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Women! Women! Women!
How many times did I call you??
Being a mother should not change your identity! Why should you stop wearing nice clothes just because you have children? In fact it irritates the hell out of me!!!
See people here saying that wrapper is more stressful! Like seriously? So wearing a fitted T.shirt and a pair of shorts is more stressful that tying wrapper which she will have to keep adjusting every 20 minutes
One lady even said that as a mother she cannot wear shorts in front of her kids, What a razz mentality!!!
Poster, sit your wife down and discuss it with her. Let her know EXACTLY how you feel. In fact go buy her some nice shorts and fitted jeans and nice tops to drive home your point more effectively.
We women should start realizing that it's one thing to get a husband and another thig entirely to KEEP your husband's body, soul, and spirit in your matrimonial home. Stop killing your marriages with your bare hands!!!

Dis one na flood

follypimpi: @Idowu

When you turn entertainer? You be D'banj cuzin

Yes nau? Oh! So you don't know??

Idowuogbo: lemonade,digress abeg!

talk! ayam listening...

No o! You are the entertainer here so please go on with the entertainment

All my handsome cousins are married to (not dating o) sexy, hot pretty ladies.
It is only the ones with ego issues and low self esteem that run away from hot girls.
There are MANY smoking hot ladies out there that make excellent wives. It's only for the men to know where and what button to press to activate this.
Do a more careful study and see

Idowuogbo: Bros! U smoke igwu? U ok? As in...everything dey register wella for ya upstairs? Agbaya Oshi!!

This is the most accurate example of pot calling the kettle black I v ever seen!
Pls give me more entertainment o!

Archmed: well, my 5yr old son wants to marry my mother...reason according to him was because i married his mother...

This is the funniest thing I v seen in a while

Idowuogbo: deliberate? u got jokes! btwn,cut d bull about independent mind, u sure wont bring ur scenarios here if u were. POW!! right bck @ u missy!

What I mean is I have a mind that cannot contain crap cos it has an in-built filter.
Please don't go o, continue entertaining me o!

Idowuogbo: naa... u d one seeing things and hearing strange voices.

it pained u...i lie?

Oh! So the whole thing was deliberate? I see! Anyway, you failed woefully cos this babe here has a very independent mind.
Sorry!

Elebiju: wo babe u are madly in love,I know d guy is taking his time before bedding u,read this he will ask for sex within the next 3months moreover I'm cocksure he is bedding some other chick who is sexually appealing than u

Tell me something!

Idowuogbo: bless u! bless u nikky!

come, mama lemonade! seriously na so ur body dey do u? d dude is obviously taking tins slow and u hia making a fuss out of nada? if na fuckkk and go come now, u'll still open a thread spewing bullocks out of ur burnt anuz! jeeez!! *sighs* some hornnny azz gals mehn....

I was about going to explain the purpose of this thread over again to you but I changed my mind. It will be of no use so let me allow you.
Reading btw the lines of your comment, it's like you have the same problem with Tashanja so

Elebiju: ahan!sweetlime abi kilon pe e do u have to respond after his apology?

Where did you see him apologizing? It was d other guy that apologized not this one

tpapi: i think is crazy for women of these days to just pop out all their boobs to members of the public just becos they r wedding,some women look so disgusting wen they do this

There are very jaw-droppingly elegant, sophisticated, tasteful, even inexpensive wedding dresses that hide cleavages. So pls don't use that as an excuse abegi!

mapet: @Ochallo,

Have heard of the parable of the arabian virgin? Nutshell! the husband passed out in bed on wedding night. Reason? She took the whole 18years of abstenance in one night.....


But tell me, are those Bros DL members too I could not but notice the tapping and nicely fitted suit of those guys

It is mostly the women who suffer their dress code principles a lot. A man can always wear a nicely cut designer suit if he can afford it but a woman can wear a designer dress only if it looks like a curtain and "hide" her 'shape' as much as possible!

poopppyLiillyy: This is okay than what she is puttn on!!!!that u suldnt expose doesn't mean u suld dress like a "Dump"!!!

Don't mind them o! They are just looking for excuses to put themselves in bondage. Chikena!

sunwalk: thumbs up bro. thats the spirit of true Christianity. I am not going to make any more comments because, "Evil doers will wax worse and worse, deceiving and being deceived" let them be, because, you might make the same mistake again and make an incoherent remarks

Look at this one again. So anybody that is not in support of deeper life principles and practices is evil ba?
Eeeeeeeee aaaaaaaa ok o!

ESULAALU: Shut up there,brainless tw'at

Did she knock on your door to tell you she is troubled? That is how you just come up here to type rubbish because you have internet.

Unlike you,its obvious she is from a good home,now go back home and ask you mother to teach you some manners or I would help her do just that.Anofia like you.

God just dey catch all of una one by one. Kai! Come and see a holy deeper life insult o! Even me a common "sinner" and "viper" cannot talk to somebody like this not to talk of christian brothers or sisters like una.
Na wa oooooooo!!!!!

wellmax: ahahahaha, yes you caught me, so bad. But Jesus called those who intentionally want τ̅☺ mislead others Vipers, some other times He called them f00ls. Anyway that's not an excuse, the word was not used τ̅☺ cause offence, if you are offended, I'm sorry.

