₦airaland Forum

Ishilove:
This is an era of equal opportunities. They not only dig it, they mine it.

you ladies are crazy iswear. Abeg we still dey digging levels..those ones Poco posted are mainly digging, not yet mining.

cococandy:
A good number of the women you see get married each weekend are in their 30s. If I personally know more than 5 Nigerian women in their 30 get married this past couple of months, what does that tell you? People I went to school with. Late 20s to mid 30s all getting married like clockwork.

I don’t know why NL is a den of perpetuating false and unrealistic narratives. 30+ is increasingly the marriage age I’ve been noticing recently.

You should know that they just like throwing tantrums, just like the one you did above, stating that there is no childless and criminal mindless man above 30. What will you call that yourself? Infact most marriages I see this days are older ladies in their 30+.

Wifeneeded:
Sure why not, provided she is a matured woman and truly ready to settle down

Okay. Send me a dm so that we can take it from there.

You will surely see with time, just continue to search. There are good women out there especially if someone recommend it for you as a good woman because he would know a little about her. I have one I can recommend for you. The rest is upto you. Reply me if you are interested.

I doubt a woman like you truly understands what a successful home looks like. A man can care for you and also love you but should never take rubbish from you, by so doing, you will be rightly protected and cares to do something reasonable most times. But I guess you want the opposite of this. You want a man you can easily tell.."dear, I want to travel with my male bestie for a trad and I will be back in a week's time". He will applaud you and give you tfare without any question. I pray you meet such a man.

Marriage is an institution that is difficult to understand and govern. And there is never a formula for a successful marriage. You just have to both work it out as you go. Atleast this is what I have seen so far. How can two people be together for over six years and yet you don't have a definite marriage process to work with. What have you guys being doing over those years. I guess just sleeping with each other regularly without no proper plan for the future. Pls you guys should just stop the marriage and go your separate ways if after 6 years, both of you cannot do a marriage that you can agreed to.

WhatchDoGG:
U see how ignorant u are? So for ur little crayfish mind u think US is the sole sponsor if NATO....for your info NATO's wellbeing is the collective responsibility of the member States....so don't go about misinforming the gullible ones

US has the highest share holder in NATO which gives them controlling power. If you don't know that, there is nothing I can tell you again.

uniquetechng:
Don't believe or trust Americans , they are masters in mind games.

US keep developing dangerous weapons without announcing or making details public.

Remember US annual defence budget is $750bn annually while that of Russia is $56bn , so what do you think America do with $750bn defence budget annually ? Yeah building unclassified weapons.

Till this day no one knows the bomb US used in Hiroshima, not even the Russians can tell.

Mr Man I can say you are saying gebberish. US is using that huge amount because they pokenose into other countries business, doing their policing with military presence using NATO, that's why they have to spend much. It is simple as that, not this unimaginable weapons you are talking about.

Gadafii:
I talk before I dey talk am again

People wey normal for this country we no pass 10

If you remove me and you now, e go remain 8. Maybe they are here too. You can't tell..

wethebest:
False. Two of my ex have invited me to their wedding despite they knw that i am married . I have only attended one and during dat wedding week, i still nack d babe. The guy no fine reach me or even get half of my assets. Babe jst wanna settle down cox age no dey her side again. I went with my goons nd blv me, we sprayed her nothing less than 200k. I guess that ws why she needed me at the party.

The same scenario might have played out against you too. Your wife probably invited her ex during your wedding and she got a quickie at the toilet or somewhere conducive. Just thinking out loud..no offense

LesbianBoy:
People like you is the reason I am so confident the country will never get better at least not in th next 100 years. 3 weeks ago the amount of billions (in double and triple figures o) that have been declared missing has surpassed whatsoever that was stolen under Jonathan. And those are not the only billions stolen in this buhari tenure o.

Some of us knew that it would be worst under buhari and I am sure many of you who voted buhari deep down knew......but hatred and tribalism was just too much inside of you guys that you all voted the buhari in 2015 and even reelected the Dullard in 2019

Nigeria will never get better because of people like you. The GEJ fanatics like you don't want to accept that yes things turns out to be worst under Buhari doesn't mean Nigeria doesn't need a change under GEJ. Go to Google and type Alison deal with Dominican republic to get a glimpse of Corruption under GEJ. The second set is Buhari apologists that don't want to accept that Buhari is a total failure, they are still bend on holding GEJ responsible even After 7 years plus. This set of people will never make Nigeria better. So I agree with you that Nigeria will never be better.

LesbianBoy:
Yes we get it. Everything in Nigeria is bad and all that and there are so many hilarious things we see on a daily.

But what is that one story or stories especially in politics that broke in the media whether internet, newspapers etc and you were like....

"shey my eye dey pain me abi wetin be this?" (in skit maker lasisi elenu voice)

Or

"Nigeria true true suppose dey Netflix sha WTF"

Or

"is this playing, what type of playing is this?"

