water, which takes me to point 2...

2. We know it's either you are not from abia or you are from a losing party, that's why you will do everything to paint abia in a bad light.

3. True abians are busy hustling despite the type of country we are in.

4. Abiastate, Abia1stSon and co are NOT FROM ABIA. Gullible abians trying to appear honest mumu-ishly destroy and de-market their state because of the monikers I mentioned. We know these monikers to be part of you abia haters.

5. Proud Abians are everywhere representing their state well

But if you must continue your propaganda, just know that true abians are sitting like the meme below:

amazingspiderma:
It is my state capital and I agree.
To say it is backward is an insult to backwardness.
Sometimes I am tempted to check my calendar. It feels like the 70s.
When you arrive at night it is pitch black. No street lights in the whole capital at night.

Please by all means Un-Abia yourself biko..... because you ain't even from abia.....

I'm proud of my Abia because despite it's challenges, it's better than MOST Nigerian states including states in the southeast especially in commerce and education....

Abia1stS0N:



Do you know that the horrible condition of Abia is causing me low esteem. I can't proudly introduce myself in public as an Abia indigene.

You are not from Abia.....go and die!!!!! Who you be...

Alexx Ekubo that just got a chieftaincy title in Imo state weeks back proudly stated his Arochukwu hometown in Abia state....and one e-diot claiming abia is making noise here in nairaland.....

TANTUMERGO007:

No sane Igbo man supports IPOB


No one is fighting that you should not go to your own country, what I'm against is IPOB. No sane Igbo supports them. If you want Biafra carry your south east and leave south south out of your plans. I'm from South south before you think otherwise, IPOB got 5 states of Biafra to misbehave they should stop going to other regions to distabilize there. Your south east governors kill them even Peter Obi killed IPOB una no talk but una expect other governors to pet those criminals.

My friend shut up biko. Say what you know, not what you don't know

Abia1stS0N:
Most Abia indigenes are like Nnamdi kanu with the exception of like me, they keep chasing shadows while Abia state lies in ruins. Abia state is the worst and most backward state in Nigeria but our people are not bothered.

You are not from Abia state.

Nnamdi kanu is your nightmare....Almajiri claiming abia. tufiakwa!!!!!!!

flokii:


But who will rescue Abia and other SE states from bad governance? Majority of them have all escaped to Lagos, Ogun, Oyo, Kano etc. for greener pastures and better living.
They are even buying up all the lands in Yorubaland in their deluded minds while their home rots away. Who do alaigbo people this thing sef.

We know you cowards who won't reveal your identity. You come in the name of Abia1stSon and co to stir your agenda in the SE. Go and die biko....

Goahead:
Ebonyi was once like this but things took a dramatic change under Umahi, the real Mr project!

Abia needs a visionary leader like Umahi, while Nigeria as a whole needs infrastructural overhaul which only Umahi can deliver!!

Go to hell with your coward Umahi....

Your state is not better than Abia despite its infrastructural deficits

valentineuwakwe:
That state is something else.....Aba is a garbage centre while the capital is just a growing village!

no city life in umuahia, no bubbling life, nothing is happening....the place is just full of churches and people attending the churches with ancient of days bibles, clothes n mode of dressing...infact many of them hide under the cover of these churches to perpetuate there evil!


attimes I wonder how those in the capital live and survive!

Your sensationalist agenda to de-market Abia is dead on arrival.

Your state is not half as better as abia

Abia1stS0N:
Tell them. An average Abia indigene likes pretending that all is well meanwhile Abia state is the worst and most backward state in Nigeria. Abia state is a curse and disgrace to the igbos. Igbos should carve out Abia state from the SE.

We know you are not from Abia.

Only gullible e-diots and your double monikers assent to your stupidity.

4ckyou:


Shut up, because you guys refuse to open your mouth and talk that's why the backwardness in abia state will continue, I live in abia state for 8 years and I can conclude that abia state is a really backward state

Go and die....All your propaganda in de-marketing abia won't work. You think because you lost an election, you want to cut your nose to spite your face......

I have been to 30 states of this country except for the NE states.....Abia is way above most of them economically and educationally.

If you want to criticize, do it constructively...

AmuDimpka:


Nwayoooo.... He said the truth... Abia state is a disgrace

....like your shithole state right? cos I still don't see how your state surpasses abia state. jokes apart.

cooooooks:
What is the difference between undeveloped countries, like our, and others? Grammar. Grammar and action.

Shebi somebody said that if you want to hide something from a Nigerian, put it in a book. We cannot continue to affirm that statement.

