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Why is it so hard for people to think out of the box? What if the baby isn't related to any of them?

EreluRoz:
you sound so desperate, you better be soft on yourself and take each day as it comes. Keep working hard and who knows you may eventually be on the forbes

Yes, I'm desperate. Thanks anyway.

Xenry:
No give up, you go make that $500 dollars very soon if you're consistent.

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When you get it, invest.

Amen, thanks a lot boss.

Balablue64:
Ogun will kill you, your mama and your papa.
Then Amadioha will now wipe away your entire generations from the surface of this earth, you disgusting and imbecilic muron.
A fool at 40, you will die soon and die terribly, your life shall not end well and it shall be broadcast on national tv.
IDIOT FOOL BASTARD
BORN BY MISTAKE

You think I will ignore you? No, let me entertain you a little, you worthless barbarian. It's not my fault you wasted all of your life trolling while ilegendd was busting his aßs out .

SuperOnyi:




Day 7


Too late to fail...

(Again, my trashass phone with its internet connection wouldn't let me upload this photo)

Day 8


Get rich or die rich.

This is entertaining .

Silentgroper:
I would recognize you if I see you out there .. I'm that good with faces...

Yes, I know anyone would but it don't matter at this point.

iLegendd:
In summary, invest at any given opportunity you get.

Can I invest with as little as 5k? I really want to learn crypto... I'll add that to my schedule.

Usefulsense:
When you say learning forklift at 48, I'm already a licensed forklift driver. Licensed to do counterbalance and high reach anywhere is Australia.

I'm no more learning bro.

Here, you see 65 years old Australians working. Not because they don't have anything to fall back on. But because it is fun and enables them to exercise the body.

Please ignore that guy,that was the same guy who kept talking down on a certain moniker (tansaze can't remember) for immigrating to Chile even after the OP made it clear it was a stepping stone.

SuperOnyi:


March 28th

Day 6

I was at work all day yesterday so I couldn't post this on Nairaland but I did take the photo yesterday.

Day 7


Too late to fail...

(Again, my trashass phone with its internet connection wouldn't let me upload this photo)

Think9ja:
Na for nairaland una de always like to come test una writing skills.

The story no move me sha

It was proofread and edited with chatgpt... And yes, even in the North, people are also judged because they are Igbos.

Usefulsense:
There is no boy boy here. It is only in Nigeria that people are treated as boy boy.

Here people drive latest model of any car brand to work. What is the work? Cleaning, picking and packing cartons.

That big man mentality is why Nigeria is in a bad state.

I love your response so far 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿. I see how foreign people who have more money than me and live a better life treat me with respect and compare that to how others including one's older relatives treat people in this part of the world.

Isn't this guy one of the corrupt politicians in Africa? Sometimes I wonder what exactly is wrong with black people, imagine fighting against apartheid and knowing fully well that the whole world were waiting to see if you can prove the apartheid government wrong then decides to sabotage your country through corruption.

The same thing happened in Nigeria and most African countries.

TheBillyonaire:
Yes it is very humbling my brother. I can not imagine a man at almost 50 years decelerating from being a Boss to a Boy Boy for Oyibos. In exchange for clean 247 electricity and security. Definitely, they are better organized than us, right?

But it depends on where you lived in Nigeria. You mentioned being an Igbo man, so it could be that your city is not properly organized as opposed to other places with serene air and cleaner environments.

Alternatively, working as a warehouse handy-man is boy boy in your language. But congratulations for promoting yourself from big man to boy boy.

I promise you that we will build Nigeria, so your children can have a better place to return to, and hopefully you will be visiting often and not when you are too weak to be useful to Nigeria.

For how long exactly, when the citizens can't obey simple rules? The fact that although most Australians are of British descent yet control their country shows that the black man has a lot to learn.

Who will be bold enough to take back out country, brutally set a blueprint, divide the country by referendum, and save the black race from this shame? Why are people holding on to One Nigeria when it's not working?

Even the United States understands the importance of autonomy and that is why each state is autonomous to an extent.


Black people 😢😔.

It just dawned on me that me and the president of Nigeria almost have the same birthday; mine was just yesterday.

Happy birthday to him even though I'm not happy about the suffering of the people and existence of One Nigeria.

God bless Africa.

BobbyZrealist:
Edit and update your comment without address.
Unless you want to be Pop Smoke.

Bro, you literally quoted the entire comment without striking out the same address you talked about. By the way, it's gonna take a high level of stalking and hacking to track down someone without a picture and personal information spread all over the Nairaland in a place as big as Australia.

I can do that since I've got mental issues which makes me obsess about things I'm working on .

SuperOnyi:



Day 5 I went to get my gallon filled up with water, it's dark already but I'm unstoppable.

March 28th

Day 6

I was at work all day yesterday so I couldn't post this on Nairaland but I did take the photo yesterday.

That's his choice, same way there's nothing wrong with white people staying away from you blacks. Yes, it has to be said since most of you Africans are hypocritically stupid.

Usefulsense:
Amen. Thanks for the prayers. Are you in Aussie?

Congratulations sir. I hope you emulate all of those great behaviors of the Australian citizens including dropping that "big man" syndrome most Nigerians display.

Regardless of who we are, we're all equal... the universe has made it so — do not be like one of these black comics who demand respect and worshipping from anybody with the same skin color as theirs but it's okay for other "races" to look down on them.

I say congratulations once again.

Phabulous4:
I read all your diary and, I felt soo sorry you have to go through all this at a time in your life when you need support, sound counsel, love and family.

