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orimsamsam:
where did you get this info, it was cross checked and apc won

Orimsam my run away friend.......

daviesblaze:
500K !!!!!

WOW Never expected this coming from a lady.

All i've been seeing is not lending him the money at all or at most 200k should be sufficient. what a terrible mentality.
Indeed, this shows that love is dead.

Anyway @sweetyzinta, you did well in your advice. the suggestion sound reasonable. i hope @OP will consider it.

LOL. If I were the one, this is exactly what I will do without seeking for advice because the advice might confuse me the more. One good turn deserves another. Besides, it does not mean how many times you fall but your ability to rise matters. The downfall of a man isn't the end of his life.

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

We feel your pain bro. But sincerely my advice to you is do job hunting on her behalf. Ask your friends to help look out for job openings and ask her to apply and watch her body language. From there you can detect if she is a serious person or not. After which the eviction will come very easy. Stay focused.


Modified.
You are just in your 20's and you are already shouldering some ones responsibilities? How do you expect to grow? You cant have savings or assist your parents because of this girl. Some girls see future of men and try to be a bottle neck in their lives. Do you know the curse involved in living with someone that you are not married to? This girl will leave you when she comes across a bigger boy. Be wise

Suzzyyy:
Hello Nairalanders! Plz help! I hv been scared and confused abt a risk I want to tk so I decided to share for advice.

Im 29 and I hv a boyfriend who is 33. We hv been happily dating for close to 3 years now, he once helped me financially in a good way with 100k when I had problem with my little business, then he was doing pretty fine with his business, I sell plastics and hez into cloth business. But somtin happened last 2 months, he had terrible problems with his business and lost almost everything including his shop and in a bid to salvage his situation he ended up owing many pple, when all these started he didn't tell me, thou hez a kind of person that likes handling his problem alone without disturbing or telling me which I don't like bcus it somehow makes me feel less important and useful to him, I got to know when he changed, his attitude, moods and everything changed, hez always disturbed, thinking and always visiting pple, he payed less concern and attention to me, don't even call and when I call, he will be in a haste to end it, I became confused, so I had to asked what was going on, he said nothing, I got upset and insisted he must tell me, he then opened up, I felt so bad and almost cried, since then I have been trying to maintain his upkeep and sometimes give him money which hez not comfortable with.

The problem now Is that im scared, he asked for a huge amount of money from me which is 700k, he wants to start all over again in his cloth business and also clear some debt, and I can only boast of 820k home and abroad as a business woman, i just feel he saw my account balance before asking for this, Im scared to loose the money and him too. I love this guy but im so scared of doing this, he helped me when I needed money, but this sacrifice is bigger than me, he showed and detailed everything he will be doing with the money, Im just confused to gamble with my life savings, I know I might sound ungrateful what if the business or our relationship crumble? Won't I be stranded and doomed? My business is not that strong and we all know how most of sacrifices like this ended for people. Is this kind of risk worth doing for a boyfriend

Plz advice me on what to do, plz.

In my own opinion, give him 500k, tell him you have debts to pay also. If he can't start all over again with 500k, then 700k can't help him as well. May God guide us aright

EzegeNG:
A video has shown the moment Leo Dasilva warned Nina that the man she was crushing on, Miracle would choose money over her.


Social media went wild last week when BBNaija winner, Miracle Ikechukwu, announced his break up with fellow housemate, Nina, who both had an affair in the Big Brother Naija house.

In his words, he said, 'neither me nor Nina, I believe has ever publicly or in private told anyone we are in love and are dating. So please kindly don’t subject us to an undue imaginary relationship'.

The young man's statement got a lot of reaction on social media as many people accused of "using and dumping" Nina.


Now, a throwback video has emerged showing the moment a fellow housemate, Leo Dasilva, warned Nina about her affair with Miracle long ago when they were still in the House.
In the video, Leo Dasilva is seen telling Nina to her face that "Even Miracle that you're saying you guys are close, you guys have feelings...Miracle will always choose the money over you.

