toujurs: I came across this on twitter, i don't encourage promiscuity, but am surprised at how most women feel they have an opinion on the type of men they want as a husband , isn't this the regular ranting some women engage themselves in, to ease their frustration, on how they want the best but are not willing to work for it.
Do women approach men, or rather men approach women , Most women can't even sustain a conversation, they expect you as the man to do the talking, now, if men do the approaching and talking, is it not based on the type of men approaching her, she would settle for, now in a scenario where by it's men who have money to patronize olosho, are now the one's coming after her, like does she even have a choice
How women feel they have an opinion to whom they want to marry, but actually don't even have an opinion makes me laugh
You want a man, who doesn't patronize olosho's but what if, these same men who doesn't patronize olosho are broke, would you want to marry them . It's so funny.
ThEGodBRoThEr2: Residents of the Mile 12 area in Lagos State are lamenting the activities of public toilet operators who they alleged are discharging faeces into the Maidan River located in the area. PUNCH HealthWise investigates this threat to public health. ANGELA ONWUZOO reports
“We are tired of the way public toilet operators in this Maidan area of Mile 12 pollute the environment with human faeces. They channel the sewage pipes of their toilets to a river in the community known as the Maidan River instead of building sewage tanks for them.
“Their activities have been affecting our health for a long time and we cannot keep quiet anymore. Our health is in danger.
“We have many public toilets in this area serving traders at the popular Mile 12 Market but none of them has sewage tanks,” Mr Kelvin Olamide, a resident in the Mile 12 area lamented.
According to him, the operators of the public toilets have for years been disposing of human faeces into the river unchallenged despite the environmental and health hazards of their actions.
The 43-year-old Ondo indigene who said he has been living in the area for over 17 years, told PUNCH HealthWise that the public toilet operators are not bothered about the health and environmental impact of their activities but are only interested in making money.
Olamide told our correspondent that some of the owners of the public toilets who he said were big traders and leaders at Mile 12 Market went as far as building wooden public toilets on Maidan River because most of the traders at the Mile 12 market patronise them.
The Mile 12 Market, Maidan Road and Agiliti and its environs are located in Kosofe Local Government Area of Lagos State.
Sharing his frustration with PUNCH HealthWise, the father of three lamented that the activities of the public toilet operators were causing public health problems.
“Their practice is beginning to affect our health as many of the people living in this area are always complaining of one health problem or the other, especially typhoid fever.
“Those of us living on Agiliti road, Maidan road, Oniyanrin street, and Oremerin street are the worst hit.
“Last year, we recorded a lot of cholera cases here. This year, I know that a lot has happened but they decided to keep it a secret.
Wooden toilets built on water
“Traders flood this area to use these toilets, especially the wooden toilets built on the river because they are cheaper than the ones built on the land.
“The toilets also serve as bathrooms for some of the traders trying to save cost.
“To use the toilets built on land, you pay N100 to defecate and N50 to urinate. But if you have N20 change with you, they can allow you to urinate.
“However, for the wooden toilets build on top of the river, they charge N50 to defecate and N20 to urinate.
“Most of the men go close to the river to urinate without minding who is looking at them because they don’t want to pay. So, the whole environment is polluted and messy. And we don’t have a good source of water supply here,” he said.
No access to a safe water supply
Olamide noted that their bad situation was compounded by the lack of access to a water supply and poor refuse disposal.
Continuing, he said, “We usually buy water from Meruwa and we can’t guarantee the cleanliness of that water. And also, people just dump refuse anyhow in this area. You can see how dirty the environment is.
“We want Governor Babagide Sanwo-Olu to help us. Sometimes, some people die here and their relatives will quickly go and bury them, especially children without ascertaining the cause.
“That is even more reason we’re speaking out now. A lot is happening here that requires the government’s attention.”
The term ‘Meruwa’ is Hausa and when translated to English means “water seller”.
Findings by PUNCH HealthWise during a visit to the area by our correspondent revealed that over 15 public toilets located on Maidan Road and Agiliti Road have no sewage tanks.
onthehill: Labour Party's presidential candidate, Peter Obi has condemned the killing of Labour Party State House of Assembly Candidate for Onuimo Local Government Area in Imo State, Hon. Christopher Eleghu.
According to IGBERETV report, Hon. Christopher Eleghu (aka WASCO) was shot and killed on Thursday by unknown gunmen who also set his house and cars ablaze.
Obisbetter: We all know Alimosho is APC stronghold. Alimosho has been giving Apc their highest votes in previous election. APC is expected to win that region landslide.