Vipers??!!!! Hahahahahahaha eeeeee na wa o!
Btween Me and you who is spitting venom here All your posts scream "FANATIC" to high heavens!
Pls slow down, go drink a tall glass of cool lemon juice ok?
Geez! O ga o!

Beretta92: man,are u telling me u haven't seen deeper life chauvinists? They dont bliv any other church is good other than theirs.and about kumuyi preaching at a redeemed convention,i overheard a deeper life member saying he went to preach repentance 2 them implying dat they'r all sinners there who needed 2 hear d truth.whereas,when kumuyi preaches 2 other congregations(even small ones),he assumes dat there are believers among them too...some fanatic deeper life members can even go close 2 killing when somebody under their roof goes against d church's hardlines.

GBAM!!!

wellmax: ^^^
Really let's leave matter cos you are such a dum head giving false tales and you know you are lieing. Pastor Kumuyi was a guest preacher @ a previous Holy Ghost convention, apart from those born there, everyone else in Deeperlife came from some churches. No one will prevent anyone from attending other churches, yes, you might prefer they attend Deeperlife with you, but never to the extent of beating them up if they don't attend. Admitit brov, you are lieing.

Hahahahahahaha! God don catch una today! Why call me a "dumb head" I tot that was supposed to be a worldly term Abi are you not holy anymore?? Can't you make your point without insults? Last time I checked insulting someone is a sin before God o! Hehehehehehe
And btw, I'm a lady not a man(Obviously)

wellmax: If this is your level of reasoning then you have a long way to go brov, tell me which church, religion, or aspect of our life that doesn't habour hypocrites? Cos you have one bad guy in your area doesn't make all of them bad. Never ever generalize.

I have heard of and seen many other examples. That one is just oe of them. There is one I know of that beat his wife and deprived her of financial assistance simply because the woman used relaxer on her hair. But Mr holier than thou chases after younger, fresher babes. No wonder their women have this bitter look on their faces when they see well dressed ladies.
#smh
Just leave matter abeg!

sunwalk: so you are such an ominipresent feollow? Jesus said woe unto him that form a stumbling block on his neigbor's way. you see, unless you have tried to seduce him yourself, i don't see any truth in your discovery. If you are much holier, then go to him and tell him to repent, that is your responsibility. because if you die if by the grace of God you are a born again,God will ask you why you didn't warn that brother of his evil and immoral life. its in your hand, go and tell him instead of talking to everyone about it. come to think of it, what will people say about you during your wedding day? As you must have notice, people have different views of things, so watch ur comments atime. and for the record, i am a deeper life member, and am also a secretary in one of our region. we do not force a sister to comply, if she so agree not to. in an event that she does not want to wear a decent dress as designed by he women co-ordinator she is free to leave and marry in another church where she can where whatever she like, but not without a warning. God bless deeper life and all the other bible upholding and believing churches

1. I saw him beat the living day lights out of one of his sisters for attending a reedemed church (I heard when he said it while he was beating her up)
2. He's made subtle moves on me. His brother and sisters used to gist me about his sexcapades.
So like I said earlier, leave matter abeg!

Love_Decay: Sweetlemon, hw go dey go. please, permit me to speak in hausa, as i was born and raised thurr.

Allah Ya Ja Zamanin Ki" meaning May God let you reign forever !!

Abeg, no vex oooh .... some people don't understand the dynamics btw prince charming and yours truly.

Would you take, a broken refrigerator to a carpenter (except ur were making a coffin for the fridge) - individuals hardly advice out of experience, mostly from unguided intuition.

Some folks say he's good news, other say run lady run. But, ultimately - what you believe will determine the outcome of this relationship. I am glad, he never mentioned dating anyone else or not being interested in you - this i have deduced from the little you have shared with us.

Like, i said you are what you eat. If you believe, beauty shall spring forth from this connection - so shall it be.

If you believe, their is doom and calamity above the horizon, then darkness shall reign.

I assume, you have already started changing your demeanor towards him, you might deny it but i assure - he already sense's something. Your probably playing detective Beckit now, and becoming a little too calculating .

Hence, displaying all the characters Nigerian men, wish women never heard.

Take my advice , do not come back to this thread again. It going to Bleep everything up.

Go and enjoy your bobo ohhh !!! Most of the girls here would have never made it this far with this guy from the comments i have read here ooh, and the guys..... you know our code now - honor thy mother and sister, butt Bleep the girls.

But, your guy is better than this, he has risen above the code. Trust, me its not easy to tell mr happy to sit still when a fine babe like you dey around, smiling, scenting, laughing.

Go enjoy your guy ooooh. Have you listened to Rihanna's "unapologetic" album. There's a song in there she did with Chris Brown - Nobody's business.

Frm today let that become your anthem - because at the end of the day, you know and i know - nobody really give's a sHHit about your happiness except yourself and the ones that return your love.

