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Samantha123:
I'm not here to discuss about my body figure, please show some respect.

This is why some Nigerian women end up playing you guys like a piano.. you claim to like someone, but all you're interested in is the person's body.

Good you know the type of person he is. I saw one of his messages about Nigerian girls. That is how I know he is one of those wannabie red guys who slander our women. How will you take such guys serious.

BanyXchi:
Omo I'm tired of 9ja women their wahala too much, I like SA women because of their vibes and big ukwus

I was reading your love language with Samantha until you spilled this rubbish about Nigerian girls. Please Sama..don't take him serious. If he can't respect our women here , he won't also respect you. He is just after one particular thing.

This one should be your Aunty nah. How manage were you able to woo her knowing she is far older than you with kids. Nawa ooo. Some guys dey sha. The problem lies with the sex you had with her being the first time for you. We men always cherish the first sex especially when it comes with full access to the kpekus not rush rush or hide and seek thing . That's why it is turning your head right now. You can't think well right now believe me. Let me save my advice

dauntless15:
If I even end up with Nigerian na miracle, I don't have them now when I have nothing, na later she wan show lol.

Some have said this same thing until they meet the right Nigerian woman for them. The disgust you find in Nigerian girls are also in other nationals. So I don't understand why some of you just use the word carelessly

kaycshine:
Build with him my foot! That's the mistake some of us made. Nigerian men will never change once they start picking small cash that's when they remember you are no longer suitable for them that you are too old, not neat, not educated etc, they quickly forgets the days of humble beginning and start going for the sweet sixteen. So here's my stand, in my next world I'm going for the Already guys

You have a good point because it is part of the reality of today's happenings. Some men will discard you once they make it big. The only problem I have with most ladies that claimed to be building with aman is that they remain idle while with this man. They refused to build themselves so that when the man is reaching is heights, you are also reaching yours. With this, I don't think any right thinking man will abandon such woman. Except rare cases.

gabicon:
A bigger question will be "why can't our young ladies be made women? Why must they be subject to the status of a man?

The society they live in has made it a norm for them to be dependent on a man. If you want to change the narrative, start from your little girl child.

dauntless15:
Any girl that comes into my life after I have already made it won't be taken seriously, as far as I'm concerned you don't love me, na wetin I get you love and I'd never make any serious commitment with you, where were you when I had nothing, let's not decieve ourselves.

She was also building herself while you were building yours. So why can't both of you come together and reach greatness. Don't you want a woman like that?

Helpout12345:
1. If she intends to keep the pregnancy, she should inform the boyfriend's family. Keeping the pregnancy is her sole decision in this case. If she intend to abort, she should visit an hospital and not do quack abortion that can claim her life.

2. Her choices should be based on her current financial status and her own family support available.

3. If she has good financial status or her family supports, she should approach the welfare system to get her son back from the boyfriend's family. Otherwise she can leave the son with them if they can take care of the boy better but fight at the welfare for reasonable visitations between both her and her son both ways.

4. She should remember that she has no legal backing to compell any of her boyfriend's family members for any financial support towards the son. They can only do voluntarily.

Every options you need is in this comment. Choose the most suitable one in your present state. Anything you do outside this options will be sentimental to the child's welfare and future.

I read somewhere where you said you are educated. Going to school doesn't mean you will be smart or intelligent. You are a driver and you are proud of giving birth to four and planning to do more. This means you are daft and not planning a future for those kids. As a driver what quality of education can you provide those kids right now? What if you die tomorrow because you guys don't ever think of that as Africans. Do you think what you have on ground now can take care of those kids? Our fathers made huge mistake giving birth to multitude without proper planning. How can you not realize the mistakes of your father and learn from it. The value you create before leaving this world is the legacy you live behind not the numbers of children you give birth to. You are being selfish if giving birth is making you happy even though it doesn't benefits the innocent children you are bringing to this world.

Some Landlords are crazy. My cousin told me his Landlord refused to give any of the Tenants key to the main gate. He locks it by 8.00pm and will shout at you when you come home after that time. They are just 3 tenants. He said he nearly broke down the gate a day he came by 9pm and was hitting the gate for almost 30 mins without him coming out to open it . It sounds insane to me when he was narrating it. You have to teach this one a big lesson so that he won't take other tenants for granted in the future.

