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 Celebrities / A Fellow Nairalander Needs Help!: Vote 4 Kel Spencer, Uma Best Lyricist! by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 8:11pm On Jul 08, 2008 |
Hi Nairaland family, & friends. This is Natalie from the USA, and I need a HUGE favour from my sistas & brothas in Naija. I am a huge supporter of Will Smith & DJ Jazzy Jeff, and one of their fellow JJFP potnas is up for an UMA for Best Lyricist. UMA is a huge thing in the US, its the Underground Music Awards for artists who have alot of street buzz, but not binded to a contract with a majour record label. He also happens to be a family friend. He is featured on DJ Jazzy Jeff's latest album, and has won American Music Awards for songs and works he works closely with Will Smith. Hes written songs for Will Smith, Puff Daddy, and a number of other celebrities. The most important thing that stands out about KeL Spencer, is that he is down to earth brother, a MAN OF GOD, and has positive messages for our people. He has a promising future, and Im almost positive, that someday God is going to use him to do huge things across the globe., making a difference in places that need someone of his caibre to take notice, The Rapper/Lyricist's name is KeL SpenceR, and he is from Brooklyn, NY. link: [url=http://http://hiphoppalace.ning.com/]http://hiphoppalace.ning.com/[/url] scroll down to BEST LYRICIST, click that link, and vote. It takes a few seconds, and voting can be done once every day for the month of July for him to win. It can happen if we vote everyday, and if we share this with friends, I appreciate everyone for reading this, Much love to my Naija family, PS, FOR ANYONE WHOSE A FAN OF OUR BOII, SAUCE KID, I TOLD HIM ABOUT THE FORUM here, AND HE SENDS HIS LOVE TO NAIJA. Sauce Kid AND KeL Spencer are both on my top friends on myspace if you want to shout out at them. , xo, Natalie |
| Romance / Re: Can U Marry A Male Virgin by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 2:38am On Dec 14, 2007 |
Bblak: but WHAT IS AN EXPERIENCED MALE VIRGIN? IF HE IS A VIRGIN,, then what kind of experince does he have asides mastubation and porn movis? this is what confuses me love & light, |
| Romance / Re: What Should A Man Do When A Woman Hits Him? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 12:42am On Dec 04, 2007 |
he should slap her ass right back, tho a gentleman would just walk away, gotta love these guys, but why do they always wind up with b*witches for a wife ? and let her know if she ever raises her hand to hit him again, he will leave her. Hitting and hurting someone is not love. and not necessary in any relationship, love 7 light, |
| Culture / Re: Why Is It So Important To You To Marry A Nigerian by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 12:03am On Dec 04, 2007 |
For me, it will be important because this is the man that God has lead me to, who happens to be Nigerian. if we have carried through misunderstandings, and worked out our problems, that makes the union even more important than the difference in our cultures. and i would just love my baby all the more, so, if GOD confirms who i am to marry, then this is the most important reason to marry my Naija man,  love & light, |
| Romance / Re: hi by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 6:38pm On Dec 03, 2007 |
so if she can't date a married man, what do u call it when u take her out to eat and spoon feeding her food from ur plate? This is a tactic from the devil, because what TRUE christian woman will let a married man feed her like that. Wha would ur wife feel if she was sitting right next to u feeding this woman. see, thats the problem with marriages today, all this attention ur giving this wanna be christian woman, should be givin to ur very own wife. Dont u think if u took ur wife out to dinner, she would be just as sexy with u on the phone and romantic with u? I think you are a much WISER MAN than u seem by asking this question. u know what this woman wants. she wants YOU. destroy ur marriage, and your money, which sshe is already getting if ur taking her out and feeding her, disgusting to see such blindness, with true love waiting at home, so sad. love & light, |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Olanajim ~ The Philosophical Motivator. This Is For You. by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 8:32pm On Nov 24, 2007 |
Kayshell, all i have to say in response to what u trying to say, is you aer ALL ATE UP. That signature is OLD, and I do have a man. I've introduce him to Nairaland board and he is registerd here, as a matter of fact. What I said to Olanajim in the origin of this thread, was genuine, pure, and without fault. If you choose to read some loopholes that are clearly NOT ther, then its your fault. Olanajim is a very good friend, and brother to me, so whatever u have to say about me giving him props, really doesnt make a difference. There are alot of people that i admire on this site as well, doesnt mean im advertising myself to get the hookup with a Nigerian man. You BUGGIN kid! NO BEEF. love & light, |
