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Yea I shave down there from time to time and it's because it's simply the hygienic thing to do. You don't wanna habour disease causing organisms down there. Too much pubic hair can trap quite an appreciable amount of moisture which and bring about an uncomfortable feeling. And also where there is moisture there is microbes and for some of my bros that dont feel bathing should be an everyday thing, you know the rest,

I guess that someway somehow you've got to let your friend know about this. Try and work something out so that the situation will be win win for everybody. You are not just gonna sit down there and watch your friend been played are you? Otherwise what sort of friend are you?

If you feel you are not ready for it you don't have to go into it. The time will still come

Is that true? I'd better not fall in love them

You don't need to go see any doctor he/she is going to tell you pretty much the same things you have been told by many people here except if you are in one of the developed countries where health care service is good and you have a lot of options. But if you were to be in Nigeria. DONT TRY IT if you decide to go ahead, forget about having kids. Raising up a child with sickle cell disease is not something you will wish on your enemy and the chance is there that you can even have more than one of them. It's draining both emotionally and financially. You just have to face reality and break this relationship. It's not easy I know but you have to do it.  You will both blame yourselves in future if you venture into it. All you have to do is pay a visit to a family burdened with raising up a SS child I'm sure you won't find it too difficult to change your mind. Accept my sincere sympathies

It's equal to a man biting more than he can chew.

aint nothing bad in experimenting, it's not as if you are publicizing it or something. All na to make sure you both satisfy each other. But don't you think this topic should go t "sexaulity" forum?

I don't seen anything wrong with it but I can't do it. I'm just too shy for that. Some people however take it too far. You know what I mean

There's nothing bad in it if a lady/guy decides to remain virgin till marriage, as a matter of fact that is how it should be, it's something to be proud of. Such people are to be commended in this age of moral decadence. And for those that believe that chastity is something of the old skool, well I dont believe it makes them any less humans. But the truth be told sex before marriage is wrong.

freedomlov:
Thank you every one who has responded to my post, your message has really make me feel strong, i have tried my best to make this girl so happy every blessed day i have given her every good things i can lay my hands on every moment and anywhere i go, i have given her too much suprise and really nice gift, care, love and good time,each time she wants to travel out of Town, i always Use a Rented Lexus Limozine to pick her from her apartment to the airport, and from the airport back home when ever she is going to town, all this i did to make her happy, i take her to a bar, where you can play your favorite music and sing the song on stage with oever 500 people watching you sing and clapping for you after singing.,, just to make her happy, lots lots lots of things i have done for this beautiful lady, the apartment she is staying cost 650 euros, i paid all that every month, just to make her happy, but today play, tomorrow shouting and yailling, i think i dont really deserve her, the way she treat me, she dont have respect for me, i will stop carrling and sending sms, i wish her all the best, while i will paddle my own canoe.

Frankly I think you have been watching too many movies. Get a life! There are other things in life apart from "love" and maybe read a book on wise spending too it would help.

freedomlov:
Hello all,
I Have a girlfriend who is very beautiful, caring and kind, but her problem is she is very very very stubborn, and she lack  respect, and don't take advice from anybody and she wants to do what she want, and she talk to me anyhow,

Well I'm sorry this doesn't sound like someone who is caring and kind to me unless of course I'm using a different dictionary from yours'.  Friend at times we let our emotions cloud our objective sense of reasoning and we accept all kinds in the name of love . In plain facts this girl does not love you . She has shown you the height of disrespect. I how wonder how you have managed to stay in this for this long. For crying out loud she even made if clear to you she's not changing. I want you to know that just like she told you men are in line in case  you Bleep up, a lot of responsible ladies that will respect you are also out there. This is God in his infinite mercy saving you from a mistake you yourself has not even acknowledge committing. You deserve someone better. Forget this girl and move on. Yes it's not easy but you can do it!

IyaBasira:
Is it?
So we are actually okay with letting our husbands deceive white women , sleep with them, and them leave them hanging after getting what they want ?

I know this comment may not be supported by anyone on this forum but I really don't care. For reasons like this a man will cheat on you later with another NIGERIAN woman and then you will have to bite your tongue because you supported it in the first place when he did it with a white woman.
And is anyone considering the impact this has on the lives of these women/ girls? Is this really fair on them considering that they are using their money, their bodies and potentially damaging their hearts?

