₦airaland Forum

amadice: ....rhy u no apply if u think your better.....stop dis condemination....learn to b appreciative

J12: On a serious note sha, naija girls no fine.

ndidibabe: It irritates me when someone hides behind a Pentium 1, windows 98 PC just to condemn every good thing. If this Girls are average by your standard, could you please post pictures of Nigerian Girls you consider beautiful?

CFCfan: He has to have an erec'tion

LaurelP: I don't believe that if a man doesn't make sexual advances at a lady, something is wrong with him

nonjebose: v Got to be a rich and faithful guy for you. Or are all men dangerous

IrishKez: Maybe or maybe not

All am saying is that those things your mum told you that you felt are out of date or not entirely to be taken at face value now worked for them then during their time and still are remotely applicable even now. The only thing that changed is the thinking and the reasoning ability of people in our time which are largely influenced by modernization, advent of technology, education etc

CFCfan: Noted. But do you do puppies and kittens?

CFCfan: Wetin happen?

IrishKez: Like seriously the Op captured the interest of most men here in her write up but most of the claims are subjective.
There are no basis to categorically rule out the fact that some men,
1)Are only married to those whom they have passionate love to. Not all men are married to any lady cos of family or societal pressures. Again for those who married not necessarily for love there are chances that they'll come to love their wives(each other) after marriage(sometimes this is generally dependent on the character of the woman and man). This is possible cos marriage brings you both more closer and you come to share so many intimacy(this with the exclusion of sex includes knowing the secret person of the heart, and being endeared by these as they come to the fore)

2)I know that our generation mostly have a uniform way of thinking and responding to issues like this and as such might easily give up or dislike a hard to get lady. But the good news is that there are some crop of men out there that appreciates a lady and even love them the more after they had gone out of their way to get them. For them it's an aphrodisiac of a sort while to others it is a sign of good parenting(it is debatable though). Yes some guys like that exist!

3) The rule in two above generally applies to the third submission by the Op

4) This is usually seen among devout Christians and real gentlemen or I'd rather say men with an unbending policy. They may be in love with a certain sister/lady but out of respect for God/for the lady to whom they're in love with and or for their humble self have refused to lay down with them until their wedding night. It's not because our society have turned good to look like evil and vice versa that will make one make such submission without giving recurs to the good guys out there.

5) Need I say more on this. There are different characters of men Op. I might agree that they may be in the lesser number but they prefer good low key girls to the perceived wild or outgoing ones. Its a different stoke for different peeps.


Interesting read I must admit though.

CFCfan: I like cougars

CFCfan: Nothing. I just knew that I'm younger

CFCfan: Body dey kampe. I'm on vacation from work

I now know your age

CFCfan: Those kind of men are simply players. But there needs to be a referee to control the 'player instinct'.

banega: Oh, okay •

banega: Very educating piece Op, buh what in God's earth is toto ? ah think that word is inappropriate,. If you ask mee• • •

OohMpa: [color=#808000]Ooh Mpa loves this chick. She must be good in bed....


And one more thing, to those virgins waiting till marriage:
Get rid of those myths that men have 10 inches dïck. It's a mere fallacy, a lie conned from the women themselves!!!!
We men have only 5-6 inches. So stop hoping

It's been shown the more you virgins wait till marriage, the shorter dïck your man will have. If you marry at 28, you get winnie. At 35 year old, you get toothpick...
So, take out those boys you friend zoned and start blowing [/color]

RedClay: “It is after marriage that you know EXACTLY who you have married.” Big Contradiction With The Latter.

RedClay: “So do not marry a man that doesn't love you.”

la furia: Agreed, he shouldn't have canceled it but do you blame him? You saw what happened in ekiti, Fayemi insisted on the competency test but they voted him out. Most Nigerians are only interested in short term goals even if leads to a terrible long term effect. The reason people vote for who in Nigeria is very very trivial, to some oh he distributed milo during Ramadan, oh he distributed fowl during Xmas, it really disheartening.

I read fashola article on the ekiti elections and he was perplexed at the ekiti people.

We are so underdeveloped that any long term goal is a no no.

If you intend to fight corruption in ground level starting from the local government, they people will hate, the prefer they should be left while you concrete on some aimless project like building mall, roads etc don't just touch the daily bread.
I want a better now Nigerians are not ready.

I'm just tired of Nigerian people. For now governors can do whatever they like. Can't you see even osun governor is reverting some of his policy. Smh

Sigh!

tit: APC! OUT!

HNosegbe: Well like I said, he should have gone ahead with the dismissal while designing a scheme to retrain them in some new skills or a soft loan to start a business. Recalling them because of political considerations is not a good course of action at all. Why should we sacrifice the future of our kids on the altar of political expediency?

nwanna89: Bauchi, Jos and Kaduna nko? Are they opposition states too?