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kitty kat: Ask the mods to close this thread unless u want inuslts from slow ppl.

tashanja: Hmmn here's my take on this:

OP is in what I'll say, an emotional relationship, since they are doing eveything bf/gf do except sex.
While the guy is not ready to commit or have sex till he buys a bed - not that he cannot afford one; nor is he impotent but quite normal with normal sex drive and freely bedding other girls with no strings attached - OP is asking what does he mean.

@ OP:
He is saying while he is currently happy to keep you at bay but insterested, you should appreciate that he already has his plate full with those girls he is bedding; you should therefore be patient enough to wait in line and when its your turn you should expect him to buy a special bed on which he would ravishly phuck you without committment just like the others before you - since he told you he's not ready to commit but you are not listening; so keep hoping ang waiting.

tashanja: Hmmn here's my take on this:

OP is in what I'll say, an emotional relationship, since they are doing eveything bf/gf do except sex.
While the guy is not ready to commit or have sex till he buys a bed - not that he cannot afford one; nor is he impotent but quite normal with normal sex drive and freely bedding other girls with no strings attached - OP is asking what does he mean.

@ OP:
He is saying while he is currently happy to keep you at bay but insterested, you should appreciate that he already has his plate full with those girls he is bedding; you should therefore be patient enough to wait in line and when its your turn you should expect him to buy a special bed on which he would ravishly phuck you without committment just like the others before you - since he told you he's not ready to commit but you are not listening; so keep hoping ang waiting.

naijathings: [size=16pt]the only reason you are curious is that you want to furk him. but you do not want to be the one to make the move so you dont want to look like a whhore.
and the guy is not really into you and you are wondering why he is not rushing you like other guys used to rush your pussiy.
Hey guys.. Hey ladies, if a guy is really into a girl and he kisses and touches and fingers and she sucks his diek.. why wouldnt he want to furk her?
and how would the lady feel if he dont furk her? she would start to ask why. and thats what this OP is doing.. looking for clues.
now you are looking for a reason why and you want to break his 'DA VINCI CODE' so you can finally furk him.
that is why you brought the code here for everyone to help you crack it (buy a bed code).
go ahead and deny it again that you are not interested in furking him.[/size]

Smuthx: checked your profile pix. you look fine. Not beautiful is out of the way.

1st your guy maybe those people that dont enjoying doing 'the thing'. too much S*x can make it boring and no more interesting. From what you said, had previous gfs. its possible his s*x drive is low. Seen two or twice women's unclothedness seen them all. No extra incentive again.

Does he touch you emotionally using physical or sweet words. Has he kissed you without you giving him the inital sign.

hope he is not the type of guy that have done it many times before with different ladies that he loses interest in doing it

binger: bwahaha!...u want an e-tussle,i guess

lagerwhenindoubt: dude is pulling your pink bunion - he's gay

Catch_fire: Nne, you're yet to bring it out, the way it should be brought out.

Nweputaya ka osieeeee!!

kitty kat: Its too earyl to talk about marriage but ur emotions are already there. You need something to distract you so that you don't keep thinkingg about him too much.
He hasn't made up his mind like u ritely pointed out and mite nveer make up his mind. Its 50:50. Just guard her heart jealously




Pls run from the sex demanding guys.

kokosheen: Dude, check out OP's pix.... She's fine oooo

Sweetlemon, your BF is trying....






([size=5pt]or is he gay[/size])

kitty kat: It depends on you though, as for me I prefer men that are straightforward. I like his take on the sex thing but I don't like the fact that he is keeping you in suspense. Try and meet more nice guys like him so that you don't sit around and keep wondering. Its not always wise to keep aitinG for a man to make up his mind. Keep makinG ur own plans until he makes up his mind. If u r still single then u two can mingle but if u hv met another sweet Guy then its his loss.

kitty kat: I am 100percent on ur side babe. I am only trying to help not judge u one bit. Did this man tell you that both of you are in a relationship?

Did he ask you to marry him?

k2039: See me see trouble,if the guy asks for sex to early wahala,if he doesnt ask for sex another wahala.

I think the bed he wants to buy is your marital bed,so probably he is keeping you for marriage

kitty kat: When a guy says he doesn't need a ggf at a particular time in his life. He means it. Pls don't hurt urself aitin for him or tryin to convince him. The man means what he said.

If I were you, I wld start looking for someone else to spend my emotion on.

dammytex: then I think its just a humourous response while trying to take his time.

My question is; are you desperate to bed him?

dammytex: Reason number 1
He could be pretending for now to earn your total respect and trust completely so that when he starts, its just going to be all the way at anytime, anywhere and anyplace. Maybe he wants you to know he's different thereby requesting for a different service afterwards.

Reason number 2
Maybe he's just a gentleman. He doesn't want to take you unjustifiably so that heartbreaks won't be involved later. Or better still, he wants to achieve "sex after wedding" with you.

Reason number 3
Maybe he's just one of the rare good guys. He has another girlfriend and he does not want to just use you or he doesn't want to cheat on his girl friend.

Mynd_44: Is it too difficult? How can we know what he meant when even you his girl gon't?
Ask him its better than this

kokosheen: The guy probably wants to make money first. Then he can afford to bed you at will.

You've got a keeper, don't mess up

gonon: I use to say Goodnight until i was taken for a ride by a woman.. From then on, till now, its strictly "OK". Once beaten twice shy

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Must be his 11th finger. . .
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sexkillz: [color=#000030]His what?
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sexkillz: [color=#000030]Did you bother to ask the 2 guys involved first, or are you just here to disturb our peace and malign guys?
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ehie: @SWEETLEMON
In refrence to 48 LAWS OF POWER

you are Law 19
The Hopelessly Insecure Man

This man is related to the proud and arrogant type, but is less violent and harder to spot. His ego is fragile, his sense of self insecure, and if he feels himself deceived or attacked, the hurt will simmer.
He will attack you in bites that will take forever to get big enough for you to notice. If you find you have deceived or harmed such a man, disappear for a long time. Do not stay around him or he will nibble you to death.