I'm sorry, but for stuff like that, I really don't care what what the reasons are. How can I watch you do that to someone else? And with her probably thinking that I am the housemaid, only to later find out that I'm his wife! These women sometimes come to Nairaland and wail about some Nigerian man who they love and  who is acting funny once the papers came through.

I've noticed something about men and women. Men seem to understand the saying " United We Stand " better than women do. With guys there's this sense of solidarity cos they always support each other. But women just don't seem to get it. We do a lot of terrible things to each other in the name of LOVE and it's like someone sowed a seed of discord between us from day one.

What more should I say? You have said it all. Anyway it's all part of scamming. Why don't this frigging women put themselves in the shoes of those white women?. Well all I can do is For such women. Jesus wept

You got to get to know her somehow, that's if you really want her. You dont just walk up to somebody that does not know you from Adam and ask her out in 99% of cases all you'll get is a blatant "No" infact in my own opinion she'd be nice to give you a slap and of course she would have a good laugh with her friends at your expense. You must find a way to know her I mean you've to work out something, does she live in your neighborhood?, attends your church?, in the same department with you? Reads in the same reading room with you? works in the same place with you? Do you know someone that knows her? there must be a common ground somewhere and you've got to utilitze it. However pls dont be a stalker! Once you can get her on talking terms with you then you can move from there and of course you have to be confident.

It's not a function of age, it's a function of affordability although if u reach a certain age and mum is still buying your shirts shame will set in. Just make sure you work hard now and pray so that before that age comes you can afford to leave. Once you are Emotionally, spiritually and FINANCIALLY mature ages btw 25 &030 I'd say it's ok.

femmy2010:
Great he told u b4 the marriage and fair he did.The choice is solely yours to make and frankly no need to ask NL.its your shoe,u have it on and u know if its 2u firm or not.

Frankly that's the truth, it's now for you to decide if you want to work or not but in my own opinion it might not be a great idea, cos it might mean you can't follow your own dreams and aspirations and you might have to settle down with being at the mercy of some man for everything you need. No matter how nice he is now you anything can happen to tomorrow. I'm not a prophet of doom but what if later in future there's financial challenge? you know what I mean. Think about it well

Differences are separate from arguments. Arguments only ensue when differences are not well managed or handled. No two individuals are the same not even identical twins. Therefore differences are natural parts of relationship unless of course you are getting married to yourself, matured people however always strife to find a common ground. Ability to works thing out without having to resort to abuse or arguments help couples/friends to build a stronger relationship. Working things out at times might mean one party has to keep quiet and let the other win and at times it might mean both parties have to reach a compromise. But dont be decieved you can't both agree on all things.

Just get all your pink lights on and let's pray the guy's get enough testosterone running in his veins to be receptive. But girl, some proactivity would be required from you side understanding from this picture you have painted that the guy is pathologically shy

Benitaton:
Am in love with a guy that has a serious girl friend, he loves this girl so much that he always talk of her.  I believe he has feelings for me too. the annoying thing now is that  we have been dating for some time now and this girls picture is still hung on the wall, his excuse was that her picture is what staying there. I honestly do not know what to do because i love him

For crying out loud, listen to yourself and answer the question. Guys with no serious girlfrends even those with no girlfriends at all full for outside, try hooking up with one of them. Or how would you feel if some girl is desperately trying to hook up with someone with which you are serious ?

Timsilver:
i think your laptop must be having some kinda hardware problem and i guess its with either the keyboard, mouse or any other input device.
download this application.
http://download.cnet.com/Advanced-SystemCare-Free/3000-2086_4-10407614.html

so what do you think I should do next? The warranty period is still valid anyway but I've got no idea where I can take it to in Ibadan. Or should I just take it back to where I bought it?

Good evening gurus, How are you all doing? I've got this problem with my lapii. Anytime I put it on, before it loads windows it starts making very loud and of course irritating toh toh toh sound it does that for about 1 minutes or longer and there after loads up windows normally. It's really embarassing cant even put on the laptop in class cos of the noise. I've already formatted and reinstalled windows but the problem still persists. I however noticed that if after putting it on if I start pressing F9 it will bring up a dark screen on which is written "load windows vista home premium" and below that "press F8 for more options" and I press enter on the former, it loads the windows without all the noise but normally before once i put it on it loads and I wouldn't have to do a thing until my user password is requested. The mouse also behaves funny at times since this problem started, it suddenly might stop clicking, the cursor still moves in response to my touch but on tapping as usual it does not execute unless I use the buttons below which is cumbersome. I dont know what to do again pls help me out. My exams are just starting and all my class note, practical materials are on the computer I cant afford not to use it now. Thanks for your anticipated support. System is HP G60, windows is vista home premium.