DO NOT COMEBACK TO THIS THREAD - THE HATERS IS WILL CONSUME YOU.

ps.... kiss my socks haters....kiss...... my ......socks!!!

and ooohh just incase your tempted to comeback to this thread for some reason, could you share your zodiac's and dont give us that am a good christian i dont know my zodiac. That'd be like Nicky Minaj, with no onshore and offshore dichotomy.

Lol! Don't worry, I have a very strong and independent mind one of the reasons why this guy finds me interesting. And I'm certainly NOT playing detective on him now. Iv just been sitting back, enjoying, while praying. So don't worry about some people here hypnotzing me. They can't do nada to me, I'd be raving mad if I went into another relationship just so I can claim "he's my boyfriend" I ll leave this thread open in case there are more people like you who can drop more words of wisdom for me cos I need all the good advice I can get.
I'll be just fine!
Thanks anyway!

Lol! Obviously most of the people commenting here are deeper life, MFM, lord's chosen etc. Memebers.
If fact, this one is fine o! I have seen some deeper life brides and brides maids that made me cry!
Most of these people are first class hypocrits. A deeper life neighbour of mine is a bank executive as well as a confirmed womanizer. He forces his sisters to attend chruch while his wife looks old enough to be his mother but he chases hot unilag babes.
Abeg leave matter!

poshdiva: really is english so hard? even while typing?
poster did you go to school? i mean any school at all.....even daycare or creche

It's called pidgin English. If you were a Nigerian, you'd know

bennyraz: u're in love.. ADMIT IT!!! well, i wish u all d best jare and i hope d whole thing ends up gud.. (marriage)

Lol! I think I'm in love. But my eyes are still open till his ring is on my finger.
Thanks for the prayer

I guess I now see why people jump to conclusion that I'm looking for how to bed this guy.
Most people believe that Nairaland is only for people with 'problems' so I guess that's why they are quick to jump that I'm complaining.
You guys need to understand that this is a forum meaning that it's a place where you can discuss problems, issues, or just life in general.
In the romance section for instance, some people will come here to seek advice on how to solve a problem, some will come to ask how to do smth, some others might just want to share an experience for others to learn from while some might just come here to tell the world that they happy mayb cos they've found love, gotten married, etc.
While some might just be here to ask for the meaning of something (like me)
So pls read a poster's words carefully so you can know poster's aim of starting the thread. This way, you ll be able to give useful advice.
Thanks

justineu: Some men wen they av sex wit a lady they will av a diff feeling for d lady. so I feel maybe he dosnt want to av a bad feelin for u and wat he meant by untill he buys a bed meant ur marital bed for hot sex until u complain no more

Oh Jesus!
I AM NOT COMPLAINING OOOOO!!!! I AM IMPRESSED AND HAPPY THE GUY IS NOT IN A HURRY TO BED ME OOOOO!!!!

kitty kat: Bro u are one of those that don't read well before understandinG. I told the lady I don't like his keeping her in suspense cos he doesn't want to define their relationship and if u had read a bit more, u would notice that I told her to run from pre-marital sex. I am one of those ppl that blvs that if a man is askin for sex then he is not ready to settle down. Even if I maybe wrong but I don't support pre-marital sex and don't paint me black Mr Man.

Yes you ve explained your point earlier so no wahala.
We ve known each other for only 2 months so no hurry.

sub_zero: Babe relax! U jux dey defend dis guy anyhow. Ur name na defender? U asked 4 ppls opinon, they r givin u yet u'r countering their opinion.
2d topic; U said he's financially made. Ask him whr is he sleeping at d moment. If he says its on a mat, den u can wait till he buys d bed he told u of. But if he has a house n he's sleeping on a bed, wich i beliv he's not sleeping on d floor, tel him u want 2 sleep wit him on dat bed. If he says NO, he's only using u as a Ludo game.
Girls eeh! Very easy 2 toss like a dice

*sighs*
I'm not defending the guy, just that people are not really understading my post. As you can see, some are saying I'm desperate to bed him! So I just have to correct them and draw them to what I'm trying to say. And I can see that you are just one of them. Did I ask you to tell me how I can sleep on his bed? So why are you now advicing me to tell him I want to sleep on his bed Pls don't forget iv known him for only two months!
Lord have mercy!
Reading btw the lines of your post, it seems to me like you have the same problem with tashanja So

pro01: There are different levels of 'broke': we have OWU, and then we have its dreadful elder brother - the merciless OWUITE. If you are experiencing OWU, but you're lucky to be blessed with good looks and some exposure and faked confidence, you might still manage to pull off some stunt with fairly OK girls every now and then. But my brother, if na OWUITE dem take swear for you, then you're better off dead. You can't afford to buy okirika clothes to even pretend to look good; you can't spare N200 to buy suya and Maltina for the hoodrat you want to shag; you can't even afford to buy condoms when you manage to find a mad woman on the road side that has compassionately agreed to relieve you of konji. In fact, the misery cannot be described effectively with mere words.

Laugh wan kill me o!