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Romance › Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(op): 8:48am On Oct 31, 2019

Omar09:
You didn't tag me. Red pill. I think it's high time you stopped begging. See beyond them. You are better off without them.

I was once like you. I will beg to be loved. To even kiss her, to caress her, to feel her, but all to no avail. I didn't have any intention of having sex with her for those who would say it's lust, I loved her, but she left me twice n I begged. But on the third one I was prepared to die without her since I can't live without her. It's all in your head, don't be afraid to try new things.

The human is designed to be afraid of change. Conquer that fear n you will see that not all things are worth the fight. You are scared you will meet someone worse than her, but even if you do, you still kick her out like you did to the one before n you keep on going n going till meet your perfect match.

There are wise people on this forum afterall. I'm shocked.
Thank you for this beauty.

Romance › Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(op): 8:40am On Oct 31, 2019

rottennaija:
I understand your pain. Have been there before, lost a relationship of almost 9 years because of religion, my life was practically built around her, she was my dream, my life, my love etc. At the end, it ended like that.

Though it's been more than a year, each time I think about her or discuss with her in phone or in person, it puts me in a melancholy mood. I have met different people with different trait and characters, I kept moving forward, kept looking for the sort of person I'm interested in.

Am I happy today? Yes. Am I also sad? Yes, for I am sad of how it could have been. In all these, I learnt a big lesson and I could move forward. In my own case, while I knew we love each other, I also learnt than in some cases, love for something else was greater than the love she had for me (in this case her religion). So in that case, it probably was all for nothing.

Anyway, believe me. You will get over it and will be a better person. But it's not easy, but you will pull through.

I need this kind of talk 3 times daily. How can I talk to you off this place?

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Romance › Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(op): 7:53am On Oct 31, 2019

rottennaija:
Time... Heals all wound. Though the scar might remain in some cases.

But give it time, you will fall in love again with someone that is matured and cherish you the way you do cherish her. And she will be mature enough to understand that in relationship, it takes two to make it work, talk about the difficulties, differences and making amends in both parties and being willing to create allowance for each other.

This is nice. But you know, it's gonna take sometime.
I'm a really sensitive person. I look around, see all these people and the kind of life.. And it doesn't make me comfortable.
I've been heartbroken before. Lover of 4 years won't stop messing around with random boys while crying she loves me. Kept forgiving, until I ran out of forgiveness. Lover didn't even care. Only calls once in 4 months till today to remind me of the worse relationship experience.

I look around and I see many people like her who won't stop messing around. Then I spot this one that is 99% all I've dreamed of. Now I lose it.

Everything will be alright, I know. But right now, everything is all wrong.

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Romance › Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(op): 7:48am On Oct 31, 2019

IamNotWariz:
Why should you beg to be loved?? That should be your first focus

As a man, are you that worthless Because that's the impression you are giving

When you feel you have offended someone, when you see them gloomy.. Because of something you did or didn't do, I think it is okay to try to cheer them up in anyway you can. Even if you have to "beg" them to forgive your mistakes.

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Romance › Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(op): 7:16am On Oct 31, 2019*

Maybe if I comment first on my own topic it'll make me feel better for a minute.
I'm gonna tag a few wise friends so that they can try to help me get through this

Hopefullandlord, Hahn. HappyPagan, Michellekabod2.
Zikzikzik (I've always wanted to talk to you about how you feel. You don't have to end life, everything will be okay).
Hakeem12, 1sharon, hakeem4. Capslocked, skeetz, johnydon22, hardmirror. Atlantia, stupidity. MJbolt, dalaman, calliope, xxsabrinaxx. Izzou, lordreed. Janettee, Hopeforcharles. Ever wise tintingz.

Ubunja/Martinez39 (please don't tell me about redpills. Sometimes, genuine love is bigger than anything in it's way.)

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Romance › Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(op): 7:15am On Oct 31, 2019*

Women bashers, Clueless Men, and people that have never been in love, please keep off.
I'm already seeing some worthless "offpoint" statements and disregard. How difficult is it for Nigerian Adults to either be meaningfully useful, or ignore and mind their business?

To my fellow men, how did you get through this?

You fall in love with someone, and they leave you and never come back. You plead, and plead, and cry at their feet because you loved them sincerely. But they swear never to come back.

Not that you were a bad person that beat up your partner, cheated on them or treated them carelessly. You only made a few "common" mistakes like raising your voice, correcting certain flaws, or whatever it is that would go on in a relationship and normal couples will get through it. But your partner leaves you 3 times because he/she "wasn't happy" in the relationship because of these "common" mistakes/situations. You beg them and they come back, but this 4th time they leave you, you go on to try to get them back for days or weeks, with no success.

Usually they like to leave because they've found someone else. Sometimes they leave because they cannot cope with you. But you really want them for all their great qualities, and this 4th time, you've made up your mind to be good. To be better than you ever was, even though you cannot really see how those "common" relationship situations are worthy to be called faults that should lead to a breakup.

