₦airaland Forum

Beync: there's nothing wrong when express your views but to condemn others who have contrary opinion is where u got it all wrong especially when their is no moral basis for ur condemnation. You said it's bad, shimbolic and wrong but that not true, it ur personal view and that cannot be true for me.
For the unmarried, its wrong
For the married, it's not wrong

i never condemed anybody's view. I challenged their premise. Challenging one's premise in a debate does not mean a condemnation.

PDP the worse thing to ever happen to nigeria...dominating the politics of a nation for a decade and half yet nothing to show for it but corruption and evil...yet some deluded fellows still support them. PDP is a parasite sucking the blood of this nation and until they are booted out. A better nigeria remains a dream....PDPPPP!!!!....share the money!!!

When did nigerians posses the power to burn their fellow citizens without the say of any court of law, because they CLAIM they are boko haram members. How is this different from aluu? This is totally absurd.

fredopayee: She give u heads down and u can't shower together?? U must be olodo.
U suck her womanliness and u can't shower together? U must be olodo.
You kissed her and u can't share same toothbrush? U must be hating brother...
Find them neat so u will enjoy them.

and what makes you think every couple do the disgusting practises you outlined in your post? Has it occured to you that there are couples who still practise good old plain light's off sex?

Abbey2sam: I can boldly say you're gay...
Gay alert

If your not gay, why do you find It disgusting for couples to bath together?

And why is taking your bath private?
So making love is public?

Mumu....

Keep your personal dislike to yourself

if you or anyone else on this forum kept their personal likes and dislikes to themeselves, i wonder what you're doing here, commenting on opinionative topics.

fr3do: I believe u mean

thank you for the correction. Quite clumsy of me.

Beync: if this is ur own opinion pls keep it to your self. How ignorant of you to say couple taking bath together is shambolic act?(searches for shambolic, not seen), which law or principle or constitution says it's bad or an offence? If you say unmarried people, fine becos they are not one yet. Keep ur personal views to ur self and don't impose them to anyone, u heard me.

ma'am, i never imposed my view on you or anyone else who came accross the thread. In fact i expressed my view and sort the views of other, it is folks like you and a few others who have taken it so personal and offensive that you attack me for having my views. I do hope you understand.

Tobbie9: see life, brilliant yoruba students struggle for scholarships while those from oil producing areas are being dashed, chai Nigeria sucks

are you okay, who told you it is being "dashed"? 8,000 niger delta students in my state sat for that exam only a 200 were taken. And you have the brash to say this. Tribalism will be the end of you.

ozor1: But wait op..u can bath with ur fellow man and it wouldn't be absurd?? just deyy ask

i cannot bath with any other person. Be it as man, Woman or amaphrodite.

PapaFejiro: based on your reason, so if he is seen to have killed a person inside the chambers, he ll or should walk free based on immunity? please educate me.

no member of a nigerian legislative body has died during a fight so the house rules does not make a provision for consequences. If in the case it happens, the house will augument the rules to fit the situation. So as of now even the speakers and clerks of houses don't know the repercaution of that so why ask me?

How could the media have been so lazy as not to report to nigerians that mrs oba is not patience biological mother but foster mother. I guess that is why she stayed back at geneva upon hearing the news, rather than rushing home.

3kay945: It seems am ignorant of the laws within the chamber, could you please enlighten me.

lawmaking chambers around the country are exclusive. No police or law enforcement agent is allowed to entered without permission. Immunity covers whatever is said or done in the chamber, that is why went dino melaye had his own fracas and wanted to sue some of his colleagues for assault. The court refused to here the case. Whatever happens in the chamber, stays in the chamber.

The supreme court has stripted the federal government's power to regulate and register hotels in states. The lagos state government and the federal government has been in a long drawn battle for six years over the issue and lagos has finally won. Reacting to the ruling the lagos state government hailed the supreme court ruling and said over the years lagos has lost over 45 billion naira to the federal governmet. With over 3000 hotels including five stars and four stars hotels, lagos has the most hotels in the country but looses all their registration and levies to the federal government. The lagos state government said the ruling will herald a new age for tourism in lagos and a new source of income for the government. Meanwhile critics say this one another example of the lagos state government garthering too much power for itself and further decentralizing the nation.

http://leadership.ng/news/250713/lagos-lost-n45b-fg-over-regulation-hotels

paulemi: pls don't share toothbrush, its not healthy.

for what? They must share. Afterall, they love each other. Love knows no health.

This thread is like two destitudes arguing who is better than the other.

NNMUU: If your friend had begged the guy she would have called him a whimp and a weakling for not doing anything after the guy slapped her.
Now your friend beat up the guy and she called him "violent and shameless".

Conclusion:
Girls are really hard to understand.

too correct!