But recent developments shows that APC abandoned that region after getting huge votes from them . Labour Party seems to be exploring that region no wonder they will be hosting their campaign in Alimosho.
An election poll conducted in Alimosho shows Peter OBI defeating Tinubu there . Wooow. Interesting. Watch video here
piecuntie: HI NAIRALANDERS ; I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.
I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.
Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.
My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him. He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.
I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.
I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.
I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.
All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.
We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.
By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.
IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.
3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl, When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.
Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.
This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN
I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone. I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.
My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.
I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.
Sorry for the long write up
I understand
Follow your heart and mind, tolerance while and when never appreciated call for immediate action
Newsmic: Nollywood actress, Empress Njamah, has debunked the rumours that she is engaged, IGBERETV reports.
She also accused her 'fiance' of physically assaulting her, in a Livestream via her business Instagram account on Friday, IGBERETV reports.
Njamah revealed that the engagement video on her personal page was made under duress and that she had been scammed, beaten, held hostage by the man, who she said is from Liberia.
She said, "A guy that one couldn’t even call a human being came into my life in pretence of wanting to marry me, I didn’t know that he had other motives and he came when I was very vulnerable, when I lost my friend, Ada Ameh. I’ve been speaking to this guy for months on phone, speaking to people I thought were his relatives, everything is just scam. He came into my life, said he could not leave me because I wasn’t not okay. I really wasn’t okay, I was hiding it from the press. The death of my friend broke me down so bad I could not function and he said he was going to stay with me, I didn’t know he was busy gathering his tools, his materials which he was going to use to blackmail me.
“Afterwards, he had my naked videos and he changed, he started hitting me and when I wanted to talk and tell him this can’t work; he blackmailed me with my own videos and said I'm going nowhere and that’s when he turned into an animal. Beats me anytime, locks me up, put the keys in his pocket, in my own house. I didn’t have access to leaving my room. This is the guy who lied me that when he came into Nigeria, all his things were stolen, his phones, his credit cards, his clothes and he got into trouble and he needed lawyers which I gave a huge amount of money, talking millions. He was out, he came to Abuja and started living with me. I became a shadow of myself, the Empress you know became a shadow of herself, if you were around me, you’d notice my social life was no more, there was nothing to post anymore. My fans were asking 'Are you okay?' They didn’t know I was going through something worse than that."
The actress added, "He wrecked me, finished everything. This person I'm telling you actually got a ring and forced me to do a video, which he posted on my page because he has access to my page. He changed all the passwords, logged me out of every email I have, everything I have, all my phones, my iCloud, everything, I don’t have access to anything, I don’t mind. I’m alive to tell you the story, I was able to run that night, I ran into the street, not minding who or how, I fell into a gutter. I was able to see a mallam to ask for a phone. I called my brother and he picked me from the hospital, the following morning, took me home.
“This guy came back, after looking for me, took my car, took my international passport, he took my remaining money. He took my iPad, my earpods, he had two bags of my valuables, took the car and left. He has the guts to be sending threat videos saying whatever I do, whoever I tell he’ll put it out there.
“I'm not the one handling that page. #empressnjamah is not been handled by me. Go to my page and see the video he posted, does that look like something I will post? I was under duress posting that video called engagement."
gidgiddy: I remember years ago when some people were screaming that IPOB leader, Nnamdi Kanu, should be arrested, I told these people that arresting Nnamdi Kanu will not help matters. You can arrest the leader of a movement, but can never arrest the movement its self.
Nnamdi Kanu has been in DSS detention for 18 months and insecurity has only deteriorated. To make matters worse, Nnamdi Kanu has defeated the Federal government in every court and is about to walk away with victory and his freedom at the Supreme court
So what has arresting Nnamdi Kanu achieved? It only increased Kanu's fan base
Now some people are saying arrest Simon Ekpa, to repeat the same cycle again?
Insecurity in Nigeria has gone beyond what guns and arrest can solve. The only way to deal with insecurity is through dialogue. So rather than call for Simon Ekpa to be arrested, only for someone even more crazy than him to step in and take over, we should asking the political leaders of Nigeria to engage with Ekpa.
His arrest will not help matters, and is only likely to make matters worse.
Rather than face issues at hand they are busy beating about the bush
Ttalk: Many ignorant people are questioning what Tinubu did as a governor between 1999 and 2007, they thought governance start and end with building roads, bridges, and airports.
However, few have been able to point to his reformational agenda that birthed new institutions in Lagos state many of which shaped the development of Lagos state.
