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I mean what type of idiocy is that? What type of in-law flogs their son's wife ?? when i get married, if any member of my family dare try that he/she would surely visit the hospital. NO WONDER WHY OUR SOCIETY IS STILL BACKWARDS.

@Shapey

Hi sweet one, Your situation really touched me and it almost brought me to tears. I think i can relate to what you are going through and i know how your husband feel. One thing for sure is that the man really loves you but we men don't usually get things right in a situation like this. But i know that if he doesn't take a stand and stand firm by you, he will forever regret it because it seems that you are a very good wife. Take things easy and get on your knees and call on the Almighty. Our people can be very cruel at times. All these for an innocent laugh at a funny comment?? You did not kill your mother in-law and neither did you had a hand in her death. Clear your mind and call on the almighty, After a dark night comes a brighter day. Your sister in-law will get hers, it's called KARMA. Let your husband realize how good a wife he's got, it will be a lifetime scar in his heart if he allows lies and hatred to ruin a good home. share your thoughts with your sister and mother and please try and get some sleep O.K? We all love you and praying for you. Take care.

@Poster

I see a female finger on a piano !!

@Toyin

I have an idea of where to pierce for you, rings look good there.

This bank is among the banks that will soon crash, they are not as strong as everybody thought they were. As a matter of fact i heard they have started to lay off some workers.

You @sswipes must be Giants' fans, watch Packers kick that butt tonight. Go Tom Brady, Go Pats !!!!

@Debo25

Sorry for your loss bro'. Tall trees never lasts in a forest. The earth has lost another angel and heavens recieved one. Instead of feeling bad all the time, why don't you celebrate her life and the life she gave you. Carry on Brother, she will not want you to stop.

@Debo25

Sorry for your loss bro'. Tall trees never lasts in a forest. The earth has lost another angel and heavens recieved one. Instead of feeling bad all the time, why don't you celebrate her life and the life she gave you. Carry on Brother, she will not want you to stop.

@Amsky

My heart is so so heavy for your cousin right now, this is every married couple's worst nightmare. But nothing is new under the sun, the marriage could still be very well saved. We have seen worse and the marriage still survived. I don't blame Sharpey's husband at all, we men don't usually get things right under pressure or at the first time. I wish someone would call the husband and ask him how much he loves his wife?? Because if he does love her and lose her over some idiocy coming from his sister. This is his life and if he allows his family to destroy his marriage, trust me he will have a wounded heart for the rest of his life if he truely loves his wife. So what if shapey laughed at the phone message?? Is not as if she killed her mother in-law. I think the husband is a little weak minded because as our people say " We find real men in hard situations and they are defined by how well they fought for what is theirs". I feel like shapey has demonstrated how good a wife she is, it is now left to her husband to show how strong of a man he is to stand behind her woman ! I've been in this kind of situation before and i wished i had put up a little more fight, but all i have left is a wounded heart and tons of regret. I bet most people will not understand it untill they find themselves in the husband's shoes. I HOPE MY GUESS IS WRONG, BUT I FEEL LIKE THIS MARRIAGE WILL NOT BE THE SAME AGAIN EVEN IF THIS PARTICULAR SITUATION IS RESOLVED UNLESS HER HUSBAND FINDS A WAY TO RE-NEW THEIR LOVE BY STANDING FIRM BEHIND HIS WIFE. They have left shapey wounded, one way or the other. SHAPEY, WE LOVE YOU AND WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU, MAY THE ALMIGHTY ONE SEE YOU THROUGH.


I think shapey's Mom has done well but a little restraint is needed. She needs to talk to the husband to see where his mind is and give shapey and him a chance to work things out. Because a known devil might be better than an unknown angel. Because i suspect shapey might be in her mid-20s or late 20s by now and if so where will she start from again? There are many worse wolves out there than a weak minded husband.

I also suspect that the husband's family never liked shapey from the jump, they are now using this excuse to show their true feelings. THIS IS ONE OF THE REASONS I HATE OUR CULTURE SOMATIMES, TOO MUCH FAMILY INTERFERENCE !! NONSENSE!

@Smallworld

it's really a small world indeed, so you are my birthday mate.

@Toyin

LMAO, I'm not surprise you said i'm a flirt. I guess i'm just too sweet and friendly because if i was a flirt i should be getting a lot of action, right? I wish i was a true flirt, but wait till you see what i'll get you 4 your birthday. You will be surprised at the power of the internet. ^{I guess i'm flirting again huh?} . Anyway, i ain't mad at ya. Nothing but love, honeybun !!

Pisces are rare gems, The man upstairs rarely make people like us. Gemini comes close but not far enough.

This chap dey smoke gbana.

@Shapey

Please can you tell me how old is your sister in-law ?? I think she needs a thorough spanking.

@Toyin

wzup, honeybun? I knew you must be a pisces. It's just something about you. See, pisces are stars. we radiate.

My shortest relationship lasted 9+ years. We began with puppy love and ended up with cat and mouse love. I still believe what happened wasn't natural. Now i'm learning to love as strong all over again.

@Efuah

Anything Sweetheart, you got it !!! Forget that boy, God will heal him and let me and you talk turkey !

@Poster

Hell yeahhhh pisces for sure. 03/03/*3 . You wan try?

Pisces the sign of all signs. The freak-a-lick of all pimps.

When i get married, my wife must sleep on my chest every night unless she doesn't want to.

@Poster

I don't encourage any criminal activity but while you at it tell the chinese to stay away form natural resources in Africa. They are behind the darfur crisis, those tiny-eyes bastards !!

@Efuah

How much do you need sweetheart ?? I thought you are single ??

@Ufuoma24

Look here Bro'. Your girl has been bitten by the Jambite bug. She feels on top of the world right now and that's why she dey do yanga. Leave her alone and find you another woman. Her eyes go open when the senior students finish with her @ss and she enter 2nd year, that's when she will remember you. But for now, you no dey exist for her eyes.

@Tuneh

I've never really had to deal with those idiots at the american embassy b/4 but i know that when my uncle went for his residence visa, paternity test via DNA was required and it was performed on all their children b/4 visa was granted. The only thing i wondered was why DNA test was so expensive in Nigeria. Even i can perform one with all the equipment available, especially the gel and the electrophoresic slabs. Nigerian scientists need to wake up.

I think tuneh is cute, i like the simplicity.

Player from himalayer !!!!

@Timbagym

A decent girl ??

Bro' are you dreaming ?? This is year 2008, just pray for one that wouldn't be sloppy at her game. Because what you don't know can't hurt you.

@Minniepo

What would i do ??

Pack mmy things and leave that son of a B*tch.

@Shapey

Thank you so much for sharing this story with us, it's truly a lesson unlike some made-up strory we often here from some knuckle head around here. But please sweetie, don't be tired of the marriage because it could have been a lot worse than that. Trust me better days are ahead, this is some of the things that happens in every marriage even worse sometimes. Re-new your love for your man and let him realize his mistakes, we men don't usually get things right at first take. If he is as good and hardworking a man as you describe him, then he's worth keeping. Trust me there are no 100% perfect man out there. Goodluck sweetheart and God bless.

@ALL

What language do they speak in Kogi state ?? Please i want to know, this is why i love Nigeria so much. We are diverse but we are always one love. I LOVE YOU ALL !!

@Poster

Look here girl, i think you need your husband's sister right now more than ever. Get closer to her and let her know how sorry you are and she will do the rest of the work for you regarding your husband. But please try to control your emotions and laughs, eventhogh there are some bad situations that are funny but we have to control our emotions. To be honest with you, the 360 thing would have cracked me up too but i guess some Nigerian don't know how to describe things.