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I support this open letter but you should have written few paragraphs instead of this lengthy letter. I saw different questions from different fields before I could know what I was doing, the time has elapsed and I wonder if this test was a true test of knowledge. We moove

Doraty1:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/tinsel-star-victor-olaotan-is-dead/

Great man has slept in the Lord. From road accident to spinal chord injury to lack of funds for surgery. May God grant you eternal rest.

Blixon:
Is it possible to hire guests for a wedding in Nigeria? I’m just curious. So please don’t attack me.
I have always dreamed of having a wedding that I would be proud of. AKA posh wedding. Unfortunately I don’t have a lot of friends or know many big people and the few people I even know at all are not really posh looking (this is not an insult); what I mean is, you know, these broke guys kind of friends that you have to pay their transport back when they even manage to visit you.

So I have this question: is it possible to hire posh grooms men and a couple of posh guests (including white men and women and money sprayers to act as friends) to pose at a wedding in Nigeria?
I have read it is possible in the USA or other countries. Has anyone come across this in Nigeria?

If politicians can rent crowd, why can't you rent wedding guest? All you need to do is get in touch with music video directors who are known in the game like clearance, Avalon, TG Omori etc let them organise posh vixens for your wedding. It will be like a carnival. Very memorable

Ninobraw:
No need for a long story, I got married 2 yrs ago, during our friendship I mean courtship it was very sweet and lovely, we got married 2 yrs ago and I have 1 kid.

The problem I have is that, the girl's family come to greet almost every time and when they come they eat like elephant, anything eatable they eat it, they don't use eyes to see bread tea or butter in my room, they will finish it within a day, I will end up spending a lot during the time, when I noticed that it becomes offen i started telling my wife that I am broke, I don't have money. Although my wife is very nice she earns salary of 40k a month, and do funds and cook many times with her money.

Before now I was it okay, we are like a family, now i just realized that it is making me not think straight within a week oil and cooking things we bought will just finished the cartoon of indomitable that last the 2 of us before 1 month or month plus will just finish within 4 days of thier stay, some time 3 of her family will come once and another set will come again, my wife is the first daughter, the poor parents gave birth to 9 kids all in the name of looking for a boy, so she said although the 2 boys are number 7 and 9 position, her parents should be around man 60s and the woman 45yrs old. so now I am tired of the marriage, I don't know how to talk to my wife about it, that I don't like how thier family do come offend since we got married, my families has never come to sleep over in my place for a night talkless of spending holiday in my place my parents gave birth to only 3 of us 2 boys 1 girl.

Now i am just tired I can't be responsible for someone else burden why give birth to many kids and unable to train them, i plan to have only 2 or 3 kids only, and her family want to make me be like thier father sitting at home doing nothing depending on pension for survival, i have realized that I can't achieve what i should have achieved if i continue life this way.

Before our marriage, we agreed no family members is coming to stay with us, the issue now is they don't stay but come to eat and go, it's a big cheating to me I am tired for real, even if I say I don't have money and she use her own. The money should have be able to do other important thing . She spending is also affecting me a lot, we should have been able to buy land or car or live well, not feeding battalion. I am tired please I need advice on what to do.

I feel your pain, try to change address and warn your wife of the implications of giving them your new address. If she gives them, you can leave the marriage.

MrMcJay:
Tecno should not be mentioned in the same sentence with Redmi. It is an abomination.

Very funny but true

Good step in the right direction

lusid:
what about you

This thread isn't about me and you know it.

The desire to fly is behind this innovation.
Benin people I hail oo.

Great story. May God bless your parents and Boss. Provide great opportunities for the teaming graduates in Nigeria.

lusid:
where is sarah now

Married someone else.

Happy Married Life Ikechukwuuuuuu.



E pain me say you and Sarah relationship no work.





Enjoy a Happy Ever after

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

It is because your paths didn't cross early enough that was why she has been involved with 10 guys. Imagine if you met you 5 years ago, you would probably be her 2nd or 3rd guy. Don't be too judgemental everyone deserves a chance.

Interesting thread.



Diligently following.

saphiere:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2021/4/woman-beats-up-her-boss-with-a-mop-stick-for-sending-her-inappropriate-sexual-texts-video.html

I rushed in to check the Bold Nigerian lady that will beat up her boss only to find out it happened in China. Nigerian women, I hope we get to boldness to execute this too.

Amazing thread, I must commend the poster for this educative thread, this is what Nairaland was know for. Keep it up








Sips chilled zobo before Ramadan

sapphiere:
Your list is useless if the names of the Air Force officers that died in plane crash are not there.

I agree!!! They were prominent too in their own way.

I hope you find peace of mind afterwards. Great move though.

Viking007:
Holla,

Having been on Nairaland for almost 7yrs+, I think it's fair I let Nairalanders know even though I'm a very private person.

The wedding is on the 16th January, here in Abuja.

Free rice & chicken for the first 5 comments.

Congratulations Sir, May your union be among the best. Kindly pchat me the venue if you don't mind.

Abilistic:
Beautiful family!
Find someone who is proud to have you, scared to lose you, fights for you, appreciates you, respects you, cares for you, and loves you unconditionally.

Omoooo! Give me such person's address. I want to tell him something.

Agent Vinod. Bollywood movie, was shot in over 3 continent and several countries. My best ever!!!

tspun:
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Happy Married Life Dearest, May God bless your new home.

Awwwn, correcting her bow leg @6. . . . Strong girl

Right step in the right direction.

Happy birthday Ndidiamaka 25 look good on you.

To God be the glory, every aboki should remain with his new found kettle.

Times are hard please pay labourers their wages before their sweat dries!!!

We will survive

themaestro08:
I an feeling terribly bad right now.

Oh dear, I once felt like that in the past but now everything is history. Cheer up and buckle up

I will add this place in places I will visit any day I step my feet to Lagos State. This place looks heavenly!!!