₦airaland Forum

ahnie:
Thought your gender said... Nigerian girls are useless?
But your gender is in such a hurry to wife one.

So you want me to tell you that some are useless, as if you have not met them yourself. It is just like saying you don't know that there are irresponsible guys out there..mteew dey play

Bukola94:
If they sack him it is not fair,but it will help the club and it may shape is coaching career.Arsenal management will be sending a strong message if they sack him. the incoming coach will sit up and know the challenge ahead,any coach wey no win the league after 2yrs,fire am.

You are funny by writing it will send a strong message. What message...haba.. Arsenal goal this season was to try to make top four. Now they have eclipse that challenge. You think other teams are joking? Or you think if Manutd, Liverpool and Chelsea were okay, Arsenal will be in that position. It doesn't matter their current position when the league ends. They have earned much respect and deserved accolades because they are competing with a Mancity sides that has set the bar so high for anyone aiming to get to the top. Imagine needing 90+ points to win a league that previous challengers have won with 70 and 80+ easily. Just take Liverpool as an example of reaching 92 and 97 points and yet did not carry the league because of this same Mancity. What does that tells you?

Arsenal shows that they are not champions material. They could have gone 4 nil down already.it was just their keeper that still made this game respectable to watch. I think after losing this match, they should know that Mancity will definitely lift the EPL this season.

Karleb:
If you are a serious person, it should be your fault whether man or woman.

But man should take responsibility here, women are emotional and most are broke, na you go still dey take care of the family including yourself, so why leave such to the care of a woman?

Your last statement should make every man reasonable to take charge and not wait for the wife.

caandi:
Pls the both parties are to be blamed sometimes, but most especially the husband!!
I know of a friends elder sis who had issue with the husby cos of this same topic
Her baby was not upto two years, she was on a family planning method but it was not suitable for her body so she decided to stop it cos the negative impacts were more
Still trying to balance her life, she kept on telling her hubby the situation of things
The man blankly refused saying he wants a child
Anytime they get intimate this man will refuse using condom
She told him her body is not yet ready to carry another child
Atlast when the thing entered; she found out and told the man she was going to abort
The man went livid with anger and sent her packing to her fathers house saying all sort of rubbish
Ahswear Africans are too backward
If it were to be abroad
The man and woman would decide they don’t want to have children for some couple of years or hey Will adopt and African man will never agree to this
Even a poor man will be claiming his wife must birth 10 children for him cos his mum has dem many
Stupid mentality
Mtcheeww

Please stop hasty generalization about African men. Agreed that some are stupid and foolish, that's why they give birth to what they can't train. Well most times, they suffered for it by carrying responsibility beyond their power. You will now see them getting older than their peers and die early. Any of my generation that falls into this hell, I will never give a single fck about the person. The worst part is that most of this men are fully educated. Some will even further their studies after their first degree, yet simple family planning is a big deal to them.

Chelsea has surprised me in this match. They are ahead of Madrid in stats. They deserved to have take the lead. They still have the same problem..which is not knowing how to score goals. Is either they use their opportunity well or let Madrid come back to win them.

Yemike:
Man city was in the UCL semifinal pre Guardiola, won he league, FA, league cup pre Guardiola. They're paying him that huge fund to win the UCL. If City's got balls like Bayern they'll have shown him the exit door cuz he's not really lived up to expectations.

I hold nothing against Guardiola I just hate the fact that people like you rubbish the hard work of other coaches with balls.

Just look at Jurgen, Carlo? You've got to respect those genuises

Let me educate you a bit. Kaldoon and Pep have told you why Mancity signed him but you guys are just adamant not to believe both the coach and the chairman of the club. The reason he has not being sacked is because he has achieved his purpose according to the chairman of the club. Pep was signed to make Mancity top team in England and very strong in Europe. Which is what Mancity are today. Along that let him try to win the UCL. Today Mancity has turned EPL to farmers league that his opponents are not good enough if they don't play so much well for a long period, because without 90+ points this days you can't win the league which is what Pep brought to the league. In the UCL today, you can't face Mancity and not be shitting in your pant because they will compete with whoever it is head to head, no pushover. That is what Mancity has become and the club is very satisfied with that, which is why they can never sack him except he resigns himself. Now you got the reasons, or you still want to play dumb and argue endlessly?

