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tnerro1:
I don’t want to guess the tribe, pardon me, I don’t want to shake any tables

Lol your guess is as good as mine

thebosstrevor1:
All these fake stories for attention.

Nothing to learn here.

So what will I do with your attention?? Does it transfer money to my account?

The hacker sent many horrible screenshots but I'm having difficulties uploading them.......I fear who no fear women

So a recently married friend of mine just got her Facebook account hacked, as it turned out she is having an affair and the hacker screenshot the chats and sent to most of her friends. Mutual friends has been calling expressing their shock.

Why would a lady get married to someone she doesnt love in the first place Its likely this lady will get pregnant for her boyfriend and pin it on the husband. I used to be against checking a partners phone buy pls guys endeavor to go through her phone before taking her to the alter.

Had to share this here so my fellow guys will learn including me cos I never believed this girl can do this.
Modified: pics removed.

1Teethosin:
I don't know why people are like this.
How do u feel when your salaries or allowances are not been paid? It's pure selfishness on our part. These lecturers have families and responsibilities too. Theyve been patience enough to this point. The party at fault is the Fg. Fg should pay all owed salaries and allowances. owing salaries or allowances are barbaric act by the Fg.
if it's to buy exotic cars for the legislature, their salaries, allowances it won't take this long.

Fg just doesn't value education

Why are they supposed to be paid Did they work During the lockdown I overheard some group of lecturers discussing in one of their colleagues shop, they were happy because of the lockdown and strike cos they have time to farm while getting paid and wished for the strike to continue.
They are asking for salaries, what of the students time wasted, who's gonna pay for that, many students will miss out on nysc just because of this useless strike, FG shouldn't pay them any dime. If they won't work let them starve, make all of us bear the pains.

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Really?? Who gives these girls the idea that all guys need money to bleep?
I straff all I want and I don't give any unreasonable lady a dime......just live close to a tertiary institution or live alone as a student with just a cartoon of indomie in your kitchen, you go bleeb tire. Sex is so so damn cheap and easy to get, just exchange number with a girl and call her steadily for some days without even toasting knacking will start.

Sony VAIO laptop for sale
2gig ram and 128gb HDD
Faults: vertical lines on the screen and recent inability to start-up, if it manages to start it goes off after some minutes
Make me an offer...... Any thing wey dey your mind but prize with conscience o.

Sony VAIO laptop for sale
2gig ram and 128gb HDD
Faults: vertical lines on the screen and recent inability to start-up, if it manages to start it goes off after some minutes
Make me an offer...... Any thing wey dey your mind but prize with conscience o

I have a Sony VAIO system for sale
Faults: vertical lines across the screen, unable to boot a times, if it boots it goes off after some minutes
2gb ram ,128gb hdd
Make me an offer

Abobi, abeg make we dey try love with our brain naa, most guys find themselves in this kinda situation cos they want a trophy girlfriend, you will always be on your toes trying to please her in order to take her attention off other guys, bro its not worth it.
Fershe her joor, babes dey yarn for your attention, get an average looking girl that's into you and enjoy your life.

Mine happened in school, I was among the I will never beat a woman gang before then....there was blackout in school for somedays so I went to the school library to charge with some books to read too, I got there early but almost all the sockets had been occupied even though the gen wasn't on yet.
I was about to plug my phone in a free space I saw only for one girl to rush and tell me its her space that her friend is bringing her charger, I ignored her and plugged in my charger few minutes later her friend brought her charger. She removed my charger, I put it back and warned her not to touch my charger again, she proceeded to replace my charger with hers again.
I flung her charger away, she grabbed my shirt and tore through my neck with her artificial nails, I gave her a thunderous slap that sent her crashing into a row of chairs, security men rushed and seperated us and settled the matter though I refused to give up the space....... Last last they no gree on gen throughout that day, whether na because of the fight I no know.

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BLUELemon:
Supreme bag of semovita

2020 45posts

So you want me to go about nairaland spamming and begging up and down baa I only post when necessary, I have a life outside nairaland bro.....I won't reply you again.
Bye

mariahAngel:
I mela ezi nwannem. Chukwunna gozie gozie gozie gi nke ukwu! Ma nyekwa gi ebum n'uche gi nile.
Ndi Igbo n'ekwu si "ezi afa ka ego", otu a I jiri gbara'm aka ebe gosiri na obu eziokwu.

False accusations and defamations still won't stop me from trying to help people because it is what God has called me to do. Obi'm shiri ike.