Yea in the device manager there's a question mark in yellow beside "network controller" and "video controller"what next should I do? I really need my wireless

Hi gurus, pls I need help here, just changed my os from vista to windows 7 and everything is working perfectly except my wireless. It's just not starting, I'm thinking maybe the driver is gone with the installation. What can I do pls? And if I have 2 download a new driver what site pls can I get one compatible with windows 7, ve tried installing some but so far the situation has been hopeless. System is acer aspire 1640z, window now is 7 but the lapi came originally with xp. Thanks for your anticipated support.

You wan dey become mu squared be that. Take heed

I'm still waiting pls

Funny I was kind of forced to read thru this page cos it's really educative. I've got 2 probs with my lapi:
1 Since about last week, on inserting a flash drive it shows the normal "new hardware has been detected" but instead of going ahead and install a driver for it it brings out the install new hardware wizard asking 4 installation CD and it does that for every flash so in short I've neither been able to give nor recieve which is really frustrating. What can I do.
2. If I boot up my system with the battery in place it hangs on the log on screen. At that point if I just remove the battery and replace it right away, all returns to normal all. It means I can only boot up when plugged in. If I however hibernate, it comes up normally. But if I shut down, I've got to remove and replace batt. at log on screen otherwise it will just hang there. What can I do.
System is Acer
OS is vista premium altho it was xp home edition that came with it.

Finally brethren is there a place where I can download tune up utilities 2009/2010 full version. I've got 2010 v9.0.3100, but it's asking 4 a pdt key or if anybody has d key, can he/she kindly paste it here or send it to sweetdoct247@yahoo.com. Thanks

Can anybody tell me where I can download this application that scatters your pictures as ur desktop background and then changes them at a set time. Anybody know where I can download a full version pls or maybe a freeware that does that? Thanks

I've just changed my windows from xp to vista and of course I lost sound. I need a site where I can download the sound driver. System is acer and windows is vista. Thanks for ur anticipated help. Mail is sweetdoct247@yahoo.com

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Pls I need a candid advice on what 2 do and I need it fast. I fell in love with this girl and of course told her about it but she told me we can't be together cos she's already committed to somebody. And as I don't intend taking another guy's woman it all ended there and I even apologised. Now the problem is I've been finding it hard to discard the feeling I have for this girl. I've tried my best but I still can't stop thinking about her, her thought still creeps into my head even while watching the most interesting of action movies. The sight of her still gives me palpitations and I dont like it. I try as much as possible not to talk to or even look at her unless it is inevitable in order to avoid these unwanted emotions but it seems not to be working. I DESPERATELY NEED TO FLUSH THIS GIRL OUT OF MY SYSTEM AND I NEED HELP PLS. I want to see her and feel the same way I would were it to be any other girl. Now I've got an exam on Tue and all I can do even with a book in front of me is think about her, God I can't even read! Help me pls I dont wanna fail at least not because of some girl that can never be mine.

That was why I said being realistic is the thing, now as an educated person I wouldn't really advice u to marry somebody that doesn't av any education. Let's face it there will be a social problem later in life. I mean u guys can't even relate at the same level. When ur man/woman cant contribute anything to values u hold dear not because he/she doesn't want to but because he/she doesn't know anything about it, no matter the depth of the love there will be problems later. Then a guy who has nothing to show definitely doesn't sound like women's dream man so I dont really understand what u mean when u say he has nothing to show and yet has all the quality u want in a man so what did u fall in love with?
About ur other question that's why u date. U don't just meet a person one day and follow him to the altar on the next. Dating is not just about going not together or doing romantic chats in dark corners, it's also an avenue to observe & know ur man or woman so as to be able to decide whether his/her intentions are noble. Yea I know people can pretend but the problem is that some people still believe that love is blind. One thing I always say is that tho we love with our heart we need to guide our heart to love with our heads. It's not easy I must admit cos I've been there. The love clouds ur mind so much that being objective is difficult. You just dont wanna consider that he just lied. If u don't let yourself get carried away in the euphoria of "romance" during dating and u take time to look, observe and think u will definitely know him/her for who he/she is. Nobody can pretend for ever it doesn't matter how much conscious effort is invested into it. Just dont av blind love and u'll clearly see,