Normally if we are to go by the institution of marriage, it is sensible that your spouse should be your next of kin. This days, you should rather go with the most trusted person in your life.

Reelmii:
my best sports are table tennis and swimming....swimming is wat i do to relax and have fun because unlike tennis where a partner is needed, swimming is something u can do alone and still enjoy....

So same reason some folks will never watch tennis because they don't find it interesting.

Reelmii:
one day wen i grow up, i will understand how people sit to watch football,,, until then, make i just dey read comments

Let's start from here, do you like any sports? What do you take as fun? Your response will determine the reasons why you don't watch football.

ThatrealestApex:
REAL MADRID 3-0 CHELSEA

Feel free to do the needful if you're not happy with my Prediction

Your prediction is dangerous to alot of people out there. Pls adjust it a little.
Thanks

This is one of the reasons you should check very well the kind of man or woman you want to marry. Your husband is the type that allows third parties to come into his matters because he doesn't have a mind of his. He doesn't understands what a nuclear family is. As long as you respect him and do your duties as a good wife, then you should be his first priority, because that is what the marriage contract is all about. Unfortunately he doesn't know this, so you are in for a long thing.

sukkot:
i am surprised at most of you people. You act like what Sharon said was wrong. You people act like you are not familiar with Nigerians. Everything with Nigerians is a dance. A dance of agbari aka the wayo dance. You play very humble and meek hoping the thief can dig into their conscience to pity the simpleton mugu. In playing humble and nice and meek some scammers have found their conscience and returned the money. But if you just come out all aggressive the scammer will never pity you and will be happy to take your money and curse you on top as we saw with this case. In this case this guy failed the wayo dance. After she has returned your money is when you unleash your anger on her and curse her out. That's how you do it. Coming out beating your chest like a gorilla would make the scammer very happy that he scammed you .

It seems we read different stories, because if you are talking of same post, then go and read it again. Are you talking of a scammer that I know her place and can easily trace according to the post. The guy even has all the chats details which makes it easy to deal with the woman. Abeg talk another thing.

1Sharon:
You don't even comprehend my post and you want to talk about "distant reasoning mentality"

I'm not responsible for your lack of comprehension.

What is there to comprehend when it is straight forward. Sometimes it is better to keep quiet in a matter than comments rubbish. Please edit that your first post, because it makes you look unintelligent and daft. What does respect got to do with a thief in disguise?

kestolove95:
My brother run for ur life.. Dot Nation women wey dey control Dia husband, swap ur real female child for a male child ND if you tire her she go cal her brothers submit ur picture make dem use u do rituals

Did you get this from personal experience or you decide to be naughty this afternoon.

For you to even have this igbophobic mindset means you should stay away from the tribe because your mind is already against it. Look for your tribes women and pick one and leave us that have liberal mindset to go for what we want irrespective of their tribe.

I actually did when I was in my SS2 class. The girl was older than me. She lured me into their flat and asked I removed my under wears. I refused except to allowed rubbing of my body and dragging my hand to touch her breast. I later ran out of the flat when she was persistent. Looking back today, I regret why I did not do it. That would have being my first attempt and she was very beautiful.
Chi pls forgive me anywhere you are, for I know not what I was doing then.

All this stupid and gullible parents we have. Your minor child needs deliverance, and yet your brain didn't tell you to be with them when it is going on. I guess the pastor will convince you to allow him alone with your female child for the deliverance to be perfect.
Foolish parents everywhere.

This Barca is too hot for Manutd.. atleast 4 to 1 is not too much

The CBN really failed in this process of currency redesign. How on earth is it difficult to make this new notes available, I just don't understand. How can you want people to stop using old notes when the new notes are not available. Does that even make sense to Emiefele? Here in Lagos, people are spending old notes. Infact as of today, POS vendors are still selling old notes to people. Let CBN and these commercial banks sort their house , so we can move on to the election proper.
Meanwhile anything short of voting for Peter Obi of Labour Party in the coming election is a failure on your side in moving Nigeria forward.

Eteka1:
FG is not CBN and CBN is not FG. The Supreme Court order was directed at FG, not CBN which is an independent body, not answerable to FG on it's policies.

