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 Romance › Re: Can U Be In Love With 2 Guys/ladies At The Same Time. by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 7:52pm On Sep 26, 2007 |
Not possible. Either love one and use the other. love & light |
| Romance › Re: Who Is A Friend? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 5:40pm On Sep 24, 2007 |
A friend is someone that has INTEGRTY, is honest, sticks by your side, and wont do things to use, abuse or take advantage of you for self gain. Watch out for those fakers posing as friends. Wolf in sheepskin have to come out of hiding sooner or later , then u just send them on their merry little way, love & light. |
| Romance › Re: Lord, Show Me A Sign! by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 5:37pm On Sep 24, 2007 |
Inconsistency in everything they do. If they tell you one thing, and their ACTION says another is the biggest red flag they will fly. remember, actions speak louder than words. If your spirit is uneasy with someone, ask God to shine light on them, and when he does, be prepared to clearly see the good, the bad and the ugly, and take it from there, love & light |
| Nairaland General › Re: Hello Nairaland Family: I Am New, Please Welcome Me With Open Arms: by SwtNsoFLyy(op): 3:02pm On Sep 21, 2007 |
Thanks everyone!!! love & light |
| Romance › Re: Secret To A Woman Soul by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 1:57am On Sep 21, 2007 |
I agree with this last comment. love & light |
| Events › Re: Nairaland Party! by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 1:42am On Sep 21, 2007 |
I sure wish that I could come join the nairaland family get together , love & light |
| Family › Re: Secrete To Successful Marriage by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 5:36am On Sep 20, 2007 |
beautifully said. love & light |
| Romance › Re: k by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 7:53pm On Sep 18, 2007 |
I can't speak for another woman, but for me, its not humanly possible and not my nature somehow. i can not be in love with 2 men at the same time. You may 'like' characteristics of one person, but when I fall in love, it can only clearly be directed at one person, maybe some of the ladies on the fourm can better explain this who has experienced being in love with 2 men simultaneously. I sure have seen a handful of men play it that way, tho, that i dont view as love. Just a player mentality, love & light |
| Romance › Re: Have U Ever Been Brokenhearted? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 7:46pm On Sep 18, 2007 |
Being broken hearted is very humbling to anyone. The one who wronged the other, may be filled with guilt if they ever truly loved. My thoughts on dealing with pain, I would much rather the man find himself WANTING WHAT HE LOST in me, than resenting being with me, while still curious of what could become of him and another, They come to realize after their actions,, they lost the best thing ever. Only after its too late. Keep your head up. You wil be happy again, and it will be more plentiful than before, even if it rekindles with that person. love & light, |
| Romance › Re: The Fall Of A King, The Heart Of A Champion. by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 7:00pm On Sep 18, 2007 |
very deep thought, The head can only resume leadership by confidently taking on his rightful position after he proves to be just as unmovable and as consistent in all his ways as she has. Proper planning and losing 'self' interest is important in retaining such crown and glory. The united embodiment of the the head and tail is what it takes to conquer battles with full strength, This really holds true for retaining strong relationships of two compatible people , love & light |
| Travel › Re: My Fellow Nairalanders. Please See This Green Card Information If Interested : ) by SwtNsoFLyy(op): 3:40am On Sep 18, 2007 |
yes , and I don't know much of the first link I put up, because when I read another more information, it says that the lotteries that are legitimate should not cost any fees to apply, I hope it can help someone howeve who is interested in the other opportunties, love & light, |
| Romance › Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 9:44pm On Sep 17, 2007 |
@Olanajim, you said this: Cheating has a predictable partern. All we need do, both cheater and cheated, is to look out for them. Some people don't set out to cheat. They are tempted and responded. We must all be alert.So in a case like this,, now what. after someone potentially cheated, or shall say 'responded to temptation'. What will (or should) the 'cheater' do, and the 'cheated' person should do as a result to make things right?or the cheated just simply, move on while the 'cheater' deal with the guilt of not able to control giving in to temptation. Does he or she even have a conscious? Being cheated on hurts, and Ive been there before, even after forgiving over and over and over again, it didnt make a difference, and it made me depressed despite all the praying i did, what would your solutions to this be, after the 'fact' to the innocent one, and the guilty one? can't wait to hear your response,  love & light, Natalia |
| Romance › Re: Why Do People Cheat In Relationships? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 9:42pm On Sep 17, 2007 |
@Olanajim, you said this: Cheating has a predictable partern. All we need do, both cheater and cheated, is to look out for them. Some people don't set out to cheat. They are tempted and responded. We must all be alert.So in a case like this,, after someone potentially cheated, or shall say cheated. What would you think the 'cheater' will do, and the 'cheated' person should do as a result? Being cheated on hurts, and Ive been there before, even after forgiving over and over and over again, it didnt make a difference, and it made me depressed despite all the praying i did, what would your solutions to this be, after the 'fact', ? can't wait to hear ur response, love & light, Natalia |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: True Love Is All That Matters. by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 8:17pm On Sep 14, 2007 |