| Romance / Re: I Am In Love With My Cousin by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 8:16pm On Nov 24, 2007 |
yea, thats incest bruh. I've heard of people like that, and its really sad and sick when they dont have the control and self discipline than to disrespect their own family roots like this. Out of all the eligible and beautiful women in this world, you lay ur eyes upon your cousin? Please do not speak to ur parents about this, as it will be a royal slap in the face. You have 2 choices, either you do the right thing and focus ur attention elsewhere, and realize this is incest and against family law, or follow through with the disgrace ur a bout to place before ur family. love & light, |
| Politics / Re: Government Rejects US Military Base In Nigeria by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 8:03pm On Nov 24, 2007 |
There are probably some excellent replies in this thread, however I don't have time to read, so sorry if i say something contrary to your thoughts and ideas. Tho. I served in the US Military for 8 years, and was awarded the opportunity to travel the world. Spain, Holland, France, All of Germany, Italy (briefly), Saudi Arabia, Iraq and Kuwait City during the first war. While it may seem at present, most people views of the US Military In IraQ is in coincide with mine, because I disagree with whats happening, now, id rather not even touch bases on how I really feel about Mr. President and his seemingly unsound decisions , being a veteran of war myself. Its costing way too much money to the American economy, and i can't wait until his ass is out of office. Whole different story with Africa. If the current President, or Political leader were to consider US miltary in Africa, u better believe (from my e xperience) ther will be some positive changes for the beautiful continent of Africa. I think he should wait to see if Hllary Clinton or Obama wins the election, and then negotiate how the US Military could implement strategic plans to help African countries out of famine, poverty and let the people of Africa talk and be heard. I have seen the military build cities, they have engineers with the capability of building clean, water resevoirs, infrasture, or paved roads, underground electricity that runs 24 x 7 like we have in the US, and other countries also,, tho the African government must negotiate and place emphasis on the military contributing to the GROWTH of Africa. Think of the eligible men and women in the military. This will give many opportunities to locals to gain easier access to marry and get their citizenships, as military personnel marry from all around the world, and are happy also. Benefits, medical, dental, commissary benefits, and a spouse that will take care of u. Also there will be HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS of job opportunities for civilians, and the military pay is WAY MORE THAN any African paying job. you average salary will be anywhwere between 26,000$ USD to 6 figures in US dollars, and that is not mandated by African government, but a US Military payscale that is standard worldwide, some countries get more pay that is called COLA (Cost Of living Allowance). , I would love to see it happen, as I love Africa, particularly Nigeria, and I know some positive things can result out of it, tho its up the the country. I'm sure the decision was based on the things in Iraq, and I can not blame the decision makers for saying no, If they feel its for the best of Africa and Nigeria, i agree 100 percent, but personally, i think we would have seen a positive change, ive seen it happen before, and Africa is not in the turmoil that Iraq is in, and with all the hard working men and women, Nigeria would be living it up, much love to my Nigerian fam, and I have lots of em, xo, Natalie |
| Family / Does A Nigerian Welfare System Exist For Deserving Families? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 8:28am On Nov 06, 2007 |
In the U.S., there is a welfare system that is established to help families financially while they get back on their feet. If they have lost a job, or financially unable to pay their bills, they can get help with food stamps, a monthly check for bills, and may qualify for low income housing. Different states also offer free medical and dental to qualifying low income families. There are some people that ride the system for years on end, and don't even try to help themselves to become gainfully self sufficient, but everybody doesn't. I would like to know, what type of welfare system is established in Nigeria for families that are in need of assistance? Are there any outreach programs in different communities? love & light, |