Below are institutions built by Tinubu
1) SINGLE TREASURY ACCT
2) LIR ( Lagos internal revenue ) IGR
3) LAMATA ( Lagos management Transportation ) UNDER DIS ARE, Light rail, highway road construction and over head bridge, BRT TERMINALS, BRT BUSES...
4) LASWA ( Lagos waterway transportation )
5) LASTMA ( Lagos traffic management )
6) LASEMA ( Lagos safety/ emergency management)
7)LASERA
cool NEIGHBORHOOD WATCH
9) MILLENNIUM SCHOOLS
10} REHABILITATED ALL LAGOS FIRE SERVICE CENTER... Introduced emergency toll line 24 hours.
11)52 LOCAL COUNCIL DEVELOPMENT AREA ..built an additional 52 LCDA for grassroots development 12)EKO ATLANTIC
What do you want from the next president of Nigeria, to build infrastructure or to build an institution
Pukkalolo: I rarely spend money on women in my attempt to woo them. But despite that, they still throw themselves at me all the time.
When interacting with women, the idea ISN'T to make her like you or make her laugh.
The idea is to trigger her emotions, increase her interest for you and make her start chasing you. Like the way these two beautiful ladies in these chats are seriously in love with me.
Datedoboy: How can i make money and you tell me how to withdraw my money and also tell me how much to withdraw? Is there a limit to what i can save?
If no then why tell me i can't access all my hard earned cash? If i should bring a document fine but don't tell me how much cash i can take out. What if the tech fails and i need urgent cash for an urgent medical need or item? This is financial slavery!!!
we are told we will soon be allowed to make withdrawals of only 20,000 NGN per day in a country where the illiteracy level of most traders are high
Take an example of shopping for household items worth over NGN 20,000 from a market like Isale Eko where many aged women don't have account nor understand transfer and want their money in cash? or paying some landlords who don't have an account number and prefer their money in cash?
Whether we like it or not, the Unbanked population in Nigeria is huge.
Education system is almost dead and you want the populace to embrace technology?
It's like putting someone under the hot sun and expect him not to sweat.
The things i see in Nigeria, I haven't seen before and we have brilliant minds. Does too much study affect our thinking?
BESTScientist1: So a friend has been disturbing me that he hasn't seen any outing crediting Tinubu of congratulating the President, his next point was also to answer this: did the president wish our leader Happy birthday on his most recent birthday? I didn't have an answer. Please I need answers
sarkinbauchi: So recently Presidential candidate of the PDP Atiku Abubakar summoned the Obi of Onitsha to meet him at a restaurant and that one too (a highly respected traditonal ruler in Anambra) just ran to meet Atiku like a gala hawker.
Would the Obi of Onitsha do same if it were Peter Obi?
AdamawaMayor: The Recovery plan of His Excellency Alhaji Atiku Abubakar to Rescue Nigeria is a distinct Road map; One which will be governed by the principles of Fairness, Equity and advancement of Economic Opportunities. I therefore Urge all of us to remain United and Steadfast in support of our next President Atiku Abubakar. As ONE, We can get it Done.
BrendanJo: There is this girl whom I so much loved and I decided to let her know my feelings and ofcause she knows as well and her closeness with everyone around the work place knew she likes me but after talking to her, she never said yes neither did she said no. She is actually cute which makes most guys to want to have her as well and also, she is jovial as well. As a result of that,she flirt around with guys even when I'm around her, she will stir at me and said I'm too jealous. I have never thought of having sex with her, but most times we do kiss. Some months back she withdraw herself from me all in the guess of i just want to have sex with her, as a result of such statement I stopped associating with her because that's was never my intentions. Of recent she started coming close and we were good again. Just last week we were together in a room playing and kissing, but I was been careful the way I touched her. All of a sudden she told me she needed sex. I was astonished. I was like what do u say, she repeated it that she is tired of kissing and that she wants sex. I told her I don't want to cross my boundary. She became provoked and walked out. Since then our relationship or friendship is going down the drain. She keeps her distance from me. Note: this person never said yes to me neither did she said no. So I don't know if she belongs to me or not, she chat up alot of guys with love emoji. Whats her reasons for being angry?
To get the answer you got to sit her down into talking
OddsDoc: Presidential candidate of the ruling All Progressives Congress, APC, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, has celebrated President Muhammadu Buhari on his 80th birthday anniversary.
In a statement issued by his Media Officer, Tunde Rahman, Tinubu hailed the president for his commitment to nation-building and long years of patriotic service to the country.
Tinubu, who described the president as ‘a patriot, selfless and steadfast leader of uncommon zeal,’ noted that Buhari enlisted himself into the service of the country as a teenager, who joined the military immediately after secondary school.