Or

"Ahhh, Nigeria is truly a joke sha"


So I ask what is that political story?


So I will go first.....


When buhari was gaining momentum and was declared 2015 presidential election winner. it was at that moment I knew Nigeria might not be good again. I mean, some of us saw or read of how buhari perform in the past and how he was talking anyhow when he was out of power. So how he managed to deceive lots of people that he has changed and will turn Nigeria around still dey baffle me.

When people in politics come out and say buhari has integrity or when APC supporters try to exonerate buhari from the corruption going on in APC. I find this really surprising because all the criminals in APC that have been accuse of stealing billions are seen almost immediately going to dine with buhari in aso rock

When politicians are hale and hearty whether APC or PDP but as soon as EFCC comes for them, fainting and sickness everywhere

The kind of people that have declared to run for president. As I am typing this I even heard that INEC chairman who should be concerned about how to give us free and fair elections wants to contest too. No be juju be that?

When Minister of labour ngige said the government doesn't have money to give ASUU but he and others 100 million naira to waste. (yes because we all know he doesn't even stand a chance to win).


I will stop here. This is just a fun thread guys so drop yours let's read

If by now you still don't get why Buhari was massively voted for in 2015, then I must say you are still living in denial yourself. People want change because GEJ govt. corruption index was at it peak. Should I mention Dansuki, or Madueke Alison or Patience, I can go on. Crude was being sold at the highest point. Your concern if they were genuine should be how in God's name did Buhari won again in 2019?? I mean failure in all ramifications in this govt. And some zombies will still never accept his failures. What a country.

This is definitely a fictional story. How can you be this descriptive yet did not include how you might get help via calling your loved ones. Well once you relax you can go to police station to report since your husband won't tie you down eternity. Nevertheless a very superb sympathetic story telling epistle.

Prettygirl200:
Madam u better mind your business oooo

Most of you that acts like this is either you are complicit of the same crime or you are a hypocrite. You must surely be one. How can you have a good friend and he or she notices something odd and couldn't tell you, all in the name that they are minding their business. Well you must still be a teenager who doesn't know what true friend is all about.

You have some valid points however I don't expect Atiku to win any state in the South here. South belongs to Obidient and Tinubu. Common man, who is in their right senses as a Southerner who vote for another Fulani man after the torment Buhari used herdsmen to raid on us. Even when we told him the way forward, he still did not agree. Are you telling me an average Ibo, yoruba, Edo, bayelsan and the likes will willingly vote another Fulani man? This is where I don't get you, except you have concluded we in the south here are fools and will continue to be so. Or do you expect Atiku to use Iron hands on Fulani herdsmen or Bandits or BokoHaram? Sometimes I just weep for my southern brothers and sisters like you who prefer to remain slaves to this Fulani people. How in God's name and equity should any Northerner wants to vie for president after Buhari has ruled for 8 solid years. It is still beyond my understanding. Worst of it is for a Southerner to campaign for them despite the suffering they waylay on us . I know I will vote for Obidient because he is simply the best candidate amongst all. Insecurity is at the highest point in this country and majority is caused by hausas and their Fulani counterpart and you expect Atiku, another Fulani man to fight them with iron hands, I can't stop laughing at the foolishness of my southern brothers.
Therefore I don't expect Atiku to even win a single state in Southern Nigeria despite I know some coconut head here will still vote him.
Tinubu is noth different from Buhari, he will be going from one medical check up to the other. That is why Obi is the best candidate nation wide, but if the northerners that wants to remain backward forever will not vote him, shouldn't we the Southerner do.

If the woman doesn't understand any of those picx, nah HBP go kill her before she reach home.

emmanuelbrown26:
As for op, never u believe anything that comes from Nairaland transgendered dem, they are all same but comes in different ways.
Op just ask her for small change now and u will see her telling u stories of how bad market has being going on, but she leaves early without doing anything in d house. Very soon, I mean if care is not taken na like dis u go turn to man alone, is better u correct every nonsense she's displaying now before its too late.
Bcs one of d things about women is this, if u start doing something for them and u fails to do a particular day, my brother na there wahala go start. Watch out bro

In as much as I agreed that most ladies support their own even if what she does is bad. Atleast I have witnessed alot of that here. When it comes to this case the OP narrated, I don't see what he is gloating about.
He already said the wife's goes to market early every Monday morning. So that is a routine in which he is aware of. If she does that once every week and she contribute 25% finances to the home since the man already told us what he contributes. With this I believe he is just a nag and wants to create trouble where there is none. It's your marriage, if you think that method is not productive to your home, sit your wife down and iron it critically.

Most youthful men in this forum are toxic human beings. How can a thread to ask a simple question turn into tribal abuse from both the Igbo folks and their Yoruba counter parts. This two tribes are the problem of the South. Always trying to outsmart each other. They believe their existence is more important than other tribes in South here.