They make up their mind not to return to you. Cry, roll in mud, bang your head a hundred times but they're unimpressed. Their minds have been made up to "leave a man like you for a man that will value and cherish them". In fact seeing you, your calls, and texts make them angrier.

My friends, how did you get through this situation?
How did you comfort yourself with their absence with the fact that in your heart, you know they were too good but your small mistakes were huge to them and you let them down.

You wanted them forever. Marriage, children and happiness. Now you wonder if there are any people as good as they were. You're worried you'll never such love and kindness and commitment and passion and honestly and loyalty and dedication and pureness of heart, anywhere in the world again.

You really want them back. But they don't even want to see your name or face anywhere. They used to love you. But their fragile hearts couldn't endure your little naggings or jokes, or complaints and inconsistent love. They had their own shortcomings too. In fact, you reacted the times you did because of their actions. But they put all the blames on you. For love's sake you accept all the pains and blames and decide to fight further and keep things together. But they are now less interested. They're also worried about the tribal differences between your families.

Not that you're begging to be loved. No. They're unhappy because of you. Your "common" mistakes hurt and offend them. So you "beg" for forgiveness. But they've had enough of you.

Men that has been in these oversized shoes that are mine currently, how did you get through this?

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Romance › Re: Pretty Lady Weds Her Physically-challenged Boyfriend In Wheelch by swaggzo(m): 5:40pm On Oct 29, 2019

donstan18:
If an average Nigerian lady can comfortably marry a goat because of money, why then should this be seen as a surprise.

Love exists. And I believe in it.

Romance › Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by swaggzo(m): 5:36pm On Oct 29, 2019

Logan95:
Good day house.

I meet my girlfriend recently in school, she's an undergraduate student while I'm a post graduate student.

She is a very beautiful girl and well endowed. For the few months we've dated she's one of a kind. She has a good heart, buys me stuffs even though I'm not poor, cleans my house and relates well with my sister to mention a few.

However she told me about her ex, she loved him and supported him financially because he was a student and broke.

We have been going smooth until this night she decided to tell me her past without me asking. She said I am too special but I have to know who she truly is.

She started by saying she's had two abortions for her ex, that she slept with many guys for money which she eventually spent on her ex. I was dumbfounded and I'm in a dilemma now. She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

I don't know how to tackle this majorly because she confessed without me asking and she did all these before I meet her.

So sad reading these comments on this website.
Did you love that girl before her confession?
Does she show you genuine love?

You will end up with sister Amaka the saint who will in tears tell you she lost her virginity by mistake and you're her second lover ever...
But meanwhile, she has had 300 lovers, 83 abortions, and has also eaten poop for free.

Guy your girl did the do because she was in school, the brokeness, the pressure, the experience.

If she looks genuine, let nothing on this thread or anywhere affect what you felt for her.

Nkechi the Jezebel that tells you the näked truth is better than Sister Amaka the saint who'll feed you with the clothed lies that you'll never discover.

Bros be a wise man. If she shows signs of waywardness, then she's wayward. But if she shows genuine repentance and love... Oga just use your head. You may lose this and never find what you're looking for. I've learned my lesson. Do you want to end like me?

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Business › Re: How I Made #500k In 8 Months by swaggzo(m): 3:36pm On Sep 06, 2019

I would like to learn how you placed your first order.

Business › Re: This Nigerian Man And His Friends Slept At Shoprite In Lagos by swaggzo(m): 4:31pm On Sep 04, 2019

Another clear picture, showing that many Nigerians are dullàrds.

They're killing our people in South Africa, we're here looting shops.. Showing the whole world that it is food that is our problems.

For Christ's sake how is packing drinks and biscuits from shoprite equal to the humans and properties being burnt in South Africa?
How does attacking a mere shop of a South African businessman affect the hundreds of illiterate South Africans causing the chaos over there? How does this stop the war?

You want to get back at South African.... Yet you ignore DSTV. You put your MTN SIM in your pocket..... And then head down to SHOPRITE where there's food, because of hunger and poverty?

I'm very disappointed, and ashamed to say I'm a Nigerian.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Xenophobia: Amnesty Berates South Africa, Ramaphosa’s Poor Handling Of Obligatio by swaggzo(m): 3:58pm On Sep 04, 2019

South Africa will still win in the end. Nobody can bring back the dead foreigners killed by South African touts. We've lost, and that's it.

If only we could build up our country the way we wish it was.

Celebrities › Re: Mr Eazi Lists His Achievements After Twitter User Called Him Gold Digger by swaggzo(m): 3:55pm On Sep 04, 2019

izzou:
And which celebrity doesn't have people who usually bully, insult or ridicule them on their pages?

Or you want to say it's only Nigerians that do that?

The topic is between eazy and a Nigerian. I'm contributing on this forum in that regard.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Smallness Is Not Godliness by swaggzo(m): 3:47pm On Sep 04, 2019

Saw no sense here. Maybe a telescope can help me.