Next time someone annoys you, fight them. Even if they are bigger than you, even if they are police, fight them, let your nature reign supreme.

*....and the he jumps to another unwarranted logic*

cooooooks:
Generalizations notwithstanding (as though there are no asexual people), it will be foolish to allow "nature" to worsen your predicament. We humans are more than our predisposed reactions, we have the ability to think, deduce and predict. A wise man should check whether allowing this nature to dictate his actions will improve or worse his life.

keep speaking grammar.

speak grammar when you want to control hunger

speak grammar when you want to control sleep

speak grammar when you want to control urination

speak grammar o

Abia1stS0N:
I am ashamed of my state of origin- Abia state. I travelled all the way from Cameroon where I am based to my home state of Abia. I was disappointed with what I saw on ground.

I first went to Aba, and I was asking people if they fought 2nd civil war in Aba. I noticed that all the roads are dilapidated with craters on the roads as though bombs were thrown there. The mountain of filth in Aba is alarming.

I decided to leave the shitty town and went to Umuahia, only for me to realise that Umuahia town is more or less a glorified village littered with bad roads, old houses, filth, etc.

This picture is the only visible infrastructure in Umuahia. Such a useless backward worthless rural area.

Is Abia state cursed or are we the cause?

1- Pix: Umuahia Tower

2- Pix: Aerial view of Umuahia

3- Pix: Aba Central business district

4- Pix: Aba city centre

You really need traffic on your thread....

Abia always gives you nightmares....

Carry on with your disease.... Abia is above you and your state...... Envious leech

cooooooks:
The strength of a man is in his ability to control his own life.

Libido cannot be high enough to blind a sensible man and make him use his own hand to defeat himself.

If he cheats and they attempt to divorce, she will have a card to play before a court. The man should be wise. The man, OP, should get legal advice and focus on himself. If and when he feels ready and desirable (fit, happy, with hobbies/interests); he should seek a divorce and flee far away from his toxic marriage.

Perhaps they should have never gotten married in the first place, (how did he not know his wife before marrying her?) he still has control of his life.

You are just being theoretical here.....there is a limit to everything....it's not about anger, it's about addressing a need. Whether you accept it or not, nature has wired men into prioritizing sex in his marital life, and of course, you can't cheat nature.

cooooooks:
Cheating is not acting like a man.

OP should man up, face his life and his son and forget about his wife for now.

IF he does that, gets more hobbies, gets in shape, meets new people, etc; he can then make a decision with clarity.

sex libido is not a one-size-fits-all for men. It varies. So be fair and considerate in addressing the issue of his sex life. For a high libido man like me, your advice have not addressed my problem if I'm in his shoes.

Like I have stated before, unless she is ill or going through some birth drama (as diagnosed by a clinician), she has no excuse whatsoever to deny her man sex. I personally think she is cheating on him. Ask me how....

There are 5 love languages as we know it. physical touch is only one out of the five. His wife may not be having sex outside marriage, but she might be getting the one or more of the other four outside....and for a lot of women , that's just okay. So it's not surprising to see a woman hasnt had sex for years.

CaveAdullam:


A little gist:

1. The brain region for sex in women is 2-3 times smaller than in men.

2. Because of a high amount of testosterone in men, which is about 10-100 times higher than in women, men think about sex round the clock while women; average of 14 times in their menstrual cycle.

3. Because of the menstrual cycle of women, the first 14 days is their happy mood and the last 14 days is a dangerous one for them, and others around them.

4. If women see a dominant male after marriage, they detour their focus towards him, and fantasize about him. And if care is not taken, they might end up corralling his sperms.

5. If women are psychologically, emotionally and physically stress, their reception towards sex is poor and very low. So, not until a woman becomes comfortable around her man, free from every workloads, sex will definitely be a problem for her. And this is very common among career women.

Did you met your wife a virgin?

If yes, then,

1. You're are not good when it comes to the game of sex. She wants you to fulfill her fantasies, and it seems you're unable. So, up your game.

2. When a woman becomes a mother, her attention shifts from her husband towards her kids. Understand this, and still up your game.

If no,

1. How was sex before marriage?
Way below, you said you are a Christian, and to put it clearly, it is possible you didn't engage in sexual intercourse before marriage.

The implication here is: higher body counts or sexual partners before marriage, the lower the bonding between her and her husband. Simple!

2. Premium tears scenario: a male that knows the game is tingling her, and has now become her focus and fantasy.

If she was not a virgin before marriage, just know you're dealing with an alpha widow, you don't have the key and will never have the key that opens her legs and takes you to her heart. She didn't choose you, you choose her. You're not the man she wants to submit to. She doesn't see you as a dominant man, and therefore it will be difficult for you to win her. She use you to seal the deal: beta bucks at age 26 after enjoying herself during the party phase.