| Family / Re: Things Are Getting Out Of Hand, Pls Someone Help Me Out! by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 9:04pm On Nov 05, 2007 |
for one thing,, you said that the husband has remarried., yet you are asking for help in convincing her to go back to him?  If the kids are doing good with the grandparents, its ok for them to stay with them for a litle while. Grandparents can be very influential in kids lives for awhle. She has alot to sort through in her life, and by her actions alone, shows that she was probably near a breakdown, so being with her, may not be in the kids best interest right now. Some of these stories that I read up on Nairaland are really, just. a trip. especially yours shy1amy. love & light, |
| Health / Re: Sisters: What Is Good Medicine For Pms Cramps? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 8:45pm On Nov 05, 2007 |
before i say anything else, somze, pls tell me how old are u, young man? love & light, |
| Family / Re: Your Husband Or Boyfriend Travelling With Condoms by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 6:27pm On Nov 05, 2007 |
so,, why would u pretend that all is well, when it is not? Dont lie to urself with pretense mamma. He left with the condoms, and know that you saw them b4 he left. Surely he is expecting you to question him, dont u think so? Leave it alone. dont act as if nothing is wrong, but you can ignore the hell out of him as if he is not there. If he chooses to act himself as if nothing happened, just keep ignoring him, sooner or later he will ask u, whats wrong. then look at him and say, "surely you can't be serious to not know what is wrong with me?" a little silent treatment will re trigger his sudden amnesia. When he brings it up, just let him do all the talking, you dont have to say a word. Cook his meals even better than before. Press and iron his work shirts even sharper than before. (if you do that), just be more loving than before, and his conscious should somewhat WHIP his tail. You may never get an admission out of him, but all u need to let him know is, you put it in God's hands, and he will be dealt with if he is cheating. You have to be confident in your choice to let God handle it, and girl. thats the BEST weapon you can have against the enemy trying to tear down ur marriage. I tried to work myne out, but i came to realize that ALL marriages are not ordained by God. I did find out before my untimely death, and Im greatful to be able to help u. I have a few friends going thru things, and its tough,, but just know that YOU GOT THIS, love & light, |
| Romance / Re: Muscular Or Slim Guys Which Do You Prefer by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 6:16pm On Nov 05, 2007 |
just like iice said, Not too skinny, and not too many muscles. but just r i g h t!!  , in the middle is my preference, love & light, |
| Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Had A Female Visitor For One Week by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 5:50pm On Nov 05, 2007 |
Its so good 2 see everybody saying to sit down and talk, (when its a reasonable suggestion, and the situation is not shady like this)) but I am not BIG on kissing up to a man who has outright disrespected me in my FACE. please. Women that are sure of themselves, and know what they want will never chase a man who places another woman before her. WISE UP little mamma. The nerve, she would have, telling you, "Oh I've heard so much about you.". This line is all too familiar from the 'other woman". if infact she was just a 'friend', and u were of MORE importance than she is, then don't you think you should have been made aware of her coming and you too, would be able to say, "OH Ive heard alot about you TOO? Dont you think you should be able to visit your own man's crib even moreso as she is spending quality alone time with your man? When a man loves a woman, he makes sure she knows HIS FRIENDS. Something smells fishy, and I guarantee you, they were cooking something, and it was not fish on the stove. This is the kind of situation that either, makes or breaks a woman of her true self. Life is full of lessons, but its how we view the lessons as something learned, and move on to better and greater things, as well relationships. If you had to come online to ask the question, surely you know something is up!. Love, when it is genuine, does not leave us with questionable fidelity. Think about it. then. Ask yourself one question. Do you deserve to be treated like this? I say, DONT ASK HIM ANY MORE QUESTIONS, you have seen enough. more questions will only break ur spirits further. Fix ur self up real nice, and focus on bettering yourself. Everybody can play games, tho you dont want to play that 'payback' game. You must master the game of life. and u do that by loving, and focusing on YOU and thanking God for showing you the man he ISN'T. A common mistake we often make, , when we move on. STICK to it, cant move on to better things God has in store if we are constantly looking in the past, and wandering 'what if', close that chapter, and know that you deserve much better, your future happiness is all based on your choices in life, love & light, 1 Like |