Watch the footage Here

More below:

https://zenithnaija.com/bbnaija-throwback-to-when-leo-warned-nina-that-miracle-will-choose-money-over-her-video/

Isn't it obvious that Miracle can't maintain Nina as a chic? How can you guys expect him to spend his winnings on a girl with such class? He has a target please allow him to establish himself and turn the lives of his family around before investing it in a woman He doesn't own yet.


Anyone angry about the break up is an enemy of progress, simple!

lexy2014:
how will she not choose when it was becoming glaring that her options were thinning out

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Trizzi:
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A Nigerian man took to twitter to share the love story between himself and his bride whom he got married to recently.

According to Damola, his bride turned him down seven years ago because he is a short man. He went on to advise short men to always shoot their shot regardless of the height difference.
Read his account of what transpired between them below




Source: https://www.mediahelm.com.ng/2018/09/nigerian-man-weds-tall-lady-that-turned.html

Her life, her choice. But if she had married a taller man, does she want to give birth to Nepa pole?

Akosa007:
WAs it done on Blogger.Com?

Yes sir. I used another browser now and I was able to see it but can't sign in. I really want to make it a functional blog soon. Can I be able to edit the name without starting a new blog?

but who compiled this list?





alot of names are missing one of which is Adolf Hitler, Nigerian Politrickcians, Native doctors etc

thank God my city is not among

Akosa007:
I would answer any questions.

i urgently need your help. i had a blog i was trying to build but at a point i could not afford data. i later became busy preparing for my final exams. it has been 2 years now. i want to go back to blogging but the site cant be found. what do i do?

diamond rules nko?

It's amazing how a lot of ill things are thought and said about Islam.
May Allāh continue to guide HIS Deen from all mankind.

May your gentle soul rest in peace.


The world indeed has been thrown into mourning!

Such an intelligent fine man, May your soul rest in peace.



The world will miss you

flexyrule:
If I catch you ehn. Abuja would not contain us.

Can't I ask kweshion in peace?

flexyrule:
Long hiss.
Stop and wait for them.
What was the baby's anti-metal for?
You must be a foooool to be walking empty body with the high level of insecurity we are having in this country.

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Save your mentions.

Oooooops!




Can you see my mention?

chuks34:
they should send him to Nigeria ASAP to help us flush bubu out

LOL. Is not happening

DonDemu:
Dino organised a false assassination attempt on himself, he kidnapped himself to avoid appearing in court, he once threatened to kill himself to put people in trouble and you want me to accuse Yahaya Bello of sending thugs to burn a school built by Dino?

The man is capable of anything in the name of politics. I'm not daft.

Why are you derailing this peaceful thread?

Protein0:
you're not using it already ma.
We're talking about MI max 3, no max 2.

Max 2 is more than a year old and as expected, I got from d very first batch to be shipped around April/may last year. That was d very week it was launched

LOL. Come on....

vitmax:
Buy xaiomi and see the light. Infinix and tecno don blind nigerians finish,na why we no dey recognise beta thing (buy their note 5 or any of mi 5 series,you wont regret it )

True talk. I'm currently using it. Just acquired it a week ago but the phone is worth it. A trial will convince anyone

Protein0:
you can be the first to use it in this country, buzz me.
It's now available

I'm using it already but Max2

Jenomtwist:
I still can't pronounce d name of dis fone

Pronounce it as Ziomi. The phone is OK.

chivera018:
lol, talk na

[quote author=chivera018 post=66882749]what is an eggplant ?


Yalo

Keep the information coming

OBO

Lol




I am here to have fun. Keep the list coming

Wow





Hbd riri

bedspread:
We love to discuss on things that add no Economic , SPIRITUAL or physical Value to our lives and Nation...

Gbam! So true. All we are doing this days is promoting the olosho business.

Let me consult my village people first.






I will be right back!

May God send his healing powers to the young lad.




Nigeria will raise again!