Celebrities › Re: Mr Eazi Lists His Achievements After Twitter User Called Him Gold Digger by swaggzo(m): 3:46pm On Sep 04, 2019

izzou:
One person insults MrEazi, and you decide to tag the whole 200 million Nigerians

Nigerians are drug dealers
Nigerians are thieves
Nigerians are scammers

All because just few did it....

Sigh

Not because of eazy. Nigerians are always on twitter, insta, facebook, Nairaland and others, looking for who to bully, insult, and ridicule. When they're not doing that, they're wishing bad luck and failures to others.

These people they usually attack, are most of the time peaceful people, who are even doing better than their attackers in all aspects of life.

Nigerians neither respect themselves nor others, and I will say it a million times.

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Crime › Re: Xenophobia : Watch As Youths Destroy Stores, Shoprite In Ajah by swaggzo(m): 3:43pm On Sep 04, 2019

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Business › Re: Xhenophobia: Police Cordon Off Owerri Shoprite Attack - Photos by swaggzo(m): 3:42pm On Sep 04, 2019

Celebrities › Re: Mr Eazi Lists His Achievements After Twitter User Called Him Gold Digger by swaggzo(m): 3:34pm On Sep 04, 2019

Nigerians will never respect themselves, nor respect others. Na wah.

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Romance › Re: A Girl Asked Me This Question .after Spending My Money by swaggzo(m): 3:32pm On Sep 04, 2019

Escabado:
A meet a Girl recently , the first day we meet I spent 10k on eatry and give her money as she was going.
Trying to be Nice to her...

Why?

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Phones › Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by swaggzo(m): 6:51pm On Jul 21, 2019

na wa

Phones › Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by swaggzo(m): 6:51pm On Jul 21, 2019

Jidibia:
6 weeks because plenty customers dey queue. Na 1st come first serve.

Lol. I just can't.
Abeg is there any other phone you can recommend for me from jumia? just good ram and battery with no issues. around that 30 - 35k.

Phones › Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by swaggzo(m): 6:48pm On Jul 21, 2019

Lexusgs430:
No wuruwuru to the answer........... Buying from stock on ground with zero delays, expect to pay almost 45K......

What do you think of this gionee s11 lite?

Phones › Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by swaggzo(m): 6:36pm On Jul 21, 2019

Lexusgs430:
Umidigi A5 Pro is 35K.......

OK thanks. seems there's no short route except waiting for ages for aliexpress

Phones › Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by swaggzo(m): 6:33pm On Jul 21, 2019

Jidibia:
The A5 pro is 35k nah. If you can play the waiting game just holla at Noobody of nairaland let him order for you from AliExpress.

How long do I have to wait?

Phones › Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by swaggzo(m): 6:26pm On Jul 21, 2019

khalidx:
A5 pro. I promise you your apps won't close. Battery � na Ebano. Browsing fast like jet ✈ when you're on a good 3g or 4g connection

Lexusgs430:
Both......

Go for the Umidigi A5 Pro.......

Thanks.
But I don't have more than 35k for a phone right now.

Do you have any link to the a5 pro that is not so expensive?

or maybe another durable phone that is around my budget range. Thank you.

Phones › Re: UMIDIGI DISCUSSION THREAD by swaggzo(m): 3:26pm On Jul 21, 2019

Lexusgs430:
It looks very sexy, with a touch of iPhone design on some angles.
The dual rear camera + helio X27 + a host of other spec's, makes this a proper flagship killer device.......

Boss, greetings.
I've been considering between umidigi a3 and gionee f6L

they're almost on the same price, except that specs differ. I've been seeing a lot of negative reviews on both of the phones...

I need your advice. I just need the one that is more stable with enough battery to allow me play music and browse through the net and multitask between apps without the apps closing in background. I'm not a gamer.

I need advice between Umidigi A3 and Gionee F6L.

I've ordered both from jumia.. which order should I cancel? which one should I go for?

Thanks.

Agriculture › Agrochemicals by swaggzo(op): 12:13pm On May 03, 2019

Hello everyone...
I'm looking for contacts, connections of, and meetings with dealers / suppliers of Agro-chemicals such as pesticides and herbicides.

I intend starting up this business on a large scale so I would like to learn the needed techniques and methods, steps to follow, who and where to buy from, and also how profitable it is.

Thank you.

Christianity Etc › Non Believers; Memes And Quotes Here. by swaggzo(op): 9:25am On Oct 12, 2016*

I'm waiting..

Christianity Etc › Agriculture by swaggzo(op): 8:47am On Oct 12, 2016*

Agriculture is profitable, and we know this because we live because of the products of agriculture.
why does this society from on farming and farmers?

Phones › Re: Funniest Memes On Galaxy Note 7 Explosions by swaggzo(m): 8:39am On Oct 12, 2016

Capslocked

Christianity Etc › Re: Should I Pay My Tithe Or Pay My Brother's School Fees? by swaggzo(m): 1:09pm On May 10, 2016

crazysaint:
damn you man, i never knew you can be this stupidd.. Your words alone defines you.. Get lost lame atheist like you.

I AM THE GOD OF STUPIDDITY, I EXIST.

YOUR GOD DOESN'T!

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