This your cousin I don't know him, but from your description of him, I can suggested that he is a terrible human being who had failed in all sphere of his life, frustrated and trying to transfer his failure, hatred on you. You don't need him, you don't need anyone who will sarp your energy or make you less of yourself.

Life may not always give you what you want but it will always represent you with what you need.

What you need is focus on yourself and the bright side of life and less of what others says.

Menia jobs will not take you anywhere in life, soo best is focus to learn a trade.

Set clear goals for yourself and see it true, be intentional to talk to people who you know can encourage you or assist you.

Don't think of death always as an escape route. It solve no problem, it only change the fighting ground.

Tell God. His a friend closer than a brother.

Wish you all the best in your endeavours. If you can when your rent expires, relocate.

Thanks a lot, boss. Learning a trade at this age would be hard considering the fact I just literally got burned by one in 2021. I stayed with someone since 2012 and was able to work and get money to pay my school fees back in high school, then I was persuaded into going for Nwaboi apprenticeship for that same person after high school.

I was accused of theft, didn't get a penny, and a lot...

Therock5555:
Happy birthday SuperOnyi


Drop me a message on Whatsapp make I call you greet nah...

Boss, I'm just logging on Nairaland... just saw your comment. Thanks a lot, boss. Writing you right away...

nigeriansamurai:
@superonyi kick him out. Thats all i have to say to you. Nothing and i mean nothing is worth tolerating a toxic person, (as bitter and sad as it is even family). I am an introvert to, i have gone through this shit... Let me tell you something about toxic people, they are fluid they will how you and ruin your name (It happened to me). But when you make it they will still be the first to call. Toxic people are sucker they need you more than you need them... Your success in life is not tied to any individual, yes they are "destiny helpers" but dont be naive. Dont endure bad energy, because in the future you will regret it. YOU CANT MAKE IT IF YOU GIVE A F.CK ABOUT TOXIC PEOPLE i had to leave a house where i was eating everyday because of toxic attititude and daily insults, when i left it was negative text messages daily, today same people always look for the slightest chance to come to my house. one is even here as i am talking to you... i have put them all in their place, they all respect me now.

Thanks a lot for the advice, sir.

nigeriansamurai:
Ive been following your stories for a while and i can relate... Dont be a victim of narcissim, let me tell you something, the more toxic people you have around you the harder for you to succeed. Kick that dog out of your house unexpectedly. Make up and lock your mind totally. He will never stop insulting you and one day he will graduate and start beating the hell out of you if it continues... Carry 5k go meet boy for you area explain to them and go throw the dog out of your house... Maybe deep down, you are expecting something from your cousins. i promise you they aint gat anything good for you. A true brother will not say half of the things said here. If you die today that you socalled bro no go follow you go grave... So dont be silly. The blood of convenant is thicker than the waters of the womb... That is the full proverb, and it has an opposite meaning from the one you know...

He keeps threatening to beat me up because he knows I won't retaliate but I'm not a weakling, while he always brags of growing up in Onitsha; he forgets I grew up in a ghetto too. Maybe he thinks my "Not so Nigerian" accent makes me ajebo.

Thanks a lot for the advice. I'm not expecting anything from them as I do everything for myself, I'm just trying to keep the family bond stronger by being a good human. It's unfortunate I'm too soft to my friends or family, sending him away would ruin my relationship with my bigger cousin and others in the extended family.

I don't know any of them in the extended family but he knows them plus I'm very introverted and also suffer from other mental issues so they will need to stay around me to understand I'm not what he thinks I am. I will just stay on my lane by saying nothing to him except he talks to him or sends me in errands as usual.

He has automatically ruined our relationship, I'm glad I made that clear.

okoroemeka:
I read the epistle and what I picked is your desire to focus your anger on improving yourself,which is the genesis of your problem but to achieve that you must withdraw yourself from toxic people, cousins or uncle I don't care,just aviod those people,with their negativity you are not moving an inch in life

Thank you sir but as much as I'd like to stay away from negativity, telling him to leave would make them paint me as the evil demon plus I'm just trying to be a good brother and human.

papyjaypaul:
No-one is leaving this world alive so We know that. You cannot allow someone do this to you in your own house. You must draw the line on what is acceptable or not. Draw the red line like Buhari will call it. Family red line no one must cross. If he came to your house to do this, ask yourself if this is what you will do if your mother in law or your wife's brother come to your house and start insulting you. This is why I told you this is initiation. You have to handle this now because when you get married, you will see another style from your in-laws. You are the man of the house. You are responsible for that household. Act like HOH, Head of House.

Ignore the insult, tell him to leave. People like this only need one humble reminder of who's in charge and they will stop. but if you keep letting them have their way they will control you. Let it stop now.

I appreciate, thank you for taking out your time to educate me. Thank you.

Sonnobax15:

Nigha, introverts like myself don't like plenty talks like you do........... sometimes, keeping your mouth totally shut will definitely save you from lots of stress, explanation and wahala...

If you know me in real life,you will understand what it means to say--"live and let's live". Cuz I surely no get anybody time........

How exactly is typing with my hands "plenty talk" when I said this is more like journaling?


@Zonefree if you're man enough, drop your number so you can call me and say that to my face. If you think I'm one of these female Nairalanders, then you must be high on dog shit. Bastard!

I'm tired of tolerating idiots like you, have I ever asked you to be my friend or brother? Respect yourself!

Zonefree:
You talk too much for a man.

I don't pray to have a friend or son like you.

Okay.