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I don't think a nursing mother will do this

Oh my God!

Trust is a prerequisite for a long lasting relationship.

tosyne2much:
Almost everyone has that phobia my dear. The only thing there is that one should open his or her eyes properly and don't be beclouded by LOVE

Yeah.Thank for this input.It will help me a bit.I resorted to God to help me choose where i will enjoy peace.

Crixina:
Heart attack perhaps

YEAH PERHAPS.RIP TO HIM.

tosyne2much:
One lesson learnt today


Never marry for a wrong reason

Seriously thats why am scared.Marriage is not for kids.Its for the matured in thinking.I pray God takes me to a place his grace will never abandon me.Dont wish for a broken home.Broken relationship is better than marrying the wrong person with a shallow thinking.

ZombieTAMER:
Am not a prophet of doom But two years from now They will reap what they have sowed

It's only God that can help them If they don't hold unto him It's going to be catastrophic

I don't like this your prayers

IamKashyBaby:



Only TRUE LOVE can move the mountains sha..

And once in a lifetime each person meet his/her soulmate even in a hopeless place & unexpected situation..

What more important is that may their union will last like the Great Wall of China..

Yeah.

jayloms:
I wonder the percentage of ladies that would adhere to this. Offensive smell is not a good thing to perceive from a guy or a lady.

That moment when you are about to go down and arrghh! you remember that unpleasant experience at the fish market.

I swear further attempts would be very unlikely. When it comes to personal hygiene, be squeaky clean.

I do twice a day.A lady is supposed tokeep herself clean.Wash twice a day.Thrice if you are a sit at home everyday lady.

SillyMods:
IPOB miscreants will get orgasm on this thread. They're so illiterate to understand that even when Shekau was extra judicially murdered - Boko Haram had not been declared a terrorist group then, NOTHING happened to the govt of YarAdua on that basis.

I sincerely hope that terrorist has indeed been killed by the army.

Yes, I said so. No harm in wanting someone who asked his followers to kill any Yoruba or Hausa man they see, dead.

kanu dying is for the peace of the larger society. He has proved to be unrepentant.

Why are you being biased?He proved to be unrepentant?I Think you need to reason well if this is all you think of.The country has a constitution and you shouldn't jubilate whenever her govt doesn't obey it if you really want this country to succeed and develop.

skulgen:
Permit me to digress a bit


I lik using A & B in my analysis.
Mr A and Mr B had a fight, d fight resulted to a court case.
Mr A is Nig and B is kanu
Mr A accused B so bad tht d court had to remand B.
After everything A was found out to hv no case against B n B was bailed while d case was adjourned.

Now Mr A couldn't wait to appear in court against B but decided to send some of his loyalists to go and kill B even when d case is ongoing in a competent court.
Those live ammunitions,bullet holes on walls n windows and dead bodies of mr B's relatives are exhibits of an attempted murder against mr B.

My question now is,
will the court still summon Mr B and judge him without doing anything to A?
Will the court B silent on the acts of mr A as if nothing happened?
If this happens,then there is no law.

The truth remains tht d cause of d issue is yet unresolved hence d struggle is far from over. Get ready to kill as many more.
Its only a mad man tht does same thing expecting another result.

My respect goes to all well meaning HAUSA communities for the way they behaved this time.
Honestly iv not seen muslims behave lik tht bfo. It must be commended to even wearing our Igbo attires just to preach peace in d face of d opposite. This shows there re still educated n good ones amongs them afterall.
Not lik the ones we hav on nairaland thinking they re doing any one, forgetting tht when it starts, every part of Nigeria will b touched.

For those tht saw d pix of those Ipob guys eating under army detention, do u know how much peace only tht video can bring.
I saw d chicken laps in most of their food.
So this government can really do such, if then, y d attack all this while. Why havent u called Ipob since as u called boko haram and MEND.
In my last opinion, i advocated tht they d govt should invite kanu, treat him well and if possible, give him fake hope which i said was still wrong, but tht will buy them time n endurance on ipob side. Now Obasanjo is advising same, speaking from both sides of his mouth.

The truth is tht even if u kill kanu, many more will arise. it calls for concern cos young ones are growing with hate inside them.

Just lik u treat a house help bad with all d works in d house n not treat ur children likewise, u are only helping d house help for future without knowing.
This govt will one day be over and books shall be opened for remembrance by another govt. This govt will always b a reference for any judgment given then.
If herdsmen who we all have their pix n videos carrying Ak47 have not been declared terrorists cos they re kinsmen but people carrying sticks in self defense which is in law are now tagged terrorist, then something has happened to our senses.

The Igbos re highly marginalized in this country. Its not something u guess, its as clear as crystal.
We work so hard to make ends meet, nothing to make life easy or happy thereafter, no amusement parks n all tht. No federal presence, all our roads re death traps, yet police mounts every pole, collecting money n slapping u ontop. The hustle, pain, neglect,frustration n intimidation is real brothers.
Its not just for pity sake.
This was same treatment given to Israelites in Egypt.
And when we complain, we re killed instead.