I believe rival fans will give Haaland the credit he deserved now since he has shown that he can do it against a top team like Manutd with a high praise of Martinez trying to stop him

The Beast Haaland has scored..fucking beast

Mancity is bullying Manutd in this match as if they are playing one small team

Chaos14:
I be liverpool fan. But i really hate man-city

I really understood your points because if not for Mancity.... Liverpool should have lifted atleast 4 EPL in the past 5 seasons.

You downloaded the app and fill the necessary details in your sign up form and went ahead to request a loan then come to nairalander and say it was a mistake. Nawa oo for some people sha

seunny4lif:
Brighton is the best team in the world behind Manchester Utd

why won't you say this when they are beating your bitter rival

Something is wrong with Liverpool's defense aswear... Brighton is penetrating easily.

Dollywood:
Better than attacking and still losing the match. Whatever works for him, man.

No team has won the league with a defensive mindset in the past 10 seasons and more. Why do you think Mancity and Liverpool stand a better chance of winning the league every season. Is it to have Salah, Haaland, Foden, Diaz, Nunez, KDB and be parking the bus. One mumu was asking me how old am I..when I have been following the game before he was born.

Well deserved red card. It was a reckless challenge from Emerson Royal

Jesus has done it again..Goal from. Arsenal

Angelfrost:
That team has never really impressed me... Not since they needed a poor/sympathetic referee to get a draw against an average Tuchel's team.

I don't rate them at all!

When I cancelled Conte tactics is when I watched their game against Nothinham forest and saw TOteham defending against such a lowly side. Though they won the match. How can you be defending against a small club like that. Ofcos he will surely defend against all the big team. How can you have Kane, Son, Richarlison and Perisic and be defending against any side. Who does that if not Conte

Toteham did not deserved this goal they got via penalty. They were not playing anything useful.

Goal from Arsenal...1 nil

I was rooting for Arsenal to win until I saw bet9ja gave Toteham 3.55. How can you give that kind of points and expect even Arsenal fan not to bet on TOteham to win.because it is very possible

What a foolish man. You don't need to pity him. Some people need to learn from experience so that it stick with them till the rest of their life.
The wise ones choose to learn from others mistakes so that they will have success that will last.

Some of you want poverty to disappear over night when the country is in shambles. Millions of people are raised in one room and it won't stop today or next 20 years in Nigeria. You are talking of a country where so many graduates are paid less than ordinary 50k and you expect them to live in flats.haba where una keep una sense sef. Parents need to find a better way to have sex even in one room especially the way this children learn things so fast and quick. Some also choose to be negligent and irresponsible towards training this kids. So please don't expect people not to live in one room and raise kids. It will be as if you are denying the reality of things around you.

Marrying at the most convenient time makes you understand alot about marriage before going into it. I would have live a frustrated life if I had marry earlier in my life because I would have married due to family pressure or fulfilling all righteousness of becoming a married man. I can't count how many premature marriages I have witness and I felt pity for the couples and the family they are raising. Now in my mid thirties, I understand what responsibility and sacrifice I would have to make in my marriage. I understand that my partner must be ready to do same sacrifice with me. Alot I can't explain here to avoid lengthy post. Marriage is not meant for babies to marry babies or teens to marry teens or premature to marry premature. Marriage is something you need to prepare for before going into it. And I am saying this for both gender.

If you can't date someone from another tribe, the same way you will see people who won't date from your tribe. Nonsense posts.
I have dated girls from Igbo, yoruba, akwa ibom and Edo. I can't say their behavior is attached to their ethnicity. Maybe I am the only one who date sane people on this thread. Every tribe has bad people and good people. Stop hasty generalization.

Samantha123:
But the same men need to understand that no means no.. I do ignore, but some don't want to get it and keep on sending those emails over and over again and it's becoming annoying..

So you think you are the only one that they are sending this emails? Think again! Yours might be little compare to what some ladies would have experienced. Just ignore and over time they will get over it. My gender can be mumuish when it comes to looking for sex. Except you want to chase clout yourself.

People that say when a girl is brainless, it is her vjay that will suffer it..it was meant for your type. Which God are you calling..maybe it is your village god sha

Better don't let the whites deceived you when it comes to punishment. Certain punishment works for us here do to our upbringing and environment. Anybody flogging a toddler should be arrested..haba they are too small. You just spank them. Moreover use what works for you as parents. Don't try to copy others just study your kids and apply necessary punishment that can bring them to order.

Teenaira:
I will like to vote for a youth. Nigerian presidency will be too challenging for his age.

A youth contesting right now? Please name the person so I might go your root once I see he has better experience than Obi. Please mention let me see.