₦airaland Forum

I'm actually loving the coments from the ladies- 'Cos I stare a lot when I'm South AFrica, Botwana or Zimbabwe, but when I come home to Naija there's no much staring to do

Crucify me if you want- but as far as Im concerned, the marriage ends the day my wife mentions it or even give me any reason to believe she's considering it

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat, that means she still in touch with with her ex or still thinking about him?

C'mon give me a break

If Obasanjo came back after 30 years, why cant Babangida come back. Im not his fan but he has all the rights to contest. Some of you wey dey make mouth here go still vote him kpa kpa when the chips are down

Why did the administrators of Nairaland put this rubbish on the home page in the face place - that this is the first time a lady is making a move for a man and so I should scream? Helll no

The poster is either mentally retarted or is so ugly he never thought a woman would ever look his way

Paraguay's success at the 2010 Soccer World Cup continued on Tuesday when they beat Japan on penalties at Loftus Versfeld in Pretoria to advance to the tournament's quarter-finals, where they will face Spain.

With only eight teams remaining, the Paraguayans may well have a few more fans to help win it all thanks to lingerie model Larissa Riquelme who has pledged to run naked through the streets of Asuncion "with my body painted with the colours of Paraguay" if Paraguay win the World Cup.

According to The Huffington Post website, the 24-year-old stunner is not the first person to promise to streak in the event of a World Cup win. Argentina's coach Diego Maradona was the first prominent person to issue such a guarantee, and his team has also made the quarter-finals.

Are you rooting for Paraguay now?

Its easy to deal with these guys: If you are at the bus stop and they want money for a bus to Ikeja- tell them you are also going to Ikeja & you will pay their fare; or tell them your car is parked somewhere and you'd give them a ride. Trust me they will disappear

Next step: Ban the governemnet for not providing electricity after 49+ years

Absolute NONSENSE

IgboGirl:
No, she didn't sack you cos u r a lesbian she sacked u cos u were screwing her daughter! what u did was a no no, u shd never go after your bosses child be it male or female.
dumb lesbian chic, u deserved to be fired!

Igbo girl got it completely right. She wouldnt care if you you were screwing other women around but you went too far srewing her daughter. She must have trusted you to even let you into her home and you breached that trust.

One more thing- this is Africa and no matter how much we try to live like the west, issues such as lesbianism/homosexuality will always be viewed negatively by the larger African society

I said it from the very start that Tunisia would have been a better representative for Africa. Of all the African representatives, Nigeria's performance was the most horrible. Other teams lost but at least they played good football. Thank God there was an interesting Wimbledon match going on

londoner:
many love-peddlers in Abuja are not so because they are starving, but because they want to live a lavish lifestyle.

The point is, Nigerians today value money above absolutely everything else. We all saw when Ethiopians were actually starving to death, with all their renouned beauty did you hear of a prostitution problem, or their mothers sending them to ltaly to go and sell themselves? No, they have a certain amount of self respect.

most just want to live a flashy life through a short cut and prositution for them is that opportunity.

You hav valid points there my brother,

prostitution has been there before we were all born, and it be here centuries after we are all gone. I wonder why we cant get this in to our skulls and get on with more pressing things.

Can anybody name any city in the world where there are no prostitutes? With due respect to all d decent girl- prostitutes exist evn in the offices- some of our girlfriends even do it - and we often patronize prostitutes- I mean even married men- so whats all this fuss??

Govt should rather strive to provide the kind of environment that discourages street prostitution which is often borne out of poverty

Only God will help decent Nigerians living in South Africa. Those idiots selling drugs, kidnapping and committing very ridicuous crimes makes it really difficult to identify yourself as a Nigerian in South AFrica. South African blacks have got loads of thier own issues but now they tend to blame almost everything on Nigerian cos of these petty crooks

I hope they get caught everday and bundled back to thier miserable villages and let genuine Nigerian pursuing legimates livelihoods have thier peace

Now listen guys, if your name is NOT on this list then you are not needed in the Nigerian Music scene (this excludes gospel artist- I think we have great talents there & the Pa Rolling stone class)

1. Tuface
2. D'Banj
3. OJB (i think this guy is the most talented Nigerian Artist)
4. Lagbaja
5. Styl-Plus
6. Wandy Cole
7. Obiwon
8. Asha
9. Paul IK Dairo
10.Sunny Nneji
11. Ruggedman *** (i get question mark though)
12.P Square (They can be really good if stop trying to be Usher)
13. Djinee (I like his vocals)
14. Banky W (at least his videos are nice)
15.Naeto C
16.9ice

I must add that people like Dare and KC presh really irritate me

Weird MC na woman?

My wife does it all d times, I dont like it though

I wonder why people think that Lagos cannot do without Okada- I believe this flawed thinking is the main these okada guys are so unruly.

When El Rufai wanted to ban Okada's in Abuja city everything thought it was not gonna work- but go to ABuja today and see the sanity the city feels without the Okada boys. I think Okada should be banned at least in the main towns in Lagos

I use Okadas but I can do without them- everyone else can

A man would forgive his wife for anything but infidelity, yeah thats righ, even if he slaps his mom or tries to poison him, but d moment he finds out some1 else slept with her, the relationship ends

So if as a woman you find out a man forgave you after finding out you slept with another man, in 95% of the cases i would suggest you run away cos he;s probably waiting for an opportunity to strike where it'll hurt most

Hi all,

My son will turn 1 soon. Im not in a position to throw a party for him so instead i want to use the money to invest for him. Im considering an education savings account or starting a share account in his favour with a stock broker. What's the best option please. Other suggestions are welcome

Many thanks

The answer is NO- The case in questions is only common in places like Nigeria where many girls dont not have big backside. If you go to South Africa for instance, you will find that at least 8 out of every 10 girls hve very massive ass plus sweet lovely curvy hips to go with- then the attenion shifts from the ass cos its everywhere- so a girls ass doesnt really mean much to a man there- they look out for something else.

There;s been a lot of virgin talk on this forum- most dont buy the idea of marrying a virgin cos its believed they would always want to taste other men after loosing it- yet we have a lot of ladies who wanna keep it for their husbands, The questions is, is it possible for woman to to sleep with only one man all her life? (Is it even possible for her to sleep with only her husband after marriage assuming she had a man before him?),

For men I think this is nearly imposible, but then I hear women are stronger than the men when it comes to controlling libido, so can they?

Hypocrites full this nairaland. Most of the guys calling names have slept with even younger girls, and most of the girls condemning him got disvirgined at age 12 or younger

Its funny how ladies that got disvirgined befor age 12 jump at attacking posters of any virgin thread. Men dont care if you're a virgin when they wanna sleep with n dump you, but when it comes to marriage every man would prefer a 'tear rubber' not 3rd class 'tokumbo'. I didnt marry a virgin, but even my wife knows I'd respect her more if i met her intact (note the 'more', because i still respect her). The point here is that although mature men would not mind marrying non-virgins, they would generally have more respect for ladies who are able to hold themselves. If you are still a virgin, hold unto it- there is so much to gain (diginity, respect, etc) and absolutely no complication. and if you started sleeping around before you could barely walk (i.e if you werent raped) then count all the men that have gone through your legs(i.e if you can) then bow your head in shame and SHUT UP