| Family / Re: Your Husband Or Boyfriend Travelling With Condoms by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 5:22pm On Nov 05, 2007 |
well, my ex husband thought it was fun and games with his 'boys' until I had his a$$ escorted out of my house, and filed for a divorce. I tried 'talking', and forgiving tho that didn't stop him from running around with women. I didn't make a move until I got CONFIRMATION from God. I was depressed all the tyme, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the child, AND WORKING longer hours than he did. I prayed and asked God to show me what I need to do, and to give me strenth to leave, Years later, we talked as 'friends'. He said, its not that the women were "better", but he was immature, and 'variety was the spice of his life" at that time. He said he would never marrry again, because he can never find a woman to meet up to my standards. so after I put it in God's hands, he is the one who suffered, not I. Life is too precious to waste it on a cheater with so many diseases out there. There are some God fearing men in this world, that will love and respect you, but you must really consult God with a pure heart, your fears & tears, and expect a blessing from it. I can't tell u to leave, because God might whip him spiritually, then again, dont be fooled by a hipocrite. Use that inner voice that some ppl call " intuition", but better known as the Holy Spirit as ur guide, best wishes, and know that while he thinks hes out there 'getting' his, by the tyme God finishes with him, he's really gonna GET HIS. In the meantyme, u better believe that he's playing mind games, and out there like a single man with no sexual boundaries with temptation. A weak man with no conviction couldn't roll with me, love & light, |
| Family / Re: Your Husband Or Boyfriend Travelling With Condoms by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 6:17am On Nov 05, 2007 |
what was your response to that? One thing I can't STAND worse than lyers, is a man who plays also mind games. The way he responded to you was a psychological game he is using to divert his wrong into a 'right'. thus confusing the hell out of you,, IF! you allow it. First of all, i agree with the idea of protection, with a single man, but when a husband carries around condoms it is an indication of a married cheater who is still out there getting his, I personally can't tolerate a cheating husband , yea, some guys may say, there is no proof he cheated asides finding the condoms, but that alone raises suspiscion. I agree with sitting down, and talking about it. From my experience, talking about it,, my x husband, seemes so genuine, when he said he wouldnt do it again, so im not against forgiving. What I am against, is repetition, over and over and over and OVER again. plus some. love & light, |
| Romance / Re: Your Childhood Crush? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 3:30pm On Nov 03, 2007 |
the black Michael Jackon with the 'brother nose, and brown skin." Not the new MJ with the white woman nose, |
| Romance / Re: Can You Take A Bullet For Love? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 7:19am On Nov 03, 2007 |
I wil definately take a bullet for my children, lets just hope it penetrates mummy's pinky toe tho,  LOL love & light, |
| Romance / Re: Help Me Please B4 Its Too Late by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 7:13am On Nov 03, 2007 |
you said it yourself. You gave her an ultimatum to speak to dad in a week, and if it doesnt happen, you are quitting the 'game'. So wait to see what happens during this week time, because its really not that easy to move on as suggested when someone has our heart that deeply. Tho, after that time is up, dont compromise your position but be ready to be a man of ur word. If you say ur going to move on,, simply move on. Life is too short to be going around in circles in confusion and such pain, when theres plenty love out there to be discovered. love & light, |
| Family / Re: What Will You Do If Your Pet Suddenly Turns Against You by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 6:51am On Nov 03, 2007 |
How long have you had him or her? I would suggest that you take the pet to a veterinarian as soon as you can, because when a pet turns against you so suddenly, it may high likely be that he or she needs antibiotics from a snake bite, ear infection, worms, or some insect bite. Their reaction may be as a result of being bit, stung, or in some level of pain and is a defensive mechanism from the trauma. The vet will place a muzzle over your pets mouth while they do an exam so not to be bitten. and in hoping for the best, they can give them proper antibiotics, xrays, or a scan and tell u what the problem is. If they have to be put to sleep, dont make that choice on ur own. The vet is the best person to make that determination. so. the vet is your BEST option. love & light, |