But there's a way out: Dread game.

Dominant men don't negotiate anything with their spouse. They set the pace, and she follows. You failed because you lack the foresight to see that GENUINE DESIRE CAN NEVER BE NEGOTIATED. Your frame is weak. Your boundary is loose. You are easily manipulated, and women are disgusted by such kinds of men.

Your plead for sex is disgusting. You made sex become your second god, and she is really using it as a weapon of control over you. You place her on a very high pedestal which you ought to have occupied, and now, she dangles her vagina before you, and if eventually, she finally allow you have your way, you see it as a prize, and her; elevation of power.

Why do you allow yourself to peter to this level? You're weak my friend, and women hate weak men. She sets terms and conditions for you because you're weak. No frame, no dominance.

You better start informing your in-laws that their daughter is coming back home----dread game number 1.

Shut up, your wife doesn't have any good side. The number one thing good women give their husbands as a form of submission is good sex. She is evil if she restrains her conjugal rights. Your wife loathes you man. No atom of respect. BS!

Yeah, infidelity is wrong as it exposes you and your households to predators. Infidelity will make you lose focus on your kids, your paramount goals, your money, time, emotional conflicts etc. I'm no advocate of infidelity.

STDs are out of it. With good contraceptives, and willingness on your side to abide by it, STDs will be far away.

O yeah, you're a Christian man, I pray the dread game works for you. If not you're on a long thing.

Seriously? Are you a man?




2. Start coming home late. If you close from work early, don't come home straight, look for a cool vicinity not far from your residence, and take some relaxation. With this, you've put her on suspense.

3. Take a leave from home on Fridays and come back home Sunday evenings. You can take your child during some of the days.

4. Send your maid back home, and inform your wife that it is her duty to perform the chores at home; washing, cleaning and cooking. If she refuse, tell her to start preparing for divorce.

5. If she refuse to cook, stop giving her money. Cook for yourself and your child. After all no food for lazy woman.

6. Buy new clothes, and start dressing neatly.

7. Begin to flirt with other women when you're in proximity to her. You can fake it if it seems hypocritical towards your Christian faith by feigning phone calls.

8. Stop sharing same bedroom with her. You doing so will make her feel and know that you don't care how much she hoards sex.

9. Make your communications with her become abrupt. State your points without any form of explanation.

10. Don't take her out. Don't buy her gifts. Don't form uncle romancer. Not until she develops a genuine desire for you, all rewards must be on hold.

11. Start preparing her mind for divorce, and if you do so, it will send a negative signal to her brains that you're ready for business.

12. Don't apologize ever again. Don't negotiate ever again. If she does not absorb to your frame, it's hight time you let her go.

13. Set the terms and conditions of the house, and you tell her she's free to leave if she cannot comply.

If you do all these properly it will work, but if not, I think you should prepare your mind for a second wife(Women are the same though, except you're a masculine man will they submit to you) or opt for a divorce from marriage as a whole. Your happiness and peace of mind should come first. Make sure you do all things possible to raise your child under the right environment.

Martinez39s and Evolutionlove, I have done my part, and I know this young man is 2 steps away from the redpill. He that has an ear let him hear.

Thanks.

God bless.

Thanks man, you spoke my mind. 100%.

The OP should wise up.

She perceives him as weak.

If she has genuine issues stopping her from having sex, she will do everything in her power to end it in order to please her man.

moneyshop:
From people's experiences, most marriages do pass through this stage. After first child, there's always this rejection by the woman in MANY marriages.

I don't want you to see this little challenge as if you're passing through hell... No!

It's a phase that will soon pass. Whatever you do or plan doing, don't cheat on her. That will cause the main problem that you think you have now, and then it'll rain brim stones and fire. Be patient.

Don't follow the advice of any unmarried little kid that will come here to shout "SIMP," overlook them, they'll understand when it gets to their turn.

Keep treating your wife well, don't take the car away from her, don't punish her in any way, so long as it's only sex that is the issue, it'll soon pass.

Try and control your sexual urge, whatever you do at this trying time, will decide how peaceful your home will be. Be cool and handle everything in a matured way, she'll change by herself.

Hear me again bro, this too shall pass. It only needs patience.

Your "many" women does not represent the larger percentage of women who are not like that. Most women after their first pregnancy crave for sex.

Deny me sex for two months when she is not ill or traumatized? Bullshit. In this age of equality, two can play the game in their own way.