And by the way, those of you on this thread brandishing your shower sex credentials should ask your doctor, the effect of shower/water sex and shower/water birth and you'll realise you are killing yourself.

Remember my children...."WHAT YOU SAY IS NOT A LIE, IF YOU BELIVE IT"

Stupid nigerian police..everytime they lie to amplify themselves, very soon they will tell me, chidi lloyd was already on a jet leaving nigeria and they scrambled F-15's to shoot him down.

Why should he run, when he has no case to answer? Any rubbish and he should go to court except the nigerian judiciary is now an extention of the presidency. All he did was within the chamber which guarantee him immunity yet he is being hunted but the goat, bipi was planking and punching people, bashing cars outside the assembly is visiting aso rock as "speaker of the rivers state house of assembly". Banana republic.

How i wish some federal civil servants who have been in the service for decades can get cars too...rather, they will die at the gate of one ministry fighting for their pension.

The funny thing about this thread is that i have been giving salient reasons why i hate couples showering together. But all the respondents either abuse me or rant on about sex. It says alot about how correct i am.

maxwello.yg:
I love your profile picture

pervert!!!

So because i detest this shambolic act, i am now gay. How narrow minded. Some of you blasting me are ignorant to the law of exclusivity. No matter how close and loving your marraige or relationship is, there is has to been firewalls. Too little openess in a relationship is bad, too little of privacy is worse and taking showers together is wrong. Period! What next? Sharing a toothbrush? Removing your wife or girlfriend's tampoon or pooping together?

SLIDE waxie: so, what wld u av done if u had ended te call to meet the two front teeth of ur gf out of place?

I knw!! I knw!!

Smile to the other guy and say:
Dude, next time, don't fight ok?
My gf, let's go home..we will get u an artificial teeth!

nope, i'll get the guy arrested.

Prince williams and his wife catherine a few hours ago officially named their child. The boy will be know as HIS ROYAL HIGHNESS, PRINCE GEORGE ALEXANDER LOUIS, PRINCE OF CAMBRIDGE. the child is third in line to the british and commonwealth thrones after his father and grandfather. More info later.
http://m.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-23443504

angel TI: OP just say d truth, u r d 'friend'!
back to ur question, ur girlfriend has something up her sleeve! she knows the other guy!

funny. But honestly, i'm not the guy. Nothing to me justifies violence so i'll never fight. That's why i found it hard to say if he was right.

I have always found couples wether dating or married showering together just plain disgusting and going too far. Shower time for every human is suppose to be one the the most private of times? Why invite someone to share that salient moment with you, showers are private. The body is private. I'll fight with any girl i date or marry that suggest we do it. I just hate it so much and i know i am not alone. If you don't agree with me, luminate me on what you gain by showering with your partner.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]You've been an obedient puppy from get go. Are you refusing to obey this time around because money is involved? You smelt money and suddenly remembered you have balls?

You allowed her run your life happily. You have never complained about her nor the sacrifices she has done and undergone for you. How many girls will teach and encourage a boy these days? Stand by him and make sure he takes his books seriously? Nudge him to apply for an exam, and coach him to success? Those are the qualities of a wife. It's a pity and a shame that you have chosen to look at the financial aspect alone.

A person who is grateful will share that money into 2 and give her half, just to show appreciation. Count how many blessings that have come to you because she was there. Now she is bad because money is coming your way.

Shame on you my brother, shame on you.

Some people do not know what they have, until it's taken away from them. In few years to come, you'll be looking for a "wife material".

How many present day wives have the interests of their husbands at heart like this girl does?

Smh.
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you make it sound as if i am berating her. I said it loud and clear that i love her but this issue is very sensitive and i don't want it to affect my relationship in anyway. I know when money gets in a relationship, disaster looms.

Your comment was very hurtfull.;(

25omega: poster

you probably were bragging to the world about how much you got just like you wrote it on here with no one asking. If your GF is all about money, now she knows what you have. You better grow some balls and tell her no. she helped you yes but what ever happened to people doing things for others because they actually care about you

if she is such a genius, how come she didn't apply or win the scholarships? And if you are as smart as you say, you will save most of that money even if your account is chilling as you say because who knows how long it will take you to get a job when you graduate (praying you get a job fast)

the scholarship was exclusive for natives of NLNG and shell host communities. And she not from any. I am.

maxwello.yg:
Are you not a man? So at your age you are not yet able to spend your money wisely huh? Now a Nigerian girl is doing it for you. Probably if you succeed in marrying her, she would be telling you how to spend your money and what to spend them on. I smh@u

i am a very frugal person. Some girl i dated broke up with me because they claim i'm a "cheapskate" that is why i said i am skepticall when she says he wants to help me manage my money.