How do you know he is the one? I have been struggling with this issue for a very long time. Any advice please?

Jeromejnr:


Looking at it from the OP's question, anytime I ask her she says something like "its a headache". So every single day when it comes to that time she's always having headaches or experiencing tiredness.

But when she was busy shopping at the mall through out the day there was no headache and no tiredness.

Na wickedness abeg.

if that is the case then she probably does not enjoy sex with you

Yes there will be times when you are indeed tired and that should be respected, but if everyday there is a story then it means you are not pleasing her in bed cos if she enjoyed it you probably wouldn't have to even ask

On a serious note why does he want to take you to Nigeria if you are both in Ghana? It's been 6 months only unless he wants to take you to meet his folks?

This is a crazy world, one can never be too careful imo

blackpanther25:
Is he Yoruba?

lol why are you like this?

Heck I would even do 30 months

To all the men and women here that did not marry a Nigerian. Why did you not marry 1? Was it by choice/chance/papers etc.

Do you ever regret your decision?

Is there a reason that you want yoruba specifically? There is igbo, hausa etc too

This pic was taken at a wedding.

Popowaa:
I love their confidence,very caring,they know how hustle,very generous and thoughtful.Always there when u need them.I love their swag too but chai they like that thing that lies underneath the skirt and will do anything to taste it.Good at lying and cheating too,but in all what I love most about them is their never give up spirit.Naija men rock.

where are you from? I thought you were Nigerian

There are way too many immature boys who should not be in a relationship. This is a very important lesson for some ladies. Do not ever send unclaimed pics because it may come back to bite you someday. Smdh

I think you are being selfish. You are keeping this girl(second option) just in case you do not find the one you want so you can have someone to fall back on.

Honestly speaking free the babe. She deserves to find someone who will love her and be attracted to her for who she is.

Attraction plays an important role in a relationship. If you are not attracted to your partner you will most likely end up cheating on her so there is no point.

aristocrazzy:
Its not our fault. We are just too attractive and ladies can't stop chasing.
But I don't think so sha.

so ladies do the chasing and not the men even the 'ugly' ones cheat too. It's about self control at the end of the day.

I was having a discussion with some of my friends Nigerian and Non- Nigerian about cheating and they all believe that Nigerian men are the most unfaithful African men in the world.

How did it get to this? Is there any truth to this? Do you agree or disagree? Which African men do you believe cheat the most?

sawdust:
only 1 baby nd dis bobby?
Obafemi Martins,please get yasef a new pair of bobby

not everyone idolises bosoms like you. There are way more important things/attributes in life than bosoms. Smdh

West Africans are passionate about two things and two things only; football and jollof rice. Countless friendships and marriages have ended over jollofdisputes. To misrepresent jollof in any way, shape or form is to misrepresent a West African’s very essence.

It is therefore no surprise that a group of Ghanaians and Nigerians have dragged the famous British chefJamie Oliver to court for “cooking jollof without Maggie cube,” an act considered an abomination in the eyes of every true West African.

The group, determined to fight for justice on behalf of all West Africans, has hired the services of aLondon based law firm with a long track record in taking up controversial cases. They want London’s High Court to force the millionaire chef to publicly apologise for “cooking the famous jollof rice without Maggie cube and for posting the misleading jollof recipe on his website.” (Link to Jamie Oliver’s website—–  http://www.jamieoliver.com/news-and-features/features/jamie-oliver-jollof-rice-recipe/ )

“They want to destroy us but the devil is a liar. They’re killing us with ebola and now they want to disgrace us by cooking our beloved jollof in this shameful manner. Chai, diaris a God oh,” raged one Nigerian.

A Ghanaian member of the group revealed thatJamie Oliver will also face the charge of “serving the jollof rice without a portion of the scorched bits- which happens to be everyone’s favourite” and an additional charge of “serving jollof without the mandatory bottle of ice cold Supermalt or Malta Guinness.”

The group also appealed to all West Africans to joinhands to preserve “our beloved jollof.”

adamskutty: good! As expected, someone to entertain me to night.