WesternOligarch:
I'd rather my daughter marry a Yoruba muslim than an nyamiri pig. Marrying nyamiri pigs is like making one's self a third class citizen in nigeria. Tribe before religion.

The thread is talking about religion marriage, you brought tribalism into it. The hatred inside some of you can boil yam.

koyyess:
Nothing impresses me. Sha don't be a useless red piller.

Does a person tells u he is a redpiller while dating them? Or you just conclude because he doesn't take shit. Please make me understand you.

Lies, cheats among others. I lose interest immediately I confirm this specific traits is part of your life

Desperados:
This particular word "LOVE" has destroyed more youths today in west africa and mostly this country and is still destroying more.


That word is yet to exist in this country so stop deceiving yourselves.

I have none to offer except family and the one from God.

In summary, you are saying no good thing can come from two people professing love to each other? Or they can never mean it even when they say it .

TheKrakon:
Yes E dey funny, but things are better done in moderation. But for that vawulence the word dey annoy me.

What is annoying you in the word? You guys just make things difficult for yourselves. Simple image to laugh over, u are taking it as if your life depends on it..Nawa oooo..how do u find joy self..u need enough Vawulence in your life..aswear

ImaIma1:
Apt @ the bolded.

That's how I reason to. If someone doesn't think there can be good men or good people, it's as a result of how the person is. He/She will view life and others through their own selves.

I wonder my sister, shouldn't you know you have shot yourself on the foot whenever anyone uses such phrase. No thinking cap

African parents are the most entitled being in the whole universe. They don't train you to be independent but rather prefer to train you to pay them back at their old age.
Some will go as far as telling her married daughter how to run her home even the sons too. They will tell the children what they want them to study in school even if it does not tally with what the child has in mind. They are very selfish and greedy, not all but most of them.
If you don't break from them, you will likely repeat the same thing with your own children.
They know what to say to put depression inside you and make you feel ingrate. Some of them will never ever apologize no matter what wrong they did to you.
Thank goodness I learnt early in life never to imbibe those ugly characters from my parents.

Some of you just want everything to be bad. How is it difficult for you to believe that there are good men out there just as there are good women. Yes, majority might be bad but for you to believe that no good men or marriages in our society shows you lack exposure, intellectual capabilities, ability to reason beyond your scope and have bad energy in you. Finally you automatically deem yourself bad because if I am good, I will also easily believe that there are people like me out there. Is this too much for you to comprehend?

When we advocate that women should equip themselves to be independent to their man, this is where we are driving to.
You can't try this in a man's home, he would have chase you away, but here you are despite knowing the consequences his actions can bring on you, you still want to satisfy him.
Someone you should have stopped having sex with or move out, you are here asking when he will start initiating sex. I can't stop laughing.
Abeg continue your marriage as you dim fit.
Me I be single man ooo..what do I know about marriage.
Until you ladies stop being a parasite to your husband and learn to be of value to him. You guys will continue to suffer like this, because every man respect and fear to lose a valuable woman and will not dare do rubbish to her because he will know that if I lose this woman, I will regret it for the rest of my life.

I don't need to ask you what you are bringing to the table since I won't approach you and marry you immediately. As I am getting to know you, I should know if you have something you are bringing to the table. So once I see you have nothing to bring, I discard you and move to the next one.
So the more time you spend with your bf/gf, you should know if they have something to offer or empty pussy or dick.
No need to waste your time asking such question, except you aren't smart yourself.

johnnychuks:
is not about your happiness all the way is all about your father and mother land, help the up coming generation. that is the reasons I said must of you parents of now are days are selfish.

So my marriage shouldn't be about my happiness but about my father and mother that have lived their life. Some of you still don't know what marriage is. Marriage is distinctly between you, your wife and children if any. Every other people including your parents are secondary. Until we understand such arrangements we will continue to mess it up.

johnnychuks:
the guy should go and look for his Yoruba sister, that's the reason why you should marry from your tribe, to avoid issues like this, marrying from deferent tribe also affect the children too, but must parents are selfish they don't care about the generation they are bring on earth, if you like quote I will tell you more reasons is good to marry from your tribe.

So what will happen if I marry a white woman, or a carribean lady or an India woman? Some of you just got educated for nothing. Waste of education. How don't know how many times we have to tell you guys that where you married from doesn't determine your happiness in the marriage. Primitive humans still lives in Africa.

This service is still on for interested persons.

kenbee:
Definitely, Peter Obi is gradually becoming a movement. Those that oppose Peter Obi are doing so because they don't want him to be the one to put Nigeria on the right track. "Pure envy and hatred"
Peter Obi we know

My sister is not a matter of envy and hatred. Nigeria cannot be better atleast not in this life time. How can only 5% of the leaders be good and the others are bad. Don't waste your time to put your energy on who becomes the president because they will never allow an eligible person to come and scatter their corrupt practices, it won't happen.