Some of you just like wahala. You know the country you live in yet still don't understand how things go. Since FG has obeyed Supreme court verdict. FG via Buhari will just give Emiefele a call to obey the judgement. It is as simple as that. So all this Grammar you are trying to blow about who obeys who doesn't matter in a country like Nigeria. Or you believe CBN will not obey any instructions Buhari gives to them?

I don't get it. You mean someone like me who is yet to marry at 30+ is being affected spiritually? I don't understand we Africans. Even when you can see the changes in economical and social factors in the country, you still want to blame spirits for marriage delay.
Well I can marry now because I now have the means not because of those rubbish you put up there.

Some men are so foolish and stupid. This is clearly the height of irresponsibility. You have six children without proper care and you dare to have erection. This is what happens when two illiterates decide to marry each other.

It seems Gakpo is trying to overdo in this match. Instead of him to lay the ball to Keita, he fired wide. This is the second time he has done that in this match.

SmartPolician:
Ordinarily, I don't reply emotional idiots, but I will reply you so that others can learn.

That said, I didn't mention embezzlement anywhere in my post. My post is about project cost overestimation which is totally wrong.

Fashola overestimates project cost, and you can't tell me otherwise.

Normally I shouldn't reply fools like you, but I will.
According to you, fashola used 139m Naira for a project you thought worth maybe 60m right? So therefore he embezzle the rest.
So he couldn't award imaginary billions of contract and embezzle the money rather he decides to steal money from bore hole installations and a mere website?
The more you reply me the more stupid you appear.
So pls don't bother to reply this.

SmartPolician:
The meeting of the masters of project overestimation!

I have yet to meet a politician who fraudulently overestimates project cost like Fashola.

I gave up on this dude when he used 78m to maintain a website and 139m to sink two boreholes

Some of you don't have sense including you. A Governor that generated IGR of N15b monthly is accused of embezzling 139m and 78m and you took that serious. I can see how smart a politician you are. Fashola did wonderfully well that his two successors are yet to measure to his standard even after 8 years. His colleagues are embezzling billions and you think if he wants to embezzle in the richest state in the country, it will be millions. Your mumu no do you.

Brendaniel:
I asked because what ever they claim they are holding him for is what Nigerians have been crying for the past 7 years for him to be held for and they did not, now he changed policy and they remembered him...

Is that not hypocrisy....

You can't eat your cake and still have it. You want a better Nigeria and yet still give filmsy excuses of why DSS is going after someone with allegations against him.
It shouldn't matter if he should have being brought in 5 years ago or now. If he has nothing in his cupboard to hide, DSS will just waste their time like they did with Sanusi when he was also accused.
So please if you are not being paid to defend an accused persons, stop giving excuses for them.

Lionessza6:
What you're mostly likely going to get is a woman that's *ready* for marriage like yourself,who mostly likely will marry any man that offers himself to her . And there are a lot of dangers to that ; she ain't marrying you ,she's marrying the idea of marriage and when problems come knocking at your doorstep (and they will),that is when you will know the difference between marriage and a wedding . Anyways, good luck with your search for a wife.

That is exactly who he is looking for, to get someone like himself. Who is ready in all the parameters he listed.
You can't hide your true self in a relationship, except the other person just want to be in denial, which is what we do most of the times I believe you inclusive.
If you don't set what you want in a marriage before embarking on it, you will just marry any woman or man just for marry sake.
I don't know what you guys discussed in relationships or you guys just focused on spending, sexing, shopping etc.
Well the OP is right with his assertion. If you as a lady don't learn from this, You will just be jumping from one guy to the other.

justmyguy:
I know it won't be easy but is it possible?

Yes it is possible.

This will not be an easy feat for you to achieve because you can't really know someone until you date them and you said you want to marry whoever you date since all must fall into this year.

I have saidany times that no one cheats by mistakes. They cheat because it is what they want to do. So once a person cheat, he/she will surely do it again.
The earlier you know this, the better for you.

I am so worried for Chelsea tonight because they don't know how to score goals.
You can imagine only Halaand has more goals than the whole Chelsea team. That's not a good sign. Hopefully they don't suffer tonight.