Lol nne dalu......I actually had to dig up your contact and send you a message on WhatsApp because of this. Normally I don't get involved with this kinda stuff on nairaland but I just had to drop my opinion. Abeg no be everybody you go fit help or give advice,do your own and leave the rest to God

I don't think mariahAngel is a guy nor a scammer, she reached out personally to me when I had issues once, I still have our WhatsApp conversations.
I think her only crime is trying to help anyone that posts about issues in the family section, its not as if the advice she gave the op on the other thread is a bad one.

This matter get as e be o, my rent expired September and my landlord has been calling. I dey reason to send my friend make he go pack my things commot from the house keep for him compound if I resume I go find new place but I never get two months rent to balance landlord

Whahala go dey o, my rent expired September and I woke up one day to my landlords 6 missed calls. That man get mind fa,he wants me to pay for a room I don't know when I will use again. I plan on resuming with my complete rent but he must give me a discount of some months or I will pay his old balance and pack out.

Pancakeey:
Exactly! Something similar happened to me

My ex sometimes asked the same foolish question this guy asked and he even got angry one time when we were strolling and a guy in a car stopped to talk to me

After that incident I was so foolish I was begging saying I wanted to be with him and all even though he did little or less to hold up his end of the relationship.

I’m truth, the thing was I had not found someone better than him that was why I stayed and put up with his mistakes.

He asked for a break and lo and be hold my eyes opened and I found someone so much better.

So if someone much better than the present one comes along you will still port abi You think you ladies are the only ones meeting someone better abi Do you know how many more attractive ladies I've turned down cos of her In terms of physical attraction I beat her hands down so abeg commot from that better person angle.

chatinent:
You are not worth dating.

What is the essence of dating if not marriage?

You are myopic and relevantly irrelevant in maturity.

Chinsos!!! only me

Heavensent01:
I'm hitting you with fact. I was in your shoe years ago but God save me, I would have lose my future partner with ordinary gf that can't last with me

Even if you're not ready for marriage in 5years time, if a lady understand your commitment, if she love you she will endure and wait for you. My wife now stayed with me for 10years basically because I made her trust my commitment


Get off that your weird impression, it's natural for ladies who her friends is getting wed to have marriage thought and impression

Thanks sir, your words are filled with wisdom

Lol.......just think of buhari, lekki massacre, all the horror films you've watched. No just put mind from the matter,count your ceiling, count numbers backward,pinch your nyansh frequently
No need for all those artificial things,na yourself you dey kill

Heavensent01:
No lady with principles, with class, with proactive instinct will listen to your words and observe your mood and impression without thinking of breakup


Reading your post, i can conclude you don't have value for other gender and that's why your past relationships didn't last long, this lady is only savaging your excesses and overzealousness perhaps because she had not meet someone that's better than you

I wonder why a man will be asking his gf if someone collect her number and why she didn't give him the number, this is a weird impression. Ladies are flexible and this flexibility made them vulnerable to emotional capitalization in the hands of men, you that's expected to guide and protect her emotions, is exposing her to emotional danger


Just let the poor girl be

My oga easy naa.....no kee me abeg, I'm not perfect but I'm trying

waleyp:
WeTin Come Be The AssURANCE Say UNa Go MarrY Las Las, Na Person Wey Get Enough Money De Think Marriage Now

Baba na my point of view be that, make she no come dey feel say I use am come dump am

Openbusiness:
Good girls dey very scarce for town. OP if u no give yourself brain, las las na hoelosho with 3.3 million miles odometer you go marry

Bluezy13:
So you can't sacrifice common beer for your wife's happiness
Don't you know that wedding day is her day not yours. She is wedding you.

If you want to drink beer with your friends, have a separate arrangement for that. She is even lenient to give you permission to drink on your own with your friends.
Anyways, it is an imaginary arrangement.

Baba no be say I no fit sacrifice beer for am,but I'm concerned about how much emphasis she lays on any stuff these days as if we wanna get married next month

Erojepromise:
if you really love her you accept her principles and live with it but to be sincere never marry someone you don't have compatibility with or ideas

Our only issue is just religious issues cos I'm the free type,almost every Sunday we argue because I hardly go to church and going to church is a very big deal to her, aside that we're very cool and she's a really nice girl even met her a virgin