Pmb said he belong to everyone n no one, we took him serious but no, it was plagiarized, meaning copy n paste, he never meant it including all campaign promises.

D government knows exactly what to do for peace to reign but they re just too proud. This is as a result of bad advicers.
Let them do d right thing before it'stoo late.

Exactly

attackgat:
Bowing is optional in Igbo culture and the few places it happens is with someone highly respected or revered such as the Obi of Onitsha.

Other cultures bow to anybody such as an elder

If I saw the Obi of Onitsha in public, I just probably would have raised both my hands and hailed "Igwe!"

But on a serious note Yoruba can lie down to greet for Africa.My cousin's husband can lie down ehh! Even you will be like,it hasn't gotten to this nah! My father will say,that's their culture.

supersystemsnig:
Have you now married? I am among the hustle forget woman crew, looking back, i feel it was a bad decision.....

okay

tuniski:
Head must be paining her!

Mind you,hate speech is an act of terrorism.

tuniski:
Head must be paining her!

Mind you,hate speech is an act of terrorism.

This is serious.Love spell? What for? It's uncalled for please.My dad will always say,never you put your hands on any fetish.It will have negative impact and can limit your life expectancy

supersystemsnig:
Wow you poured your soul into this, God forgive we men, i also worship hustling for years, but i'm now repentant nau... ...wished i saw the need for relationship earlier...but hustling no gre me see.. now i have to learn " loving " at this old age...

I can relate to op post a little.It can hurt tho.Well,hustle its good,but at the end,all glory will return to God for sustenance. I received a bible as my birthday gift,ever since,i feel so light in my heart.Nothing gets me down since 25 sept. My prayer always has been for God to still be with me everyday.Amen

Me am going home to my people. Don't want stories i cant comprehend

SalamRushdie:
This shape of head is actually very common in the south West of Nigeria

yu might be arrested for hate speech.pls be wary.

The heart of men can fear me ehh! How can you have a heart so wicked like this? This child needs to be rehabilitated because stuffs like this can really affect his sense of reasoning and emotions.This woman should be made to loose her freedom of association immediately.

Drniyi4u:
Na managers dem dey find. Make I go sit down, I nor get 15 years experience

As if you know.I dont have strength o.Let me finish my masters and my ICAN exams in peace.

hey op,if a lady starts attending church,it isn't because she is looking for husband nah.My life changed after God gave me a second chance in life.That you have made money or have a good life now will not give you fulfilment in future.We all will soon leave everything and go someday.What you have is just the Grace of God.If your ex is not yet married and single,it is not a curse.Maybe she has been having suitors but was careful.I can relate to your story.I think you are a nice person.I was so patient waiting for my ex.He told me occasionally to move on that he only care about hustling.I kept on fighting so hard to hold on even with all the attitudes he gave me.I told God that am going to be committed and hold still no matter what. One day,God showed me how to give up through a post here on Nairaland. Someone i called my girlfriend even threatened that she would get married to him before my eyes.I didn't believe her till she made mention of it again saying that i didn't know her and what she can do. I cried my eyes out wishing it wasn't real.God gave me the strength to let him go through his word"HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDETH A GOOD THING".I have asked God for forgiveness and i have also forgiven my ex.I wish him good things of life always.I wish him peace within. Life is not by our making.Op,i think you should get closer to God now that you have gotten all you wished for.He alone can sustain you.I am enjoying God in my life.I wish for it to continue.

brainpulse:
Made in Nigeria Coffin

you are not serious

Am plus one already.yeeeeeeeeee!

He was so full of life.He was the head,so peaceful.Was raw with words which made me shy sometimes for what he might say.He was the best a nice guys with so much love.Can remember he calls me talkative each time i have something to say.I was so happy and had peace while it lasted.Xoxo

Alariwo2:
Wait first na.. Let Kanu fail to appear in court for his trial

History will be made of them.. were they forced to stand-in for the felon at gun point?

We shall see

Why are you not reasonable enough after reading what the OP posted

mazimee:
After court granted him bail, the FG led by Buhari sent the military to kill him in his home. They still want to arrest his sureties after they made an attempt to his life?

"Tell Buhari that he is mad" - Nnamdi Kanu

Exactly

jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

Op,NEVER and I repeat NEVER you spill this to anyone.You as his significant other owe him the protection of his ego.Pls tell him how you feel first about all he says.Remind him that he has to be involved both physically and emotionally.Try to find out everything that you do wrong from him.I believe this will go a long way in mending your sex life.But if it doesn't,then we see another solution

I wish i can have twins

delugajackson:
We call for restructuring, they complain.

We agitate, they complain.

We call for true federalism, they wail.

What do they really want??

EXACTLY

I knew GOD will never allow the wicked go unpunished.

SINGLE AND READY TO MINGLE.