Now time for ur lesson , u miserable, flap-mouthed burnt skin primitive with zig zag head

U don't have to copy jiggaman's lines, we joke around quite often, but i ain't gonna do that with u, i am gonna maul out that madness which has crippled ur coconut brain

This lady is asking for advice. You and your cohorts should take your fight somewhere else

Bevy12: So you are not Nigerian or what? But give the guy a chance but don't get too attached.

Subom1: My dear just some friendly advice. I know Nigerian men very well. They can pretend to be the best thing since slice bread. You need to be very careful, they can say anything and everything to get into your pants and once they do then you will be telling us stories that touch.

Just be careful. However like you said not all are bad. If you find a good one who is sincere then he will treat you right.

best advice on this thread @ op

Sometimes I think perhaps something is wrong with me.

I have never really been the real affectionate/emotional type in relationships. I am in a relationship currently but to be honest if I never get married I would not really care.

I also feel like if a man leaves me then so be it or if he cheats then whatever. Am not saying that I will still stay with him but I will not kill myself over it. Romantic stuff too bores me a lot.


I have not suffered a heartbreak before so I don't understand why I am like this.

iamord:

Well I am the only one I have seen so far.. Are u ghanaian too?

No am not Ghanaian.

@ Op your name seemed familiar and now I remember. I saw a traditional wedding video and the girl had your name. Cool Video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XtOSz5LIdMw

Lol at all the thirsty niggaz. There are a few Ghanaians on this site. Am not sure if they live in Nigeria though

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trust me when i say there is no shortage of men, even men that claim to hate weave or short hair... the day i went to my job with my haircut a male colleague said "nah grow that back" now he is like "well it looks ok now?" nigg@s never know what they want, they stay telling chicks they don't know what they want but i see them, saying A but stay accepting A-Z...

men like what is pretty... i put my life and your life on that... as long as its presentable and well done it can be natural, chemically treated, weave, braid, half or full wig, falls, clip ons, extensions etc... don't let men and their loud roar on bullshyt fool you... if it looks good they will like it, no matter what it is or how you got it...

babyosisi: Well it's a surprise the Alaafin and ooni never eliminate themselves
Now that the Alaafin has acquired a Dracula wife,I hope the ooni can match that tactics

You were born in 1964, so that would make you 50 years old. How can a 50 year old granma behave like this? Are you not ashamed? This is not normal maybe you should get checked for bi polar disorder or mental illness.
Even kids 1/4 your age do not act like this. You need to grow the fk up. The saying is true: a fool at 40 (in your case 50) is a fool forever. Your life must really suck to be such a bitter, miserable old hag every damn day at your age. Is this what you taught your kids? What a disgrace you are. Smdh so pathetic.

kennygee:

I meant for best Video.

so which video should have won best video then?

TalkingToYaSelf: KandiiKane/Subomi.. why on earth would a White Man Want You.....







When He Can Have This......






Sorry Kandiikane/Subomi....But I Think Every White Guy in the World Is Going To Choose His Own Queen Over Some Bug Eyed Black Chick..

Lmfao this thread though

Some White ppl can be so dumb at times lol

Which tribe/ethnicity would it be and why?

MizMyColi: oops my bad.....Typical Nigerian Christians: Opening Branches Worldwide since 19kokoro. I see, you don't get the point of my mention.......No sweree, my day's going absolutely Fab

surely you can't be this daft. I have told you am not Nigerian yet you still going on about who knows what. Lol sorry dear am not the person you so desperately want me to be.

MizMyColi: Its always so easy to spot a Typical Nigerian Christian in any crowd.


Talk of Self-Righteousness and Elevation

I see you are having a bad day but do not make your problems mine. What is self righteous about what I posted? People have different beliefs. If you don't like my post simply ignore it. So who even told you that am from Nigeria? You find all sorts of angry people waiting to unleash themselves on others for no reason at all. Smdh

Fulaman198:

I'm not Christian but I like your message. But you have to realise that you can not hold men accountable alone. Women are just as guilty.

Yes it's from both sides