At 80, Tinubu said the president can look back and be proud of his unblemished record of service to the nation throughout his military career as a soldier, platoon commander, General Commanding Officer, military governor, Minister of Petroleum, Head of State, Chairman of Petroleum Trust Fund and as the current leader of the country.
The statement read, “I heartily congratulate my president and my leader, Muhammadu Buhari, on the momentous and remarkable occasion of his 80th birthday.
“An officer and a gentleman, President Buhari has been a selfless and steadfast leader, and a patriot with uncommon zeal who has dedicated almost his entire life to the service of Nigeria.
“Our country is lucky to have this great man and dedicated public servant at this time. President Buhari has led an extraordinary life of service to Nigeria at every duty post with unassailable integrity. History will be kind to him and record his contributions to the progress, unity and stability of Nigeria in volumes.
“As a people, we are truly blessed to have a president who sees no higher honour than the opportunity to serve his people, a responsibility he has always carried with utmost dedication.
“We are proud that at age 80, this noble man, an officer and a gentleman is still rendering his service, recording tremendous achievements, the country making remarkable progress under his leadership, and his steady hands gradually guiding the country to the Promised Land.
“On behalf of our great party, APC, and my family, I join the family, friends, associates and all well-wishers of President Buhari to wish him happy birthday and many happy returns of the day in good health.”
Kingcalls: Y want a wealthy rich husband....when ur dad and family are struggling to feed
What if your dad, family,, and entire generation are really really really struggling to feed and i'm more than capable to feed 10×10 of you all put together?
GoooodHardDick: So those women making men single fathers everlasting curse no follow am? How old are you?
So when a woman threatened to curse a man, the man is dumb and can't talk to curse her back abi? It's so funny how you women think the world revolves around you. Did he forced you into having sex with him? You went and had sex with him because of the cheap material things you wanted to gain from him, so why are you lamenting? You better wake up from your slumber, if you curse a man , he'll double the curse and curse you back.
Funny enough
Beginning with age, i'm in the best position to ask you about age not you asking me
And quoting, "you you you" i have been trying to understand why you utter out mannerlessly reading through as though you know me well enough.
While and when offended you rather face the actual problem than placing it on a whole, knowing there are mind blowing people who do not fall in such category as you tend to categorize them all up..
And talking "cheap" you did talk cheapest, you need to awake from your slumber because i see you are far away embracing partiality and injustice rather than talk fact i mean fact...
Curse work on people who wrong beyond expectation and have no remorse over such wrong doing especially with people who never wronged you and in return you decide to hurt them wronging, so you saying the man could curse me back that should happen if i'm you who rather than facing fact and hitting the nail on the head opts out to spit vaguity....
Do you not know that single motherhood could result in variety, as follow: 1. Loving a man whom you want to settle with and going with him as well only for you to get pregnant::he denies it running away from his responsibility and while and when further punishment meets up with him he then begin to seek forgiveness he never deserve
2. Being divorced
3. Being raped
4. Flirting etc
Did you place all of these into consideration before tarnishing all women?
GoooodHardDick: It has come to our knowledge here that most ladies mistake a widow for a single mother.
Understand that a widow isn't a single mother. Widows are not single mothers. They're called one parent. Help them if you can!
However single mothers in this context are those foolish and wayward girls who intentionally went and received dick and became pregnant. They will always want to let the world know that they are single mothers as if na u give Dem belle. They are always toxic in behavior and highly manipulative. They're equally filled with entitlement mentality, pls avoid them like plague
Cast the first stone if you are worthful and ain't guilty some way somehow somewhere and someday
Why? Because if you happen to have a hand someway somehow somewhere and someday amongst hurting women, and those getting most women pregnant and denying it thereby making them single mothers an ever lasting curse follow
Some curses are never joked with, especially if you have a hand and still condemn.
The turnout at the PDP Presidential Rally in Abuja, the Federal Capital, shows that even at the centre, where the federal government sits, Nigerians are ready to give their vote for Atiku #RecoverNigeria #LetGetNigeriaWorkingAgain
Fahvvy: Ah! ... Same old argument ... Virgin men for virgin women right? Hope it'll also be "rich women for rich men", "tall women for tall men" right? ...
Or are we not ready for this conversation, are we? ...
Romance › Re: How Women Feel They Have An Opinion about who they get married to is quite funny by Suunnn(f): 10:15am On Dec 18, 2022
, isn't this the regular ranting some women engage themselves in, to ease their frustration, on how they want the best but are not willing to work for it. 
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