| Culture / Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 6:38am On Nov 03, 2007 |
well, I dont know what to believe now, as you said before that you are white, now you are not 'fully' white. regardless, as you say colour doesn't matter. I was a little upset that a white woman would be on an Nigerian site and appear to embrace a culture she has no roots in, yet (((appear to))) displace an African American woman who infact has distant roots in Africa and simply want to know more, in order to grow with her man. Maybe I mis interpreted your post, and if so, Im sorry. As far as "making a scandal of white women because of the white sluts", etc, I'm sorry 2 say, but I found that statement distasteful, and not really related to the topic. If the Naija men get on your nerves that you have dealt with, I would suggest that you try to look deep within urself to determine what is it about you to attract certain quality men into your life. there are good quality men on this earth, you dont have to necessarily settle for a Naija brotha, tho if you do. try to incorporate a more positive attitude to Naja men as a whole, versus saying "Some Naija Men really get on my nerves". Like attracts like. The tongue can be a powerful tool for oneself, orit can also be a weapon against self. As a whole, I would like to think I can come to Nairaland and read some of the 'serious' topics and see Nairalanders showing the poster much love, & RESPECT. Some possts are funny, and I keep on moving. Tho, when we see topics when someone is genuinely in need of answers, I think we owe it to ourselfs as well others to give kind replies. There is a time and place to be real, and other times,, sure. we can strait act a dam fool in a thread. This isn't one of those threads. am i right Leilah dear? and Thank u kindly for your humble reply, love & light, |
| Family / Re: Marriage And Parent Issues - I Need Help - by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 4:19pm On Nov 02, 2007 |
ok, sorry, i mis 'read' that you said he will be flying to meet ur parents in Abuja, and not the opposite. If he is going to the extent of travelling to Abuja to meet ur parents, says alot, and the fact that you KNOW without a doubt that he is the one, I would suggest you pray over it. If its meant to be, and u have ur heart set on it, I think its wise to follow your heart. Parents sometimes can be abit harsh, but once they see him through the same lenses that you see him, and they get a taste of his genuine characther, they will SLOWLY come around. Your father will be able to better judge his character quicker than ur mom, and if hes not genuine, your dad will let u know, best wishes, love & light, |
| Fashion / Re: Ladies: Can You Dress Up In The Presence Of A Man? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 4:10pm On Nov 02, 2007 |
It was common in my home when a child is young, because they're sometimes always in the room, but as they get older around 6 o r 7 years old that should not continue. I think its especially questionable when a sister/brother/ etc dress and UnCloth in front of one another. I most certainly wouldnt want my future husband undressing in front of his sisiters, and if i had a brother, im certain that he would be uncomfortable with me undressing in front of him. Its a good question, that never crossed my mind, so,, Why did u ask this. Is it common for Nigerian men to dress and UnCloth in front of his sisters/mother/cousins, and Nigerian women as well? I would like to know, dont think I would want to deal with that. love & light, |
| Family / Re: Marriage And Parent Issues - I Need Help - by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 1:52pm On Nov 02, 2007 |
You said, that he is flying to the states from Abuja, have you two met in person before? How did you meet him, and sustain such a long distance relationship? Dont be so quick to go against what ur parents are saying, but just slow down the idea of marriage. Thats all u have to do for now to satisfy everyone involved , at least until you are SURE without a single doubt he is the one for you. During the meantime, when he visits,, pray that ur parents will receive him for a a few hours at least, to meet & greet him, Pls tell us how WELL do you know ur fiance? Marriage is such a beautiful and sacred covenant, and you want to make sure you are making the best decision possible. What type of work does he do in Naija? Who paid for his flight? How did he get his Visa to travel ? these are questions that help add balance to your parents concerns, love & light, |
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