LOL, an angel you are!!!  love & light, |
| Romance › Re: Approaching A Girl by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 8:05pm On Sep 14, 2007 |
With realness, love & light |
| Romance › Re: Yahoo- Loverboy! by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 7:23pm On Sep 14, 2007 |
ok forgive me kinzolic, for I have been rather cruel. tho, let me tell u abit about myself I am a very giving person. From my heart, as a woman of God. I have been victim to yahoo boy before, when my help could have gone to some other unfortunate soul. Tho, This aspect of me, I can never change, as God does use me as a vessell to reach out to those less fortunate than myself, but to individuals who take advantage of a this, does not bother me as much as how sad i feel for him, as he reaps what he sows, its unfortunate, tho thank u for correcting me in being abit harsh ' as i remember 'what would Jesus do?" you brought a happy smile on my face. @ Sean, A more important lesson sweety, would be for his conscious to beat him down to his knees b4 the Lord , He may turn to be one of Gods greatest ambassadors. LOL (ok am i being harsh again?)love & light |
| Romance › Re: Yahoo- Loverboy! by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 6:47pm On Sep 14, 2007 |
In my views, I think he just 'lost' out. Weather or not he decides to leave the business, relationships are built on trust. If he has been dishonest from the beginning, and turned out to be a yahoo boy, he is the one to mess up a good thing, God has a way of revealing things. When you're caught, you're just caught. Tho who knows what the future holds,, if it were me, I wouldn't reconsider seeing him. If it's his business, let the man do what he's gotta do. He just wouldn't be doing it with me in the picture. I am disgusted with dishonest businesses, because I believe a TRUE faithful man or woman can put all their faith and trust in God to make a way, I agree with you Sean, tho, its good to see my sistas with such good hearts towards these sort of men. I just can't do it, I love you ladies 4 this compassion tho, lol By the way, how many businesses and ways do yahoo boys make money anyways? love & light |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: For Those Who Are Using Yahoo Messenger Only by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 5:45pm On Sep 14, 2007 |
@ Nana, LOL I was just thinking the same think what Olanajim said and saw that you already said it, love & light, |
| Travel › Re: My Fellow Nairalanders. Please See This Green Card Information If Interested : ) by SwtNsoFLyy(op): 5:14pm On Sep 14, 2007 |
another couple of links : I think these two are more accurate, as I don't know much of the first one that a friend showed me they were applying to. Tho its worth a try for anyone interested. http://www.dvlottery.state.gov/ http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/types/types_1318.html love & light |
| Travel › My Fellow Nairalanders. Please See This Green Card Information If Interested : ) by SwtNsoFLyy(op): 4:53pm On Sep 14, 2007 |
I have a friend in Nigeria that wants to travel abroad and study in the US and gave me this link. I'm not sure how many Naija fam would even be interested in this, but the deadline is in two days, Good luck to anyone that is interested, and it is legitimate as well, http://www.usa-green-card.com/ love & light, natalia |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Is It Right To Go Out With Your Close Friend? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 6:10am On Sep 14, 2007 |
Its alot of fun going out with good friends of the opposite sex, I believe in platonic friendships, unless I see him as a 'brother' figure, and he starts liking me more , then its awhole different situation, and i probably would be uncomfortable, love & light |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Ladies What Do You Think Of The Gentlemen On Nairaland by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 5:59am On Sep 14, 2007 |
@topic, I think the gentlemen on Nairaland are incredible. I have made quite a few good friends that I chat with most everyday, love & light, |
| Romance › Re: Can I Be Romantic Without Money by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 4:08am On Sep 14, 2007 |
I totally agree with drkchoclik on this one. I can appreciate a guy with a heart that even ask this question. When you put more effort into romancing a woman, with the things she mentioned, it shines fine qualities of a gentleman because you are putting your own efforts into it. Thats romantic alone. Cooking together, listening to some real nice mellow muzik, maybe a nice smelling candle lit as u eat,, Or,, going for a walk to a park, beach or lake afterwards ,. .anywhere in ur area that has a nice outside setting wher u can catch a sunset or a full moonlight,, will be romantic. Take some fresh cut fruit, or strawberries & chocolates that should not be costly at all. If you cant take a walk together, rent a couple of movies or borrow some movies from a friend and take it to her house to watch together if u decide to cook together, If money is a problem, tactfully suggest that she get a couple of things and u get a couple of things. That will be even better, and I think its fair. While some ladies prefer to be wined and dined at an expense, its not all about the flashiness that impresses ladies like me, Actually, this is right up my alley, as it gives u more 'interactive' time to really know one another more intimately on a personal level in a relaxing environment. No distractions, No suprising expenses. Thank u for being gentleman enough to ask, Have a romantic time with your lady, love & light |