So my girl went for a friends wedding yesterday, she was part of the bridal train. While we were chatting later in the evening I jokingly asked her how many guys asked for her number today, she said just one but she didn't give him because she doesn't like the guy I asked her why and she said the guy is short, we laughed over it and continued chatting
I asked her how hot the wedding was and she said it was OK that the reception took place in the church premises(she attends methodist), I said so no beer and she said yes just soft drinks, I told her I can't hold my reception inside church o cos there must be enough booze for ma guys. Naim babe say no o, say she no go fit allow alcohol in her wedding but I can take with my friends after the wedding and no playing of worldly songs too,wetin I go come dance naa? She said she will teach me how to dance to Christian songs.
Like play like play it was turning to an argument o,funny enough we are not even ready for any wedding cos we still have a year to go in school but I no come dey understand the way she come dey carry wedding matter on top head like gala, any small things na marriage talk, baby we will do this when we get married, if we get married I will do that, not like I don't want to marry her o but my bank account no dey tell me truth at the moment in fact I'm not even sure of any marriage in the next five years.
Naso babe take end relationship o,unto say as I insist say I must high beer and dance them davido and wizkid songs for my imaginary wedding. On a serious note I really love her, she's my longest serving girlfriend, I usually break up after dating for some months but I've been with her for 3years now and she's the best I've been with. She doesn't put me under any pressure, she was my saving grace during the lockdown while I was stuck in school but she's 24 and might not wait till I'm ready for marriage, I don't know if this is an opportunity for me to let her be.

yomi007k:
It's all a mindset thing.

Money and facial appreance are inversely proportional.
The reason is that most fine boys usually believe that they will get favours with their pretty face and hence don't need to stress their brain/ body hustling. Other times they are busy following girls or girls following them thus tilting them into poverty.

However, most ugly dudes get hearbroken repeatdly by women and just decide to focus on making money which they keep on doing till they make it big.

It goes for ladies as well. The ugly/old ones focus on career, church and hustling a man to settle down with while the pretty/young girls jump from on d**k to another while marketing their bodies on instagram as they get money and favours by doing this.


There are a bit rare cases but this happens alot.
Dont stress, this is the true balance.

Bro no be like that o, there are hustling young guys that are still fine and hardworking only say e never click....
Moreover I see a lot of fine and rich guys too just that they're in high demand, competition too much

flyingpig:
Guy na one year remain.
If you finish this semester exam, straight up to final year. Few months to graduation. Why do you wanna waste a 3years effort? Business spirit won't leave you if you wait one more year, by then you're graduate. You're a born hustler and for that reason after school another opportunity will present itself. Please don't waste these 3years for nothing. You're almost done and by grace of God you'll meet another destiny changer when you are done by this time next year.

Thanks a lot bro, I have been thinking in that direction too

Good morning everyone, some weeks ago I made a post here about some issues I was having, some well meaning nairalanders reached out to me and by his grace I'm a bit better now. A quick glance through most comments on FP topics depicts this forum as a place where tribalism reigns supreme but my encounters with some nairalanders changed that perspective. That singular post changed my life because it connected me to some wonderful people both home and abroad and none of them happened to come from my tribe (lol).

Now to the issue at hand, I'm a 28 year old student currently in my 300 level, I was rounding off 2nd semester exams when the pandemic/strike disrupted the academic calendar. Before my foray into education I was previously into business which later didn't turn out well hence my late entry into the university.

During the initial stage of the lockdown I stayed back in school to learn coding, it was going on well till my laptop crashed then I came back home. Thanks to some nairalanders I will soon start coding again, while I was idle I got a job offer to work as a security in a hotel with a salary of 15k, the following day a married friend of mine that I play football with told me that I'm free to come to his shop and stay for the time being till school resumes, I accepted his offer without thinking twice.

Just days into business and he was flabbergasted at the dexterity with which I handled business, you would think I have been doing business for ages, I remembered his wife telling me that I'm wasting away in school that business is written all over me and she wondered what pushed me to school in the first place. The man was so impressed that he made me two offers, the first being that he has ladies singlets in bulk that we sell 1k per piece in the shop but he will subsidize the price for me so I can take it to neighbouring cities and auction it off make my profit and return his capital.

The other deal was that he would open a branch for me and give me capital and we would reach an agreement on how to share the profit that I make during a designated period, I can start up my business anytime I deem fit. Now the only issue is my education because its not something I can do part time, I have to take one and leave the other.

I've been thinking hard because I got a similar offer from a nairalander based in Europe to run a business that he will fund while we split the profit, his own business is actually agriculture involving fishery, pig rearing etc. He's ready to sponsor my training and upkeep during the period and the farm is ready but locked up due to mismanagement from his former employees.

Do I quit school and take up one of this offers or do I finish up without any assurances that I will still get them when I'm done, I hate to admit this but my course statistics/computer science (ed) seems like a waste of time in a Nigerian university, the education part seems to be the only positive, stat and cmp are just jargons we're being taught, what they need is cram and pour. I learnt more learning programming on my own within 3months than the rubbish they've been teaching us for three years.

Please pardon my long epistle and typos.